Elders: Burly Church Fathers

October 1, 2023 Pastor Chris Oswald
Thesis God loves his people so much that he stirs up godly ambition in men to serve as overseers — spiritually burly church fathers who bring steady, dad-like care to the household of God — and the church must both celebrate this ambition and examine it, recognizing that the first qualification for eldership is sincere desire to do the work.
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39 units across exposition, application, illustration, theological claim, and conclusion. The pastor's argument is built from these moving parts.

Pastoral correction · unit #18
"Direct pastoral charge: if you are unwilling to step up, fine — deal with God on that. But do not project your cowardice onto others by becoming cynical toward their ambition. This is the application of the David and Goliath narrative."
Doctrinal loci· 9 surfaced
Ecclesiology · 28 Pastoral Theology · 16 Hamartiology · 5 Christology · 4 Soteriology · 4 Sanctification · 2 Doxology / Worship · 1 Providence / Sovereignty · 1 Theology Proper · 1
Bible citations· 27
1 Timothy 3:1-7 | 1 Timothy 3:1 | Luke 15 (Prodigal Son parable) | Hebrews 11:16 | 1 Timothy 3:1-13 | 1 Timothy 3:13 | 1 Samuel 17 (David and Goliath) | 1 Samuel 17:26 | 1 Samuel 17:28 | 1 Timothy 3:4-5 | 1 Peter 2:22-25 | 1 Peter 2:25 | Matthew 9:36 | Gethsemane (Matthew 26, Mark 14, Luke 22) | Isaiah 53:6 | 1 Peter 2:22-24
Illustrations· 3
  1. analogy · unit #2 — Uses the whippet vs. St. Bernard dog comparison to illustrate the difference between flashy instability and steady, durable strength. The church needs the latter, not the former.
  2. analogy · unit #10 — Uses marriage and fitness as analogies to illustrate the principle from unit 9: celebrate godly ambition first, then guide it. The church should default to encouragement, not suspicion, when people aspire to good things.
  3. cultural reference · unit #22 — Tells the story of Linda Skeens, who swept a county fair despite battling leukemia. The story illustrates exuberant ambition in the face of cultural modesty and personal hardship. It will be used to argue for celebrating ambition rather than resenting it.
Theological claims· 12
  1. The elder qualifications in 1 Timothy 3 describe nothing special except soundness — the man is steady, reliable, sound, not exceptional. unit #3
  2. Because we are sinners, sincere desire for good things — including pastoral ministry — will sometimes exceed proper limits and become idolatrous, and the church must respond with grace rather than suspicion. unit #7
  3. First Timothy 3:1-13 serves two purposes — examination and encouragement — and the church has overemphasized examination while neglecting the encouragement of godly ambition. unit #9
  4. The church tends to think the main problem is unqualified men serving, but the other part of the problem — often ignored — is qualified men not serving because they lack ambition. unit #12
  5. David had no unique qualifications except willingness; similarly, the elder qualifications in 1 Timothy 3 describe normal Christian maturity, and the differentiator is ambition to serve in a difficult context. unit #17
  6. The church's real problem is not unqualified men with outsized ambition but qualified men with no ambition — the opportunity for young, unqualified men exists only because mature, qualified men refuse to step forward. unit #19
  7. A pastor does administrative and practical work the way a father mows lawns — as an extension of love for his family, not as a professional role — because a pastor is to the church what a husband and father is to his household. unit #28
  8. The aim of pastoral ambition is to bring sincere 'dad energy' to the local church — the task of being an overwatcher, a caretaker, a church father. unit #29
  9. What we are looking for in elders is best summarized as 'the enthusiasm of an amateur' — men who pay to do the work they love rather than being paid — and God stirring up this kind of exuberance for serving the church is something to celebrate. unit #32
  10. Being lost means living without a shepherd for your soul — you still face all the dangers and needs of life, but you have no one to guide, protect, and care for you, which is an unbearable condition. unit #35
  11. Jesus endured the cross because he had compassion on people as sheep without a shepherd, and one of the fundamental things he came to do was to become the Shepherd and Overseer of our souls. unit #36
  12. God loves his people so much that he not only sent Jesus to be their Shepherd but also raises up human pastors with enduring, amateur enthusiasm to care for them — this is evidence of God's incredible love. unit #37
Quotations· 1
"Linda did not come to take part. Linda came to take over." — Anonymous commenter (unit #22)
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0 · The pastor reads the primary text aloud, establishing the passage that will govern the entire sermon

Our kids to children's ministry. First Timothy, chapter three. We're going to be reading from verses one through seven. This saying is trustworthy. If anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble task. Therefore, an overseer must be above reproach. The husband of one wife, sober minded, self controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, Not a drunkard, not violent, but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. He must manage his own household well, with all dignity, keeping his children submissive. For if someone who does not know how to manage his own household, for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God's church? He must not be a recent convert, or he may become puffed up with conceit and fall into the condemnation of the devil. Moreover, he must be well thought of by outsiders so that he may not fall into disgrace, into a snare of the devil.

1 · Introduces the sermon's central metaphor: the spiritually burly man

The title for today's sermon is Burley Church Fathers. First and foremost, because puns are awesome. And secondly, because the world needs men who, if not physically burly, because, you know, you all can't be awesome, are at least spiritually burly. Burly means stocky, large, sturdy, slow and steady. And we need burly church folks.

2 · Uses the whippet vs

Fathers, have you ever heard of a whippet? You know what a whippet is? Speaking of old words, a whippet is this little yappy, slender dog that dashes left and right and just dashes all super fast. But it has the disadvantage of needing a sweater as soon as the temperature drops below, like 50. You know, it's this shaking, shivering, little yappy thing, right? You know, we don't need. The church does not need the spiritual equivalent of whippets. The church needs the spiritual equivalent of St. Bernard's and that's really what is presented to us in this passage.

3 · Establishes the sermon's controlling claim about the elder qualifications: they describe an ordinary man made extraordinary only by his soundness

Burleigh Church Fathers, there's really nothing special about the man presented in this passage except his soundness. That should register. There's nothing special about the man presented in this passage except his soundness. He is steady, reliable sound.

4 · Signals a structural decision: the sermon will focus on verse 1 rather than attempt exhaustive treatment of all qualifications

Now, we don't have time to thoroughly exposit this whole passage. And we have a text calendar where we know what we're going to come to the next week, and so on and so forth. And so we have to go to chapter or verse eight next week. So we're not going to be able to cover every single one of these qualifications. The thing with this passage, I soon observed as I began to study, for it is like this is either going to be a 30 minute sermon or a 90 minute sermon, and y' all are like 30, please say 30. It's like that's, that's what we're aiming for. We can't possibly go through each one of these qualifications in a way that they deserve in a single sermon. This is really more of a sermon series than a single sermon. But what we can do this morning is do a decent job of covering the first verse.

5 · Before diving into exegesis, the pastor applies the qualifications list pastorally: it is a prayer guide for wives (praying for husbands), single women (evaluating suitors), and the whole congregation (praying for their pastor)

Now, before we go into that, let me encourage you with a couple of things. First of all, ladies, here is your prayer list for your husband. Single ladies, here is your list for what you're looking for. It is very easy when you're married to someone to begin to overemphasize certain areas of change that you would like to see that are not necessarily wrong, but they just don't hit God's top 10 list. And so here you are praying for number 734, and the Bible gives you a top 10 list. Here's your top 10 list. It's more than 10, by the way. So here's what I want to let you know, ladies, this is your prayer list for your husband. If you're single and looking for a man, this is what you should be looking for. God has just given you a wonderful list of qualities for essential manhood, and that's pretty cool. Secondly, to all of you, this is your prayer list for your pastor. One of the things I've observed over 20 plus years of being a pastor is like, it's one thing to get qualified, it's another thing to stay qualified. You want to understand my life, you can simply think of the devil surrounding every single one of these areas, firing arrows all the time. And so let me ask you this, and I mean very sincere, and I hope you'll do this. Would you at least once a month grab this, sit down with your Bible, grab this little section and just pray for me and ask God. And, you know, and the thing is, we're getting to know each other. You know, it's been six years, you know, you know, some of these things, like, well, Chris was going to struggle with this one, I need to pray extra hard for this one, and so on and so forth. Would you please be diligent when, as God provides you with a pastor to go through this list and ask God to care for you, care for him in these particular ways. So those are two kind of broad things.

Where this fits

Recent preaching context

The three sermons immediately preceding this one in the preaching schedule.

Jun 4, 2023
True spiritual flourishing begins with felt spiritual poverty—a day-to-day desperate dependency on God that shatters the delusion of self-sufficiency and establishes us in the reality of our helpless need for Christ in every moment.
Matthew 5:3
Sep 5, 2023
The subjectivity of the Christian life — conscience, promptings, callings — becomes a terror when not anchored to the objective gospel, but when the heart is settled on Christ's sufficient payment, subjectivity becomes an invitation rather than a threat.
Sep 17, 2023
Gospel-driven everyday godliness within our God-designed gender roles produces undistracted, Christ-centered worship that honors God and advances his kingdom.
1 Timothy 2:8-10
October 1 · This sermon
Elders: Burly Church Fathers
God loves his people so much that he stirs up godly ambition in men to serve as overseers — spiritually burly church fathers who bring steady, dad-like care to the household of God — and the church must both celebrate this ambition and examine it, recognizing that the first qualification for eldership is sincere desire to do the work.
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Memory verse this week

1 Timothy 3:1

The saying is trustworthy: if anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble work.

Why this verse: This verse stands at the heart of the sermon's central claim that the church has neglected the encouragement of godly ambition for pastoral ministry. It directly establishes that aspiring to elder office is not suspect but noble—a stance the sermon argues we must recover and celebrate in our churches.

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Small-group discussion

6 questions for your group this week

  1. The sermon argues that elder qualifications in 1 Timothy 3 describe 'soundness' rather than exceptional ability. What does it mean for a man to be 'steady, reliable, and sound' in the context of leading a church, and how is that different from what our culture typically celebrates as leadership?
    1 Timothy 3:1-7
    → Can you think of an example of someone in our church or community who demonstrates this kind of steadiness without being flashy or exceptional?
  2. Chris Oswald says the church has over-emphasized examination of elder candidates while neglecting the encouragement of godly ambition. What might be the difference between suspicion of someone's motives and healthy questioning, and how do we cultivate one without falling into the other?
    1 Timothy 3:1-13
  3. The sermon identifies two problems in the church: unqualified men serving and qualified men not serving because they lack ambition. Why might the second problem be harder to see and address than the first, and what does that reveal about our culture's approach to leadership?
    → If qualified men are staying on the sidelines, what might be holding them back—and is that fear, humility, or something else?
  4. According to the sermon, David's distinguishing qualification for giant-slaying was not skill or strength but willingness. How does this connect to the elder qualifications, and what does it suggest about the relationship between ambition and readiness?
    1 Samuel 17:26
  5. The sermon teaches that Jesus became our Shepherd because he had compassion on people who were 'sheep without a shepherd'—lost, unguided, unprotected (Matthew 9:36). In what ways do we still experience spiritual lostness today, and how does having human pastors reflect God's continued love and care for us?
    Matthew 9:36
    → What would it look like in your own life if you were to receive pastoral care as an expression of Christ's shepherd love rather than just institutional function?
  6. Chris Oswald describes the ideal pastoral ambition as 'the enthusiasm of an amateur'—men who pay to do the work they love rather than being paid for professional duties. How does viewing pastoral work as an extension of fatherly love rather than a professional role change the kind of person we should be seeking as leaders?
    1 Timothy 3:13
    → If you sense God stirring in you a desire to shepherd others in the church, what would it look like to pursue that ambition from a place of grace rather than striving?
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Daily readings · Monday–Friday

5-day reading plan

This week we trace the gospel foundation for pastoral ambition: from the shepherd-hunger built into our souls, through Christ's compassionate call to care, to the grace that stirs up godly men to step forward and serve.

Monday Matthew 9:36

When Jesus saw the crowds, his bowels moved with compassion—not pity from a distance, but the visceral ache of one who sees his people defenseless and scattered. This is the heart that drove him to the cross. Our ambition for pastoral ministry, when rooted in gospel compassion for sheep without a shepherd, reflects the very heartbeat of Christ's redemptive work.

Tuesday 1 Peter 2:25

We were like sheep going astray, but now we have returned to the Shepherd and Overseer of our souls—and through him, to undershepherds who carry his care into our local gatherings. That God would entrust his beloved people to faithful human pastors is not Plan B; it is a stunning display of his covenant love for us, his sheep.

Wednesday 1 Samuel 17:26

David asked not "Am I the most skilled?" but "Who is this uncircumcised Philistine that he should defy the armies of the living God?" His qualification was willingness wrapped in faith. Similarly, the man who steps forward to shepherd the church needs no exceptional gifts—only the willingness to stand in the gap, to care, to watch over souls.

Thursday Isaiah 53:6

We all, like sheep, have gone astray—scattered, vulnerable, without direction or protection. Into this lostness Christ came as the Shepherd. And because his work is redemptive and relational, he raises up men in the church who carry forward his shepherding love, reminding us we are not orphaned or abandoned but cared for and watched over.

Friday 1 Timothy 3:13

Those who serve well as deacons gain great confidence in the faith—and the same is true for elders who shepherd with integrity and care. Our calling this week is to celebrate the men among us stirred by grace to step forward, to commission them with joy, and to reject any culture of suspicion that would shame ambition for Christ's flock. In doing so, we honor Christ's own heart for his sheep.

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Pray together this week

A Prayer for Willing Shepherds

Father, we come before you with gratitude for the Shepherd who laid down his life for us. We marvel at Jesus, who saw the crowds as sheep without a shepherd and moved with such compassion that he endured the cross to become the Overseer of our souls (Matthew 9:36; 1 Peter 2:25). We thank you that in your love, you have not left us as orphans, but have raised up human pastors — ordinary men with steadiness and soundness — to care for us in the local church.

We confess that we have sometimes looked with suspicion on godly ambition, resenting those who step forward to serve when others remain silent. We have made the burden of leadership feel heavier by questioning the motives of willing men rather than celebrating their willingness. We acknowledge too that many of us who possess the maturity and character to lead have allowed cowardice to masquerade as humility, projecting our unwillingness onto those brave enough to answer the call. Forgive us for these failures of faith and love.

Yet in the gospel we have freedom and courage. Christ's finished work has humbled us, stripped away our pretense, and filled us with gratitude — the very posture from which true service flows. The gospel assures us that sincere desire to shepherd your people is not something to fear but to celebrate as evidence of your Spirit's work. We see in David and in the elder qualifications of 1 Timothy 3 that you look not for the exceptional but for the willing — men of normal Christian maturity who burn with amateur enthusiasm to love your people as fathers love their own households.

Stir up in us, we pray, a culture of celebration for godly ambition. Grant us the courage to step forward if you are calling us to lead. Give us the grace to encourage and support those men you raise up as shepherds. And guard our hearts from suspicion and resentment, that we might instead join the rejoicing when you gift the church with men who pay the price to do the work they love. We commit ourselves to honor and pray for the elders you have given us, trusting that their care for us is evidence of your immeasurable love. To you alone be glory, now and forever.

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Sunday-evening family table

Who Will Be Dad to the Church?

For the parent

This sermon emphasized that pastors aren't super-spiritual supermen—they're steady, reliable men who step forward to care for the church like a father cares for his family. Use this prompt to help your family think about what it means to shepherd others and why we need people willing to do hard, humble work.

In the sermon, Chris said a pastor is to the church what a dad is to his family. Think about the ways your dad (or a dad you know) takes care of his family—things like fixing things, protecting them, paying attention to what they need. Why do you think the church needs someone to do that kind of caring, and what would happen if nobody was willing to step into that role?
works for ages 8+
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Couples · three questions over coffee

Ambition, Shepherding, and Us

  1. The sermon challenges the church's suspicion of godly ambition — what stirred in your heart as you heard that the problem isn't unqualified men eager to serve, but qualified men unwilling to step forward?
  2. How do we as a couple tend to respond when someone we know expresses genuine desire to lead or serve in a difficult context — do we celebrate it, or do we find ourselves skeptical or resentful?
  3. Jesus became our Shepherd because he had compassion on us as sheep without a shepherd — how can we pray for one another to grow in that same pastoral heart toward the people God has placed in our lives?
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