Do Not Covet

Exodus 20:17 Pastor Chris Oswald
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Thesis God commands us not to covet because He wants us to learn that Christ alone is the all-sufficient treasure who satisfies every desire, making everything else rubbish by comparison.
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51 units across exposition, application, illustration, theological claim, and conclusion. The pastor's argument is built from these moving parts.

Pastoral correction · unit #45
"The pastor applies the psalm to those struggling with coveting by showing that Asaph himself was a coveter who almost fell away because he envied the prosperity of the wicked—the first step is to acknowledge our weakness as the psalmist did, recognizing that our flesh and hearts fail and go after broken cisterns."
Doctrinal loci· 13 surfaced
Sanctification · 17 Christology · 14 Anthropology · 11 Hamartiology · 11 Theology Proper · 10 Ethics / Moral Theology · 7 Providence / Sovereignty · 6 Bibliology · 4 Pneumatology · 3 Doxology / Worship · 2 Soteriology · 2 Eschatology · 1 Pastoral Theology · 1
Bible citations· 34
Exodus 20:1-17 | Exodus 20:17 | Exodus 20:3 | Colossians 3:5 | Philippians 4:11-13 | Philippians 4:11-12 | Philippians 4:13 | Philippians 3:7-8 | Philippians 3:8 | Romans 8:32 | Psalm 73:25-26 | Psalm 73:2-3 | Psalm 73:22 | Psalm 73:17 | Psalm 73:25
Illustrations· 4
  1. The Goodness of Human Desire hypothetical · unit #6 — The pastor provides a catalog of legitimate human desires—hunger, companionship, marriage, children, better employment—to illustrate that God often uses godly desires as motivation to attain His purposes for us, reinforcing that desire itself is not the problem.
  2. Assessing God's Will Through Desire personal story · unit #7 — The pastor shares his pastoral practice of asking counselees "What do you want?" as a starting point for discerning God's will, illustrating that God-given desires are a legitimate guide to His purposes when properly assessed.
  3. The "If Only" Mentality hypothetical · unit #13 — The pastor provides a comprehensive catalog of potential objects of covetous desire—material possessions, personal attributes, relationships, circumstances, ministry positions, health—demonstrating the universality of the "if only" mentality and how it can attach to absolutely anything.
  4. The Most Popular Toy hypothetical · unit #19 — The pastor illustrates the nature of coveting through the universal experience of toddler behavior in the nursery: the most popular toy is always the one another child has, demonstrating that coveting is fundamentally about preferring what another has over what God has given us.
Theological claims· 23
  1. The 10th commandment makes explicit the fact that God requires inward as well as outward obedience to His commandments. unit #4
  2. Sinful coveting is desiring anything that is not rightfully ours—misplaced, inordinate, ungoverned, selfish desire. unit #10
  3. The law reveals that we all want the wrong thing in the wrong way at the wrong time for the wrong reason, showing us our need for a Savior. unit #11
  4. Our desires are misplaced when God is not enough; the only true source of happiness is more of God. unit #14
  5. The 10th commandment bookends the 1st commandment, both fundamentally concerned with idolatry—the 1st commanding exclusive worship and the 10th commanding exclusive desire for God. unit #15
  6. Idolatry is when we allow anything to occupy the place in our life that should be occupied by God alone, or when we desire something more than we desire God. unit #17
  7. God hates coveting because when we covet we declare to Him that He is not enough—we indict His sufficiency, provision, protection, sovereignty, and rule, saying we want something more than we want Him. unit #18
  8. God tells us not to covet because He loves us and knows that seeking ultimate happiness in things, people, and circumstances will never bring real satisfaction—sinful desires doom us to perpetual discontent. unit #21
  9. The positive statement of the 10th commandment is: Be content in God—be so filled with Him that you desire nothing more than you desire Him and His provision. unit #22
  10. The pastor heightens the force of Paul's statement by emphasizing its context—written from a Roman prison awaiting possible execution—and expressing his own desire for such contentment, inviting the congregation to imagine having this contentment in their own lives. unit #24
  11. Contentment is learned, not innate—Paul acquired it, we can acquire it, and there is a school of contentment in which we can all enroll. unit #27
  12. The secret of contentment is Christ constantly infusing us with everything we need, enabling us to face all circumstances—but this raises the question of how we tap into that strength. unit #29
  13. We tap into Christ's strength for contentment when we learn that Christ is enough—Paul learned to be content because he learned to be satisfied with Christ alone. unit #30
  14. The main mark of a contented Christian is treasuring Christ above all else—this is how we have satisfaction, peace, and strength in all situations. unit #32
  15. Christ is greater than all the good things of the world combined—He is the treasure that satisfies all desires, not a means to something else, which is why God lovingly commands us not to covet. unit #33
  16. Paul uses the vulgar word "dung" to describe everything compared to Christ, emphasizing the shocking magnitude of Christ's superior worth—why would we desire anything over Him? unit #34
  17. God doesn't want to stifle desire but to redirect it toward Christ, who is all we need and therefore should be what we mainly desire. unit #35
  18. God gives us everything we need through Christ—life, forgiveness, righteousness, transformation, eternal reward, presence, Holy Spirit, victory over death, co-heirship, and glorification—what else could we possibly need or want? unit #36
  19. To be content is to believe Romans 8:32 with all our hearts: if God gave His Son, He will certainly give us all we need in Him. unit #37
  20. To be content is to realize that whatever we have is what we need, and whatever we don't have is what we don't need—God is sovereign, and our present circumstances are exactly what He intends. unit #38
  21. God will teach us contentment, changing our self-centered hearts into Christ-centered hearts and filling us so completely that there's no room for coveting. unit #40
  22. Psalm 73 echoes Paul's theology in Philippians 3—both are songs of satisfaction in God meant to be prayed and sung by us. unit #43
  23. When we know Christ to be everything (Jesus + nothing = everything; Jesus + everything else = still everything), coveting will end because we'll desire only the one who brings true and lasting contentment, Christ Jesus our Lord. unit #49
Quotations· 1
"I covet your prayers" — common Christian expression (unit #5)
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0 · The pastor introduces the sermon topic—the 10th commandment—and reframes the congregation's potential perception of it as insignificant, asserting instead that it is the climactic crescendo of the Ten Commandments

Well, eager to look into the Word, and I'm going to preach a sermon on the last of the Ten Commandments. So I'm going to preach a sermon on the 10th commandment, which sometimes can seem like a whimper when compared to the rest of the commandments, but is really a crescendo.

1 · The pastor reads the entire Decalogue from Exodus 20, providing the full biblical context before focusing on the 10th commandment as the sermon's specific text

So if you want to open with me to Exodus chapter 20, I'm going to read all the Ten Commandments, including the prelude. So we'll read Exodus 20:1-11. 17. And I'll pray and we'll dive in. Exodus 21:1-17. And God spoke all these words, saying, I am the Lord your God who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of slavery. You shall have no other gods before me. You shall not make for yourself a carved image or any likeness of anything that is in heaven above or that is in the earth beneath or that is in the water under the earth. You shall not bow down to them or serve them, for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me, but showing steadfast love to thousands of those who love me and keep my commandments. You shall not take the name of the Lord your God in vain, for the Lord will not hold him guiltless who takes his name in vain. Remember the Sabbath day to keep it holy. 6 days you shall labor and do all your work, but the 7th day is a Sabbath to the Lord your God. On it you shall not do any work, you or your son or your daughter, your male servant or your female servant, or your livestock, or the sojourner who is within your gates. For in 6 days the Lord made heaven and earth, the sea and all that is in them, and rested on the 7th day. Therefore, the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and made it holy. Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land that the Lord your God is giving you. You shall not murder. You shall not commit adultery. You shall not steal. You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor. And then our text for the morning: 'You shall not covet your neighbor's house. You shall not covet your neighbor's wife, or his male servant, or his female servant, or his ox, or his donkey, or anything that is your neighbor's.'

2 · The pastor prays for illumination, acknowledging human weakness and dependence on God's enabling grace to hear, see, desire, obey, and be transformed by the Word about to be preached

Let's pray. Well, Father, thank You for Your Word. It's an awesome thing that You speak to us at all. And we know because we've read the book of Exodus, when You speak, the skies thunder and mountains shake. And we want there to be a shaking in our lives this morning as You speak once again through Your Word. So will You shake us free from bondage to the world and shake us free to find all our joy and satisfaction in You. We are weak and You are strong. We can't hear unless You give us spiritual ears to hear. We can't see unless You give us spiritual eyes to see. We can't desire You Unless You cause us to taste and see that You're good, we can't obey You. Unless You give us hearts and wills to do what pleases You, we can't even stay focused for 40 minutes without Your help. So, will You cast out the evil one who loves to cause our minds to go astray and loves to sweep up Gospel seeds? Meet us now in our weakness and give us strength. Use Your powerful Word to meet us in our need and transform us. Change us, we pray, into the men and women that You want us to be for our good and Your glory. In Jesus' name, amen.

3 · The pastor identifies the unique character of the 10th commandment: unlike the others, which regulate outward behavior, this one directly addresses an inward attitude, making the heart the explicit target

Well, I wonder if you noticed something about the 10th commandment that makes it unique among the commandments. The other 9 commandments tell us what to do or what not to do. But the 10th commandment goes straight for the heart. So rather than forbidding a particular sinful action, this commandment forbids a particular attitude of the heart.

4 · The pastor draws out the theological implication of the 10th commandment's unique focus: it makes explicit what is implicit in all the commandments—that God requires inward as well as outward obedience, that He cares about the desires that precede actions

Now, God always goes for the heart. We know that, don't we? But there is a way in which He goes for our hearts in this commandment that makes it unique. The other commandments generally start with the outside, with particular behaviors and we have to work our way to the inside as we make application. But the Ninth Commandment starts on the inside and works itself out. This commandment is meant to govern inward desires. That is, it's not as much about what we do as it is about what we want to do. So it makes explicit the fact that God requires inward as well as outward obedience to His commandments.

5 · The pastor defines "covet" as a neutral term meaning to desire, crave, or yearn for, using the common Christian expression "I covet your prayers" to demonstrate its non-pejorative use, and establishes that God created humans with desires, many of which are not inherently sinful

So we need to ask, what exactly does it mean to covet? Well, like I've already said, it means to desire or to crave or to yearn for. So it's a neutral term. It's not a word that we use much in our everyday speech anymore, but there is a common Christian expression that uses it. We hear people say, or maybe we even say sometimes, "I covet your prayers." By which we simply mean I desire that you pray for me. So this is a neutral word. God is the one who created us with desires. And many of them are not bad desires.

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