Ephesians 4:1-6 Unity in the Church

Ephesians 4:1-6 February 8, 2026 Pastor Chris Oswald
Thesis Christians are called to zealously maintain the church's unity through gospel-driven humility, gentleness, patience, and forbearance because God himself is one and has made us one body in Christ.
Series
Ephesians
Type
Expository
Tone
pastoraldidactic
Method
grammatical-historicalcanonicalapplicatory
What's in this sermon

The shape of the argument

88 units across exposition, application, illustration, theological claim, and conclusion. The pastor's argument is built from these moving parts.

Pastoral correction · unit #44
"Applies the definition of humility to concrete actions: giving credit, praying, sharing scripture, practical service."
Doctrinal loci· 7 surfaced
Sanctification · 38 Christology · 9 Ethics / Moral Theology · 7 Pastoral Theology · 7 Doxology / Worship · 1 Providence / Sovereignty · 1 Spiritual Warfare · 1
Bible citations· 31
Ephesians 4:1-6 | Ephesians 4:1 | Ephesians 1-3 | Ephesians 1:3 | Ephesians 1:4 | Ephesians 1:5 | Ephesians 1:7 | Ephesians 2:1-3 | Ephesians 2:4-7 | Ephesians 2:10 | Ephesians 2:13-16 | 2 Corinthians 6:3-5 | Ephesians 4:1-2 | Philippians 2:3-4 | John 13:1-17 | Psalm 25:9 | Ephesians 4:3 | 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 | Colossians 3:12-13 | Ephesians 4:4-6 | Deuteronomy 6:4 | John 13:34-35 | Matthew 18:21-35
Illustrations· 5
  1. personal story · unit #2 — Opens an extended illustration by establishing that beauty is subjective, then introducing the pastor's personal example of beauty — a basketball slam dunk.
  2. personal story · unit #3 — Develops the personal narrative about childhood fandom of Michael Jordan and the Bulls, establishing the emotional and cultural context for the slam dunk illustration.
  3. cultural reference · unit #4 — Climax of the illustration — Jordan's iconic dunk requires total bodily unity, every part engaged toward one goal, creating breathtaking beauty.
  4. analogy · unit #33 — Develops an analogy between a resume and Paul's sufferings — both serve to gain credibility and opportunity to be heard.
  5. personal story · unit #38 — Personal parenting illustration — the pastor calls his kids to live consistent with their identity as Coens, not out of threat but identity.
Theological claims· 3
  1. The Christian life is united because God is united. unit #67
  2. To divide what God has united is theological inconsistency, not just relational failure. unit #69
  3. If you struggle to be humble, gentle, patient, and forbearing with others, you are struggling to live in the grace of God. unit #78
Quotations· 6
"we put no obstacle in anyone's way so that no fault may be found with our ministry, but as servants of God we commend ourselves in every way by great endurance, in afflictions, hardships, calamities, beatings, imprisonments, riots, labor, sleepless nights, hunger." — Paul (unit #31)
"we put no obstacle in anyone's way so that no fault may be found with our ministry, but as servants of God we commend ourselves in every way by great endurance, in afflictions, hardships, calamities, beatings, imprisonments, riots, labor, sleepless nights, hunger." — Paul (unit #33)
"love is patient and kind. Love does not envy or boast. It is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way. It is not irritable or resentful. It does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things. Love believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." — Paul (unit #59)
"Put on then as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has been played against another, forgiving each other. As the Lord has forgiven you, so you must also forgive." — Paul (unit #62)
"Shema Yisrael, Adonai Eloheinu, Adonai Echad. Hear Israel, the Lord our God, the Lord is one." — Moses (unit #68)
"A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this, all people will know that you are my disciples if you have love for one another." — Jesus (unit #70)
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0 · Opening greeting that establishes the pastor's identity and frames the gathering as an anticipation of eternal worship with Christ

Isn't it good just to gather around and sing songs of worship to Christ together, knowing that we will be with him one day, he will be with us and that will just be a joy. For the benefit of our guests, my name is Dove Cohn. I'm a pastor here at Providence and I have the absolute privilege to open up God's word for us this morning.

1 · States the sermon topic, passage, and thesis directly — unity in the church from Ephesians 4:1-6

Today, like I mentioned in the announcements, we're going to be talking about the beauty of unity. Beauty of unity, we're looking at Ephesians 4, 1 through 6. If you want to open up your Bibles or scroll on your phones, Ephesians 4, 1 through 6. That's what we're going to be looking at today. And the main idea for the message today is that Christians are called to zealously maintain the church's unity.

2 · Opens an extended illustration by establishing that beauty is subjective, then introducing the pastor's personal example of beauty — a basketball slam dunk

Now, beauty can very much be in the eye of the beholder. Beauty can very much be in the eye of the beholder. Some people see beauty in a golden sunset. Some people see beauty in a sparkling diamond ring. Me? I see beauty in a clean, ferocious slam dunk.

3 · Develops the personal narrative about childhood fandom of Michael Jordan and the Bulls, establishing the emotional and cultural context for the slam dunk illustration

Child with me here. I grew up in the Philadelphia area and you would think I would root for the Sixers. I root for the Sixers now, but back in the day I rooted for the Chicago Bulls and Michael Jordan. And I remember watching them as they ascended in the NBA to become the touchstone of greatness. In the early to mid-90s, towards the late 90s, they were still really, really good. And I idolized Michael Jordan. I had the shirt, I had the shoes. If you remember the chalk line jacket with his picture on the back, I had that. I love Michael Jordan.

4 · Climax of the illustration — Jordan's iconic dunk requires total bodily unity, every part engaged toward one goal, creating breathtaking beauty

My bedroom wall had a poster that looked like this. Where Jordan is just jumping, launching himself, you know, 15 feet from the foul line, dunking the ball cleanly into the basket. And just consider how Jordan engaged and united. Every pound of muscle, every inch of flesh, every strand of nerve in his body to launch himself 15 feet and dunk the ball. Just breathtaking.

5 · Pivots from the illustration to the sermon's subject — church unity surpasses even the breathtaking beauty of Jordan's athletic unity

Today, we're going to be talking about a unity even more beautiful than a Michael Jordan slam dunk. We're going to be talking about a unity within the church. Within our church.

Where this fits

Recent preaching context

The three sermons immediately preceding this one in the preaching schedule.

Jan 18, 2026
God is building a multi-ethnic church as His masterwork to display His manifold wisdom to the principalities and powers, and we participate in this cosmic construction project for His glory, not our preferences.
Ephesians 2:1-3:10
Jan 20, 2026
Preaching that pleases God must participate derivatively in the three-fold pattern of divine speech established in Genesis 1: it must be performative (expecting God to act through the Word), divisive (making clear distinctions and boundaries), and evaluative (rendering God's verdicts on reality).
Feb 1, 2026
Paul prays that Christ would dwell richly in the Ephesians' hearts because walking worthy of our calling — living as fully integrated people who love God with heart, mind, body, and soul — requires the indwelling love of Christ as the commanding center of our being.
Ephesians 3:1-21
February 8 · This sermon
Ephesians 4:1-6 Unity in the Church
Christians are called to zealously maintain the church's unity through gospel-driven humility, gentleness, patience, and forbearance because God himself is one and has made us one body in Christ.
Ephesians 4:1-6
Earlier in the corpus · July 9, 2017
A prior sermon on Ephesians 4:1-16
You preached this same passage — 8 Ephesians 4 citations in that earlier sermon. Worth re-reading before the next time this text comes around.
Take it further

Discuss · apply · pray

Sunday-evening family table

One Body, One Spirit

For the parent

This prompt invites your family to think about what it means to be part of something bigger than themselves — the church as Christ's body. Listen for moments when your kids recognize that their own choices affect the whole community, not just themselves.

In the sermon, Chris talked about how the church is one body — like your own body, where your hand and your foot are both part of you and work together. If one part of your body gets hurt or stops working, the whole body feels it. What's one way you've seen someone in our church family help carry something hard for someone else — or what's one way you could be that person?
works for ages 7+
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Pray together this week

Unity Purchased, Unity Maintained

Father, we come before you in awe of the unity you yourself possess—one God, one Spirit, one truth that holds all things together. You have made us one body in Christ, purchased at infinite cost, and called us to maintain with all diligence the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace (Ephesians 4:3). We confess that we do not always live as though this were true. We harbor grudges. We assume the worst about our brothers and sisters. We withdraw patience and gentleness when we are provoked. We divide over matters small and large, as though Christ's blood had not already made us one.

We come back to the grace lavished upon us in Christ. You loved us when we were dead in our sins (Ephesians 2:4-5). You reconciled us to yourself through the cross, and in doing so, you made peace between us as well (Ephesians 2:14-16). If you have shown us such patience, such forbearance, such humility—becoming human, dying in our place—then who are we to withhold these from one another? Forgive us for the pride that refuses to bend, the impatience that refuses to wait, the bitterness that refuses to forgive.

Grant us, we pray, a fresh vision of the glory of the unity we already possess in Christ. Give us humility to serve one another gladly (Ephesians 4:2). Give us gentleness to speak truth without contempt. Give us patience to bear with one another's weakness as you have borne with ours. Give us the grace to forbear in love, covering offenses that might otherwise divide us. Make us zealous to keep the unity of the Spirit, not as a burden we carry, but as a treasure we protect.

To the one God and Father, through whom and for whom all things exist, be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen.

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Small-group discussion

6 questions for your group this week

  1. Paul opens this passage by saying 'I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called.' What does it mean to walk in a manner worthy of the calling we've received? What specific calling is Paul referring to here?
    Ephesians 4:1
    → When you think about your own life this week — your work, your family, your church — where did you sense the tension between how you actually walked and how you ought to have walked?
  2. Paul lists four character qualities that maintain church unity: humility, gentleness, patience, and forbearance. Which of these four do you find yourself most naturally resisting? What does that resistance tell you?
    Ephesians 4:2-3
    → Can you think of a specific moment in the last month when one of these four qualities would have changed how you treated someone in the church?
  3. Paul says we are to maintain 'the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.' He doesn't say we are to create unity or earn unity — we are to maintain it. What's the difference between creating something and maintaining something that already exists?
    Ephesians 4:3
    → If the unity already exists because Christ purchased it, what does that mean about divisions we experience in the church? Are they real divisions, or are they something else?
  4. In verses 4-6, Paul anchors the call to unity in seven theological realities: one body, one Spirit, one hope, one Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father. Why does Paul ground the command to unity in these theological facts? What would change if we actually believed these seven realities?
    Ephesians 4:4-6
    → Which of these seven feels most distant or abstract to you right now? How might meditating on that particular reality reshape how you treat someone in your church who frustrates you?
  5. Look back at Ephesians 2:1-7. Paul reminds us that we were once spiritually dead, children of wrath, enslaved to sin — and God made us alive and raised us up and seated us in Christ. How does remembering your own spiritual deadness and God's mercy toward you change your capacity to be humble, gentle, patient, and forbearing with others?
    Ephesians 2:1-7
    → Is there someone in your church right now toward whom you're struggling to extend that kind of grace? What would it mean to remember that they, too, were once dead and God made them alive?
  6. If you struggle to be humble, gentle, patient, and forbearing with others, what does that struggle reveal about your grasp of God's grace toward you? How does the gospel speak into that struggle this week?
    → What is one concrete step you could take in the next seven days to practice one of these four virtues toward someone who has been difficult for you?
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Daily readings · Monday–Friday

5-day reading plan

This week we walk through the theological ground of church unity: God's own oneness, the grace that makes us one, and the character God calls us to embody as we maintain that unity.

Monday Ephesians 1:3-7

Paul opens Ephesians by rehearsing what God has done: he has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in Christ, chosen us before the foundation of the world, predestined us for adoption, and redeemed us through his blood. This is not the story of isolated individuals receiving private grace — it is the story of a people chosen together, adopted together, redeemed together. When you see your salvation this way, division becomes theologically absurd.

Tuesday Ephesians 2:4-7

We were dead in our sins, children of wrath, enemies of God. But God — in his mercy — made us alive together with Christ, raised us up together, and seated us together in the heavenly places. The unity here is not a spiritual principle; it is the literal work of resurrection. When you refuse to forbear with another believer, you are saying that what God joined together in the resurrection can be separated by your offense. That is a denial of what Christ has done.

Wednesday Ephesians 2:13-16

In Christ, the wall between Jew and Gentile — the most ancient and intractable division in Israel — was broken down. Christ made peace by abolishing the law of commandments and creating one new man in place of the two. If Christ can unite those who were separated by law, ethnicity, and centuries of division, then your grudge against your brother or sister is a refusal to believe that Christ's peace is real. The unity is not aspirational; it is accomplished fact.

Thursday Philippians 2:3-4

Paul does not tell us to regard others as equal — he tells us to regard them as superior to ourselves, and to look not only to our own interests but also to theirs. This is not natural human behavior; this is resurrection behavior, the fruit of having died to self and been made alive in Christ. When you find yourself defending your rights, nursing your hurt, or demanding that others change first, you are not in a political disagreement — you are in a spiritual condition that needs the gospel applied to your own heart.

Friday Colossians 3:12-13

Paul calls us to clothe ourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience — and then adds the operative word: bear with one another and forgive each other as the Lord forgave you. The measure of your forgiveness of others is not their repentance or your feelings; it is the measure of Christ's forgiveness toward you. When you cannot forgive, you are saying that what Christ did for you was not enough to compel you to do for others. Live this week in the reality of what you have been forgiven, and watch what becomes possible in your relationships.

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Couples · three questions over coffee

One Body, One Spirit

  1. When you heard Paul call us to 'maintain the unity of the Spirit,' what conviction or resistance did you feel—and what does that tell you about where you're struggling to live in God's grace?
  2. Where in our marriage do we find it hardest to be humble, gentle, patient, and forbearing with each other—and what would it look like to remember together that Christ has already made us one?
  3. Who in the church family do you find most difficult to love, and how can we pray for God to give you the humility and forbearance Paul is calling for?
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Memory verse this week

Ephesians 4:3

eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.

Why this verse: This verse captures the sermon's central imperative: Christians are called to *actively guard* the unity Christ purchased, not passively assume it. The word 'eager' (spoudazō) demands zealous effort, grounding the entire application in the reality that unity requires gospel-driven humility, gentleness, patience, and forbearance.

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