You Were Made For Love

Exodus 20:14 Pastor Chris Oswald
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Thesis You were made for covenantal love, not for lust, and Christ died to both forgive and free you from the lies and bondage of sexual sin.
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propheticdidacticpastoral
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redemptive-historicalapplicatorypolemic
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The shape of the argument

24 units across exposition, application, illustration, theological claim, and conclusion. The pastor's argument is built from these moving parts.

Pastoral correction · unit #10
"Applies the Eden pattern directly to the listener's inner life, warning that the temptation to believe God is holding out will recur and always leads to death."
Doctrinal loci· 11 surfaced
Hamartiology · 7 Soteriology · 7 Anthropology · 6 Ethics / Moral Theology · 6 Sanctification · 5 Spiritual Warfare · 5 Ecclesiology · 3 Theology Proper · 3 Pastoral Theology · 2 Bibliology · 1 Covenant Theology · 1
Bible citations· 12
1 Peter 4:4 | 2 Corinthians 10:4-5 | John 8:44 | Genesis 2 | 1 Corinthians 6:13, 18 | Romans 1:27 | John 4 | 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 | Isaiah 55:2 | Ephesians 2:1-10 | Isaiah 55:2-3 | Isaiah 1:18
Illustrations· 5
  1. The Culture of Intellectual Fraud cultural reference · unit #6 — Uses a contemporary book about intellectual fraud to illustrate the broader pattern of cultural deception, then grounds the claim in Jesus's teaching that the devil is the father of lies, framing the sermon as spiritual warfare.
  2. Sexual Revolution Heroes Were Actually Frauds historical example · unit #7 — Provides historical examples of figures championed by culture as sexual liberators—Margaret Sanger, Margaret Mead, Alfred Kinsey—exposing them as frauds whose ideas have caused immense suffering.
  3. Evidence from Creation's Design analogy · unit #14 — Lists evidences from the created order—STDs, oxytocin bonding, child development—that confirm we were designed for covenantal monogamy and that promiscuity violates our design.
  4. The Tape Analogy analogy · unit #16 — Uses the tape analogy to illustrate the damage caused by repeated sexual bonding and breaking—we were designed for one attachment, and repeated detachment causes cumulative harm.
  5. The Apple and Berry Illustration analogy · unit #20 — Uses an extended illustration of apples (covenantal love—hard to reach, requiring patience) vs. berries (sexual sin—easy to reach but poisonous) to explain why people sin sexually: impatience, low faith, and laziness, and prescribes trust in God, accountability, and spiritual disciplines as the way out.
Theological claims· 8
  1. The world is full of big, bold lies about sex that are constantly being told and retold until people believe them. unit #2
  2. When you protect yourself biblically from sexual lies, the world will malign you, but Scripture predicts this and assures you that the world will give account. unit #3
  3. The cultural story about sexuality has inverted heroes and villains—presenting destructive figures as heroes and protective figures as villains. unit #5
  4. True heroes of the faith who taught biblical sexuality were slandered as joyless prudes, while those who promoted sexual destructiveness were championed as liberators. unit #8
  5. Christianity teaches that love came first and is fundamental to human nature, while materialism teaches that lust is fundamental and love is uncertain—this is the core worldview divide on sexuality. unit #11
  6. You were made for covenantal love, not for lust, and sexual immorality is sin against your own body because it violates the fundamental design for which you were created. unit #12
  7. You were made for covenantal love—love that combines 100% commitment and 100% passion—and this reflects God's love for us in Christ. unit #15
  8. Christianity has specialized for 2,000 years in healing the sexually wounded through the steadfast love of God, and this is built into the faith's DNA. unit #17
Quotations· 6
"Speculations? I have none. No speculations now. I know whom I have believed, and my soul rests on certainties." — Michael Faraday (unit #1)
"people will believe a big lie sooner than a little one, and if you repeat it frequently enough, people will sooner or later believe it" — Walter Langer (unit #2)
"Puritanism is the haunting fear that someone somewhere might be happy" — H.L. Mencken (unit #8)
"on many questions, and specifically in their view of the marriage bed, the Puritans were the indulgent party" — C.S. Lewis (unit #9)
"Relief and buoyancy are the characteristic notes of Protestant Christianity. It follows that nearly every association which now clings to the word Puritan has to be eliminated when we are thinking about the early Protestants. Whatever they were, they were not sour, gloomy, or severe, nor did their enemies bring any such charge against them. Protestants were not ascetics but sensualists." — C.S. Lewis (unit #9)
"God has, in fact, written two books, not just one. Of course, we are all familiar with the first book he wrote, namely scripture, but he has written a second book called Creation." — Francis Bacon (unit #13)
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0 · Introduces the sermon by establishing the metaphor of a Faraday cage—a protective structure against electromagnetic interference—which will serve as the controlling analogy for protection against lies about sexuality

Verse 14, Exodus 20, verse 14. This week, I'll explain why, but I was thinking about Faraday cages. Einstein had the picture of three different scientists on his study wall. He had Isaac Newton, Michael Faraday, and James Maxwell on his wall. Faraday is probably best known for being one of the best experimental scientists of all time. He has fundamentally sort of mapped out the world we live in now. His fingerprints are on all sorts of things that we experience today. But a Faraday cage, in case you haven't heard of that before, is just an object or a thing that he developed, essentially, to protect an object from electromagnetic fields.

1 · Steps aside from the main argument to encourage the congregation with the Christian faith of the scientists mentioned and Faraday's testimony of assurance at death

Now, I'll get into why I was thinking about Faraday cages when I was thinking about adultery here in a minute. But just a little bonus content for you. It's interesting to note that all of the scientists that were on Einstein's wall were all self-professing Christians. All three of them were. In fact, Faraday has one of the best deathbed confessions. That's very short and simple. But as he was on his deathbed, someone said to this renowned scientist, What are your speculations now? And Faraday responded, Speculations? I have none. No speculations now. I know whom I have believed, and my soul rests on certainties. What assurance. Not entirely to do with anything today, but I just thought that was encouraging.

2 · Establishes the sermon's central problem: the congregation is surrounded by constant misinformation about sexuality, and the sermon's purpose is to build biblical protection against these lies

The reason why I was thinking about Faraday cages was because I began to realize, as I worked on this sermon about adultery, or about our text, Exodus 2014, You Shall Not Commit Adultery, I began to realize just how much misinformation on the subject of sexuality is buzzing around us at all times. I'm really concerned, I think, today, the main task is simply to build some kind of wall of biblical protection around your heart and minds so that they would be guarded in Christ Jesus against all of the lies buzzing around, buzzing around you and me every single day. Back in 1943, an American academic named Walter Langer was tasked with a pretty interesting and historic assignment. They asked him to write a psychological profile of Adolf Hitler. Incidentally, in this psychological profile, he said that the most likely outcome for a man like Adolf Hitler is suicide. So he nailed that part. But in that document, where he's sort of outlining the psychology of Hitler, this is, he writes a phrase that has become somewhat well-known in popular culture, and that phrase is, people will believe a big lie sooner than a little one, and if you repeat it frequently enough, people will sooner or later believe it. That has been, you know, condensed over time into something like, if you tell a lie frequently enough, people will eventually believe it. And that's where we are on the subject of human sexuality. The world is full of big, bold lies about sex.

3 · Warns the congregation that choosing biblical sexual ethics will result in cultural mockery and malignment, but Scripture predicts and validates this cost

The truth is, friends, we really are living in a psyop. There is propaganda buzzing all around us, and that's why I started thinking about old Michael Faraday and his cage. I thought, how can we, as a people, protect ourselves from this incredible propaganda campaign that has been going on for a very long time about the issue of sexuality? So that's what we're going to do today. And as a fair warning, I remembered a verse as I was thinking through all this, and as a fair warning to you, if you were to decide to build a Faraday cage around your sexuality, I promise you this, the world will call it a tinfoil hat. There's a verse for that. There's a verse for when you actually decide to be careful with this great human capacity, the world will think you're stupid, pessimistic, and oppressed. 1 Peter 4.4 predicts this. With respect to this, Peter writes, they are surprised when you do not join them in the same flood of debauchery, and they malign you, but they will give an account to him who is ready to judge the living and the dead. It's just one of these things where in a world of insanity, the sane person looks crazy.

4 · Frames the sermon's purpose as a protective ministry—not condemnation but safety—by explaining that 2 Corinthians 10 describes preaching as spiritual warfare that destroys strongholds of lies and takes thoughts captive to Christ

And what we're really pursuing today in this message is just some sense of sanity around the issue of sex. Just understanding that we are in fact in this massive psyop, and that we really do need to straighten things out a bit. So the point of this message is not really to hammer any one person in any particular way. The main purpose is just to have one of these kinds of messages where the lies are exposed as lies, and the truth is presented as truth. People forget that a function of preaching sometimes isn't to make anyone in a congregation feel bad, but rather just to make someone in the congregation be safe. We hear that phrase that we use often to refer to our own thought life that comes from 2 Corinthians. We take every thought captive to obey Christ. But that passage, while it does work for your personal thought life, isn't about that. It's actually about the preaching ministry of Paul. Let me read the text to you. 2 Corinthians 10, 4-5. For the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but have divine power to destroy strongholds. We destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God and take every thought captive to obey Christ. Here, we're not talking about individuals getting a handle on their thought life, although the verse works for that. We're talking about a style of ministry that stands up to the lies being told to the people of God and says, I'm storming that castle and I'm going to take some of those thoughts captive and I'm going to make them obey Jesus. And that's an important aspect of a pulpit ministry. So that's what we're going to do today. We're just going to look at some of the lies that we're being told by the world and just set them straight with truth.

5 · Asserts the first major lie: the cultural narrative about sexuality has inverted heroes and villains, presenting destructive figures as liberators and protective figures as oppressors

First thing I want you to see this morning is that we have been told a story in which all of the heroes presented to us are really villains and many of the villains presented to us are really heroes. We've been presented a story that has been morally inverted so that many of the heroes presented to us are actually some of the darkest and most terrible people and many of the villains presented to us on this subject are actually the people who are the heroes.

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