Life & Death: Motive, Means, & Opportunity
Thesis Under certain conditions, the only thing standing between you and disaster is the word of God, which is why we must cling to Scripture as our very life.
The shape of the argument
56 units across exposition, application, illustration, theological claim, and conclusion. The pastor's argument is built from these moving parts.
- cultural reference · unit #4 — Applies the force multiplier concept to abortion, showing how modern medical technology has created unprecedented temptation by making what was once dangerous or impossible now safe and accessible.
- personal story · unit #17 — Introduces a personal narrative of a dying man named Dale who faced terminal brain cancer, setting up a concrete case where all conventional reasons to continue living have been stripped away.
- personal story · unit #18 — Completes the Dale narrative by showing that when all human reasons to live had evaporated, only God's command kept Dale from suicide—the thesis illustrated in biographical form.
- historical example · unit #24 — Invokes Polycarp's martyrdom as a parallel to Dale's faithfulness, showing that both men held to God's word when all human reasons for obedience had disappeared.
- Modern abortion technology has removed the historical constraints of danger and publicity, making sin easier than ever before. unit #6
- Under certain conditions, the only thing preventing disaster is God's explicit prohibition in Scripture. unit #8
- Your spiritual life or death depends fundamentally on whether you take God's word seriously. unit #9
- In moments of extreme temptation when all other moral constraints disappear, only your doctrine of Scripture determines whether you stand or fall. unit #12
- The common reasons we give to prevent suicide are subjective and contingent, not grounded in Scripture, which is why our moral intuitions become inconsistent. unit #16
- You are deciding every day whether 'thus saith the Lord' holds authority in your life through countless small decisions between Scripture and personal wisdom. unit #20
- There are fundamentally two kinds of people: those who constantly try to escape God's word and those who see it as their only light in darkness. unit #21
- The life and death set before Israel in Deuteronomy 30 are identified with the very words of God—obedience to the word is life itself. unit #26
- The sixth commandment is simply the most visceral illustration of the universal truth that God's word is the only thing preventing us from darkness. unit #28
- Violating any of God's commandments brings death, not just the sixth—the sixth simply makes this truth most viscerally apparent. unit #30
- All violations of all commandments lead to death, which means 'thus saith the Lord' is literally the only thing keeping you from death. unit #33
- Walking in your own wisdom is sin, and sin leads to death; walking according to the word leads to life. unit #34
- Whatever spiritual life you have in Christ came through obeying the word—specifically the command to believe in Jesus as the sacrifice for your sins. unit #40
- In the gospel, Jesus provides the motive, means, and opportunity to obey—he frees us from slavery to sin, fills us with love for him, and works in us to accomplish what he commands. unit #52
"all those who wander are not lost" — Tolkien (unit #2)
"I've served him my whole life and he's served me. Why would I stop now?" — Polycarp (unit #24)
Full transcript
0 · Announces the text and frames the sermon's focus on the sixth commandment, establishing the scripture reading as the basis for what follows
You're listening to a sermon recorded at Providence Community Church, Truth and Beauty in Community. If you are in the Kansas City area, please consider joining us in person next Sunday. We meet in Lenexa, Kansas at 10 a.m. every Lord's Day. Until then, we pray that as you open your Bibles, the Lord will open your heart to receive His Word. And if you'll open your Bible to the book of Exodus, we're in the Sixth Commandment today, Exodus 20, verse 13. I won't wait for you to turn there. It's too short for me to wait. You shall not murder. Exodus 20, verse 13.
1 · Distinguishes murder from justified killing, narrows the scope to exclude accidental manslaughter, and introduces the organizing framework of motive, means, and opportunity drawn from true crime discourse
Now, you may notice that in the ESV, the translation does not say, you shall not kill. And that's a wise choice on the part of the translators because you have various texts in both the Old and New Testament that show that there are all kinds of killings that are warranted, including just wars, capital punishment, and self-defense. Can I get an amen? No. This is a conversation today about murder. Just backing up for a moment. I was with some of my East Coast pastor friends the other day, and they were looking at my church website, and they were looking at the people in the church website, which is some of y'all, and they said, you can just tell these people own guns. It's like, you would not be wrong. Today, the conversation is mostly just about murder. Now, there is one other aspect that we won't cover that I want you to know about. The Hebrew word also includes sort of this idea of carelessness, death that comes via neglect or carelessness. So if you're looking for a text for why you should not text while you drive, this would be the same text. We won't cover the sort of accidental manslaughter aspect inherent in this word today. We'll keep our eyes focused on the concept of murder, which is going to be delightful to some of you true crime chicks out there. Some of you who listen to these podcasts of true crime, let me ask you a favor, actually. Complete this sentence for me, you true crime weirdos. Motive means and opportunity. Motive means and opportunity. Motive means and opportunity. We're going to talk about those three things today. Motive means and opportunity.
2 · Pauses to prepare the congregation for an unconventional line of reasoning, reassuring them that the apparent digression serves a first-principles approach to understanding the commandment
Now, I'm interested in thinking about the means a little bit. When we're thinking about murder, thinking about the means, the means and maybe the opportunity. You see, the means of murder isn't evenly distributed across all people. Not everybody has the physical strength necessary to kill the person they perhaps would want to kill. And that's interesting if you think about it in so far as motives go, because there are plenty of temptations that exist out in the world that never occur to me, because I have literally no opportunity to indulge in them. And suddenly, if that opportunity presented itself, I might be more interested in doing this or that thing. But motive means and opportunity. They're all kind of related. The means and opportunity to murder someone is really an interesting issue. So if you'll trust me just for a moment, if you're visiting, the best way to listen to one of my sermons is to remember what Tolkien wrote in The Fellowship of the Ring, all those who wander are not lost. It will feel like, what are we talking about here? Just bear with me. We try to think in first principle ways here, not merely derivative. And so we want to think about this a little bit, this idea that the opportunity, the means rather, of murder is not evenly distributed. Does that make sense to you? Some people have, by basis of their own physicality, more means of killing than other people.
3 · Explains how technology functions as a force multiplier, democratizing the means of murder and thereby increasing temptation by creating new opportunities where none existed before
And so historically, this would have all just kind of come down to, like, who are the people most tempted to murder? Well, those who have the most capacity to murder. It would be something like that. And then you kind of branch down another thought chain, and you think, well, technology has really done something interesting in that respect, hasn't it? It sort of winds up being a force multiplier. Technology winds up giving more people the means to kill people, than they would normally have had. Think of it this way. You've got a 265-pound heavyweight UFC fighter, and a 150-pound, you know, incel in his mom's basement. And you put them against each other. It's like, who's going to win? And the answer is the UFC heavyweight fighter. But let's give the incel a shotgun. It's suddenly opportunity and means, that dynamic changes. This piece of technology has become a force multiplier. It actually increases the ability of someone to execute someone else, which is part of the question. It's not just about, like, do you want to murder someone? Motive. It's, could you do it if you wanted to? And then it turns out that if you can do something, the temptation to do it increases exponentially.
4 · Applies the force multiplier concept to abortion, showing how modern medical technology has created unprecedented temptation by making what was once dangerous or impossible now safe and accessible
Well, that's really what's going on with abortion. And this is not going to be a whole sermon about abortion, but this is a good example of what I'm talking about. This is, abortion is by far the most common kind of murder in the United States. And here you have a group of people, expecting mothers, who have been given an opportunity, a power over life that they have not had in history in the way that they have it now. Does that make sense? Abortion is essentially a force multiplier. It's a technology. It's a force multiplier. It gives people the ability to be murderers who did not have the ability to be murderers. And remember, there's this connection between the means and the temptation. And suddenly, the fact that you could do it means you have a temptation to resist that you wouldn't have had to resist, say, 100 years ago.
5 · Provides historical context showing that abortion has always existed but was constrained by self-preservation instincts and legal prohibitions, both of which no longer function as effective barriers
Now, abortion has been a possibility for some time. There have been certain poisons you could have taken, for instance. In some of my Puritan readings, this will pop up occasionally, a discussion about women taking poisons to end their babies' lives. But the thing about that was is that there was always this incredible, like, complicating factor of you're probably going to hurt yourself. After all, you're taking poison. So many women were not tempted by that in particular because most women who would be tempted to kill their babies have a kind of narcissism, and they love their lives more than their child's lives to begin with. So if any means of killing that life would threaten their own life, then they are less interested in doing it. And then, of course, it's been illegal for a long time. So that also, you know, sort of deals with that aspect.
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This week we meditate on how God's word stands as the only barrier between us and death—spiritually, physically, and eternally—and how Christ secured our obedience through his sacrifice.
Moses does not offer Israel a choice between two options of equal weight. He sets *life* and *death* before them, then tells them plainly: choose life. The choice is not abstract—it is the choice to love the Lord your God, to obey his voice, and to hold fast to him. To take God's word seriously is not legalism; it is the most basic condition of remaining alive.
Moses speaks to Israel with the full weight of finality: these words I command you today are not trivial—they are your life. Not your opinion about life. Not your feelings about morality. Your actual life depends on whether you take seriously what God has spoken. In moments when motive, means, and opportunity align to pull you toward destruction, only this word stands between you and the abyss.
The wage of sin is death. Not some sins. Not the big ones. All sin, across all of God's commandments, leads to death. The sixth commandment does not stand alone—it simply shows us most plainly what is true of every command God has given. When we break any word from his mouth, we set ourselves on a trajectory toward destruction. This is not arbitrary punishment; it is the structure of reality itself.
Christ bore our sins in his body on the tree, and by his wounds we are healed. He returned to the Shepherd and Overseer of our souls. Our life—our actual, eternal life—was purchased by one man's perfect obedience to the word of God even unto death. We do not earn this obedience; we receive it. And receiving it means we turn from the path of death and follow him who alone is our life.
The psalmist cries out: Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path. I find shelter in your testimonies. When the darkness closes in and every other moral constraint dissolves, when motive and means and opportunity align against us, there remains one thing—the word of God. It is not tyranny. It is light. It is the only thing that will not fail you when everything else does.
The Word Between You and Darkness
- What area of your life right now—a temptation, a decision, a struggle—did the sermon make you realize depends entirely on whether you believe God's word is true?
- Where do you see the two of you drifting toward your own wisdom instead of clinging to Scripture together, and what would it look like to turn back?
- What is one command of God that feels hardest for you to obey right now, and how can your spouse pray for you to see it not as restriction but as the only path to life?
The Word Between Us and Death
Father, we come before you acknowledging that you alone hold life and death in your hands, and that your word is not merely instruction but the very means by which we live. We confess that we often treat your commandments as suggestions, as if our own wisdom and desires could safely override what you have spoken. We live in a culture that has systematically removed the constraints that once made sin costly—that has made it easier than ever to violate your law and imagine ourselves safe. Forgive us for the countless small decisions in which we choose our own counsel over your word, as though we could escape the reality that all violation of your commandments leads to death (Romans 6:23).
We praise you that in Jesus Christ, you have done what we could not do. He alone kept the sixth commandment—and all your commandments—perfectly. His death at Golgotha was our murder executed, our debt paid, our sentence carried. His obedience in Gethsemane secured for us a life we could never earn. Through him, you have removed the motive, means, and opportunity to sin by filling us with love for you and giving us a new heart that delights in your law (Psalm 119). Grant us the grace this week to see your word as our very life—not a burden, but the only light in darkness (Deuteronomy 30:19-20). When motive and means and opportunity to sin align, let us cling to 'thus saith the Lord' as our only hope. Work in us a deep reverence for Scripture, a horror of our own wisdom, and an unshakeable conviction that walking according to your word is the path to life itself.
We commit ourselves afresh to you as a people who will choose life by choosing your word. Make us steadfast, make us faithful, and keep us in that obedience that leads to eternal life in Christ.
What's Standing Between You and the Worst?
This prompt invites kids to think about what actually stops us from doing harmful things—not just rules we follow, but the deeper reality that God's word is our protection. Listen for whether they think about external constraints (getting caught) or internal ones (knowing what God says is right). This is a chance to help them see Scripture as life-giving, not life-limiting.
Chris talked about how sometimes the *only* thing standing between us and really bad choices is what God says in the Bible. Can you think of a time when you almost did something you knew was wrong—and what stopped you? Was it being scared of getting in trouble, or was it knowing what God says about it? What's the difference?
Deuteronomy 30:19-20
I call heaven and earth to witness against you today, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and curse. Therefore choose life, that you and your offspring may live, loving the Lord your God, obeying his voice and holding fast to him, for he is your life and the length of your days, which you shall dwell in the land that the Lord swore to your fathers, to Abraham, to Isaac, and to Jacob.
Why this verse: The sermon's entire argument hinges on the claim that God's word is not mere moral instruction but the literal means of life itself—and this passage crystallizes that truth by identifying obedience to God's voice with life itself. It provides the redemptive-historical frame that Chris uses to show why the sixth commandment matters: all of God's commandments are pathways to life or death, and only his word stands between us and destruction.
6 questions for your group this week
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In the sermon, Chris described three conditions that must align for murder to occur: motive, means, and opportunity. Walk through a specific example from the sermon—either abortion or suicide—and identify what changed in modern culture to remove historical constraints on one or more of these three conditions.→ What does it mean that technology has made sin 'easier than ever before'? How should that reality shape the way we think about God's commands?
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Read Deuteronomy 30:19-20 aloud together. Notice that Moses says the choice between life and death is identified with the words themselves—'I have set before you life and death, the blessing and the curse.' What is Moses claiming about the relationship between God's word and actual life or death?Deuteronomy 30:19-20→ Can you think of a decision you've faced recently where Scripture's prohibition or command was the primary thing keeping you from harm—not just moral harm, but actual devastation?
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Chris argued that in extreme moments of temptation, when motive, means, and opportunity all align and other moral constraints have dissolved, 'your doctrine of Scripture determines whether you stand or fall.' What does he mean by 'doctrine of Scripture'? How is your private conviction about whether the Bible is God's authoritative word different from merely knowing the Bible's rules?
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The sermon shows that our cultural reasons for preventing suicide—'you have so much to live for,' 'people love you,' 'things will get better'—are all true but ultimately contingent and subjective. Why does Chris say these reasons are insufficient, and what does Scripture offer that they don't?→ If you were counseling a believer in deep despair, how would you ground your counsel in God's word rather than in circumstantial encouragement?
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Read Psalm 119 (or at least skim its opening sections). What is the psalmist's posture toward God's word? How does his language—'my delight,' 'my inheritance,' 'my counselor'—differ from the way we often talk about obeying Scripture?Psalm 119→ What would it look like for you to move from viewing God's commands as external rules to viewing them as Chris does—as the very light that keeps you from darkness?
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Chris closed by connecting the sixth commandment to the gospel: Jesus faced the perfect alignment of motive (Satan's hatred), means (his power), and opportunity (the wilderness and the cross), yet Jesus obeyed and broke the power of sin. How does knowing that Christ obeyed where we cannot change the way you approach your own struggle with temptation this week?
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