What About Spiritual Gifts?

Romans 12:3-8 May 12, 2024 Pastor Ricky Alcantar
Thesis Christians are to receive all of Christ's gifts for all Christians to show all of Christ.
Series
The Person and Work of the Holy Spirit
Type
Expository
Tone
pastoraldidacticcelebratory
Method
grammatical-historicalcanonicalapplicatory
What's in this sermon

The shape of the argument

35 units across exposition, application, illustration, theological claim, and conclusion. The pastor's argument is built from these moving parts.

Pastoral correction · unit #24
"Direct application urging the congregation to believe they are gifted, to receive their gifts with gladness, and to discover their gifts by (1) asking others what they seem gifted in and (2) serving in various areas until the Lord makes it clear — with humorous illustration of auditioning to be a worship leader and being gently redirected."
Doctrinal loci· 5 surfaced
Christology · 4 Pastoral Theology · 2 Sanctification · 2 Doxology / Worship · 1 Ethics / Moral Theology · 1
Bible citations· 24
Romans 12:3-8 | 1 Corinthians 12 | Romans 12:3 | 1 Thessalonians 5:20 | Acts 2 | Joel 2 | Acts 4 | 1 Thessalonians 5 | Romans 12 | 2 Peter 1 | 1 Corinthians 14 | 1 Corinthians 12:9 | 1 Corinthians 12:28 | Romans 12:6-8 | 1 Corinthians 12:7-11 | 1 Corinthians 1:7 | 2 Timothy 1:6 | Romans 12:5 | John 16
Illustrations· 5
  1. personal story · unit #2 — Personal story of a recent pastoral counseling session with a teenage convert confused by conflicting teachings on spiritual gifts, illustrating the pastoral urgency of the topic.
  2. analogy · unit #4 — Extended analogy comparing spiritual gifts to Christmas morning, illustrating how easily joy can be ruined by ingratitude, comparison, or conflict — setting up the thesis that spiritual gifts should be received with gladness but are often ruined by similar attitudes.
  3. personal story · unit #9 — Personal childhood story about dismissing clothes as 'not real gifts' compared to toys, humorously illustrating the temptation to value some gifts over others.
  4. personal story · unit #18 — Extended story of a young missionary woman who prayed for the gift of tongues to be reminded of God's nearness during loneliness, received it the next day while praying, and found it a profound comfort — illustrating the gift's purpose as a reminder of God's presence.
  5. personal story · unit #32 — Extended personal story about the preacher's mother, who had a gift for teaching and missions work, felt called by God to stay in El Paso and invest her gifts in her children rather than on the foreign mission field — illustrating that Spirit-filled giftedness often looks like private faithfulness rather than public spectacle, and honoring mothers who invest their gifts in their children even when unappreciated.
Theological claims· 8
  1. Spiritual gifts should be approached with the joy and gratitude of Christmas morning, but are often ruined by comparison, ingratitude, or ungodly character. unit #5
  2. Christians are to receive all of Christ's gifts for all Christians to show all of Christ. unit #7
  3. All Christians are tempted to value only some gifts over others, but Scripture calls us to receive all of God's gifts with gladness. unit #10
  4. Christians are tempted to prize either spectacular or ordinary gifts exclusively, but Romans 12 teaches that both are good and both are gifts from the Lord. unit #20
  5. All Christians have been given gifts by the Lord — there are no ungifted Christians. unit #21
  6. Spiritual gifts exist to display Christ — the Spirit's purpose is to glorify Jesus, so all gifts are meant to image and lift up Christ. unit #27
  7. The character (fruit of the Spirit) in which we exercise our gifts matters as much as the gift itself — exercising gifts without the fruit ruins the gift's exercise. unit #28
  8. Every spiritual gift has Jesus Christ as its model in exercise — when we use our gifts rightly, people see the character and power of Jesus, not just the gift itself. unit #29
Quotations· 4
"Christ loves the church, his body and provides for its health and growth through the Holy Spirit, in addition to giving new life." — Church statement of faith (unit #6)
"The gift of prophecy should be defined not as predicting the future, nor as proclaiming a word from the Lord, nor as powerful preaching, but rather as telling something God has spontaneously brought to mind for the upbuilding and edification of the church." — Wayne Grudem (unit #16)
"Speaking in tongues is prayer or praise spoken in syllables not understood by the speaker." — Wayne Grudem (unit #17)
"God may from time to time grant us a foretaste or a down payment of the physical healing which he will grant us fully in the future." — Wayne Grudem (unit #19)
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0 · Alcantar locates the sermon within the broader sermon series on the Holy Spirit and reads the church's statement of faith on the Spirit's work, establishing doctrinal grounding and continuity with prior teaching

The last number of weeks, as we talked about the person and work of the Holy Spirit, this is what we've covered. I want to show you where this is in our statement of faith. So you see, oh, that's what we've been walking through, even if you haven't known it. So our confession of faith says this about the gifts, rather about the person and work of the Holy Spirit. It says this, when Christ ascended, he poured out the Holy Spirit on the church, ushering in a greater experience of God's presence and power among his people. The Spirit transforms hearts by the miracle of regeneration and indwells, all believers in abundant new covenant measure. The Spirit also desires to fill God's people continually with increased power for christian life and witness. To be filled with the Spirit is to be more fully under his influence, more aware of his presence and more effective in his service. All christians, therefore, must continually seek to be filled with the Spirit by living and praying in such a way that invites the Holy Spirit's work among us, actively longing for God to accomplish his gracious purpose in us and through us. The filling of the Spirit brings to God's people a deeper knowledge of Christ, an increased desire for holiness, a stronger commitment to unity and love, a greater fruitfulness in ministry, and a deeper gratitude for our salvation.

1 · Transitions from the broader series theme (the Spirit's transformative work) to the specific topic of spiritual gifts, acknowledging that this is the most common question from the congregation

Now, for the last number of weeks, we've talked about this metaphor of carrying the fire that the spirit of God is the fire of God's presence poured out on the people of God, that they might be changed and transformed, that they might look more like Jesus, that they might have a relationship, a personal, supernatural relationship with their living God who made them, and that they would begin to then turn outward into mission to display Christ to others. But we have not covered yet one of probably the most common questions when we begin to talk about the Holy Spirit. And we've intentionally not started here. We started at the broad work of the Spirit. But today we're gonna speak about probably the questions that I get the most in this series about which are spiritual gifts.

2 · Personal story of a recent pastoral counseling session with a teenage convert confused by conflicting teachings on spiritual gifts, illustrating the pastoral urgency of the topic

I just sat down with a teenage guy this week. He had tons of questions about the gifts. He had been raised catholic and then had been for a time, been in a pentecostal church that was probably mishandling some of the gifts. And so now he's sitting over coffee with me, wondering, what am I supposed to believe about these things? And so that's exactly what we're talking about today.

3 · Frames the sermon's guiding questions, reads the primary text (Romans 12:3-8), and prays for the Spirit's illumination of the Word

What are spiritual gifts? How do they work? Who are they for? How do we use them? And we're going to read a section from romans twelve three. And let's remember, as we read, this is God's word. For by the grace given to me, I say to everyone among you not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think with sober judgment, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned. For as in one body, we have many members, and the members do not all have the same function. So we, though many, are one body in Christ, and individually members one of another, having gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let us use them. If prophecy in proportion to our faith, if service in our serving. The one who teaches in his teaching, the one who exhorts in his exhortation, the one who contributes in generosity, the one who leads with zeal, the one who does acts of mercy with cheerfulness. This is God's word. And Lord, we pray that you'd give us ears to hear and eyes to see. May your spirit be active in illuminating the word of God, that we might see and rejoice and be changed. Amen.

4 · Extended analogy comparing spiritual gifts to Christmas morning, illustrating how easily joy can be ruined by ingratitude, comparison, or conflict — setting up the thesis that spiritual gifts should be received with gladness but are often ruined by similar attitudes

Well, I have not yet met almost anyone that does not love Christmas morning, especially if you're a kid. Christmas morning is like the morning. And the thing about Christmas morning is that even though it's a wonderful time, I am sure all of us have at least one story of how Christmas morning was utterly ruined. And it can be ruined in a number of ways. I'm constantly amazed at the number of ways it can be ruined. First of all, who's been there when the toy of the year that you finally purchased did not come with batteries, no power for the gift, right? You got the gift. No power. I remember at one point my parents even running out to the store. But the stores were closed because it was Christmas. Disappointed kids. Or if you give one of the kids a gift, that is too good, right? That creates an issue with the other kids because all of a sudden they're fighting over the one toy or complaining, well, why didn't I get one of these? Or maybe one of them has been unsatisfied with the amount of gifts, and they, after opening their fifth present, look up and you ask, and they look at you and they ask, is that all? And as a parent, it's not the reaction that you're hoping for. Conflict may ensue, or a spouse has said, I thought you were gonna get the little like I thought you were gonna get. That happens on Christmas morning. Everyone's sleep deprived. Everyone's hopped up on sugar. It's ruinable in a number of ways.

5 · Applies the Christmas analogy to spiritual gifts, diagnosing the church's problem (comparison, ingratitude, controversy) and stating the sermon's pastoral goal: to help the church receive gifts with gladness and use them rightly

Right? And that is what we're talking about this morning. Because I believe the spiritual gifts that God gives the church should be approached like Christmas morning, man. It should. We should have this attitude of man. We've seen what the Holy Spirit does. Not only did the Holy Spirit breathe life into us, not only did he restart our dead hearts, not only is he a comforter and helper that's with us, not only does he help us look more like Jesus in our character and the fruit of the spirit, not only all that, but now, then at the end, there's presence, right? That is the way it should feel. And yet for too many of us and for too many churches, it devolves into a ruined Christmas morning where people begin to immediately argue over, well, I like that gift. Why did they get that gift? Or my gift is better than their gift, why are they getting to do this? When I get, you know, and. Or maybe even controversy about the spiritual gifts. Like, people are like, that's not even a real gift, or you're misusing that gift. Or. Or maybe the ungodly character in which gifts are exercised ruin the exercise of the gift themselves. It is not hard to ruin Christmas morning, but what I want to do this morning in our brief time together is help us reclaim Christmas morning when it comes to spiritual gifts, to rejoice in them, to appreciate them, to receive them with gladness, and to use them well.

Where this fits

Recent preaching context

The three sermons immediately preceding this one in the preaching schedule.

Apr 14, 2024
We are called to shift our mindset from 'me' to 'we' because the church is Christ's body—he shapes it, he orders it, and every member is indispensable to his design.
1 Corinthians 12:12-31
Apr 28, 2024
Christianity is a supernatural religion lived only in the power of the Holy Spirit, who brings dead hearts to life and remains as our ever-present advocate and helper.
Acts 2:16-24
May 5, 2024
The Holy Spirit dwelling in believers changes them from the inside out by bringing experiential nearness to God, conforming them to Christ through sanctification, and empowering them to be witnesses who carry God's light into a dark world.
Acts 1:4-8
May 12 · This sermon
What About Spiritual Gifts?
Christians are to receive all of Christ's gifts for all Christians to show all of Christ.
Romans 12:3-8
Earlier in the corpus · January 12, 2026
A prior sermon on Romans 12
You preached this same passage — 9 Romans 12 citations in that earlier sermon. Worth re-reading before the next time this text comes around.
Take it further

Discuss · apply · pray

Small-group discussion

6 questions for your group this week

  1. In Romans 12:3, Paul tells us not to think of ourselves more highly than we ought. How have you seen comparison or pride distort the way Christians view their own spiritual gifts or the gifts of others?
    Romans 12:3
    → What would it look like to approach your gifts with the kind of joy and gratitude Paul is calling for — the way you might open gifts on Christmas morning?
  2. The sermon argues that all Christians are gifted — there are no ungifted believers. What gifts do you see active in your small group right now, including both the spectacular and the ordinary?
    Romans 12:6-8
    → Which gifts in your group might be easy to overlook because they're not flashy or public?
  3. Paul teaches that we are one body with many members, and each member has received gifts for the sake of the whole. What happens to a church when some members refuse to exercise their gifts, or when the church values only certain kinds of gifts?
    Romans 12:5, 1 Corinthians 12:7-11
  4. The sermon identifies a temptation to prize either spectacular gifts (prophecy, healing, tongues) or ordinary gifts (serving, teaching, encouragement) exclusively. Which temptation do you feel more pressure toward in your own church experience, and why?
    1 Thessalonians 5:20, 1 Corinthians 14
    → How would receiving *all* of Christ's gifts for all of Christ's people change the way you pray for your church?
  5. The sermon emphasizes that the fruit of the Spirit — love, joy, peace, patience, kindness — matters as much as the gift itself. Describe a time you've witnessed someone exercise a real spiritual gift but in a way that lacked this character. What was the effect?
    1 Corinthians 12:9, 2 Peter 1
    → How does Christ model the exercise of gifts with perfect fruit?
  6. As you think about your own gifting, who in your life could you ask for honest feedback about where you're gifted? And what's one new area of service you could try this month to discover gifts the Lord may have given you?
    2 Timothy 1:6
    → How might serving in ways that feel unfamiliar help you discover gifts you didn't know you had?
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Daily readings · Monday–Friday

5-day reading plan

This week we walk through five theological anchors for spiritual gifts: their joyful reception, their shared purpose, their dual nature (spectacular and ordinary), their grounding in Christ's character, and their daily exercise in the home and in the church.

Monday 1 Corinthians 12:7-11

Paul writes that to each one the Spirit gives a gift for the common good. This isn't a statement about the exceptional or the specially spiritual — it's universal and declarative. If you have Christ, you have the Spirit, and if you have the Spirit, you have a gift. Read verse 11 slowly: 'All these are empowered by one and the same Spirit, who apportions to each one individually as he wills.' You are not an exception to this design.

Tuesday 1 Corinthians 12:28

Paul lists apostles, prophets, teachers, then helpers and administrators. Notice the order shifts from dramatic to administrative midway — and Paul lists them all as if they belong in one sentence, one body. The temptation is to skip over 'helps' and 'administration' as less glorious. But Paul puts them in the same breath as prophecy. What gift are you dismissing as 'merely practical' that the Spirit calls necessary?

Wednesday 1 Corinthians 14

In 1 Corinthians 14, Paul corrects the Corinthian church's disorder and pride around their gifts — they were using gifts to display themselves, not Christ. Comparison and showing off had turned their gifts into weapons. The cure is not to stop using gifts, but to use them with love (13:1-3) and with the fruit of the Spirit guiding every exercise. What gift are you using today in a way that serves yourself rather than Christ?

Thursday John 16

Jesus promises the Holy Spirit will glorify him — 'He will glorify me, for he will take what is mine and declare it to you' (John 16:14). The Spirit's function is always to point away from himself and toward Christ. When you exercise your gifts in humility, in gentleness, in truth-telling, in service, you are displaying the character of Christ. The gift is only rightly used when Christ becomes more visible through it, not you.

Friday 2 Timothy 1:6

Paul urges Timothy to 'fan into flame the gift of God.' This suggests gifts are both given and developed — they grow through use, through exercise, through obedience. You don't discover your gifts by waiting for a feeling or taking a test; you discover them by trying things, asking trusted friends what they see in you, and watching where the Spirit opens doors. This week, ask one person: 'What gift do you see the Lord has given me?' and listen.

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Pray together this week

All of Christ's Gifts, All of Christ's Glory

Father, we come before you with gratitude for the Holy Spirit you have given us — the Spirit who distributes gifts to each of us as he determines, that through our gifts we might display all of Christ to a watching world (1 Corinthians 12:7-11). We confess that we have often approached your gifts with ingratitude rather than the joy of Christmas morning. We have compared our gifts to the gifts of others and found ourselves lacking. We have valued some gifts while dismissing others — prizing the spectacular while ignoring the quiet, or prizing the practical while fearing the miraculous. We have exercised our gifts without the character of Christ, and in doing so, we have obscured rather than revealed him.

But here is the good news: you have given all of your gifts to all of your church, and in doing so, you intend to show all of Christ. Every gift — the gift of prophecy and the gift of hospitality, the gift of healing and the gift of service, the gift of leadership and the gift of encouragement — comes from your hand and bears your mark. And every gift, when exercised with the fruit of your Spirit, displays the character and power of Jesus himself (Romans 12:6-8). No Christian is ungifted; no gift is worthless; no exercise of your gifts in humility and love is hidden from your sight.

We ask you, Father, to give us eyes to see the gifts in one another with gladness. Grant us humility to receive our own gifts without comparison or shame. Give us the courage to discover and use our gifts — by serving, by asking for feedback, by stepping out in faith — knowing that you have already equipped us to display Christ. And grant us most of all the character of your Son — his love, his gentleness, his humility — so that when our gifts are seen, Jesus is lifted up and glorified. To your name be all the honor, through Christ and by the Spirit, forever. Amen.

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Sunday-evening family table

What Gift Did God Give You?

For the parent

This sermon teaches that every Christian has spiritual gifts — not just pastors or missionaries, but you too. At the table, invite your family to think about the gifts they've noticed in each other, the way Ricky talked about his mom's gift of hospitality and mothers' quiet gifts in the home. Listen for the moment when your kids realize they already have gifts, even if they're young.

Mom, Dad, [siblings] — Pastor Ricky said that every single Christian gets gifts from the Holy Spirit, and that some gifts are big and showy, but a lot of the best ones are quiet and hidden. What's a gift you've noticed in the person sitting next to you? Maybe it's making people laugh, or helping someone who's sad, or being really good at fixing things, or noticing when someone needs help. Tell them what gift you see in them.
Works for ages 5+ — younger kids can name a gift with help from parents; older kids and teens can articulate the connection between their gift and Christ's character
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Couples · three questions over coffee

Gifts for All of Christ

  1. What gift did the sermon help you see in yourself or in your spouse that you hadn't recognized before?
  2. Where are we tempted as a couple to value only certain kinds of gifts—spectacular or practical—and how might receiving all of Christ's gifts together change how we serve our church family?
  3. What is one spiritual gift in your spouse that you want to pray the Lord would strengthen and use more freely this year?
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Memory verse this week

Romans 12:6-8

Having gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let each exercise them: if prophecy, in proportion to his faith; if service, in serving; the one who teaches, in his teaching; the one who exhorts, in his exhortation; the one who contributes, in generosity; the one who leads, with zeal; the one who does acts of mercy, with cheerfulness.

Why this verse: This passage is the beating heart of the sermon's thesis: all Christians receive gifts from the Spirit, all gifts are good, and all gifts are meant to display Christ when exercised in character. It answers the central question of the sermon—what are spiritual gifts and how should we use them?—with both clarity and humility.

Draft · pending review
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