Are You Living Like Everything Has Changed?

Titus 3:1-8 June 14, 2026 Pastor Ricky Alcantar
Thesis Because God has definitively changed everything through the gospel of Jesus Christ, Christians must stop living like slaves who have been freed but continue wearing their chains, and instead live in the reality of their new identity as washed, renewed heirs of eternal life.
Series
Titus
Type
Expository
Tone
pastoraldidacticcelebratory
Method
grammatical-historicalredemptive-historicalapplicatory
What's in this sermon

The shape of the argument

24 units across exposition, application, illustration, theological claim, and conclusion. The pastor's argument is built from these moving parts.

Pastoral correction · unit #13
"Applies the theology of safety to the moment of Christian failure. Ricky confronts the common impulse to clean up before returning to God—an impulse that reveals functional works-righteousness. The test of gospel belief is whether you run to God in failure rather than away from him."
Bible citations· 12
Titus 3:1-2 | Titus 3:3-8 | Titus 3:8 | Titus 3:3-7 | Titus 3:3 | Matthew 27:51 | Titus 3:4 | Titus 3:4-5 | Titus 3:5-6 | Titus 3:7
Illustrations· 5
  1. historical example · unit #3 — Opens the sermon with a historical illustration of Juneteenth—the delay between the Emancipation Proclamation (1863) and the actual news reaching enslaved Texans (1865). The absurdity of freed slaves returning to bondage becomes the governing metaphor for Christians who live as though nothing has changed despite the gospel's radical transformation.
  2. personal story · unit #7 — Illustrates the transformation of Titus 3:3 through a contemporary testimony—a woman who was enslaved to her appearance as identity and armor before Christ, but who discovered after conversion that she no longer needed that protection. The illustration makes the abstract categories of verse 3 concrete and personal.
  3. personal story · unit #9 — Illustrates the emotional register appropriate to salvation through a harrowing near-death experience in Philadelphia—road rage escalation, fear for life, miraculous escape. The physical deliverance produced overwhelming gratitude and celebration. The story sets up the analogy: Christians should feel the same 'we're alive' wonder about salvation.
  4. personal story · unit #17 — Illustrates Christian assurance through the experience of buying a house. Despite having closed the deal and received the keys, Ricky kept forgetting he had secured the purchase, cycling between anxiety and remembering. The illustration sets up the parallel to Christian forgetfulness about secured eternal life.
  5. historical example · unit #20 — Returns to the Juneteenth frame—after emancipation, freed slaves in Houston worked harder than ever, building churches, homes, businesses, and parks. They worked not from bondage but from freedom. The illustration completes the sermonic arc, showing that freedom produces work rather than passivity.
Theological claims· 1
  1. Because salvation is grounded in God's character rather than our performance, the Christian life is marked by both profound humility (no room for pride) and profound safety (no danger of losing God's love). unit #12
Quotations· 5
"hesed as God's never stopping, never giving up, always and forever love" — Kids' storybook Bible (unnamed) (unit #8)
"The Holy Spirit makes the application of that redemption, regenerating us, whereof baptism is the sign, and so renewing and making us new creatures. Thus Christ made the salve for our sore by his obedience and death, and the Spirit applies it." — Thomas Boston (unit #11)
"The Holy Spirit makes the application of that redemption, regenerating us, whereof baptism is the sign, and so renewing and making us new creatures. Thus Christ made the salve for our sore by his obedience and death, and the Spirit applies it." — Thomas Boston (unit #14)
"Men think that for God to save them is no more, but only to put forth a prerogative act of pardon and showing mercy like a king does when he parons a traitor. But God always does more. For when he pardons anyone, He makes a friend and a favorite of him, a son and an heir in whom he may delight." — Thomas Goodwin (unit #16)
"I am not what I ought to be. I am not what I want to be. I am not what I hope to be in another world, but still I am not what I used to be. And by the grace of God, I am what I am." — John Newton (unit #22)
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0 · Ricky opens with pastoral welcome and situational framing, addressing the transitional summer season in the life of Cross of Grace Church, particularly the military community's PCS (Permanent Change of Station) departures and arrivals

Ah, man. Well, it's so good to be in the Lord's house with you guys. My name is Ricky. If you're new here, I'm one of the pastors here at the church. And I just want to encourage you. This season of the summer in our church and in El Paso is always a transitional time. We have some folks leaving. We have some folks arriving. We have some folks PCSing out. I think this time— this is the first time in our history I think we've sent a whole community group. PCSing to the same assignment, which I guess is great, you know. You guys can all just go together, and we love that for you. We'll be sad, but we'll love that for you. And yet we have a number of new folks coming in, folks coming to school, folks coming to PCS in here. And so let me just encourage you over the summer, let's not check out and not just kind of like be in our worlds. Let's greet those around us. There's probably somebody who could use encouragement as they're headed out or somebody who has just arrived that we can extend hospitality to. Hospitality to, and we want to be about the work of the Lord in welcoming people into his family. Amen. Amen.

1 · Ricky reads the primary text—Titus 3:1-8—aloud in full, providing the biblical foundation for the entire sermon

So let's turn to Titus chapter 3, if you would. We are in the homestretch of the book of Titus this week and next week, and it has been a wonderful time in this letter. So we are going to read verses 3 through 8 particularly, but we're going to back up and read verses 1 and 2 as a prelude to be able to understand our text today. If you're new here to the church, this is our practice every week. We take a section, usually the next section of the Bible, and we explain it and what it means for our lives. And so Titus chapter 3, verse 1, this is God's word. Remind them to be submissive to rulers and authorities, to be obedient, to be ready for every good work, to speak evil of no one, to avoid quarreling, to be gentle, and to show perfect courtesy toward all people. For, or because, We ourselves were once foolish, disobedient, led astray, slaves to various passions and pleasures, passing our days in malice and envy, hated by others and hating one another. But when the goodness and lovingkindness of God our Savior appeared, he saved us. Not because of works done by us in righteousness, but according to his own mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewal of the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us richly through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that being justified by his grace— we might become heirs according to the hope of eternal life. The saying is trustworthy, and I want you to insist on these things so that those who have believed in God may be careful to devote themselves to good works. These things are excellent and profitable for people. This is God's Word.

2 · Brief invocation asking God's blessing on the preaching and hearing of the sermon

Lord, I pray Your blessing over the preaching and the hearing of Your Word. In your house today. Amen.

3 · Opens the sermon with a historical illustration of Juneteenth—the delay between the Emancipation Proclamation (1863) and the actual news reaching enslaved Texans (1865)

Well, sometimes everything has changed, but that change hasn't yet changed everything. Let me give you one illustration. On January 1st, 1863, the Emancipation Proclamation took effect and slavery was declared over. Well, at least in the northern states of the US. But it wasn't until April 9th, 1865 that the war was truly won. The last Southern army was finally defeated. And then it was not actually until June 19th, 1865 that Major General Gordon Granger landed at Galveston, Texas and announced to enslaved Texans that they were free. Everything had changed, but it took 2.5 years for that change to arrive all the way to Galveston, Texas. It's what many celebrate as Juneteenth this month. Yet for a moment, I want you to imagine a ridiculous possibility. Okay, imagine that after the news arrived, uh, in the weeks and months that followed, This— well, imagine a slave simply returning to work like nothing had changed. Imagine putting the shackles back on. Imagine going back into bondage. Imagine sighing and longing to be free while you work the same fields yet again. Now that would be ridiculous, wouldn't it? To go and act like nothing had changed when everything had changed. And yet, that is exactly what Christians do all the time.

4 · Exposes the rhetorical structure of Titus 3—Paul interrupts his ethical imperatives with a gospel hymn

Paul has been laying out a vision for a new community on the island of Crete, sending his emissary Titus to affect this change. And he wants to see changed leaders and changed priorities and changed households and changed communities. For 5 verses, right in the middle of all that change, he pauses. Paul pauses and he inserts something. Most people believe that actually this 5-verse section, a good chunk of it, is a hymn of the early church. Because you're thinking, this is very dense and poetic. It's probably like Paul in the middle of writing about the change pauses and sings about the change that has been affected by the Lord. Why does he do that? Why in the middle of saying, 'Hey, let's live changed lives,' does he pause and rehearse the Gospel of Jesus Christ? Well, because he's using this very intentionally. Notice the brackets of this section. Verses 1 and 2 say, 'Don't act like the world for or because we ourselves were blank.' Right? So he says, 'Okay, don't act like this. Live a changed life because,' and then he shares the Gospel. And then after he shares it, he says, I have shared this so that those who have believed in God may be careful to devote themselves to good works. Meaning, he's saying, you are meant, church and Christian, to live a changed life. But let me take a second and remind you that everything has changed because of the gospel of Jesus Christ.

5 · Ricky steps out of exposition to address the congregation directly with pastoral concern

And here's my burden today, okay? Just as a pastor, this is my burden for you if you are sitting here today. I do not want you as a Christian stuck between the Emancipation Proclamation and Juneteenth. I don't want you living like nothing has changed when in fact everything has changed. I want to see you living so powerfully, so profoundly, so joyfully in the good of the Gospel of Jesus Christ in your life.

Where this fits

Recent preaching context

The three sermons immediately preceding this one in the preaching schedule.

May 10, 2026
The path to true happiness and wholeness as a man or as a woman is found in the holy pursuit of God's whole design—not by looking inward to self-expression but by looking upward to God and receiving His perspective through His Word.
Genesis 1-3
May 24, 2026
Christians can be content in singleness because in Christ they possess the Spirit of God now and the guaranteed hope of eternal communion with Him — realities that eclipse even the good gift of marriage.
1 Corinthians 7:25-40
Jun 7, 2026
Christians must recognize that their primary citizenship is in heaven, which transforms how they relate to earthly citizenship without withdrawing from earthly responsibilities.
Philippians 3:20-21
June 14 · This sermon
Are You Living Like Everything Has Changed?
Because God has definitively changed everything through the gospel of Jesus Christ, Christians must stop living like slaves who have been freed but continue wearing their chains, and instead live in the reality of their new identity as washed, renewed heirs of eternal life.
Titus 3:1-8
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Discuss · apply · pray

Sunday-evening family table

Living Like Everything Has Changed

For the parent

This prompt invites kids to think about a dramatic rescue or moment when everything shifted — and to connect that feeling to what Christ has done for us. Listen for whether they can name the difference between knowing something is true and living like it's true.

Ricky told a story about someone who was freed from slavery but kept acting like they were still in chains. Can you think of a time when something really hard ended — like when you found out you weren't in trouble after all, or when a scary thing turned out okay? How did it feel? And here's the bigger question: if God really has rescued us and set us free through Jesus, why do you think Christians sometimes still act scared or stuck?
Works for ages 7+ — younger kids may need help naming a personal example, but they can grasp the core idea of 'freed but acting trapped'
Small-group discussion

6 questions for your group this week

  1. In Titus 3:3, Paul describes the Cretan church's former life in vivid detail—foolishness, disobedience, enslaved to passions, malice, envy. When you read that list, which of those descriptions feels most honest about your own life before Christ, and why?
    Titus 3:3
    → What made you aware that you couldn't fix that condition on your own?
  2. Paul interrupts his list of human failure in verse 4 with 'But when the goodness and loving kindness of God our Savior appeared.' What does it mean that salvation broke into human history as an appearance of God's character rather than as a response to human effort or worthiness?
    Titus 3:4-5
  3. The sermon describes salvation as having three dimensions: rescue from sin's penalty, separation from God, and the dominion of darkness. Of those three, which one feels most real to you personally—and what would it look like to live as though that rescue had actually happened?
    Titus 3:5-7
    → Where do you still find yourself acting as though you need to earn back what Christ has already secured?
  4. Paul says we are now 'heirs of eternal life' (verse 7)—a title that means we inherit something we did nothing to deserve and cannot lose by performance. How does that inheritance change the way you relate to your failures this week?
    Titus 3:7
    → Does the idea of 'heirship' feel more like good news or like pressure to perform? Why?
  5. The sermon names a common pattern: freed slaves who continue wearing their chains. Where in your own life are you living as though the old chains still bind you, even though Christ has broken them?
    → What would it look like to actually believe that everything has changed in that specific area?
  6. At the heart of this passage is a claim: because God has already done the work of salvation completely, Christians are called to live and work not to earn freedom, but from freedom already secured. How would your week look different if you made one decision today from that posture—not from striving, but from rest?
    Titus 3:8
Daily readings · Monday–Friday

5-day reading plan

This week we meditate on what it means to live as people for whom everything has changed through Christ's salvation—moving from the chains of sin to the freedom of heirs.

Monday Matthew 27:51

When the veil tore at Christ's death, it was not a small adjustment to religious practice. It was the heavens declaring that the entire structure of separation between God and humanity had been demolished. We are no longer slaves kept at a distance; we are children invited into the holy place. Live today knowing that the barrier has been permanently removed.

Tuesday Titus 3:3-4

Paul doesn't soften the diagnosis: we were foolish, disobedient, enslaved to passions and envy. We deserved nothing. Yet into that darkness stepped God's kindness. Not because we improved ourselves or earned a second chance, but because God is good. This means your acceptance rests on his nature, not your works—a truth that both humbles pride and anchors safety.

Wednesday Titus 3:5-6

We did not clean ourselves up before God accepted us. The Holy Spirit washed us while we were still unclean. Regeneration was not our project but his work, poured out lavishly on us according to his mercy alone. This week, notice where you are still trying to earn or perfect your standing with God. Lay that down. You are already washed.

Thursday Titus 3:7

An heir does not labor to deserve the inheritance; it is secured by the will of another. Through Christ, we are justified by grace and constituted as heirs of eternal life. That inheritance is not conditional on your performance next week or next month. It is yours because you are his. Walk today with the lightness of one whose future is already secured.

Friday Titus 3:8

Paul anchors the practical call—'to devote themselves to good works'—in the foundation of what God has already done. We work not to earn salvation but because we are already saved. This week, when you stumble, do you hide and self-improve, or do you run to God with your failure in hand? The direction you turn reveals whether you truly believe the gospel has changed everything.

Couples · three questions over coffee

Living Free: What Has Changed Between Us

  1. When you heard that everything has changed through the gospel, what lie about yourself or your marriage did the sermon expose—the place where you're still living like you haven't been freed?
  2. How do we, as a couple, tempt each other to earn God's love or to hide failure instead of running to him together? Where do we need to stop wearing chains?
  3. What would it look like this week to live like we actually believe we've been washed clean and made heirs together? How can we pray that into one another's lives?
Memory verse this week

Titus 3:4-7

But when the goodness and loving kindness of God our Savior appeared, he saved us, not on the basis of deeds which we have done in righteousness, but according to his mercy, by the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out upon us richly through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that being justified by his grace, we would be made heirs according to the hope of eternal life.

Why this verse: This passage is the gospel's heartbeat in the sermon: it establishes that God's salvation is grounded entirely in his character (goodness and mercy) rather than our performance, which frees us from both pride and fear. Everything Ricky calls the church to live out—joy, freedom, lightness, and the courage to run to God in failure—flows from the reality Paul states here: we are already saved, already washed, already renewed, and already heirs of eternal life.

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