Seeking God's Face When He Seems Hidden

Psalm 13 June 18, 2017 Pastor Chris Oswald
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Thesis Because experiencing God's manifest presence is essential for spiritual survival and proper perspective, believers must urgently seek His face through practical means while trusting in His fatherly love and remembering His past faithfulness.
Series
Seeking God's Presence
Type
Expository
Tone
pastoraldidacticprophetic
Method
grammatical-historicalredemptive-historicalapplicatory
What's in this sermon

The shape of the argument

45 units across exposition, application, illustration, theological claim, and conclusion. The pastor's argument is built from these moving parts.

Pastoral correction · unit #39
"Applies the fire-starting illustration to the pursuit of God's presence, arguing that small spiritual disciplines (singing, church attendance, service) are the tinder that catches the spark of God's manifest presence."
Doctrinal loci· 12 surfaced
Theology Proper · 28 Doxology / Worship · 14 Ecclesiology · 7 Soteriology · 4 Hamartiology · 3 Sanctification · 3 Anthropology · 2 Christology · 1 Pastoral Theology · 1 Pneumatology · 1 Providence / Sovereignty · 1 Spiritual Warfare · 1
Bible citations· 27
Psalm 13:superscription | Psalm 13:1-6 | Psalm 13:1 | Psalm 13:1-2 | Romans 8:26-27 | Psalm 13:2-4 | Psalm 119:32 | Psalm 18:29 | Psalm 13:3-4 | Psalm 13:5 | Acts 17:24-28 | Genesis 3 | Hebrews 2:10 | Romans 5:8-11 | Matthew 6:9 | Psalm 103:13 | Luke 11:9-13 | Psalm 68:5-6 | John 1:12 | Psalm 13:5-6 | Psalm 13:6
Illustrations· 4
  1. Spurgeon's Blunt Assessment cultural reference · unit #9 — Cites Spurgeon's assessment of David's imprecise language as foolish speech.
  2. David's Heart More Out of Tune Than His Harp cultural reference · unit #10 — Uses Spurgeon's metaphor about David's emotional state being more disordered than his instrument.
  3. A Father's Heart Interprets personal story · unit #19 — Uses a personal story about decoding a child's imprecise speech to illustrate the fatherly heart that interprets inarticulate prayer.
  4. Learning to Start a Fire personal story · unit #38 — Tells a personal story about learning to start fires to illustrate the necessity of gathering small materials before the spark can catch—a metaphor for spiritual disciplines.
Theological claims· 20
  1. The presence of God is essential for establishing proper priorities and perspective because without it we progressively lose our ability to evaluate what truly matters in life. unit #2
  2. The proper posture for seeking God's presence is one of urgent, repeated petition rather than passive resignation. unit #7
  3. Desperate, theologically imprecise crying out to God demonstrates sounder theology than precise doctrine without experiential longing for God's presence. unit #11
  4. The absence of God's presence is spiritually dangerous because its effects are progressive and imperceptible, causing believers to normalize a diseased state as healthy. unit #13
  5. God's presence establishes a baseline of glory that protects us from overvaluing lesser goods, and its absence makes us progressively vulnerable to the enemy's substitutes. unit #14
  6. We should seek God's presence by connecting our need with God's glory, recognizing that our spiritual survival and God's reputation stand or fall together. unit #15
  7. Confidence in God's fatherhood frees us to pray with desperate imprecision rather than anxious theological correctness. unit #20
  8. God is not like a father—all fathers derive their fatherhood from God who is the perfect and original Father. unit #23
  9. Sin is uniquely heinous because it is personal betrayal of the perfect Father, not merely violation of an impersonal law. unit #24
  10. Sin's primary consequence is severing the relationship between God as Creator and God as Father, leaving humanity in a state of spiritual orphanhood. unit #25
  11. Jesus' mission was to restore the severed Father-child relationship by offering Himself as the price of our adoption back into God's family. unit #26
  12. Being God's child grants direct access to God in prayer, as Jesus taught by instructing us to address God as 'Our Father.' unit #28
  13. As God's child, you receive fatherly compassion from Him, fundamentally changing how the Creator relates to you. unit #29
  14. Being God's child means belonging to God's family, the church. unit #31
  15. Childlike dependence in prayer glorifies God by displaying His fatherly strength and love when He responds to our neediness. unit #33
  16. When we cannot manufacture present joy, we can choose to remember God's past faithfulness, which David models through his alternating verb tenses. unit #35
  17. Our conversion proves God's commitment to being with us, giving us confidence that He will answer our prayers for a clearer sense of His presence. unit #36
  18. God has given specific practical tools (means of grace) including singing that we can use to seek His manifest presence. unit #37
  19. Seeking God's presence is a corporate activity, not merely an individual pursuit. unit #41
  20. God will end seasons of His absence when His people seek Him because He is a good Father committed to their spiritual survival. unit #42
Quotations· 4
"Ah, David, you're talking like a fool." — Charles Spurgeon (unit #9)
"It seems that David's heart was more out of tune than his harp." — Charles Spurgeon (unit #10)
"It is well for us that our salvation and God's honor are so intimately connected that they stand or fall together." — Charles Spurgeon (unit #14)
"It is not the Lord's will that the great enemy of our souls should overcome His children. This would dishonor God and cause the evil one to boast." — Charles Spurgeon (unit #14)
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0 · The pastor makes a pastoral announcement recommending Douglas Wilson's 'Reforming Marriage' to the congregation based on patterns he's observing in the church community

Well, good morning. Happy Father's Day from me. Before we get into the message, I wanted to make a one quick announcement or kind of a plug. Uh, boy, I'll tell you, churches tend to go through things together. There tends to be seasons where, where people go through, uh, the same things together. We are a body after all, and I've seen that for the last 20 years, that churches go through things together. And I, when, when I see that, when I identify that I always try to kind of recommend a resource that would be helpful. And so I would like to recommend a book to you this morning. It has nothing to do with the sermon, but it is a book called, "Reforming Marriage" by Douglas Wilson. Reforming Marriage by Douglas Wilson. And I want to recommend that to you if you are married, if you are thinking about getting married, if you think you would like to get married one day. Let me recommend that book to you. I also want to recommend it to you as pre-counseling. So if you are to the point where you would like to sit down with my wife and I and talk about your your marriage, we would love to do that with you. But we will actually ask you to read this book before we meet, and I'll tell you why that is. It's not to put you off, it's actually so that we can create a common vocabulary so that when we come together we don't have to create that vocabulary during those counseling times. We can have all the issues sort of there, we can use the book as a way to kind of prompt those conversations. So the book's called Reforming Marriage by Douglas Wilson. And I'd recommend it to anyone. I'll tell you, it's not a book that you're necessarily going to love to read. It's entertaining because it's so darn hard. It's— my girls have both read it, they both hated it. And no, they appreciated it, but it was a hard book to read. It's a hard message, but a good encouraging message as well. So I recommend that to you. And as I said, if at some point if you are thinking about that you would like to to have some marriage counseling. You don't have to wait for things to be terrible to do that at all. And I'm happy to do that with you, but I would just— we will ask you to read this book. So you might just want to get it just in case.

1 · The pastor opens by orienting the congregation to the sermon series on Psalm 13 and introduces the theme through a Father's Day illustration about how becoming a father radically reorders a man's priorities

All right, on to the message. Psalm 13. We're back in Psalm 13. How many of you were here last week and heard last week's message? I kind of need to know how much I need to review. Okay, so I'll do a little bit of review. I had a few folks that were not here last week. But first of all, let me just introduce this by talking about Father's Day. Do you remember, men, those of you who are fathers, do you remember the quiet coup d'état that took place when you became a father? You changed. You changed. No one told you how drastic you would change, but you really did change. Suddenly thought about things differently. Holding that baby, maybe even for the first time, your priorities changed. The way you looked at the world changed. Things you used to care a great deal about didn't matter as much. My little brother went out and sold his motorcycle within the first couple weeks of holding that first kiddo. Things change just quietly, but we We don't talk about him, we don't necessarily think about him, but it's amazing how things you didn't care about suddenly become important and things you cared about a lot suddenly don't become so important. It's amazing how much the presence of this baby can change your priorities.

2 · Establishes the sermon's governing concern: God's presence is necessary to maintain proper perspective on life, and its absence creates what the pastor calls 'perspectivitis'—a progressive inability to properly evaluate what matters

And friends, one of the reasons that we're talking about the presence of God is because the presence of God changes our priorities. The presence of God sets everything else into perspective. I'm going to talk a little bit more about that in the message, but in talking with Christians for years and just listening to their stories, I've come up with the term "perspectivitis." The longer you go without kind of knowing God's presence, the longer you go without being in God's presence, the harder it is to put everything else in this world in perspective. And so one of the reasons we're seeking God and seeking His presence is because that is actually going to help us put the rest of this whole life into perspective. It's going to help us create godly biblical priorities. It's actually going to give order and meaning to our entire lives.

3 · Introduces the primary text by framing David's psalm as a refusal to normalize the absence of God's manifest presence—a contrast to the congregation's tendency to grow accustomed to spiritual dryness

That's what's going on in Psalm 13. David is utterly dependent on the presence of God. God commands us to worship him with our whole being, right? He commands us to worship him with our emotions and our bodies and the little hairs on the back of our necks and our our adrenal glands and our goosebumps and everything else. God calls us to worship Him with everything, and in order to do that, we need to experience God and know God's manifest presence. David is in a season of life where that's not happening, and rather than grow used to it, which is what many of us have done, he stops and he seeks God. And essentially, The subplot of this psalm is David saying, God, this is no way to live. I don't, I don't want to go on not knowing you, not sensing your presence. I don't want to get used to this.

4 · Explains why the psalm was sent to the choir master: David intended it as a corporate resource for God's people facing the same crisis of God's absence

And that's sort of what we're doing in this series. One of the things we're doing in this series is we're sort of reacclimating and remembering, like, it's not normal to go through life not discerning the presence of God, not not sensing the presence of God. It's not healthy, it's not good to go too long without that. And David knows that, so he writes this psalm of lament. And because he knows it's a problem that so many of us face, he sends it— I think in the Old Testament copymaker, he sends a copy of it right away, like the Old Testament fax machine— to the choir master. That's the very first thing it says, "To the choir master, a psalm of David."

5 · Full reading of Psalm 13, the primary text for the sermon series

And then it says, "How long, O Lord? Will You forget me forever? How long will You hide Your face from me? How long must I take counsel in my soul and have sorrow in my heart all the day? How long shall my enemy be exalted over me? Consider and answer me, O Lord my God. Light up my eyes, lest I sleep the sleep of death." Lest my enemy say, 'I have prevailed over him,' lest my foes rejoice because I am shaken. But I have trusted in Your steadfast love; my heart shall rejoice in Your salvation. I will sing to the Lord, because He has dealt bountifully with me.

Where this fits

Recent preaching context

The three sermons immediately preceding this one in the preaching schedule.

Oct 25, 2015
Christian stability in the face of spiritual disturbances is secured by holding fast to sound doctrine, guarding our hearts with gratitude, and living daily in the good of the gospel — a gospel grounded entirely in God's sovereign grace rather than human effort.
2 Thessalonians 2:13-17
May 8, 2016
God sends trials not to crush us but to refine us, producing steadfastness and Christ-likeness through suffering when we respond with faith-filled perspective.
James 1:1-4
Aug 7, 2016
The kingdom of God is fundamentally about God's relentless pursuit of the lost and His extravagant joy when sinners repent, and Christ's followers are called to share in this joy by welcoming the broken rather than grumbling about who Jesus associates with.
Luke 15:1-10
June 18 · This sermon
Seeking God's Face When He Seems Hidden
Because experiencing God's manifest presence is essential for spiritual survival and proper perspective, believers must urgently seek His face through practical means while trusting in His fatherly love and remembering His past faithfulness.
Psalm 13
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Couples · three questions over coffee

Seeking God's Face Together

  1. What did the sermon stir in your heart about your own need for God's manifest presence—and what spiritual danger might you be normalizing without realizing it?
  2. How are we doing together at seeking God's presence as a couple, rather than each pursuing Him alone—and what practical means of grace (prayer, worship, Scripture) could we share more intentionally?
  3. What past faithfulness of God can you remember and thank Him for, and how can we pray for one another this week to experience His presence more clearly?
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Memory verse this week

Psalm 13:5

But I have trusted in your steadfast love; my heart shall rejoice in your salvation.

Why this verse: This verse embodies the sermon's central movement: from lament and urgent seeking to confident trust in God's fatherly character and past faithfulness. It captures David's deliberate choice to remember God's covenant love when present joy cannot be manufactured—the exact posture the sermon calls believers to adopt when experiencing God's absence.

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Small-group discussion

6 questions for your group this week

  1. In Psalm 13:1-2, David expresses that God has hidden His face and forgotten him. What does David mean by God's 'presence' or 'face' here—is he claiming that God has actually abandoned him, or is he describing something different?
    Psalm 13:1-2
    → How do you distinguish in your own experience between God's actual presence with you and your sense or feeling of His presence?
  2. The sermon claims that the absence of God's felt presence is 'spiritually dangerous' and causes believers to 'progressively lose their ability to evaluate what truly matters.' What does this progression look like—how might someone gradually become numb to this absence without realizing it?
  3. David's prayer in Psalm 13 is desperate and even theologically imprecise—he seems to accuse God of forgetting him. According to the sermon, why is this kind of crying out actually more theologically sound than praying with perfect doctrinal precision but without genuine longing for God's presence?
    Psalm 13:1-4
    → What makes the difference between honest desperation and faithless complaining?
  4. The sermon emphasizes that we are God's children through what Christ has accomplished—He restored a severed Father-child relationship through His death and resurrection. How does knowing that you are genuinely God's child (not just His subject or servant) change the way you approach prayer, especially when you're desperate or confused?
    Romans 5:8-11; John 1:12
  5. In verses 5-6, David shifts from lament to confidence, declaring 'I have trusted in your steadfast love' and 'my heart shall rejoice.' The sermon notes that David does this by choosing to remember God's past faithfulness rather than waiting to feel differently. What is one specific way you could practice remembering God's past faithfulness this week when you find yourself in a season of spiritual dryness?
    Psalm 13:5-6; Psalm 119:32
    → What practical tools or spiritual disciplines help you actually connect with the reality of God's past work, rather than just thinking about it?
  6. The sermon stresses that seeking God's presence is not a solitary activity but a corporate one—it happens together in the church. How does gathering with other believers to seek God's presence together differ from seeking it alone, and what might we be missing if we treat this as merely an individual spiritual pursuit?
    Luke 11:9-13; Psalm 68:5-6
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Daily readings · Monday–Friday

5-day reading plan

This week we walk through how God's presence establishes proper perspective, frees us to pray with desperate faith, restores us as His beloved children, and calls us to seek Him together through practical means.

Monday Psalm 103:13

The psalm declares that God compassionates those who fear Him as a father tenderly parents his children—not out of obligation to an impersonal code, but out of the overflow of fatherly love. This is the foundation of everything: without grasping that God relates to us as the perfect Father (from whom all earthly fatherhood derives), we cannot pray with the desperate, childlike confidence the sermon calls us toward. When we truly believe this, our urgent petitions cease to be presumptuous and become the natural overflow of knowing we belong to One whose heart is bent toward our flourishing.

Tuesday Luke 11:9-13

Jesus instructs us to ask, seek, and knock—not once, but repeatedly—with the assurance that our Father gives good gifts to those who ask Him. The sermon's claim that urgent, repeated petition is the proper posture finds its anchor here: Jesus Himself commands this very desperation and promises that our asking actually honors God by letting Him display His fatherly generosity. We are invited not to manufacture false confidence or pretend self-sufficiency, but to bring our real, aching need before the One whose nature is to respond with goodness.

Wednesday Genesis 3; Romans 5:8-11

Genesis shows humanity's fall into spiritual orphanhood—severed from the Father through personal betrayal and sin. Romans reveals the breathtaking reversal: while we were enemies, Christ died for us, reconciling us to God and securing our restored sonship. The sermon's emphasis that we must seek God's presence is not the seeking of orphans hoping to belong, but the seeking of children already adopted through Christ's blood who have every right to expect their Father to answer. Our conversion itself is God's irrevocable commitment to restoring us to Himself.

Thursday Psalm 18:29; Psalm 119:32

Both psalms speak of how God's presence enlarges our vision and enables us to run in His ways with expanded hearts—His light makes our path visible, His glory becomes the measure by which all else is seen. Without this baseline of His manifest presence, the sermon warns, we drift into spiritual anemia, progressively normalizing a diseased state as health and falling prey to the enemy's substitutes. When we experience God's glory, even briefly, we recover our ability to see what actually matters: our conversion, our standing as loved children, our shared life in His family.

Friday John 1:12; Acts 17:24-28

John affirms that we have received power to become God's children, and Acts grounds us in the reality that in God we live and move and have our being—He is not distant but near to those who seek Him. The sermon's call to seek God's presence together, through the means of grace as a church family, finds its meaning here: we are not isolated individuals approaching an abstract deity, but beloved children approaching our Father in the company of His household. Our corporate seeking both demonstrates our childlike dependence and multiplies the glory when our Father, as a good father toward all His children, answers our united cry.

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Pray together this week

Prayer for God's Manifest Presence

Father, we come before you in awe of your character—you are not distant or indifferent, but the perfect Father who draws near to those who seek you with desperate hearts. We confess that we live far too often without the felt sense of your presence, drifting through our days with diminished perspective, forgetting what truly matters, and becoming vulnerable to the enemy's substitutes for your glory. We have grown accustomed to a spiritual anemia we should never tolerate, and we need you to awaken us to the danger of your absence (Psalm 13:1-2).

Yet the gospel tells us that through Jesus you have restored the severed Father-child relationship, bringing us from orphanhood into your family and granting us direct access to your throne (John 1:12). Because Christ has offered himself as the price of our adoption, we are your children, and we can cry out to you with the desperate imprecision of those who know a loving Father hears us (Matthew 6:9). We remember your past faithfulness—our very conversion proves your commitment to be with us—and we trust that you will answer when we seek your face (Psalm 13:5).

Grant us, we ask, the urgency to pursue your manifest presence through every practical means you have given us: through prayer, through singing together, through gathering as your church, through remembering your faithfulness when joy feels distant (Psalm 13:6). Free us from anxious theological correctness that masquerades as faith, and give us instead the childlike dependence that glorifies your fatherly strength and love. End this season of your hiddenness among us, for we cannot survive spiritually without you, and your reputation stands or falls with our spiritual survival.

Make us a people who seek your face together, who choose to remember your past mercies when we cannot manufacture present joy, and who display to a watching world the reality that you are a good Father committed to our wholeness. To you be all glory and honor, now and forever.

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Sunday-evening family table

When God Feels Far Away

For the parent

This prompt invites kids to notice David's honest feelings in Psalm 13 and reflect on their own experience of seeking God when He feels distant. Listen for whether they understand that feeling far from God is something believers actually talk about, and gently guide them toward the idea that we can cry out to God even when we don't feel close to Him.

In Psalm 13, David says to God, 'How long will You forget me?' even though God hadn't actually left him. Have you ever felt like God was far away or quiet, even though you knew He was still there? What did you do about it?
works for ages 7+ — younger children may need help distinguishing between God actually being absent and feeling absent, but the prompt itself is concrete and emotional rather than abstract
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