Together in His Presence

Ephesians 4:1-16 July 9, 2017 Pastor Chris Oswald
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Thesis We can only pursue and experience the manifest presence of God together through the church's corporate ministry, and this requires humility both to maintain unity and to properly engage in the prescribed practices through which God promises His presence.
Series
The Presence of God
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Expository
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pastoraldidacticprophetic
Method
grammatical-historicalcanonicalapplicatory
What's in this sermon

The shape of the argument

37 units across exposition, application, illustration, theological claim, and conclusion. The pastor's argument is built from these moving parts.

Pastoral correction · unit #29
"Applies the principle concretely: if visitors don't know where the bathrooms are, we have failed to welcome them. Pride makes us see through our own lens (we know where things are) rather than theirs (they are lost and confused). The call is to get over ourselves."
Doctrinal loci· 12 surfaced
Ecclesiology · 27 Hamartiology · 8 Theology Proper · 7 Sanctification · 6 Ethics / Moral Theology · 4 Christology · 2 Pastoral Theology · 2 Pneumatology · 2 Anthropology · 1 Covenant Theology · 1 Eschatology · 1 Soteriology · 1
Bible citations· 20
Revelation 21-22 | Psalm 13 | Ephesians 4:1 | Ephesians 4:2 | Ephesians 4:3 | Galatians 6 | 1 Peter 3:8-12 | 1 Peter 3:7 | Isaiah 58:6-10 | Ephesians 4:4-6 | Ephesians 4:7-16 | Ephesians 4:10-12 | 1 Corinthians 14 | Matthew 18 | James 2:1-4 | 1 Corinthians 11-14 | 1 Corinthians 11
Illustrations· 1
  1. The Fragility of Unity analogy · unit #12 — Uses marriage as an analogy to illustrate the fragility of spiritual unity. Just as marital intimacy can fade despite legal continuity, so church unity can dissipate despite institutional continuity. The analogy of carrying an egg emphasizes fragility.
Theological claims· 11
  1. Pride and the presence of God are incompatible, and since we are called to pursue God together, pride sabotages both our vertical relationship with God and our horizontal unity with one another. unit #6
  2. When God gives us a high calling, our flesh will use that calling to get leverage on others—the very pursuit of God's presence can become an occasion for pride. unit #8
  3. Unity is essential for pursuing God's presence together, and unity cannot exist without humility—therefore humility is non-negotiable. unit #9
  4. The way we treat other people directly affects our experience of God—this is a universal biblical principle, not just applicable to specific relationships. unit #13
  5. All failure to love others stems from pride—thinking we are a bigger deal than they are—and pride destroys the unity necessary to experience God's presence. unit #16
  6. Ephesians 4:11-12 is commonly misread as equipping individuals for independent ministries, but the text is about equipping the saints for corporate ministry together as a gathered body. unit #23
  7. God has prescribed a set of corporate worship practices (gathering, welcoming, praying, singing, giving, reading, preaching, communion) that the church is commanded to do together every time we gather. unit #25
  8. Every corporate worship practice God prescribes in Scripture comes with a promise of His presence in that activity—corporate worship is designed to be the primary means of encountering God's manifest presence. unit #26
  9. Corporate worship on Sunday is the unique moment in the week when all the conditions for God's manifest presence converge—it is the perfect storm God has designed for encountering Him. unit #27
  10. Pride sabotages the presence-conducting power of corporate worship practices by making us prefer our own comfort over the needs of others—illustrated by how pride prevents us from truly welcoming outsiders. unit #28
  11. Across all corporate worship practices, the pattern is the same: God prescribes, promises His presence, pride sabotages the transmission, and the presence-declaring power is lost. unit #34
Quotations· 1
"pride and the presence of God are incompatible" — Chris Oswald (unit #6)
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0 · Establishes series context and frames the distinction between God's omnipresence and His manifest presence

Ephesians chapter 4. We're in the middle of a series on the presence of God, the manifest presence of God, and I thought maybe this morning we'd do a little bit of a review just because I know some of you haven't been here for every single week. So let me just tell you kind of what's been up. Over the last 4 weeks or so, we've discussed what it means to experience the presence of God and how that's different than what we think of God's presence being everywhere at all times. The way we talked about this when we introduced the idea is that it's one thing to say that God is everywhere, which is true, and it's another thing to say God is here. That's His felt manifest presence, and we are seeking God's presence in this time. That's what we're here to do, that's what we've been doing.

1 · Recaps the previous four weeks of the series: urgency from Psalm 13, God's fatherly will to draw near, the eschatological promise of dwelling with God forever, and humility as essential to pursuing God's presence

So a few weeks ago we opened up our Bibles to Psalm 13, and it helped us to develop a sense of urgency. We saw that it's a dangerous thing to go too long without experiencing the presence of God. The next week, which also happened to be Father's Day, we returned back to Psalm 13 and saw David say in that same prayer in which he asked God, 'How long, how long will you hide your face from me?' We see David saying, 'But I have trusted in your steadfast love.' And we realized as we studied that phrase that that's referring to the Fatherhood of God. We made this conclusion on that second week, that because God is the perfect Father, we don't have to question whether He wants to draw near to us or not. We know that because God is a perfect Father, we can trust in His steadfast love. It is His will to draw near to us. Then we saw Revelation 21 and 22, the sort of unfolding, the consummation of God's plan for everything, and that is that He would dwell amongst His people forever, that they would experience His presence forever. That's where we're headed. And we made this statement, we said that the revelation we see there is the responsibility in this life. We want to turn the awe of the future into the agenda for today. And then last week we saw the central role of humility, the central role humility plays in our pursuit of the presence of God.

2 · Signals the turn from review to today's text and previews the sermon's three-part focus: humility, unity, and ministry

And I want to show you that again today by looking at Ephesians 4, chapter 4, verse 1. And I want to talk a little bit about humility today, a little bit about unity, and a little bit about ministry. Next week we'll talk more about ministry. This sermon is in some respects kind of a bridge sermon between last week's and this week's. We're starting to get practical. We're starting to ask, practically speaking, how do we pursue the presence of God?

3 · Situates Ephesians 4:1 within the book's structure: chapters 1-3 describe the church as God's dwelling place, chapter 4 prescribes how to walk worthy of that calling

And Ephesians is so helpful for that because the first 3 chapters, that's what's talking about. The first 3 chapters are talking about the church being built up together to become a dwelling place for God. And then in chapter 4, Paul pivots and says, now let me tell you how we do this. He says in verse 1, if you've got your Bibles open, 'I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you've been called.' Paul is saying, I urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you've been called. And if we look back and study carefully and see the last several chapters, his conversation with the Ephesian church, We know what that calling is. That calling is to be built up together into the dwelling place of God. That's the calling he's speaking of. And he's saying that there's a way to walk that is worthy of that calling.

4 · Exegetes Ephesians 4:2 to identify humility as the first practical step in walking worthy of the calling

So what's the very first practical thing he tells us to do? The very first practical thing he gives us to walk worthy of this calling? Well, the very first practical thing is in verse 2. And it says, 'With all humility and gentleness and patience, bearing with one another in love.' The plan is simple. We as a church, I'm speaking about this particular church, want to pursue the presence of the Lord together. We want to pursue God together. And we're asking, well, practically, what must we do to pursue Him? And the first thing Scripture gives us out of the book of Ephesians practically to do is to pursue humility.

5 · Distinguishes two dimensions of humility: vertical (toward God) and horizontal (toward one another)

Now let's think about all the reasons why pursuing humility would help us pursue God. There's some really obvious vertical reasons, like for instance, you're not going to pursue God if you don't think you need Him. So humility tells you, I need God. I'm a creature. I'm not called to live this life independently. I need Him, and so I will seek Him. So there's one obvious reason there. But Paul is actually speaking here about the horizontal plane, about our relationship with one another. He's not talking only about our humility toward God, but actually our humility toward one another.

Where this fits

Recent preaching context

The three sermons immediately preceding this one in the preaching schedule.

May 8, 2016
God sends trials not to crush us but to refine us, producing steadfastness and Christ-likeness through suffering when we respond with faith-filled perspective.
James 1:1-4
Aug 7, 2016
The kingdom of God is fundamentally about God's relentless pursuit of the lost and His extravagant joy when sinners repent, and Christ's followers are called to share in this joy by welcoming the broken rather than grumbling about who Jesus associates with.
Luke 15:1-10
Jun 18, 2017
Because experiencing God's manifest presence is essential for spiritual survival and proper perspective, believers must urgently seek His face through practical means while trusting in His fatherly love and remembering His past faithfulness.
Psalm 13
July 9 · This sermon
Together in His Presence
We can only pursue and experience the manifest presence of God together through the church's corporate ministry, and this requires humility both to maintain unity and to properly engage in the prescribed practices through which God promises His presence.
Ephesians 4:1-16
Earlier in the corpus · March 8, 2026
A prior sermon on Ephesians 4:17-32
You preached this same passage — 21 Ephesians 4 citations in that earlier sermon. Worth re-reading before the next time this text comes around.
Take it further

Discuss · apply · pray

Small groups
6 discussion questions
In Ephesians 4:1-3, Paul calls the church to 'walk in a manner worthy of the calling' we have received, and he grounds this in 'lowliness an…
Daily readings
5-day reading plan
This week traces the inseparable link between humility, corporate worship, and God's manifest presence—from the foundational incompatibility of pride with God's presence, through the unity required to pursue Him together, to the prescribed worship practices through which He promises to dwell with us.
Prayer
Humility to Encounter God Together
Father, we come before You with grateful hearts for the mystery of Your presence dwelling in us as a gathered people. We marvel that You hav…
Family table
When Pride Gets in the Way
This prompt invites your family to notice how pride—thinking we're more important than others—actually blocks us from experiencing God toget…
Couples
Humility and God's Presence Together
What did the sermon reveal to you about how pride might be keeping you—or us—from experiencing God's manifest presence in our gathered worsh…
Memorize
Ephesians 4:2-3
This verse encapsulates the sermon's central claim: humility is the essential foundation for the church's corporate pursuit of God's manifest presence, and it directly enables the unity without which we cannot walk together into His presence. It is the textual anchor for both the diagnosis (pride sabotages presence) and the prescription (humility maintains the relational bonds necessary to encounter God together).
Small-group discussion

6 questions for your group this week

  1. In Ephesians 4:1-3, Paul calls the church to 'walk in a manner worthy of the calling' we have received, and he grounds this in 'lowliness and gentleness.' What does Paul mean by connecting our manner of walking directly to humility, and why do you think he places this before anything else he instructs about church life?
    Ephesians 4:1-3
    → Can you think of a time when you've watched pride—either your own or someone else's—actually fracture the unity of a group or community? What specifically happened?
  2. The sermon claims that 'the way we treat other people directly affects our experience of God.' How does the logic of James 2:1-4 and 1 Peter 3:7 support this claim? What's the connection between how we relate horizontally to one another and how we encounter God vertically?
    James 2:1-4; 1 Peter 3:7
  3. According to Ephesians 4:11-12, what is the actual purpose of the gifts Christ gives to the church? How does understanding ministry as fundamentally corporate—rather than individual—reshape the way you think about your own role in the church?
    Ephesians 4:11-12
    → What would it look like in your small group or congregation if we truly believed we were meant to minister together as a gathered body rather than pursuing separate spiritual paths?
  4. The sermon distinguishes between corporate worship practices that God prescribes (gathering, welcoming, praying, singing, preaching, communion) and the promises He attaches to them. Why would God establish a pattern where His manifest presence is most readily encountered through these specific corporate practices done together?
  5. Reflect on this week's gathering for corporate worship—whether here or elsewhere. How did pride (your own or others') potentially sabotage your experience of God's presence in one of those prescribed practices? How might humility have changed what you encountered?
    → What's one concrete way you could practice humility in the next corporate worship gathering that might remove an obstacle to encountering God's presence?
  6. The sermon claims that all failure to love others stems from pride—thinking we are a bigger deal than they are. If that's true, what does the gospel of Christ crucified and risen have to say to our pride, and how does that good news actually liberate us to love the people in our midst?
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Daily readings · Monday–Friday

5-day reading plan

This week traces the inseparable link between humility, corporate worship, and God's manifest presence—from the foundational incompatibility of pride with God's presence, through the unity required to pursue Him together, to the prescribed worship practices through which He promises to dwell with us.

Monday Revelation 21:1-5

John's vision shows us the final reality: God dwelling openly with His people, and all tears wiped away. This is the presence we're called to pursue now in the church. The vision clarifies what pride destroys—when we exalt ourselves, we push away the One whose glory alone deserves elevation, and we fracture the unity in which that presence is meant to be experienced together.

Tuesday James 2:1-4

James shows us a concrete, devastating example: favoritism in the assembly toward the rich and against the poor. He exposes how pride—preferring our comfort and status—becomes prejudice that fractures the body. When we fail to welcome one another with equal dignity, we don't simply offend a brother; we silence the voice of God's presence in that gathering and diminish our corporate encounter with Him.

Wednesday 1 Peter 3:8-12

Peter calls us to unity of mind, sympathy, and brotherly love—not as optional niceties but as the posture through which we "see good days" and experience God's favor. Pride tells us we deserve better treatment, a softer word, more deference. But humility recognizes that every person in the assembly bears God's image with equal weight, and this mutual honor is the very soil in which God's presence grows among us.

Thursday 1 Corinthians 11:17-34

Paul rebukes the Corinthians for how they've corrupted the Lord's Supper—eating and drinking in a way that despises the church and divides rich from poor. The practice itself was given by Christ; the promise of His presence is real. But pride—the unwillingness to humble ourselves and wait for one another—transforms a means of grace into a judgment against us. We cannot encounter Christ's presence in communion while we're exalting ourselves over our brothers.

Friday Isaiah 58:6-10

Isaiah cuts to the heart: fasting and prayer mean nothing if we're neglecting the hungry, the homeless, the oppressed. God's glory dwells where His people move in justice and mercy. Corporate worship that's performed while we ignore the needs of those gathered with us—or those outside our walls—is a hollow shell. True worship that conducts God's presence is worship that melts pride and opens our hands and hearts to one another in real, costly love.

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Pray together this week

Humility to Encounter God Together

Father, we come before You with grateful hearts for the mystery of Your presence dwelling in us as a gathered people. We marvel that You have called us to pursue the manifest presence of the all-glorious God together—not in isolation, but as Your church, the body of Christ bound by Your Spirit (Ephesians 4:4-6). Yet we confess with sorrow that pride stands as the consistent saboteur of this pursuit. We recognize that the same calling to God's presence that should humble us often becomes an occasion for us to elevate ourselves over one another, to protect our comfort at the expense of welcoming the stranger, and to neglect the corporate practices through which You have promised to meet us. In our pride, we have treated others in ways unworthy of our calling, forgetful that the way we treat one another directly affects our experience of You.

But we rejoice in the gospel: Christ Jesus, in His perfect humility, became what we could not—a spotless mediator who entered the Father's presence on our behalf, and by His Spirit He unites us as one body (Ephesians 4:1-2). The gospel humbles us with the reality of our own smallness and exalts us with the reality of His grace. Grant us, O God, the supernatural humility to walk worthy of this calling—humility that keeps us bound to one another in love, that makes us eager to welcome, to listen, to serve, and to honor those around us as more significant than ourselves. Give us the courage to gather each week, to sing, to pray, to hear Your Word, and to commune together, not as isolated individuals but as a corporate body that expects to encounter Your manifest presence. Transform our pride into glad submission, our comfort-seeking into sacrificial love, and our gathered worship into the perfect storm of encounter with You that You have designed. To this end, we commit ourselves to one another and to You, confident that Your grace is sufficient for the humility this calling requires.

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Sunday-evening family table

When Pride Gets in the Way

For the parent

This prompt invites your family to notice how pride—thinking we're more important than others—actually blocks us from experiencing God together. Listen for moments when your kids recognize pride in themselves or others, and affirm their honesty.

Pastor Chris said that pride is like a wall that keeps God's presence away from us when we're together. Can you think of a time this week when you felt like you were more important than someone else—maybe a brother or sister, or a friend? What happened to how you felt about being together with them?
Works for ages 7+ — younger kids can share with help; older kids and teens will recognize pride in their own hearts
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Couples · three questions over coffee

Humility and God's Presence Together

  1. What did the sermon reveal to you about how pride might be keeping you—or us—from experiencing God's manifest presence in our gathered worship?
  2. Where do you see pride in our marriage sabotaging the unity and love that God calls us to display together, and how might that be affecting our spiritual life as a couple?
  3. How can we pray for one another this week to grow in the humility that allows us to welcome others and encounter God's presence together in our church family?
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Memory verse this week

Ephesians 4:2-3

Walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.

Why this verse: This verse encapsulates the sermon's central claim: humility is the essential foundation for the church's corporate pursuit of God's manifest presence, and it directly enables the unity without which we cannot walk together into His presence. It is the textual anchor for both the diagnosis (pride sabotages presence) and the prescription (humility maintains the relational bonds necessary to encounter God together).

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