Walking Side by Side

Philippians 1:27 December 2, 2018 Pastor Chris Oswald
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Thesis Christians must resist cultural individualism and commit to walking side by side with other believers in unity of heart, mind, and purpose, because this uncommon unity is the only way to accomplish uncommon good and fulfill the church's mission of advancing the gospel.
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What's in this sermon

The shape of the argument

42 units across exposition, application, illustration, theological claim, and conclusion. The pastor's argument is built from these moving parts.

Pastoral correction · unit #16
"Addresses listeners who lack warm affections for the church, instructing them to act on their affections rather than from them—practicing gratitude and joy as children practice adulthood, trusting God to eventually supply the feelings."
Doctrinal loci· 12 surfaced
Ecclesiology · 32 Sanctification · 13 Christology · 4 Eschatology · 2 Hamartiology · 2 Pastoral Theology · 2 Providence / Sovereignty · 2 Bibliology · 1 Doxology / Worship · 1 Ethics / Moral Theology · 1 Soteriology · 1 Theology Proper · 1
Bible citations· 27
Philippians 1:27 | Philippians 1:3 | Philippians 1:3-5 | Hebrews 10:24 | Hebrews 3:12-13 | Philippians 1:4 | Philippians 1:8 | Philippians 4 | Philippians 1:5 | Philippians 1:6-14 | Philippians 1:9-11 | Philippians 1:6 | Philippians 1:12-21 | Philippians 1:12-18 | Romans 8:28 | Philippians 1:22 | Philippians 1:21-26 | Philippians 1:25-27 | Philippians 2:1-11
Illustrations· 4
  1. Christianity's Historic Contributions cultural reference · unit #2 — Uses C.S. Lewis's historical survey of Christianity's cultural contributions—preserving civilization, caring for the sick, blessing marriage, fostering art—to establish that Christians are known for what they do, not merely what they avoid.
  2. Natural Reactions vs. Grateful Remembrance hypothetical · unit #11 — Contrasts natural responses to difficult people—elevated heart rate at their name—with Paul's choice to remember the Philippians with gratitude, identifying four sub-practices: frequent remembrance, frequent prayer, affectionate response, gratitude for loyalty.
  3. The Clarity of Twenty-Something Criticism personal story · unit #19 — Uses the experience of parenting adult children to illustrate how young adults can critique their parents' mistakes without recognizing that those mistakes were only possible because of long-term commitment—if parents had bailed, their record would be cleaner.
  4. Walking Side by Side Despite the Pain analogy · unit #24 — Vivid image of church unity: locked arms with rough edges—burrs, glass, metal—hurting each other while asking each other to stick it out.
Theological claims· 10
  1. Christianity's historic cultural contributions have emerged from people walking side by side in unity, and modern individualism threatens the church's capacity to do good. unit #5
  2. The secret to Christianity's cultural impact is uncommon unity that produces uncommon good, and without this unity, future generations will see no evidence of Christian faithfulness. unit #6
  3. Walking side by side with other believers is harder today than ever because cultural benefits have evaporated, leaving only scriptural conviction and the challenge of sinners walking with sinners. unit #8
  4. A church culture changes when a critical mass of people begin bringing the church into their daily minds and obeying Hebrews 3:12-13 and 10:24. unit #13
  5. Enduring the pain of walking side by side with unfinished people requires confidence that God will finish the sanctifying work He started. unit #25
  6. The church's unity is only as strong as its mission, and the gospel is antifragile—it grows stronger through opposition, making it the strongest possible unifying mission. unit #28
  7. You cannot love without giving, and when faithfulness costs you the most, you make the most difference. unit #34
  8. A church of fully-committed people calling each other to hard things over time produces clear cultural impact, while a church of low-commitment people cannot. unit #37
  9. Pursuing harmony through painful humility is the heart of the Christian faith—this is what Christians do. unit #38
  10. Philippians 1:27's call to unity is supported on both sides by examples—Paul's in chapter 1 and Christ's in chapter 2. unit #40
Quotations· 2
"Christianity, the church rather, has been an agent which preserved secular civilization as it survived the fall of the Roman Empire." — C.S. Lewis (unit #2)
"Some things benefit from shocks. They thrive and grow when exposed to volatility, randomness, disorder, and stressors. These things love adventure, risk, and uncertainty. They build on them. They become stronger because of them." — Nassim Taleb (unit #28)
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0 · Opening prayer invoking God's presence and asking for blessing on the reading and teaching of Scripture

Let's pray. Oh great God of highest heaven, you have in your gospel promised to occupy our lowly hearts. We praise you that you are meeting us here, Lord, in all of your transcendence. You are imminent, you are here, and we ask, God, that you would make us sense that and enjoy your presence today. God bless us as we open your word. Open our hearts to you as we open your word. In Jesus' name we pray, amen.

1 · Transition from opening prayer into sermon proper, directing congregation to Philippians 1:27 and introducing the framing question: What do Christians do?

Kiddos can be dismissed to children's ministry, and as you're grabbing your seat, you can open your Bibles if you would to the book of Philippians, and we'll be looking to begin with at verse 27. Philippians 1, verse 27. That was an unusually vocal departure of the kids today. Something was going on, I don't know what, but love our kids. So I want to ask this morning, I want to solve a problem with you this morning and just start by asking a question. What do Christians do? What do Christians do?

2 · Uses C

I think if you were to just go out and ask the average income poop in the world, they would probably tell you that, you know, what Christians don't do is what preeminently reigns in their mind, all the things that Christians don't do. But I think if you were to ask a smart person, a person with some kind of historical awareness, they might be able to say, even if they themselves were not Christians, they might be able to list things that Christians traditionally do, things that Christians do, not simply don't do. Back in the 1940s, C.S. Lewis was asked to write a letter or an essay for a medical, for a hospital in Ireland. And one of the things he says in this essay, it's called 'Some Thoughts,' that's the name of the essay. One of the things he says in this essay is that he supposes that in some respects, a hospital is the most naturally Christian structure, the most naturally Christian building. That one could build, because it's just so— the idea of medical care is so consistent, congruent with the idea of what we're called to do as Christians. And he went on in that essay to talk about all of the various things you could talk about related to what Christians do. He says that Christianity, the church rather, has been an agent which preserved secular civilization as it survived the fall of the Roman Empire. I don't know if you know that, but, you know, it was really the church that kept civilization intact as the Roman Empire dissolved. He says that it is really to Christianity that Europe owes its cultural or civilizational salvation, and he says that in those perilous ages of civilized agriculture and architecture and laws and even literacy itself were preserved by the church. The same religion has always been healing and caring for the sick and the poor, And it has blessed marriage more than any other institution. And art and philosophy tend to flourish in its neighborhood. He goes on and lists all of these things that Christians do, that Christians have done historically.

3 · Pivots from Christianity's historical accomplishments to the deeper question of the root behavior that enables all those accomplishments, directing focus to Philippians 1:27

I want to think a little deeper and just ask, what's the root behavior that goes even deeper than that? What's the thing that we must do in order to do all these great things? We are, as I say often, rich kids. We get so many privileges. We get to do so many things, so many exciting and wonderful things. Our involvement with men in other countries sharing the gospel in very hostile places, that's a privilege. It's a privilege for us to do that. You know, there's so many privileges, so many opportunities. But I want to talk today about the thing we must do in order to be able to do those things, and that's found in Philippians Chapter 1, verse 27.

4 · Establishes the historical and relational context of Philippians, then reads Philippians 1:27, the sermon's primary text, which commands a life worthy of the gospel characterized by unity and courage

Just as a reminder, Paul's writing this letter in prison. This is considered to be one of his most personal, familiar letters. I would say that it's not a stretch to say that Paul had a relationship with the Philippian church he did not have with any other church, that this was in some respects, in Paul's heart anyway, his sort of home church. Somehow in his affections, this church is special. This is what we must do in order to be able to do all of these amazing things. Verse 27, only let your manner of life be worthy of the gospel of Christ, so that whether I come and see you or am absent, I may hear of you that you are standing firm in one spirit, with one mind, striving side by side for the faith of the gospel, and not frightened in anything by your opponents. This is a clear sign to them of their destruction, but of your salvation and that from God.

5 · Asserts that unity—standing firm in one spirit, striving side by side—is the prerequisite for all Christian cultural good, and that modern individualism threatens this foundational practice more severely than any previous culture

So what we must do in order to do all these other things is we must live a life worthy of the gospel, and we must stand firm in one spirit with one mind, striving side by side for the faith of the gospel. If we don't do that, we can't do anything else. If we don't walk in this way together, We can't do anything else. One of the basic realities we've all got to accept is that our culture is more individualistic and that we are wired more individualistically than any other people in, I think, the history of the world. I don't think it would be a stretch to say that we are more individualistically wired than any other people in the history of the world. And the core contribution of Christianity to the world has has come through people locked arms, walking side by side for long periods of time. So the biggest dents, and dents is the wrong word because they've been great things, the greatest gardens the church has planted in the world over the last 2,000 years have come because people did not have that individualistic instinct. Rather, they locked arms and walked side by side moving forward. And that the more we listen to this individualistic sense ability that comes from our culture right now, the less good we will do. Simple as that. The less we will accomplish, the less good we will do.

Where this fits

Recent preaching context

The three sermons immediately preceding this one in the preaching schedule.

Oct 28, 2018
Biblical worship requires creating space for Spirit-prompted congregational contributions during corporate gatherings, because the Holy Spirit gives speech to all believers for the common good, not just to ordained leaders.
Acts 2
Nov 11, 2018
Lasting change in human lives comes not from inner goodness, moral evolution, or human willpower, but from the sovereign work of God—displayed primarily as salvation—which is accessed through prayer, hard conversations, the work of the Holy Spirit, and face-to-face encounter with Jesus.
Acts 2:36-39
Nov 25, 2018
The believer's reward in Christ is more dire than we imagine in its necessity, more miraculous than we imagine in its accomplishment, and more satisfying than we imagine in its present and future reality — secured by Jesus' redemptive work on the cross.
Isaiah 35:1-10
December 2 · This sermon
Walking Side by Side
Christians must resist cultural individualism and commit to walking side by side with other believers in unity of heart, mind, and purpose, because this uncommon unity is the only way to accomplish uncommon good and fulfill the church's mission of advancing the gospel.
Philippians 1:27
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Discuss · apply · pray

Small-group discussion

6 questions for your group this week

  1. What does Paul mean when he calls the Philippians to 'conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ' (Philippians 1:27)? What would that look like in concrete terms for a local church today?
    Philippians 1:27
    → The sermon suggests that uncommon unity produces uncommon good. Can you think of a specific example—either from history or your own experience—where Christians walking together accomplished something they could not have accomplished alone?
  2. According to the sermon, what is the fallen condition that modern individualism has created in the church, and why does this threaten our mission?
    → How do you see this individualism showing up in your own thinking or choices as a believer?
  3. Paul models three commitments in Philippians 1: gratitude for the church, hope for the church's sanctification, and faithfulness to the church even when costly. Which of these three comes most naturally to you, and which one requires the most grace?
    Philippians 1:3-5; Philippians 1:6; Philippians 1:21-26
  4. The sermon argues that walking side by side with other believers is 'harder today than ever' because we can no longer rely on cultural benefits—only on scriptural conviction. What does it actually mean to choose unity with imperfect people based solely on gospel conviction rather than convenience?
    Hebrews 3:12-13
  5. In Philippians 1:6, Paul expresses confidence that God will 'complete the good work he began in you.' How does this gospel promise address the pain we experience when walking side by side with other believers who are clearly unfinished and still growing?
    Philippians 1:6; Romans 8:28
    → What would change in how you relate to your small group or church community if you truly believed this promise about God's faithfulness to finish His sanctifying work?
  6. The sermon concludes that 'pursuing harmony through painful humility is the heart of the Christian faith.' Looking at Philippians 2:1-11 and Christ's example of self-emptying service, what does it practically cost you to pursue unity with others this week, and where do you need Christ's grace to enable that sacrifice?
    Philippians 2:1-11
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Daily readings · Monday–Friday

5-day reading plan

This week we trace Paul's call to gospel unity through the lens of his own faithfulness, Christ's self-emptying example, and the practical disciplines that sustain uncommon togetherness across a divided age.

Monday Philippians 1:3-5

Paul's gratitude for the Philippians' partnership in the gospel (koinonia) shows us what sustained their uncommon impact: shared participation in Christ's mission, not individual achievement. When we bring the church into our daily minds—remembering our brothers and sisters in prayer and purpose—we position ourselves within the same tradition that changed civilizations. The gospel advances not through solitary virtue but through the vibrant interdependence of believers standing together.

Tuesday Philippians 2:1-11

Christ's self-emptying descent—the supreme model of unity-making—shows us that uncommon good flows from uncommon humility. Paul's call to have this mind among us (v. 5) is not sentimental; it demands the costly relinquishment of our rights and preferences so that the body might move as one. We are compelled by grace to lay down our agendas at the foot of the cross, following our Lord's example of sacrificial love.

Wednesday Hebrews 3:12-13

The writer of Hebrews commands us to exhort one another daily, lest anyone be hardened by sin's deceitfulness—a charge that assumes we are responsible for each other's spiritual vigilance. This is the machinery of sanctification: not individual introspection alone, but the persistent, loving accountability of believers who have committed to walk side by side. When we embrace this role, we become instruments of the Holy Spirit's transforming work in the lives of those closest to us.

Thursday Romans 8:28

God works all things—including the friction, disappointment, and slowness of our brothers' and sisters' growth—together for our good and for their ultimate conformity to Christ. This promise frees us from the tyranny of expecting perfection from sinners and releases us to patience and grace. When we believe that God is faithfully completing His work in the church despite our present struggles, we gain the courage to remain committed through the hardest seasons of shared life.

Friday Hebrews 10:24

The command to 'consider how to stir up one another to love and good works' calls us to active, deliberate investment in each other's growth—the kind that requires our time, attention, and often our comfort. This is costly discipleship: speaking hard truths, bearing witness to conviction, standing firm when standing alone would be easier. Yet this is precisely the measure of our love and the secret to the church's antifragile mission: faithfulness that costs everything produces cultural impact that lasts generations.

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Pray together this week

Walking Side by Side in Gospel Unity

Father, we adore You for the immeasurable grace that has bound us together as one body, called to walk side by side in the gospel. We marvel at Your design—that the church's uncommon unity produces uncommon good in the world, and that You accomplish Your purposes not through isolated individuals but through communities of believers pursuing Christ together (Philippians 1:27).

We confess that we are bent toward individualism, often protecting our comfort and independence rather than embracing the costly work of unity with one another. We acknowledge, with pastoral honesty, that walking with unfinished people—sinners alongside sinners—is harder today than ever, stripped of cultural benefit and sustained only by scriptural conviction. We have wandered into patterns of low commitment when the gospel calls us to high faithfulness. We have hesitated to call one another to hard things, and in that hesitation, we have dimmed our corporate witness.

Yet in the gospel, we have everything we need. Christ Himself demonstrated the heart of our faith—pursuing harmony through painful humility, emptying Himself for our sake (Philippians 2:1-11). The gospel humbles us as we grasp this substitutionary love, and it fills us with gratitude that compels us to give ourselves for one another, just as He gave Himself for us. The work of sanctification is God's alone to complete (Philippians 1:6), and we are freed from the burden of perfection to embrace the joy of faithful partnership.

Grant us, O Lord, the grace to bring the church into our daily minds and to exhort one another toward obedience (Hebrews 3:12-13, 10:24). Give us courage to walk side by side with believers in our local church, to endure the pain of unity with unfinished people, confident in Your faithful work. When faithfulness costs us the most, help us remember that we make the most difference (Philippians 1:21-26). Raise up in us a critical mass of commitment so that our church culture becomes a testimony to the antifragile gospel—a community so bound together in Christ's mission that we cannot fail.

May we pursue this uncommon unity, not as burden but as the natural response to grace. To You, O God, who works all things together for the advancement of the gospel through Your people, be glory and dominion forever.

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Sunday-evening family table

Walking Side by Side

For the parent

This prompt invites your family to think concretely about what it means to stick together as believers, rather than go it alone. Listen for moments when kids recognize that doing hard things gets easier—and better—when we do them together with others in our church.

Pastor Chris talked about how the early church did amazing things—they took care of sick people, they blessed marriages, they changed their communities—all because believers walked side by side together instead of each trying to do good alone. Can you think of one hard thing that would be easier or better if our church family did it together instead of by ourselves? What would that look like?
Works for ages 7+; younger children may need examples ('like visiting someone who's lonely, or helping a neighbor') to get started
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Couples · three questions over coffee

Walking Side by Side

  1. What did you hear about unity in the sermon that stirred your heart—and where do you sense the pull of individualism in your own life right now?
  2. Where have we as a couple drifted toward pursuing comfort or ease rather than the costly faithfulness that produces real gospel impact—and what would it look like to walk side by side toward that harder thing together?
  3. What is one area where you need the church (or need me) to call you toward greater Christlikeness, and how can we pray for each other to endure that sanctifying work with joy?
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Memory verse this week

Philippians 1:27

Only let your manner of life be worthy of the gospel of Christ, so that whether I come and see you or am absent, I may hear of you that you are standing firm in one spirit, with one mind striving side by side for the faith of the gospel.

Why this verse: This is the sermon's explicit thesis: the command to live worthily of the gospel through unified, side-by-side commitment with other believers. Memorizing this verse anchors the conviction that uncommon unity—not individualism—is the church's calling and the means by which the gospel advances with power in the world.

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