Your Truth, My Truth, God's Honest Truth

Titus 1:1-4 March 1, 2026 Pastor Ricky Alcantar
Thesis The church must ground itself in God's objective, eternal truth rather than the subjective, personalized 'truth' of contemporary culture, allowing that truth to reshape identity and priorities around the gospel's eternal significance.
Series
Frontera Church
Type
Expository
Tone
didacticpastoralprophetic
Method
grammatical-historicalapplicatorycanonical
What's in this sermon

The shape of the argument

42 units across exposition, application, illustration, theological claim, and conclusion. The pastor's argument is built from these moving parts.

Pastoral correction · unit #9
"The pastor prosecutes American culture with two concrete examples: dating profiles and resumes. Americans claim to value truth but routinely shade, massage, and distort it. This is not abstract—it's how we live. The congregation cannot distance themselves from the Cretan problem; we share it."
Doctrinal loci· 13 surfaced
Soteriology · 10 Ecclesiology · 9 Anthropology · 7 Bibliology · 7 Eschatology · 5 Sanctification · 5 Ethics / Moral Theology · 3 Theology Proper · 3 Christology · 2 Hamartiology · 2 Spiritual Warfare · 2 Pastoral Theology · 1 Providence / Sovereignty · 1
Bible citations· 18
Titus 1:1-4 | Titus 1:12 | Acts 2 | Titus 1:2-3 | Titus 1:1 | Titus 1:2 | 1 Corinthians 6 | Matthew 28 | Mark 5 | Acts 1 | Titus 1:1-3 | 1 Corinthians 15
Illustrations· 5
  1. personal story · unit #8 — A missionary's testimony illustrates that Crete's problem is not unique—many cultures struggle with truth-telling, and for new believers, learning to tell the truth consistently is often the hardest domino to fall. This makes the ancient issue tangible and relatable.
  2. analogy · unit #20 — The pastor draws an analogy between military/fire academy training and Christian identity. The head-shaving ritual and involuntary deployment orders illustrate what it means to no longer belong to yourself. This makes the theological concept visceral and relatable, especially for listeners with military/academy experience.
  3. personal story · unit #23 — A personal story about a consular officer whose identity carries 24/7 weight—tipping, driving, all of it reflects his official status. The illustration makes the 'sent one' identity concrete: your Christian identity isn't compartmentalized; it follows you everywhere.
  4. personal story · unit #26 — The pastor uses childhood career dreams (shifting constantly from firefighter to astronaut to banker) as an analogy for how unreliable our self-knowledge is. His own shift from aspiring lawyer to pastor serves as testimony. The punchline: God's purposes are better, eternal, and worth trusting.
  5. personal story · unit #36 — The beloved Pontiac Vibe becomes an extended metaphor for priority clarification. The move to D.C. with only what fits in the car forced hard decisions: what matters enough to take? The constraint clarified what was essential. This makes the theological principle visceral and relatable.
Theological claims· 8
  1. American culture has adopted an anti-foundational epistemology in which truth is subjective and personalized rather than objective and external. unit #10
  2. In a truer and more eternal way than military service, Paul's Christian identity means he is no longer his own—he goes where Christ sends him, not where he prefers. unit #21
  3. Christian identity is reshaped not by asking 'Who do I want to be?' but 'Who is the Lord and what has He done for me?'—the Lord recenters who we are. unit #24
  4. God knows you better than you know yourself and has purposes for your life—submitting to His design for your identity is not harsh but wise. unit #25
  5. Paul's priorities are governed by the principle that the eternal takes precedence over the temporal. unit #32
  6. Not everything that screams for importance is of eternal significance—only human souls will last forever, and their destiny depends on faith in Jesus Christ. unit #33
  7. Paul prioritizes the most important (gospel-centered, eternal realities) over the also important (political, economic, practical needs), acknowledging both but subordinating the latter to the former. unit #34
  8. Paul declares that only one thing is of first importance in all Christian doctrine: the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ. unit #35
Quotations· 6
"1984 won't be like 1984" — Apple Computer ad copy (unit #3)
"Cretans are always liars, evil beasts, and lazy gluttons" — a Cretan prophet (unit #3)
"think different" — Apple Computer (unit #3)
"I am not my own anymore. I belong to Christ, for I have been bought with a price" — Paul the Apostle (unit #19)
"Go home to your friends and tell them how much the Lord has done for you and how he has had mercy on you" — Jesus (unit #22)
"only one thing in all of the Christian life, in all of Christian doctrine, is of first importance, and that is the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ" — Paul the Apostle (unit #35)
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0 · The pastor orients the congregation to the Book of Titus, framing it as Paul's instruction for building strong churches on the gospel frontier—the island of Crete as the ancient 'Wild West

Please turn in your Bible to the Book of Titus. The Book of Titus is in the New Testament. If you get to the very end of the Bible and hit Revelation, you've gone a little bit too far. Kind of make your way back a little bit. But watch out. Titus in many Bibles is only a couple of pages long. And this short book is about Paul and his co worker Titus seeking to build strong churches at the edge of the gospel frontier. So the island of Crete was in a sense the Wild West. There were scattered believers. And Paul lays out for us what it looks like to build a strong church and group of strong churches at the frontier of gospel work. And so this series is going to be called Frontera Church or Frontier Church because we want to emulate Paul's example as we build a church on the gospel frontiers of El Paso.

1 · The pastor reads Titus 1:1-4 aloud, marking it explicitly as the Word of God

So we're going to begin reading in chapter one, verse one, verses one through four. And as we read, let's remember this book, like everyone in the Bible is God's Word. Paul, a servant of God and an apostle of Jesus Christ. For the sake of the faith of God's elect and their knowledge of the the truth which accords with godliness in hope of eternal life, which God who never lies, promised before the ages began and at the proper time manifested in his word through the preaching with which I have been entrusted by the command of God our Savior, to Titus, my true child in a common faith, grace and peace from God the Father and Christ Jesus our Savior. This is God's word.

2 · Brief pastoral prayer asking the Lord to bless both the preaching and the hearing of the Word

And Lord, we pray your blessing over the preaching and the hearing of your word today. Amen.

3 · The Apple 1984 ad serves as an extended metaphor for the Book of Titus: both are sledgehammers meant to disrupt the status quo and create radical change

Well, in 1984, an upstart computer company aired an ad during the super bowl that called some that caused something of a cultural explosion. The ad looked like no other commercial out there. It looked like it was straight out of a Georgia George Orwell's 1984 novel. It had images of drone like workers all marching in lockstep over to a big auditorium where they were listening to a giant screen talking head drone on about how to think and live. But then the ad gets interrupted when a woman comes running in with a sledgehammer. And the woman hurls the sledgehammer through the screen causing a massive explosion. And then the ad copy reads as follows. 1984 won't be like 1984 Apple computer. Now you might think like, I did not see where that was going. I did not like, I would not have predicted that was a computer ad. And the ad was notable because the ad wasn't actually about computers at all. In fact, the board before the computer, before the ad aired, they showed the ad to the board of Apple, and everyone was like, nope, not gonna do this. Where are the computers? And actually, the reason it aired, it only aired one time during and aired during the super bowl because it was too late to pull the ad. And it aired one time, but then it got replayed for free for weeks and years, right? Because people were like, this is so weird. Look at it. And so it got free advertising. And the reason it was so notable is it wasn't about computers. It was about revolution. It was about radical change. It was about rejecting the status quo. Apple, with the spirit of this, later adopted the tagline two words, think different, meaning everybody else is marching in lockstep, but we are going to throw a sledgehammer through the way people normally think and encourage people to think different. Now, of course, in the end of the day, it was just computer. But that spirit, I think, is how we should read the book of Titus. This short book is something of a sledgehammer that Paul the apostle is handing to his fellow gospel worker, Titus. And this sledgehammer of gospel truth is meant to be hurled into the island of Crete, disrupting the status quo, creating radical change and leading to nothing less than a new way of life on that island. Now, the reason that Paul writes this letter is that he's. He's seeking to bring organization on this frontier of the gospel. The church was not started intentionally on the island of Crete. It was started because in God's happy providence at Pentecost. Remember that there were all kinds of people present at Pentecost for that festival. Well, Acts says that some of those present were from the island of Crete. So they were there. They heard Peter, they. They were saved and maybe discipled for a few days. But they weren't from there. They were from Jerusalem. They had to go back to Crete. So they took the gospel with them back to Crete. But they were not taught. They, you know, they weren't necessarily commissioned as church leaders, but they shared the gospel. And so you have these pockets of believers on this island of Crete that were unorganized, that didn't have strong foundations. And Pa sees a danger. The danger he sees is that the Cretan believers were beginning to drift back into lock step with the culture. They were beginning to march right along with everyone else on the island of Crete, listening to the culture around them. And so Paul hands this gospel sledgehammer to Titus and says, you got to disrupt this thing. You can't Let them go back to the old way of life.

4 · The pastor applies the sledgehammer metaphor to the contemporary congregation: the world, flesh, and devil want believers to march in cultural lockstep, but the gospel disrupts that conformity and calls believers to think differently

And today, friends, we need the same thing. We need a gospel sledgehammer thrown through our lives and our culture. Because here's the reality. The world, the flesh and the devil want nothing more than for us to march in lockstep with everyone else around us. We are under siege. Maybe you don't realize that everything we watch, everything we look at on social media, everything, the culture of our offices, the culture of our city, all of it is like. It has a path for us. It says, walk like this, this way in lockstep with us. And yet the gospel disrupts everything. The gospel of Jesus Christ comes into our lives and says, you need to think different. You don't think the way the rest of the world thinks. Don't think the way the people around you think. Think according to the gospel.

5 · Clear structural signal

And so what we're going to do today is look at three ways the Gospel causes us to think different. And the first is think different about thinking.

Where this fits

Recent preaching context

The three sermons immediately preceding this one in the preaching schedule.

Jan 25, 2026
You build more than you see — ordinary faithfulness in the mundane work God has given you is building something far more glorious and eternal than you can comprehend.
Haggai 2:1-9
Feb 1, 2026
Out of all time and all places, God has sent you here with purpose, and you must be strong, work at what He has called you to, and know that He is with you in it.
Haggai 2:1-9
Feb 15, 2026
The day only seems small to us because we lack God's divine perspective to see His plan, His power, and His purpose for us within it — but God's infinite power is available by grace, God's eternal design is greater than we can imagine, and God has given every believer an essential role in bringing His word and presence to His people.
Zechariah 4:1-14
March 1 · This sermon
Your Truth, My Truth, God's Honest Truth
The church must ground itself in God's objective, eternal truth rather than the subjective, personalized 'truth' of contemporary culture, allowing that truth to reshape identity and priorities around the gospel's eternal significance.
Titus 1:1-4
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Small-group discussion

6 questions for your group this week

  1. Paul opens his letter by declaring himself 'a servant of God and an apostle of Jesus Christ.' What does Paul say he is *not* in this opening—what identity has he left behind—and what does that tell us about how the gospel reshapes who we are?
    Titus 1:1
    → How is Paul's reorientation around Christ's call different from the way our culture teaches us to think about identity?
  2. In verse 2, Paul anchors everything in 'the hope of eternal life, which God, who never lies, promised before the ages began.' Why does Paul begin with a promise about eternity rather than with practical instructions for Titus and the Cretan church?
    Titus 1:2
  3. The sermon identifies a gap between how culture defines truth ('my truth,' 'your truth') and how Paul defines it (objective, eternal, God's truth). Where do you see that gap showing up in your own life this week—in conversations, decisions, or the way you think about yourself?
    → What is one area where you've felt pressure to accept a personalized 'truth' rather than God's objective truth?
  4. Paul says his apostolic calling is bound up with 'the knowledge of the truth that accords with godliness' (Titus 1:1). What does it mean that true knowledge of God always has a moral shape—that it leads to godliness rather than just intellectual agreement?
    Titus 1:1
    → How does that reshape the way you think about Bible study or knowing Scripture?
  5. The sermon emphasizes that Paul prioritizes eternal realities over temporal ones—souls and their faith matter more than political or economic problems. What does it look like to apply that same priority ordering in your own life right now? Where are you tempted to let the urgent crowd out the eternal?
  6. Paul grounds the church in God's truth to anchor them against cultural drift. What would it look like for you, personally, to let God's objective truth—rather than social media, influencers, or cultural narratives—become your functional foundation this week?
    Titus 1:3-4
    → What is one concrete step you could take to reorient your thinking and identity around Christ's lordship?
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Daily readings · Monday–Friday

5-day reading plan

This week, we build our lives on God's objective truth—not by asking who we want to be, but by asking who the Lord is and what He has done for us.

Monday 1 Corinthians 15

Paul writes to the Corinthians that Christ's resurrection is the bedrock upon which all Christian faith and hope rests. When we say 'God's truth,' we mean this truth—not a principle or a philosophy, but a person and His redemptive work. Everything else we believe, everything we build our lives on, is secondary to this one eternal, objective fact that reshapes eternity itself.

Tuesday 1 Corinthians 6

Paul reminds the Corinthian church, 'You are not your own; you were bought at a price.' The culture around us screams, 'Be yourself, follow your truth, discover who you really are'—but Paul's epistemology is radically different. Our identity isn't found by looking inward; it's found by looking outward to Christ and receiving the identity He has already secured for us. We are His possession, His temple, His workmanship.

Wednesday Acts 1

The risen Jesus tells His disciples, 'You will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses.' This is the pattern: not self-directed purpose, but Christ-directed mission. Just as Paul became a sent one—a bond-servant dispatched to Crete—we too are reoriented from our own ambitions to Christ's commission. Our true identity and our true vocation are inseparable from His lordship over our lives.

Thursday Matthew 28

Jesus gives the Great Commission: 'Go and make disciples of all nations...teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you.' Among all the urgent needs Crete faced—political instability, economic hardship, social disorder—Paul was sent with one assignment: shepherd believers toward gospel maturity. We too live in a world of competing urgencies. The gift of God's truth is that it teaches us to distinguish between the important and the eternal, and to make the eternal our first priority.

Friday Acts 2

On Pentecost, the church is born and thousands are baptized into a new identity in Christ. They didn't engineer this future; they received it. Peter proclaimed what God had done, and the Holy Spirit remade their identity from the outside in. This is the freedom God offers: not the tyranny of self-discovery, but the liberation of receiving who you are from the One who made you and knows you infinitely better than you know yourself. Surrender here is not loss—it is homecoming.

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Pray together this week

Prayer: Anchored in God's Honest Truth

Father, we come before you this week as a people surrounded by voices telling us to author our own truth, to build our identities from the inside out, to chase what feels right rather than what is right. We confess that we drift toward these easier paths—personalizing truth to fit our preferences, looking to influencers and cultural narratives as our functional anchors instead of your Word, letting the urgent needs of the moment eclipse the eternal realities that alone endure. We are prone to ask 'Who do I want to be?' when we should be asking 'Who are you, Lord, and what have you done for me?' Forgive us for the arrogance of supposing we know ourselves better than you do, or that our personalized versions of truth can bear the weight our souls require.

We thank you that in Jesus Christ you have given us objective, eternal, unchanging truth. You have freed us not to author ourselves but to be authored by the one who knows us completely and loves us infinitely. You have made us not our own, but Christ's—bond-servants of the gospel, sent into this world with a message that will not change when the culture changes. We receive this gift. We receive the reorientation of our entire selves around his lordship. We receive the knowledge that you have purposes for our lives far more wise and good than anything we could devise for ourselves (Titus 1:1–3).

Grant us the grace this week to think differently about thinking—to reject the lie that truth is plural and personalized, and to anchor ourselves instead in your Word. When we are anxious or fatigued and tempted to drift toward false sources of stability, turn us back to you. Recalibrate our priorities around what is eternal: the faith of your elect, the knowledge of the truth that accords with godliness, the gospel of Jesus Christ (Titus 1:1–2). Help us to subordinate the urgent to the important, the temporal to the eternal, knowing that only human souls will last forever. Make us a church that thinks rightly because we think from your truth. To you alone be the glory, Father—for you are the God who knows, who loves, who speaks, and whose truth stands forever.

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Sunday-evening family table

Who Gets to Decide What's True?

For the parent

This card invites your family to notice where they bump up against competing claims about what's 'true' or 'right'—in real life, not in theory. The goal is to help kids see that our culture often treats truth as something each person decides for themselves, and to gently ask: Is that how it actually works? Listen for moments where your kids discover that some things are just true whether we like it or not.

Pastor Ricky talked about how our culture tells us 'your truth' and 'my truth' are both right, even when they disagree. But then he asked: if two people believe opposite things, can they both be true? Think of a time this week when you believed something was true about something—like the way to do a math problem, or whether something was fair, or how to play a game. How did you know you were right? Was it just because you felt it, or because there was something outside of you that proved it?
works for ages 7+ — younger kids can answer with concrete examples; teens and adults will naturally move toward deeper questions about truth claims and authority
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Couples · three questions over coffee

God's Truth, Our Marriage

  1. What part of the sermon challenged how you think about truth in your own life—and how might that shift reshape the way you see yourself in our marriage?
  2. Where do we as a couple drift toward 'my truth' or 'your truth' instead of submitting together to God's objective truth—and what would it look like to reorient around His word instead?
  3. What is one area of our marriage where we're chasing what seems urgent rather than what's eternal, and how can we pray for each other to keep Christ's lordship at the center?
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Memory verse this week

Titus 1:2

in hope of eternal life, which God, who never lies, promised before the ages began

Why this verse: This verse captures the sermon's central claim: God's truth is objective, eternal, and external to us—not something we construct or personalize. In a culture drowning in 'my truth' and 'your truth,' Paul anchors the church in God's promise, which alone is unchanging and trustworthy. Memorizing this verse resets the foundation for thinking about everything else.

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