This Can't Be the Right Road, Can It?
Thesis The road to the cross is the Christian's road—hard, dark, and seemingly wrong—but it is the right road because Jesus walked it for us, and it ends not in death but in resurrection glory.
The shape of the argument
30 units across exposition, application, illustration, theological claim, and conclusion. The pastor's argument is built from these moving parts.
- personal story · unit #3 — The pastor recounts his first job filing in a hot, dusty storage room when he expected to work in the air-conditioned office. The recurring thought 'I think I'm in the wrong place' establishes the emotional and conceptual framework for the sermon's exploration of feeling displaced on the Christian road.
- historical example · unit #7 — The pastor illustrates the human tendency to reject self-recognition in sin through a story of a man who smashes a mirror rather than accept his own reflection. The illustration reinforces that Mark 15 is a mirror—we're meant to see ourselves in the crowd, not reject the picture as 'those people.'
- personal story · unit #21 — The pastor illustrates the counterintuitive nature of the Christian road through a story of driving to King's Kids. The road felt wrong (access road, uncertain), but his friend confirmed: if it feels like the wrong way, that's it. Applied: the Christian road feels wrong (against culture), but that confirms it's the right road.
- personal story · unit #24 — The pastor closes with a final illustration: driving to Sedona in the dark, uncertain and worried, then waking to a glorious mountain vista. The dark road felt wrong, but morning revealed the glory at the end. Applied: the Christian road feels dark now, but morning (resurrection glory) will come, and we'll look back thinking it was worth it.
- The road to the cross is the Christian's road, and Mark carefully records Jesus' steps along that road to show suffering Christians that their hard path is the right path. unit #5
- The heart of the gospel is the exchange: humanity demands Jesus die for them, and Jesus agrees, taking the sinner's place and walking the road to the cross for every blood-bought son and daughter. unit #14
- The road to the cross is the road through the cross to resurrection—it's hard, but we know where it ends: an empty tomb and resurrection life. unit #23
"Kent Hughes' commentary, he shares a story about a missionary in Africa. And one of the occurrences was that this local person comes to see the missionary, and the missionary had had a mirror hung up on the tree. And so the person had never seen a mirror before. And so he became alarmed when he could see a face in the mirror and he didn't like it. And so he told the missionary, 'I need to buy this from you. I have to buy this from you.' and became agitated. So the missionary is just trying to, okay, I'm trying to be friendly with the locals. I guess I just won't have a mirror anymore. So he gives the mirror to the local and the local takes it, looks at it, smashes it on the ground. And the missionary is like, whoa, what's going on? And the local person says, now that ugly man will never make faces at me again." — Kent Hughes (unit #7)
"Ashamed I hear my mocking voice call out among the scoffers. It was my sin that held him there until it was accomplished." — Old hymn (unit #10)
"The scourging was done by the dread flagellum whip consisting of thongs plated with pieces of bone and lead. Eusebius tells of martyrs who were torn by scourges down to deep-seated veins and arteries so that the hidden contents of the recesses of their bodies, their entrails and organs, were exposed to sight." — Kent Hughes (unit #13)
"His appearance was so marred beyond human semblance and His form beyond that of the children of mankind. His brow wore the mocking crown of thorns. A faded purple robe crimson with blood hung dripping from his shoulders." — Kent Hughes (quoting Isaiah) (unit #13)
"The son of the father is the true meaning of Barabbas' name. The son of the father, this son of the father, Barabbas, was a false son of the father but was set free at the cost of the true Son of the Father. In the same way, we false sons who are guilty of cosmic insurrection are set free at the cost of the true Son of the Father. And in the greatest act of grace, we become true sons of the Father." — Vince (elder team member) (unit #15)
Full transcript
0 · The pastor opens by orienting the congregation to the text, extending welcome to new believers and those unfamiliar with the Bible, and positioning the church as a safe place to learn Scripture
I'm one of the pastors here at the church. Sometimes I do the announcements as well and know how difficult they are. I wanna invite you to turn in your Bibles to Mark chapter 15, Mark chapter 15. I want you to know if you grab one of these pew, if you don't have a Bible, we have Bibles available on the back table. In our pew Bibles, we're gonna be on page 800.
And I want you to know that Crossville Grace is a great safe place to learn what is in the Bible. I met a guy after the first service that started coming recently in the last few weeks, grew up Catholic, kind of would go to mass off and on, but God kind of arrested him recently, he began coming and he just left with a pile of books from the $0 bookstore over there. And I gave him some more books and he was really looking forward to this being a place where he could understand for himself what the Bible teaches. And so if that's you, welcome, gather around the table. We also have small groups where you're able to do that with other people and learn how to read the Bible with others, just like my group did this last week.
So if you're here and that's you, we want you to know you're not weird, you're not behind, you're right where you're supposed to be and you're welcome. You're welcome here. So Mark chapter 15, we are at the end of the gospel. A few climactic passages left. We will finish the gospel this month.
And I can't wait to see what the Lord has for us. So let's do this. Can we stand for the reading of God's word? We're going to be reading Mark chapter 15, verses 1 through 20. This is a bit of a lengthier section.
We stand to say this is God's word and we hold it in reverence.
1 · The pastor reads the primary text in full, narrating Jesus' trial before Pilate, the crowd's choice of Barabbas over Jesus, the cry for crucifixion, the scourging, and the mocking by soldiers
Mark chapter 15, verse 1. And as soon as it was morning, the chief priests held a consultation with the elders and scribes and the whole council. And they bound Jesus and led him away and delivered him over to Pilate. And Pilate asked him, 'Are you the King of the Jews?' And he answered him, 'You have said so.' And the chief priests accused him of many things. And Pilate again asked him, 'Have you no answer to make? See how many charges they bring against you?' But Jesus made no further answer, so that Pilate was amazed. Now at the feast, he, Pilate, used to release for them one prisoner for whom they asked. And among the rebels in prison who had committed murder in the insurrection, there was a man called Barabbas.
And the crowd came up and began to ask Pilate to do as he usually did for them. And he answered them, saying, 'Do you want me to release for you the King of the Jews?' for he perceived that it was out of envy that the chief priests had delivered him up. But the chief priests stirred up the crowd to have him released for them, Barabbas instead. And Pilate again said to them, 'Then what shall I do with the man you call the King of the Jews?' And they cried out again, 'Crucify him!' And Pilate said to them, 'Why, what evil has he done?' But they shouted all the more, 'Crucify him!' So Pilate, wishing to satisfy the crowd, Released for them Barabbas. And having scourged Jesus, he delivered him to be crucified.
And the soldiers led him away inside the palace, that is the governor's headquarters, and they called together the whole battalion. And they clothed him in a purple cloak, and twisting together a crown of thorns, they put it on him. And they began to salute him, 'Hail, King of the Jews!' And they were striking his head with a reed and spitting on him. And kneeling down in homage to him. And when they had mocked him, they stripped him of the purple cloak and put his own clothes on him.
And they led him out to crucify him. This is God's word.
2 · The pastor prays for illumination, asking God to enable the congregation to perceive Jesus as King through the sermon
Father, I pray that you give us ears to hear and eyes to see the King today. Amen.
3 · The pastor recounts his first job filing in a hot, dusty storage room when he expected to work in the air-conditioned office
My first job was not a job I applied for. It was a job that found me. I was at a family gathering and my grandfather, who had many decades earlier started a company here in El Paso and had grown it, and my dad worked at the company, my dad contributed to growing that company, he found me at a family gathering, kind of looked me up and down and realized, okay, this kid's about 16 years old, and said, I've got a job for you. He didn't ask if I wanted the job. He informed me that there was a job and that I would be doing it.
And so I drove into— when I got out of school that summer, I drove to the office with my dad. And I'd been to the office many times before. The office was a pretty nice, comfortable place. It had these beautiful glass windows on the side that you can kind of see out and had offices here and there. And some of them were individual, some of them were in a bullpen kind of situation.
And everybody was typing furiously and handing papers back and forth. It was a customs brokerage. Agency. And as I assumed, okay, I'm excited. I'm 16.
It's gonna be my first job. I'm going to be in one of these little areas typing, delivering papers, something like that. So I get there, I get to my grandfather's office and he gets up and he was probably in his— he's probably 80 by then, early 80s. And he said, follow me. And so he opens a door that I didn't even see.
I don't think I'd ever known the door was there. He opens this door and it leads to a stairwell. So I'm thinking, okay, where are we going? So he takes me up the stairwell. And we arrive not in a nice office, but in what was like a combination storage/staging room/file room.
And it was dusty. You could tell, like, people do not come up here a lot. It was used for storage, so it was not air conditioned. This was El Paso in the summer. And even at like 9:00 AM, you could start to feel the heat off the windows.
And he said, this is what you're gonna do. You're gonna file all these files. You're gonna check to make sure they're all in the right order. And you're gonna pull the ones out of order, and you're gonna file them back in the right order, and, you know, basically that's what you're gonna do. And so I looked at this, and I saw, like, file after file after file after file, and I asked him, well, how long do you want me to do this?
And he said, until it's done. And so I realized, oh, this is not like a week job. This is like several weeks. This might be my lifetime. I don't know.
This is a huge— filing room, and he turned to go down the stairs, and I had this thought. So he goes down the stairs, and I'm there by myself. I think I'd worn even like some nice clothes or something, you know, thinking I'm gonna be typing away. And roll up my sleeves, the heat's coming off the windows already, and I realize this is gonna be hot, dusty, boring, difficult work, and there's no end in sight. And I had this thought.
I think I'm in the wrong place here. I think I'm supposed to be downstairs with the air conditioning and the typing. Instead, I find myself upstairs with no air conditioning. And so actually, the first week I didn't drink enough water, and I worked Monday through Thursday, and then Friday I was like sick. I had like heat, whatever.
I was like stomach issues and basically got overheated. And I thought, okay, Monday my dad's probably gonna say, you know, Ricky, I'm sorry, that was a little bit too hard for you. You know, you don't have to go to the office anymore. Instead, what he said on Monday is, we're leaving at 8:30. And I got in the car and went back to the office.
And I remember thinking repeatedly that summer, I think I'm in the wrong place. And when I got my paycheck, I think, I'm trying to remember this, but I think my grandfather decided that I would be paid minimum wage, which was, surprise to me because I was hoping for a little bit more, but it was what I was worth, right? He was an accurate judge of my skills. And I remember looking at the paycheck in the dusty room thinking, this is not right. I took a wrong turn somewhere.
I'm supposed to be in the office. You know, our last name is on the building. I should— hey, it was good for me.
4 · The pastor applies the opening illustration to specific life situations where Christians feel they've taken a wrong turn—singleness, difficult marriage, loss, cultural marginalization
Now, that experience, though, I think is common to us. As humans, but especially as Christians, where we arrive someplace and we begin to think, I think this is the wrong place. I think I took a wrong turn somewhere. I think I'm supposed to be in the air conditioning. And instead I find myself not there, suffering from heatstroke. And I think somehow somebody miscommunicated something and I'm not supposed to be here. Think of it this way.
Maybe you're single and you're seeking to follow the Lord and you're seeking to try to remain pure and have godly relationships. And you long for a spouse and you do everything. You can, and yet you wake up into another year, 2022, again, without that spouse that you long for. And you wonder, am I in the right place? Or maybe you're married and your marriage has been difficult and you and your spouse are trying to work through it, but continues to be difficult.
And you think, man, I took a wrong turn somewhere. I'm not in the right place here. Where did I go wrong? Or maybe you're suffering from the loss of a loved one. Recently, or the loss of a job, or the loss of a dream.
And you're thinking, this is not the right place. I'm supposed to be over there, and yet I am over here. Or maybe you're just— you're feeling that our culture feels increasingly in some ways hostile toward Christianity. You feel more marginalized at work or in your extended family because of your efforts to follow Christ. And you're thinking, 'I'm not in the right place.
I got off the path somewhere.'
5 · The pastor establishes the theological framework for the sermon: Mark wrote to persecuted Christians to show that the road to the cross is their road
Well, the Gospel of Mark was written in the context of persecution. This is a context where Christians who have decided to follow Jesus are facing opposition from the Jewish authorities wherever they go. And opposition now is beginning from Rome itself, meaning there's no refuge that there's gonna be pressure from all sides for these Christians. And there's an emphasis in the Gospel of Mark on suffering and persecution. And one of the purposes the Gospel of Mark so carefully records the words of Jesus and the steps of Jesus and what occurred with Jesus on the way to the cross is because of Mark 8, where Jesus says, 'Take up your cross and follow me.'
In some sense, Jesus' road to the cross is unique and only he walks it in a salvific sense. But in another sense, the road to the cross is our road as well. Mark slows down and shows us the steps along the road and what Jesus experiences because the road to the cross is our road. That's the main thing I think the text is impressing on us. This road is our road.
But what I want you to hear from the beginning is that this road does not end in just sadness and hopelessness and loss. This road to the cross actually, according— as Mark is walking us through this, will end in glory. This road to the cross will end someplace amazing. And we'll get a glimpse of that today. So the road to the cross is our road.
Now, 3 ways, 3 senses in which that's true.
Recent preaching context
The three sermons immediately preceding this one in the preaching schedule.
Discuss · apply · pray
6 questions for your group this week
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What does Mark show us about Jesus's physical experience on the road to the cross in Mark 15:1-20, and why do you think Mark includes these specific details about his suffering?Mark 15:1-20→ How does seeing Jesus's concrete suffering help us when we face our own hard roads?
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In Mark 15:11-15, the crowd demands that Barabbas be released instead of Jesus. What does Barabbas represent in this exchange, and what does it reveal about what Jesus was willing to do?Mark 15:11-15
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The sermon claims that the road to the cross exists because of us—our sin placed Jesus on that path. When you look honestly at your own heart and choices, where do you see yourself demanding your own way instead of submitting to God's rule?Genesis 3→ What does that honesty do to your sense of self-righteousness?
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Jesus makes what the sermon calls 'the great exchange'—the innocent dies so the guilty can go free. How does understanding that you were the one the crowd was demanding be crucified change the way you think about your salvation?Isaiah 53:5-6
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In Mark 8:34-35, Jesus tells his disciples that following him means taking up their cross. When have you experienced a hard road that felt 'wrong' but was actually the right road because it was the road Jesus walked?Mark 8:34-35→ What made you trust that it was the right road, even when it felt wrong?
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The sermon says the road to the cross leads through the cross to resurrection—it's hard, but we know where it ends. How does knowing the resurrection ending change the way you walk your own difficult path this week?Mark 16:6
5-day reading plan
This week we follow Jesus' road to the cross—first understanding why he walked it (because of our sin), then what he accomplished (the great exchange), and finally where it leads (resurrection glory and our own discipleship path).
In Genesis 3, humanity makes its first rebellion: we reject God's rule in favor of our own desires. When Mark shows us the crowd demanding Jesus' crucifixion in Mark 15, we are seeing the same impulse repeated—the human heart saying no to God's authority. This is why Jesus had to walk the road to the cross: not because God was caught off guard, but because our sin required payment, and Jesus alone could make it.
Isaiah prophesies what Mark 15 records: 'He was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was on him.' The exchange is total—Jesus receives what we deserve (judgment, death, abandonment), and we receive what he deserves (righteousness, life, acceptance). Mark's account of Jesus silent before his accusers, bearing the crowd's mockery without retaliation, shows us the Son of God voluntarily stepping into Barabbas' place—and into ours.
At the Last Supper, Jesus interprets his coming death: 'This is my blood of the covenant, which is poured out for many for the forgiveness of sins.' When we read Mark 15 with this frame in mind, we see Jesus not as a helpless victim but as the willing mediator of a new covenant. His road to the cross is not a tragedy—it is the fulfillment of God's ancient promise to redeem his people through blood-bought sacrifice.
The angel at the empty tomb says, 'He is not here; he has risen!' The road that seemed to end in defeat—a crucified Rabbi, disciples scattered in fear—actually leads to resurrection glory. When Mark carefully records Jesus' path to the cross, he does so to tell suffering Christians: your hard road mirrors his, and his road ends not in death but in life. The empty tomb is the promise that our suffering, too, leads somewhere glorious.
Jesus tells his disciples, 'Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me.' The road to the cross is not Jesus' road alone—it becomes the Christian's road too. Singleness that feels isolating, marriage that requires sacrifice, loss and grief and cultural marginalization—these hard paths are not evidence that we're in the wrong place. They are invitations to follow Jesus on the road he walked, confident that it ends where his ended: in resurrection and vindication.
The Right Road Through the Cross
Father, we come before you in awe of your Son, who walked the road to the cross knowing exactly where it led—and walked it anyway, for us. We marvel at a love that would take the place of the guilty, that would bear our rejection and our sin so that we might be called sons and daughters of God. Forgive us for the times we have demanded our own way, for the moments when we have cried out for our own Barabbas and turned away from your rule, just as the crowd did at Pilate's gate. We confess that we look far more like that angry throng than we want to admit, and yet your Son did not turn back. He walked the hard road. He made the great exchange.
Give us eyes to see that when our own road feels wrong—when we face loss, loneliness, or the weight of following you in a world that opposes your name—we are walking the Christian's road, the road Jesus consecrated with his blood. When the path is dark and we want to turn back, remind us that the cross is not the end of the story; it is the doorway to resurrection. Help us to follow our Savior with the same resolve he showed, trusting that the road that seems impossible is the road that leads to glory (Mark 8:34-35). Make us humble before other sinners, for we have all demanded the crucifixion of the Son of God. And as we suffer, let us see our suffering as a participation in his suffering, knowing that what is light and momentary now will yield an eternal weight of glory (2 Corinthians 4:17).
We commit ourselves to you this week, Father. We will walk the hard road because Jesus walked it first, and because we know where it ends: an empty tomb, resurrection life, and a crown of glory. To you be all honor and praise, forever and ever. Amen.
Following the Hard Road
This card invites your family to talk about a time when the right choice felt like the wrong choice—when following Jesus or doing the right thing was harder than expected. The goal is to help kids see that difficulty doesn't mean we're off the path; it means we're on Jesus' path.
In the sermon, we saw that Jesus walked a hard road to the cross—a road that looked wrong but was actually the right road because it led to resurrection. Can you think of a time when doing the right thing felt hard or wrong? What made it feel that way, and how did you know it was still the right choice?
The Road We Walk Together
- When you heard that the road to the cross is the Christian's road, what hard path in our marriage or life came to mind—and what does it mean that Jesus walked that same kind of road for us?
- We're both sinners who have demanded our own way instead of God's rule. How do you see that playing out between us, and what would it look like to receive the exchange Jesus offers—his innocence for our guilt—in how we treat each other this week?
- Jesus' road leads through the cross to resurrection. What burden or fear in your heart right now needs to hear that promise, and how can I pray for you to trust that ending?
Mark 8:34-35
And he called the crowd to him with his disciples and said to them, 'If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake and the gospel's will save it.'
Why this verse: This verse captures the sermon's central claim: the road to the cross is not only Jesus' path but the Christian's path as well. It answers the question 'This can't be the right road, can it?'—yes, it is, because following Christ means taking up your own cross and walking his hard road. The verse anchors the application that Christian suffering and difficulty are not signs we're lost but proof we're following the right road.
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