A Call to Pray for Communion

Ephesians 3:14-21 Pastor Chris Oswald
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Thesis Believers should make prayer for communion with Christ—experiencing the personal nature of God's love through Spirit-empowered, Scripture-shaped petition—a continual priority in their devotional lives.
Series
A Call to Pray
Type
Expository
Tone
pastoraldidactic
Method
grammatical-historicalcanonicalapplicatory
What's in this sermon

The shape of the argument

25 units across exposition, application, illustration, theological claim, and conclusion. The pastor's argument is built from these moving parts.

Pastoral correction · unit #17
"The unit applies the theological teaching to the congregation's prayer life, diagnosing why believers fail to experience communion: they don't fight for it through prayer. The pastor uses self-deprecating humor (his morning disorientation) to acknowledge human weakness and indwelling sin, then issues a direct challenge: if your prayers don't look like Paul's prayer in Ephesians 3, you're not really seeking communion. The application is convicting, calling believers not to resign themselves to 'cold metallic assent' but to fight for experiential knowledge of God's love."
Doctrinal loci· 12 surfaced
Pneumatology · 12 Christology · 9 Sanctification · 7 Theology Proper · 7 Bibliology · 5 Ecclesiology · 4 Anthropology · 2 Doxology / Worship · 2 Eschatology · 2 Hamartiology · 2 Soteriology · 2 Pastoral Theology · 1
Bible citations· 18
1 John 3:2 | Ephesians 3:14-21 | Ephesians 3:14-16 | Ephesians 3:16 | Ephesians 3:16-17 | Ephesians 3:17 | Ephesians 3:12 | Galatians 4:6 | Matthew 27:46 | Ephesians 3:17-19 | 1 Peter 1:8 | Ephesians 3:19 | Ephesians 1:16-19 | Ephesians 3:20-21
Illustrations· 3
  1. The Baseball Prayer personal story · unit #7 — The pastor tells a cautionary story of a well-meaning pastor who misapplied Ephesians 3:16 to anxiety and performance (specifically, baseball hitting slumps), illustrating a common misunderstanding of what it means to pray for strength in the inner being. The illustration serves as a contrast to set up the correct interpretation: Paul's prayer is not about improving performance in earthly tasks but about spiritual capacity to experience Christ.
  2. The Difference Between Moving In and Dwelling analogy · unit #10 — The unit develops an extended analogy drawn from D.A. Carson: the difference between moving into a house and truly dwelling in it through renovation. Just as new homeowners take up residence but then renovate a fixer-upper over time, transforming it into their own dwelling, so Christ takes up residence in believers' hearts at conversion and then progressively renovates them through ongoing communion.
  3. A Father's Sunday Welcome personal story · unit #12 — The pastor illustrates bold, confident access to God through a personal story of his son Lincoln running to him after church, calling 'Daddy!' and embracing him. This father-son reunion models the kind of unguarded, joyful confidence believers should have in approaching God in prayer, as described in Galatians 4:6 ('Abba! Father!').
Theological claims· 8
  1. The communion believers share with one another is made possible by and dependent upon their individual communion with Christ, making personal prayer for communion with Jesus foundational to all corporate fellowship. unit #1
  2. God created humanity to enjoy and delight in Him—to participate in the eternal mutual delight of the Trinity—and believers are called through prayer to experience a foretaste of the beatific vision now, even as we await its full realization at Christ's return. unit #2
  3. Jesus endured the one moment in the New Testament where He could not call God 'Father'—His cry of forsakenness on the cross—so that believers could have permanent access to call upon God as Father and know His fatherly love in Christ. unit #13
  4. Communion with Christ is not a rare, exceptional experience but exists on a spectrum from mountaintop encounters to quieter moments when the Spirit bears witness, and the Christian life should be characterized by conscious reciprocal love rather than cold metallic assent. unit #16
  5. Communion with God is not reserved for the intellectually gifted but depends on the Spirit's revelation, which is why believers must pray with the Scriptures open before them to have their hearts enlightened. unit #19
  6. The new life in Christ must be nourished and strengthened, and this is possible only in communion with Christ through the Holy Spirit and the word of Scripture. unit #20
  7. Deep communion with God happens through God's words because Scripture is God's personal active presence invested with His character, and when believers pray Scripture, they encounter God Himself through the ordinary means of grace. unit #21
  8. The end goal of praying for communion is that believers would be filled with all the fullness of God, experiencing conscious, reciprocal love with Him for all eternity. unit #22
Quotations· 5
"How good is God that he has created man for this very end. To make him happy. That is man, to make man happy in the enjoyment of himself, the Almighty, who is happy from the days of eternity in himself, that he might make them blessed in the beholding of his excellency and might this way glorify himself." — Jonathan Edwards (unit #2)
"In one sense, The whole object of being a Christian is that you may know the love of Jesus Christ, his personal love to you, that he may tell you in unmistakable language that he loves you, that he has given himself for you, that he has loved you with an everlasting love. He does this through the Spirit. He seals all his statements to you through the Spirit. You believe it because it is in the word. But there is more than that. He will tell you this directly as a great secret. The Spirit gives manifestations of the Son of God to His own, to His beloved, to those for whom He has gladly died and given Himself." — Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones (unit #14)
"The life of faith is a living union and communion with the exalted and ever-present Redeemer. He communes with his people and his people commune with him in conscious, reciprocal love. The life of true faith cannot be that of cold metallic assent. It must be the passion and warmth of love and communion, because communion with God is the crown and the apex of true religion." — John Murray (unit #16)
"The new life in Christ, just like all natural life, must be nourished and strengthened. This is possible only in communion with Christ, in the Holy Spirit, and through the word of Scripture. Enlightened by the Spirit, believers gain a new knowledge of faith. The gospel is the food of faith and must be known to be nourishment. Salvation that is not known and enjoyed beyond mere metallic assent—salvation that is not known and enjoyed is no salvation. God saves by causing himself to be known and enjoyed in Christ." — Herman Bavinck (unit #21)
"God communes with his people and his people commune with him in conscious, reciprocal love." — John Murray (unit #24)
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0 · The introduction locates the sermon within the "A Call to Pray" series, distinguishing this message from previous sermons on corporate prayer (for God's glory and mission) by introducing the topic of communion—prayer for personal, intimate fellowship with God that, while having corporate dimensions, is essential to individual devotional life

with me this morning to Ephesians 3. Ephesians 3, we're continuing in our series, "A Call to Pray." We're looking at verses 14-21 this morning. Now to this point in our series, "A Call to Pray," we've looked at prayers that in some ways you could view as prayers that have an especially corporate bent to them. We talked about a call to pray for God's glory and a call to pray for mission. So when I say they have a corporate bent, that's not to say they're exclusively corporate prayers. These aren't prayers you're supposed to pray alone just between you and God, but they are prayers that have an opportunity for us to join as the church gathered and to call out like we did this morning in the pastoral prayer that God would receive glory. And so many of the Psalms are written that way, aren't they? That as the people gather, the Psalm is written the gathered people of God would call upon the Lord to receive His glory. Or that the church would gather and that the church would pray for mission. We saw that last week in Acts, right? The church in Antioch gathering to pray, and as they gather to pray, the Spirit informs them, "You got to set apart your two best to send them out for My work." So we see especially corporate elements to that. This morning, I think that balance shifts though ever so slightly to a type of prayer that has corporate elements. It's a prayer that we would and do pray corporately, but a prayer that is really essential to an individual, to a believer's personal life of prayer. This morning we're looking at a call to pray for communion.

1 · The unit clarifies the meaning of 'communion'—not the sacrament but intimate fellowship with the Triune God—and establishes a theological foundation: while corporate prayer expresses visible unity in Christ, the communion believers share with one another is made possible only by their individual union with Christ, making personal communion with Jesus the essential foundation

Now I'm not talking about a call to pray for the Lord's Supper. I'm talking about a call to pray for communion with God. A call to pray for your relationship, the intimacy of your fellowship with the Triune God, with especially God in Christ Jesus. One of the most important parts of corporate prayer, whether on Sunday mornings as the congregation gathers or in our care groups as the congregation scatters, one of the great things that corporate prayer does, when we pray corporately, it gives us a visible expression of the unity that we have together in Christ. The fact that we people who live in all these different homes, when we gather and when we pray as we're gathered, we express the fact that we have a union together in the Lord Jesus, right? That's part of what happens when we're with one another. But our faith isn't meant to be an exclusively me and Jesus experience, and we see that as we come together as the body. That's why Paul calls us members of one another. We have in our common faith a communion with each other. It's why fellowship is so important, why Scripture warns about people who neglect to meet together with other believers, and prayer is an essential ingredient of that. Having said that though, the union, the communion, and the fellowship that we experience with each other as significant as it is, right, that should never replace the communion that we're called to have with the Lord Jesus personally. In fact, the latter, the communion that we have with Jesus personally, that's what makes the former possible. The only reason we can gather here this morning and have a union with one another is because we individually have been united with Christ. And part of what we talk about in a call to pray for communion is to recognize that and to press into that, to seek to experience that at deeper, more meaningful levels. And part of our prayer life is to crucially work towards that, to make that a priority.

2 · The unit establishes the theological foundation for communion with God by appealing to Edwards's doctrine of the beatific vision: humanity was created to enjoy God because the Trinity has been delighting in itself for eternity

Jonathan Edwards is probably America's greatest theologian, the greatest theological mind the United States has ever produced, that's really not even up for debate. He talks about this, and he talks about the sublime importance of what that means, and he says a really profound thing. He says, "How good is God that he has created man for this very end." How good is God that this is why he made us. To make him happy. That is man, to make man happy in the enjoyment of himself, the Almighty, who is happy from the days of eternity in himself, that he might make them blessed in the beholding of his excellency and might this way glorify himself. Now, that's a little bit of a complex thought, right? What Edwards is saying is we were created to experience God and to enjoy God. And the reason why God created us to enjoy God is because that's what God has been doing for all of eternity. He's been enjoying himself. Now that's a strange thought, isn't it? But that's part of the beauty of the Trinity, is the Father, Son, and the Spirit for all eternity have been delighting in each other. And if they'd been delighting most supremely in anything but themselves, it'd be idolatry. Because there's nothing more worthy of delight. And so Edward says that's one of the most incredible things about God's graciousness to us is He makes us so that we can enjoy that. So that we can enter into that. The technical name for that is the beatific vision. The Father beholding and rejoicing and delighting in the Son for all eternity. But God wants all of us, His adopted children, to experience that. He wants us to enter into that, to participate in God's delight in being God. God wants His children to enjoy communion with Christ just as He enjoys communion with Christ. Now the promise of Scripture is that there's a day coming, right, when the Lord returns when we're gonna see Jesus face to face. We'll see Him face to face, and as 1 John 3:2 says, we'll see Jesus as He is. But until that day, we're called, we're invited to a foretaste of that communion, and we're called to that foretaste of communion through prayer.

3 · The preacher reads the primary text, Ephesians 3:14-21, in full, presenting Paul's prayer as the scriptural foundation for the sermon's teaching on communion with God

Look with me at Ephesians 3. Hear God's holy and authoritative word. For this reason I bow my knees before the Father, from whom every family in heaven and on earth is named, that according to the riches of his glory he may grant you to be strengthened with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. That you, being rooted and grounded in love, may have strength to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God. Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever. Amen. The word of the Lord. May He write its truth upon our hearts.

4 · The pastor prays, echoing the language of Ephesians 3:14-21, asking God to do what Paul prays for—to strengthen the congregation by the Spirit, to grant them comprehension of Christ's love, to stir up both spiritual sight and prayerfulness in the preaching that follows

Oh Father, we want to join our prayer with Paul's prayers. We come before You, Lord. We ask that according to the riches of Your glory, You would grant us to be strengthened with power through Your Spirit in our inner being Because we want to see Jesus. We want to comprehend your love for us in Christ. We want to know more accurately the texture of that love, the nature of that love. We want Jesus to take up residence in our hearts. We want to know all of your fullness. So now, Father, in the preaching of your word, would you stir that up in us? Would you stir up a sight of what Paul describes, but also, Lord, would you stir up prayerfulness, Lord, a desire to do as Paul does, to call on you and to pray and ask that you would do these things. We pray this in the name of your Son, Jesus. Amen.

5 · The pastor acknowledges the abstract theological nature of the introduction and pivots to the practical question the congregation is likely asking: how does one actually experience this kind of communion with God in prayer?

Well, I'll admit we've had a little bit of a heady introduction talking about Edwards and the beatific vision, to be caught up beholding and delighting in the beauty of God. If you were tracking through all of that, your next conclusion is maybe, that's pretty incredible stuff. I have no idea how that happens. How does one go about doing that? What does that look like? I mean, is there a special posture in prayer that like Edwards recommends, like a yoga pose that you get into when you pray like that, that allows you to see those sorts of things? How do you do that?

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