Stop and Marvel at the Love of God
Thesis Because God's love in Christ is immeasurable and freely given, believers must regularly stop to marvel at this love, allowing their theology to overflow into passionate doxology.
The shape of the argument
54 units across exposition, application, illustration, theological claim, and conclusion. The pastor's argument is built from these moving parts.
- personal story · unit #5 — The pastor shares a personal story about hiking in the Adirondacks as a youth, not understanding the point of hiking until reaching the summit view. The illustration establishes the metaphor of the journey being worth it for the view—a setup for the sermon's call to stop and marvel.
- personal story · unit #6 — The pastor narrates hiking the Ron Coleman Trail in El Paso, choosing to press on to the summit where he saw Sierra Blanca Peak 150 miles away on a clear day. The breathtaking view prompted spontaneous worship. This extended personal story functions as the sermon's central metaphor for stopping to marvel at God's glory.
- personal story · unit #25 — The pastor draws on his experience as a music teacher to illustrate that great ensembles succeed by obsessively focusing on fundamentals across every context—private practice, rehearsal, and performance. This analogy serves the claim that the church should maintain the same focus on the fundamental of the gospel.
- cultural reference · unit #32 — The pastor uses a children's book by Trillia Newbell to illustrate the four-movement gospel narrative: God made it, people ruined it, God rescued it, he will finish it. He expands each movement with biblical detail—creation, fall, redemption through Christ's death and resurrection, and the eschatological consummation in the new heavens and new earth. This illustrative rehearsal serves non-Christians and believers alike.
- personal story · unit #38 — The pastor illustrates theology-to-doxology overflow by recounting the Sovereign Grace Pastors Conference: 700+ pastors from around the world, deeply informed theologically and bearing pastoral burdens from years of joy and suffering, erupted in exuberant worship. Their deep knowledge of God produced explosive joy expressed physically—shouting, clapping, fists pumping, hands raised. This concrete example demonstrates what it looks like when theology overflows into doxology.
- personal story · unit #39 — The pastor continues the conference illustration, describing spontaneous congregational clapping in sync with the drums during worship builds. The crowd's physical participation demonstrated that their head knowledge had become heart overflow—they couldn't help but explode with joy. This vivid detail reinforces the embodied nature of doxological response.
- personal story · unit #47 — The pastor returns to the hiking metaphor, recounting the Guadalupe Peak summit with two friends. The hard work of the ascent made the breathtaking view sweeter, and the shared journey with friends was itself a gift. Looking back at pictures still stirs wonder. This illustration reinforces that the theological journey makes the summit view (marveling at God's love) more precious, and the corporate nature of the journey matters.
- Our salvation is entirely by God's grace despite our sin—we contribute nothing but the sin Christ died to forgive, and salvation is Christ's power alone so that we cannot boast. unit #14
- Every salvation is a miracle of God's grace that causes heaven to rejoice, and this is the reason we marvel at God's love. unit #15
- Paul prays for divine power to enable believers to apply theological truth because we cannot walk out the implications of saving grace in our own strength. unit #18
- Because we are weak and anxious beings incapable of spiritual life in our own power, Paul prays that we would be strengthened by the Holy Spirit. unit #20
- The purpose of being strengthened by the Holy Spirit is that Christ may dwell in our hearts through faith, transforming our identity so that Christ's inheritance and identity become ours. unit #21
- This church is committed to preaching nothing but Christ crucified every week—we are a one-song church. unit #24
- Paul prays that believers would comprehend the incomprehensible—the breadth, length, height, and depth of Christ's love that surpasses all human knowledge and vocabulary. unit #27
- The proper response to marveling at God's incomprehensible love is doxology—worship and praise—because even our fullest theological understanding falls infinitely short of the reality of God's love. unit #36
- Theology (what we know about God) must overflow into doxology (worship) and can never remain merely intellectual—Paul models this by pausing his theological argument to worship. unit #37
- Worship (doxology) is the proper response to marveling at God's love for his people. unit #41
"While I may have much knowledge to communicate regarding Christian obedience, thought, and duty, my greatest obligation is consistently and compassionately to fire a more profound love for God in those dear to Him. Without love, there will be no power to do what God requires, and only an overwhelming affection for Him will produce an overcoming power to defeat sin. Love is power." — Brian Chappell (unit #7)
"Kneeling was unusual. It indicated an exceptional degree of earnestness, as when Ezra confessed Israel's sins of penitence, Jesus fell on his face to the ground in the Garden of Gethsemane, and Stephen faced the ordeal of martyrdom." — John Stott (unit #9)
"but curiously, with this posture of humility, there is also a striking boldness. Paul prays not only humbled by his heavenly King's glory, but also confident of his heavenly Father's care." — Brian Chappell (unit #9)
"I lay down and slept. I awoke again, for you sustained me." — David (unit #10)
"do you know what you contributed to your salvation? Your sin." — Jonathan Edwards (unit #13)
"The riches of God are his kindness and mercy provided through the blood of Christ, which has redeemed us from the debt of our sin. But the riches do not merely cancel debt, they are also so vast as to provide us the rights and privileges of the household of heaven. We may even call our God our Father." — Brian Chappell (unit #19)
"In Greek, these spatial dimensions are nouns, rather than adjectives: width, height, length, depth. They are united together by a single article. The Greek text does not explicitly state an object of these spatial dimensions, so we might wonder, is it the width, length, height, and depth of God's power? Is it his salvation plan, his wisdom, or his love? Some commenters debate these options, including other possibilities, but the NIV rightly identifies the clearest reference as the love of Christ for us." — Brian Chappell (unit #27)
"We shall have power to comprehend these dimensions of Christ's love. Paul adds, only with all the saints. The isolated Christian can indeed know something of the love of Jesus, but his grasp of it is bound to be limited by his limited experience. It needs the whole people of God to understand the whole love of God. All the saints together, Jews and Gentiles, men and women, young and old, black and white, with all their varied backgrounds and experiences. Yet even then, although we may comprehend its dimensions to some extent with our minds, we cannot know it in our experience. It is too broad, long, deep, and high even for all the saints together to grasp. It surpasses knowledge. Paul has already used this surpassing word of God's power and grace. Now he uses it of his love. Christ's love is as unknowable as his riches are unsearchable. Doubtless we will spend eternity exploring the inexhaustible riches of His grace and love." — John Stott (unit #28)
"The fullness of God is His sovereign power directed by His divine mercy. When we grasp the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, we are filled up with power that transforms our world for his sake." — Brian Chappell (unit #29)
"God made it. People ruined it. God rescued it. He will finish it." — Trillia Newbell (unit #32)
"We come to church to do the things together that we can't do apart." — Andrew (unit #43)
"We should be worshipers who know richly, feel deeply, and express passionately My hope and challenge for you is that you will savor the supremacy of the scriptures both in your personal life and in your corporate gatherings." — Michael Bleeker (unit #45)
Full transcript
0 · The pastor opens with expressions of gratitude toward the congregation and specifically thanks Neil for leading worship over the past 12 years
And it is a joy and privilege to open God's word with you this morning. Go Bills! Indeed.
Church, I want to thank you for the joy and privilege it is to spend time with you this morning.
Thank you for making El Paso this this Buffalo boy and his family feel at home for the last 12 years. You are a joy to labor with in the gospel. I meant to do this last service, but I forgot. But I want to thank Neil, because Neil has led me in worship, in singing and lifting my voice and our voices for the last 12 years, almost 13 now, since I got to El Paso. And Neil is a gift to me as a friend and to this church.
So thank you, Neil. Yes.
1 · The pastor directs the congregation to the sermon text in Ephesians 3 and extends an invitation for those without Bibles to take one from the back table, emphasizing the importance of Scripture by offering it as a gift
Would you turn in your Bibles with me to Ephesians chapter 3? If you need to borrow a Bible, we have some hardback black ones back there on the back table. Those, if you do not own a Bible, please take that. It is our gift to you. We want you to have it because we think it's that important.
2 · The pastor states the sermon's thesis and structural outline, framing the sermon as an invitation to marvel at God's love through three movements: why we marvel, what God's love does to us, and how worship flows from that marveling
My hope for today is that we would follow Paul's lead and we would stop and marvel at the love of God. And in doing so, we'll look at the text in 3 sections: the reason we marvel, the effect of God's love, and worship, the overflow of marveling.
3 · The pastor reads the full text of Ephesians 3:14-21 aloud with the congregation standing, framing it as God's holy and authoritative word and leading the congregation in the liturgical response affirming the text's authority
Would you stand as we read God's holy and authoritative word?
When I finish reading this passage, I will say, "This is the word of the Lord," and an appropriate response would be to say together, "Thanks be to God." So be ready when that comes.
The word of the Lord: For this reason I bow my knees before the Father, from whom every family in heaven and on earth is named, that according to the riches of His glory He may grant you to be strengthened with power through His Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith, that you being rooted and grounded in love may have strength to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God. Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all we ask or think, according to the power that is at work within us, to him be the glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever. Amen. This is the word of the Lord, and we say together, thanks be to God.
4 · The pastor prays, thanking God for his word and asking the Holy Spirit to open ears and soften hearts to receive what God has to say through the text
Heavenly Father, thank you for your word.
Thank you for the gift of your word.
Holy Spirit, open our ears, soften our hearts as we hear from you this morning. In Jesus' name, amen. Please take a seat.
5 · The pastor shares a personal story about hiking in the Adirondacks as a youth, not understanding the point of hiking until reaching the summit view
So I wouldn't necessarily call my family, the family I grew up in, an outdoorsy family. We were a confident outdoors family, but we weren't like outdoorsy.
They— we loved to hike and camp, and I think more accurately, they loved to hike and camp. I loved to hike only if danger and/or mountain biking was involved. I did not understand the point of taking a walk in the woods. For what purpose? I didn't get it.
I didn't understand. That is, until I experienced the point. In high school, my family would hike in the Adirondack Mountains in upstate New York. And what you have to know about the Adirondacks is they're not like these mountains. They are full of trees, covered in trees.
So you would start a hike and then you would walk on a path through the woods, and at a certain point, you would lose track of— you wouldn't be able to see where you started and you wouldn't know where you were going. The only way, the only thing that kept you or kept me going at that time was that there was a really great spot at the end to eat lunch with a view. Something about that view when you hit the top of the mountain made the squished peanut butter and jelly and trail mix that was kind of melty taste a little bit better.
Recent preaching context
The three sermons immediately preceding this one in the preaching schedule.
Discuss · apply · pray
6 questions for your group this week
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In Ephesians 3:14-21, Paul pauses his theological argument to kneel in prayer. What does this physical posture and interruption suggest about what Paul believes should happen when we truly grasp the gospel?Ephesians 3:14→ When you encounter the gospel message—whether in a sermon, Scripture reading, or personal reflection—what is typically your posture or response?
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Paul prays that believers would comprehend 'the breadth and length and height and depth' of Christ's love that 'surpasses knowledge' (Ephesians 3:18-19). How do you make sense of praying for people to understand something that by definition surpasses understanding?Ephesians 3:18-19
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The sermon emphasizes that our salvation is entirely by God's grace—we were dead in sin and contributed nothing but the sin Christ died to forgive (Ephesians 2:4-5). How does this particular shape of the gospel—where we add absolutely nothing—change what it means to 'marvel' at God's love compared to being grateful for something we partially earned?Ephesians 2:4-5
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Paul prays that believers would be 'strengthened with power through his Spirit in your inner being' (Ephesians 3:16) so that Christ may dwell in our hearts. Why does Paul connect divine strengthening to the indwelling of Christ? What does this suggest about our own capacity to live out the Christian life?Ephesians 3:16-17
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The sermon argues that theology must overflow into doxology—that what we know about God must naturally lead to worship and praise. As you reflect on your own spiritual life this past week, where have you experienced theology remaining merely intellectual rather than moving into genuine worship?→ What might it look like for you personally to let a particular truth about God's love overflow into concrete worship or praise?
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Paul ends his prayer with a doxology—'to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever' (Ephesians 3:20-21). Given what Paul has just prayed for the Ephesian believers, why is corporate worship in the church the fitting response and outcome of marveling at God's love?Ephesians 3:20-21
5-day reading plan
This week we walk through Paul's prayer of marveling at God's immeasurable love, tracing the arc from grace alone in salvation, through the Holy Spirit's strengthening power, to the doxological response that transforms our hearts.
Paul reminds us that we are saved by grace through faith—and even this faith is not our achievement but God's gift. We were dead, helpless, and utterly unable to save ourselves, yet God's mercy reached us anyway. This is the foundation upon which all marveling at God's love must rest: we have nothing to boast of except Christ's power and mercy.
John declares that God's love is not our response to Him—rather, He loved us first and sent His Son as a propitiation for our sins. This reversal of expectation is the source of our wonder: we were not seeking Him; He sought us. When we grasp that our salvation is God's initiative born purely from His love, our hearts are compelled to stop and marvel.
Even as believers, we remain dependent creatures—rich in mercy as God is, He knows our frailty and continually sustains us. The Holy Spirit's indwelling is not a one-time event but an ongoing strengthening that enables us to walk in the implications of the gospel we have trusted. We cannot manufacture the power to comprehend God's love or live according to it; this power is always a gift from above.
Paul speaks of our predestination, adoption, and inheritance in Ephesians 1, reminding us that the Spirit's work has an end: Christ dwelling richly in us, making us heirs with Him. Our identity is no longer bound to our failures or our past; it is bound to His resurrection and glory. This is the transformation the Holy Spirit accomplishes as He strengthens us—we become the beloved children of God.
In the parables of the lost sheep, coin, and son, Jesus shows us a God who rejoices over the return of sinners—a joy so exuberant it overflows into celebration with others. When we truly grasp that we are loved this fiercely, that heaven itself throws a party for our redemption, our response cannot remain silent. Like Paul kneeling in prayer, we are moved to worship, to sing, to gather with God's people and together declare the glory of a love too vast for words.
Prayer for Hearts Awakened to God's Immeasurable Love
Father, we come before you in wonder at the character you have revealed in Christ. Your love is not rationed or limited by our worthiness; it flows from endless riches of glory toward us despite our sin and rebellion. We marvel that you would kneel, as it were, to draw near to us in our weakness—that the God of all creation would bend toward us with immeasurable tenderness (Ephesians 3:14-15).
We confess that we often live as though your love were conditional, as though we must earn your favor through our obedience or prove ourselves worthy of your grace. We drift from the fundamental reality of the gospel, distracted by our circumstances and anxieties, losing sight of the breadth and length and height and depth of Christ's love that surpasses knowledge (Ephesians 3:18-19). None of us perfectly grasps the incomprehensible nature of your love, yet we acknowledge our tendency to minimize it through small thinking and forgetful hearts.
But the gospel humbles us as we grasp that our salvation was accomplished entirely through Christ's power and grace—we contributed nothing but the sin he died to forgive (Ephesians 2:8-9). Every Christian's salvation is a miracle that causes heaven to rejoice. In light of this incomparable gift, we ask that you would strengthen us by your Holy Spirit in our inner being, that Christ may dwell richly in our hearts through faith, transforming our very identity so that his inheritance becomes ours (Ephesians 3:16-17, 3:21).
Grant us courage to stop and marvel regularly at your love, refusing to let our theology remain merely intellectual but allowing it to overflow into passionate worship and doxology. Enable us to sing together with one another, connecting our knowledge of your grace to heartfelt praise. As we comprehend—as far as we are able—the dimensions of Christ's love for us, fill us with all the fullness of God, so that our lives become a corporate song of wonder and gratitude to the one who loves us with an love that surpasses all understanding (Ephesians 3:19-20). To you alone be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever.
What Made You Stop and Stare?
This prompt invites your family to connect the sermon's big idea—stopping to marvel at God's love—to moments in their own lives when they've been genuinely amazed. Listen for what captures their wonder, then help them see how the gospel is even more worthy of that same awestruck response.
Pastor Jonathan talked about how Paul stopped everything to pray and just marvel at how much God loves us in Jesus. What's something you've seen that made you stop what you were doing and just stare—like a sunset, or something beautiful, or someone doing something really kind? And if God's love for us is even bigger and more amazing than that, what does it feel like to think about it?
Marveling at Love Together
- What part of Paul's prayer for the church stirred your heart this week—and what did it reveal about where your own marvel at God's love might have grown cold?
- When we sing together on Sunday or pray together at home, do we pause to let our theology overflow into worship, or do we often rush past the gospel without stopping to actually marvel? How might we change that together?
- Paul prayed that believers would be strengthened by the Holy Spirit to comprehend Christ's love—what is one way we can pray that prayer for each other this week as we face our own weakness and doubt?
Ephesians 3:17-19
so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith—that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may have strength to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God.
Why this verse: This passage crystallizes Paul's prayer and the sermon's central exhortation: believers must comprehend—as far as humanly possible—the immeasurable love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, allowing that comprehension to overflow into worship and transformed living. It captures both the impossibility of fully grasping God's love and the imperative to marvel at it anyway.
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