Who Is My Neighbor?

Luke 10:25-37 January 3, 1973 Haddon Robinson
Thesis Your neighbor is anyone whose need you see and are in a position to meet, and what you are — transformed by the love of God through the Holy Spirit — will determine what you see and how you respond.
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40 units across exposition, application, illustration, theological claim, and conclusion. The pastor's argument is built from these moving parts.

Pastoral correction · unit #37
"Robinson applies the theological core to the congregation: transformation through Christ and the Holy Spirit's indwelling love is the only means by which we become people who see needs and respond. He restates the definition of neighbor one final time as the criterion by which the congregation's transformation will be measured."
Doctrinal loci· 11 surfaced
Ethics / Moral Theology · 18 Anthropology · 10 Hamartiology · 8 Bibliology · 7 Ecclesiology · 7 Sanctification · 5 Soteriology · 5 Pneumatology · 4 Pastoral Theology · 3 Theology Proper · 3 Christology · 2
Bible citations· 34
Luke 10:25 | Luke 10:26 | Luke 10:27 | Luke 10:28 | Luke 10:29 | Luke 10:30 | Luke 10:31 | Luke 10:32 | Luke 10:33 | Luke 10:34 | Luke 10:35 | Luke 10:36 | Luke 10:37 | Deuteronomy 6:4 | Romans (unspecified passage on love fulfilling the law) | Galatians 5:22 (fruit of the Spirit is love) | Romans 13:8 (owe no man anything except to love) | Luke 10:30-37 | Leviticus 21 | Luke 10:33-35 | Luke 10:36-37 | 1 John 4:20 | Romans 5:5 (implied — love of God shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Spirit)
Illustrations· 3
  1. cultural reference · unit #17 — Robinson uses Helmut Thielicke's illustration of a child discovering his reflection to argue that correct Bible reading requires recognizing yourself in the text. The Scripture functions as a mirror, not just as historical narrative, and the reader must identify with the characters.
  2. personal story · unit #19 — Robinson shares a personal anecdote about his son's interpretation of the parable, which captured only the wounded man's perspective — a self-centered reading. He uses this to transition to the priest and Levite as the central figures requiring examination.
  3. cultural reference · unit #36 — Robinson uses the children's rhyme about the pussycat visiting the Queen as an extended illustration of the principle that what you are determines what you see. The cat, despite being in the throne room with the Queen, saw only a mouse because she had a pussycat heart — her nature determined her perception. The illustration makes the abstract theological principle concrete and memorable.
Theological claims· 7
  1. We prefer theological discussion to obedience because prolonged debate allows us to reshape Scripture to fit our lives rather than reshaping our lives to fit Scripture. unit #11
  2. The parable of the Good Samaritan appears simple and familiar but functions as a trap that explodes and convicts the reader upon close examination. unit #13
  3. The church has often used the doctrine of separation as justification for avoiding involvement with needy people, passing by in the name of holiness those who desperately need our help. unit #23
  4. The church often falls into a numbers-driven ministry mindset that values reaching the masses over helping the individual directly in our path, using grand mission to justify ignoring immediate neighbors. unit #25
  5. What you are determines what you see — this is not only the principle behind the Good Samaritan parable but a principle running throughout Scripture. unit #32
  6. Christian love is subjective — it resides in the lover, not the loved — and the same Holy Spirit-given love that enables us to love God enables us to love our brother and neighbor, making horizontal love the proof of vertical love. unit #34
  7. The lawyer's evasive question about who his neighbor is reveals his attitude toward both neighbor and God, proving that professed love for God without love for neighbor is pious nonsense. unit #35
Quotations· 2
"When you study these corking good stories that Jesus told, one thing is absolutely essential, and that is the viewpoint." — Helmut Thielicke (unit #17)
"Pussycat, pussycat, where have you been? Been to London to see the Queen. Pussycat, pussycat, what saw you there? I saw a wee mouse sitting under her chair." — Traditional children's rhyme (unit #31)
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0 · Robinson reads the entire text of the Good Samaritan parable (Luke 10:25-37) in full, establishing the passage as the subject of the sermon

Our minds will be focused today On Luke chapter 10, beginning at verse 25, one of those familiar stories that all of us have known since we were children. Luke chapter 10, beginning at verse 25. And behold, a certain lawyer stood up and tested him, saying, master, what shall I do to inherit eternal life? And he said unto him, what is written in the law? How readest thou? And he answering, said, thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart and with all thy soul, and with all thy strength, and with all thy mind, and thy neighbour is thyself. He said unto him, thou hast answered right this do, and thou shalt live. But he, desiring to justify himself, said unto Jesus, and who is my neighbour? And Jesus, answering, said, a certain man went down from Jerusalem to Jericho and fell among thieves, who stripped him of his raiment and wounded him and departed, leaving him half dead. And by chance there came down a certain priest that way. And when he saw him, he passed by on the other side. And likewise a Levite, when he was at the place, came and looked on him and passed by on the other side. But a certain Samaritan, as he journeyed, came to where he was. And when he saw him, he had compassion on him and went to him and bound up his wounds, pouring in oil and wine, and set him on his own beast and brought him to an inn and took care of him. On the next day, when he departed, he took out 2 pence or 2 denarii and gave them to the host and said unto him, take care of him, and whatever thou spendest more when I come again, I will repay thee. Which now of these three thinkest thou was neighbor unto him that fell among the thieves. And the lawyer said he that shewed mercy on him. Then said Jesus unto him, go, keep on doing likewise.

1 · Robinson offers a pastoral prayer addressing God as Creator and Father, naming the congregation's varied spiritual and practical needs — loneliness, guilt, confusion, the sick

Will you join me in prayer? Our Father, who art in heaven. We come this morning to acknowledge that thou art indeed God. Thou art the one who hast framed the universe, set planets in the heavens. Thou art the one who has created us. Thou art God. We come also to confess that thou art our Father because of our faith in Jesus Christ, and that we can approach thee as children in the family we have the privilege of sons. And so we come recognizing that to be a basic truth of our existence. And as Christians, we give you thanks for what you are, for what you have done in allowing us to be part of your family. But we come our farther recognizing that in this congregation, as we are gathered together, there are many different and difficult needs. Some of us come and we are lonely. We sense the need of love and friendship. Others come bearing burdens of guilt for failing to do those things we know we should have done and not doing those things or doing those things we know we should not have done. Others come and they find the pressures of the day more than they can stand. And they need strength for the tomorrows. Others come confused and bewildered. They do not know what the next week holds or the next month. And somehow they feel they have lost their way and need guidance from yourself. And so, our Father, with these needs and many more, we come before you. We pray for Carl Elsusser as he is in the hospital and facing open heart surgery. In previous Sundays he has been here with us. And now we ask for your strength, for his weakness, and for your skill to guide the hands of the physicians. And in thinking of him, we think of others who are not with us today, who are shut in and shut out from the busy round of life. We sincerely ask for your blessing upon them. We ask that you would touch them physically, that you would restore them psychologically and emotionally, that you would teach them spiritually. And our Father, we come as you have urged us to do on behalf of our country. For our president and vice president and our senators and congressmen, for our mayor and members of the city council, for our governor and those who serve in the houses of our state. We come to confess, our Father, that there is a great stain upon our country. Now we come to realize that you are not an American and you do not salute our flag or stand when we play our national anthem, but that it is righteousness that exalts a nation. And that sin is a reproach to any people. And so we come to ask you for our leaders. We beg you, our God, that these men in positions of responsibility may know that what is morally wrong can never be politically right. And forgive us as we have been careless and sometimes callous to the sin in our nation. We pray for a genuine spiritual revival in our country. That men may really come to know God in Jesus Christ. And that that relationship to God may begin to permeate our culture. We ask that you would begin that work with us. Our Father, we ask you for our children. We treasure them deeply, value them highly. We sense that there are a thousand seductive voices that are calling to them that would draw them away from a relationship with yourself. Sometimes, our Father, we need wisdom. And we just don't know how to handle the situation. Sometimes, our Father, we need courage. The courage to issue rebuke when it is needed. And so we pray for our children as they face so many temptations in our time that they may come to know Jesus Christ personally and may grow and develop into the kinds of people you have designed them to be. And finally, Father, we come again to ask you for this service guide our thinking. Help me as I speak. Help us as we sing together. May this be a significant hour because your Holy Spirit has worked in our experience. For Jesus sake, we ask it. Amen.

2 · Robinson introduces himself as a professor and announces that he will frame the sermon through a series of questions, adopting the pedagogical mode of a classroom to engage the congregation

As Mr. Pryor mentioned, I spend a part of my life as a professor at Dallas Seminary. And now that we are into the month of September and school is opening again, I find all of the inner energy of a professor coming to the surface. And so I would like to begin by asking some questions.

3 · Robinson establishes the biblical framework for the sermon by posing hypothetical questions about God's requirements

That is, if I were to ask you this morning what God requires of you and your relationship to him, I suspect that some of us might answer in the words of Deuteronomy 6:4, that is, we are to love the Lord our God with all of our heart and soul and strength and mind. And if that is the answer, you would be absolutely right. If I were to ask you a second question. What does God require of you in your relationship to your neighbor? I suspect that you might answer even more rapidly that your responsibility is to love him, too. The New Testament would be in hearty agreement, for Paul says that love is the fulfilling of the law, that the fruit of the Spirit is love. And when he wrote to the congregation at Rome, he told them that they were to owe no man anything except to love one another.

4 · Robinson reveals the tension in the text by showing that while the congregation can affirm love for God (which cannot be externally verified), they struggle to answer whether they love their neighbor because the definition of 'neighbor' becomes elastic and evasive

But if I were to ask you a third question, and that is, do you love God? That might be a bit more difficult. But I suspect that you'd think about it and say, well, yes, I do. Deep down inside, I think I do love God. And on the surface at least, there is little that I could do to prove you wrong. For your love for God is an intensely personal thing, something known to you and something known to him. But if I were to ask you the fourth question, do you love your neighbor? That might be the most difficult of all. You think about it and say, well, that depends. I mean, after all, who is my neighbor? Do you mean the folks who live next door? Or how about some of those people who live across the street? Or how about some of the people who live on the other side of town? And why stop with the limits of Dallas? Why not take in all the people in the state of Texas and why stop there? If you do it right, you could have all the people in the United States well, you say, I'm not sure I can answer that question. I'm not sure who my neighbour is.

5 · Robinson bridges from the hypothetical modern questions to the actual biblical narrative, signaling that the lawyer's question in Luke 10 mirrors the congregation's evasive instinct

It is interesting that essentially that same conversation comes to us from the 10th chapter of the Gospel According to St. Luke.

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January 3 · This sermon
Who Is My Neighbor?
Your neighbor is anyone whose need you see and are in a position to meet, and what you are — transformed by the love of God through the Holy Spirit — will determine what you see and how you respond.
Luke 10:25-37
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Daily readings · Monday–Friday

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This week we trace how the gospel transforms what we see and how we respond: from theological evasion to obedience, from self-centered love to Spirit-empowered love for our neighbor.

Monday Deuteronomy 6:4

The lawyer recited this command perfectly—'You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart'—yet his evasive question revealed a heart unwilling to love the neighbor before him. Our love for God is not abstract piety measured by correct doctrine; it is authenticated in the concrete, costly love we show to those whose need we see and are positioned to meet. The greatest commandment cannot be divided—vertical love toward God and horizontal love toward neighbor are inseparable in the life of faith.

Tuesday 1 John 4:20

John's stark declaration echoes Christ's own logic: the one who claims to love God yet hates his brother is a liar. The priest and Levite possessed correct theology about neighborly love; they knew the law; yet their eyes were formed by what they were—self-protective, status-conscious, willing to rationalize indifference as devotion. We too see only what our transformed character makes us able to perceive; what we become through the Holy Spirit's work reshapes the very landscape of our moral vision.

Wednesday Galatians 5:22

The Samaritan's love for the wounded man had nothing to do with the man's worthiness, likability, or ability to repay; it flowed from what the Samaritan was—a person in whom the Spirit had cultivated love as a constitutive fruit of new life. Our love is not a response to the loveliness of those we help; it is the overflow of what God has made us through His Spirit. When we find ourselves indifferent to the suffering we encounter, the problem is not the deficiency of the sufferer but the poverty of what we are becoming in Christ.

Thursday Romans 13:8

Paul's insistence that we 'owe no one anything except to love one another' cuts through every theological excuse the church has marshaled—fear of contamination, doctrinal separation, institutional purity. The priest and Levite claimed allegiance to God's law while violating its deepest intent. We too must examine whether our doctrines and policies have become justifications for avoiding the costly inconvenience of loving our actual neighbors. Genuine obedience to Scripture reshapes our lives to fit its commands, not our lives first, reshaping Scripture to fit our comfort.

Friday Romans 5:5

The love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Spirit whom He has given us—this is the only power that reorients what we see and remakes who we are. We cannot will ourselves into the Samaritan's compassion through moral effort alone; we become lovers of our neighbors as the Spirit works the finished work of Christ into our hearts, as we grasp that we ourselves are the unworthy wounded, rescued by grace. This week, ask yourself: Whose need am I refusing to see? What am I becoming that blinds me to it? And then turn to Christ, trusting His Spirit to transform you into one who stops, sees, and loves.

Sunday-evening family table

What Did the Samaritan See?

For the parent

This prompt invites your family to notice the difference between seeing and overlooking — the heart of Robinson's sermon. Listen for whether kids instinctively understand that the priest and Levite saw the wounded man but didn't see him as their neighbor; use their answers to gently explore what it means that our love for God shows up in how we treat people we actually encounter.

In the story, the priest and the Levite both walked past the wounded man, but the Samaritan stopped to help. What do you think made the Samaritan see something the other two men didn't see — even though they all looked at the same person lying on the road?
works for ages 7+
Small-group discussion

6 questions for your group this week

  1. In Luke 10:29, the lawyer asks Jesus, 'Who is my neighbor?' What do you think motivated him to ask this question rather than simply obeying Jesus's command to love his neighbor as himself?
    Luke 10:25-29
    → How do you recognize in yourself the temptation to debate definitions when Scripture calls you to obedience?
  2. What do we learn from the fact that the priest and Levite saw the same wounded man as the Samaritan (Luke 10:31-32 and 10:33), yet responded so differently? What was different between them?
    Luke 10:30-35
  3. Robinson argues that 'what you are determines what you see.' How does this principle help explain why the Samaritan—someone the lawyer would have despised—was the one who acted as a neighbor?
    1 John 4:20
    → What does this suggest about the spiritual condition of the priest and Levite, and what might that reveal about their profession of love for God?
  4. Jesus defines your neighbor not by kinship, ethnicity, or religious identity, but by 'anyone whose need you see and are in a position to meet.' How does this definition challenge or reshape your understanding of who qualifies as your neighbor in daily life?
    Luke 10:36-37
  5. According to the sermon, Christian love is not about feeling affection for the person; it resides in the lover and flows from the Holy Spirit. When you consider loving someone who is difficult, unlovely, or from a different background, what difference does it make to understand love this way rather than as a feeling?
    Galatians 5:22; Romans 5:5
    → How might this understanding free you to love your neighbor even when you don't naturally like them?
  6. The gospel tells us that Christ himself became our neighbor—seeing our desperate need and positioning himself to meet it at infinite cost (Luke 10:33-35 mirrors Christ's incarnation and sacrifice). How should the reality of Christ's love for us shape the way we respond to needy neighbors this week?
    Luke 10:37
    → What is one specific way the Holy Spirit might be calling you to 'go and do likewise'?
Memory verse this week

Luke 10:37

And he said, 'The one who showed him mercy.' And Jesus said to him, 'You go, and do likewise.'

Why this verse: This is Jesus's direct answer to the lawyer's evasive question and the sermon's central command: your neighbor is defined by need and proximity, not category or worthiness, and you are called to respond with mercy. It captures Robinson's thesis that what transforms us—the Holy Spirit's love—compels us to see and act on behalf of anyone in our path whose need we perceive.

Couples · three questions over coffee

What Do We See in Each Other's Needs?

  1. The sermon says what we are determines what we see — in hearing about the Good Samaritan, what did God stir in your heart about how you've been seeing (or not seeing) the needs around us?
  2. When have we passed by each other's real needs because we were preoccupied, worried about appearing spiritual, or focused on something that seemed more important — and how might the Samaritan's example call us to stop and truly see one another?
  3. Who is one person whose need we're both aware of this week, and how can we pray together that the Holy Spirit would give us the love and courage to be the neighbor Jesus describes?
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# Gordon-Conwell · Biblical Preaching

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## Sermons
- [The Problem of Prosperity of the Wicked (Psalm 73)](/SignificantSermons/robinson/sermons/the-problem-of-prosperity-of-the-wicked-1973-01-03)
- [The Parable of the Pharisee and the Publican (Luke 18:9-14)](/SignificantSermons/robinson/sermons/the-parable-of-the-pharisee-and-the-publican-1973-01-03)
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