Sovereign Grace At the Bottom of It All

Ephesians 1:3-5 September 11, 2022 Pastor Ricky Alcantar
Thesis Saving grace is sovereign grace—God not only offers salvation to spiritually dead sinners but sovereignly chooses and effectually calls them to himself, making this doctrine a foundation for profound humility, gratitude, and worship.
Series
Ephesians
Type
Expository
Tone
pastoraldidacticcelebratory
Method
grammatical-historicalcanonical
What's in this sermon

The shape of the argument

33 units across exposition, application, illustration, theological claim, and conclusion. The pastor's argument is built from these moving parts.

Pastoral correction · unit #26
"The pastor begins the positive application section by addressing humility and gratitude, using mathematical reductio (if salvation is X/Y split, there's pride; if 100% grace, no pride) and hymn quotation ("And Can It Be") to move the congregation toward wonder. The application is general rather than concrete—describing a heart posture rather than specific actions."
Doctrinal loci· 12 surfaced
Soteriology · 18 Theology Proper · 8 Providence / Sovereignty · 6 Doxology / Worship · 4 Pastoral Theology · 4 Anthropology · 3 Bibliology · 3 Hamartiology · 3 Christology · 2 Ecclesiology · 2 Ethics / Moral Theology · 1 Pneumatology · 1
Bible citations· 36
Ephesians 1:3-5 | Ephesians 1:4 | Genesis 1 | Psalm 33:11 | Isaiah 46:9-10 | Matthew 11:28 | John 3:16 | John 3:18 | Revelation 22:17 | John 5:40 | Proverbs 16:9 | Galatians 1:15-16 | Acts 13:48 | Exodus 14 | Job (entire book) | Ephesians 2:1 | Romans 6:17 | 2 Timothy 2:26 | Ephesians 2:2 | Ephesians 4:18-19 | Colossians 1:21 | Romans 5:10 | John 8:44 | Ephesians 2:1-3 | Ephesians 2:4-6 | Ephesians 1:9 | Ephesians 1:11 | Romans 8:29-30 | Acts 18:9-11 | Romans 11:36 | Ephesians 1:3 | Ephesians 1
Illustrations· 5
  1. personal story · unit #1 — The pastor uses his marriage story to illustrate the doctrine of election—just as he initially thought he chose his wife but later realized she chose him, Christians often think they chose God when in reality God chose them first. The humor and vulnerability make the abstract doctrine accessible.
  2. analogy · unit #11 — The pastor uses the Trinity and Incarnation as parallel examples to argue that Christians already accept mystery in other central doctrines, so accepting mystery in divine sovereignty and human will should not be problematic. The illustration reduces resistance by showing the inconsistency of rejecting mystery here while accepting it elsewhere.
  3. analogy · unit #12 — The pastor offers two illustrations—the wave-particle duality of light and Job's encounter with God—to argue that apparent contradictions can both be true when God's knowledge infinitely exceeds ours, and that the proper response to mystery is humility rather than rejection. Both illustrations defend the propriety of accepting mystery in divine sovereignty.
  4. cultural reference · unit #18 — The pastor uses a cultural reference—an atheist's mocking tweet about Christianity—to illustrate the magnitude of God's electing love. The atheist intends the cosmic scale to mock the personal relationship claim, but the pastor embraces it as evidence of astonishing grace. The illustration serves both logos (argument from scale) and pathos (wonder).
  5. personal story · unit #30 — The pastor returns to the opening marriage illustration before closing with Spurgeon's testimony of discovering sovereign grace in his own conversion. The Spurgeon quotation functions as both illustration (personal story) and authority (great preacher's testimony), showing that the doctrine is not speculative but discovered in personal experience. The illustration aims to leave the congregation with a sense of being loved.
Theological claims· 4
  1. Ephesians 1:4 teaches the doctrine of God's sovereign grace—that God chose believers, not that believers chose God. unit #2
  2. Saving grace is sovereign grace—the Bible teaches not only that salvation is by grace but that God sovereignly set His love on believers and drew them to Himself. unit #5
  3. We must confess the mystery of divine sovereignty and human responsibility without adding to or subtracting from Scripture, trusting that God understands what we cannot. unit #10
  4. Grace is entirely unmerited—not a 60/40 or 99/1 split but grace from first to last—and non-Christians should respond to the gospel offer knowing that election is the happy surprise awaiting them on the other side of faith. unit #19
Quotations· 8
"Well, son, you done good." — The pastor's grandfather (unit #1)
"I know that I was cut off from God, hostile toward him, doing evil deeds. I was enslaved to my sin. I was condemned as God's enemy. I was caught in the snare of the devil. I had Satan as my father and did Satan's will. I was dead in my sin, a son of disobedience, a child of wrath, living in the lusts of my flesh. And my understanding then was darkened. My heart was incurably sick. I was excluded from life with God." — Rick Gamache (unit #14)
"The gloriously unshakable foundation of our being in Christ is that God chose us to be in Christ. God is sovereign in the salvation of sinners." — Rick Mosch (unit #17)
"Christianity, belief that one God created a universe 13.79 billion years old, 93 billion light-years in diameter, consisting of over 200 billion galaxies, each containing an average of 200 billion stars, only to have a personal relationship with you." — An atheist Twitter account (unit #18)
"After giving a brief survey of these doctrines of sovereign grace, I asked for questions from the class. One lady in particular was quite troubled. She said this, 'This is the most awful thing I've ever heard. You make it sound as if God is intentionally turning away men who would be saved, receiving only the elect.' I answered her in this vein, 'You misunderstand the situation. You're visualizing that God is standing at the door of heaven and men are thronging to get in the door and God is saying to various ones, "Yes, you may come, but not you, or you, or you." The situation's hardly this. Rather, God stands at the door of heaven with his arms outstretched inviting all to come, yet all men without exception are running toward hell as hard as they can go, so God in election graciously reaches out and stops this one and that one and this one over here and that one over there and effectually draws them to himself by changing their hearts making them willing to come. Election keeps no one out of heaven who would otherwise have been there, but it keeps a multitude of sinners out of hell who otherwise would have been there.'" — Mark Webb (unit #21)
"Although attended with mystery, the doctrine of election should not produce speculation, introspection, apathy, or pride, but rather humility, gratitude, assurance, evangelistic passion, and eternal praise for the undeserved grace of God in Christ." — Cross of Grace Church Statement of Faith (unit #24)
"Long my imprisoned spirit lay, fast bound in sin and nature's night. Thine eyes diffused a quickening ray. I woke, the dungeon flamed with light. My chains fell off, my heart was free. I rose, went forth, and followed thee." — Charles Wesley (unit #26)
"When I was coming to Christ, I thought I was doing it all myself and thought I sought the Lord earnestly. I had no idea the Lord was seeking me. One weeknight when I was sitting in the house of God, I was not much thinking about the preacher's sermon, for I did not believe it. Then the thought struck me, 'How did you come to be a Christian?' I sought the Lord. 'But how did you come to seek the Lord?' Well, the truth flashed across my mind in a moment. I should not have sought him unless there had been some previous influence in my mind to make me seek him. I prayed, thought I. But I thought, I asked myself, 'How came I to pray?' I was induced to pray by reading the Scriptures. 'How came I to read the Scriptures?' I did read them, but what led me to do so? And then in a moment, I saw that God was at the bottom of it all and that He was the author of my faith. So the doctrine of grace opened up to me, and from that doctrine I have not departed to this day. And I desire to make this my constant confession: I ascribe my change wholly to God." — Charles Spurgeon (unit #30)
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0 · The pastor welcomes visitors and explains the church's hospitality approach before framing the sermon as a revisit to the previous week's Ephesians passage with a specific doctrinal focus

Totally okay. There's Bibles available on the back table. Our hope and prayer is that you would experience something of the— just a bit of the community that Edwin and Emily are describing as you visit here today. And, uh, you never know. I love our church. You never know what's going to be happening. You may have arrived today totally unaware that you're going to be handed a Hawaiian shaved ice, and that is part of our— just our desire to turn strangers into family through hospitality. So thanks for joining us. Today. Now, we're going to continue our series in the book of Ephesians, but we're going to pause and actually kind of work back over the passage we went through last week with a particular emphasis because it raises a particular question.

1 · The pastor uses his marriage story to illustrate the doctrine of election—just as he initially thought he chose his wife but later realized she chose him, Christians often think they chose God when in reality God chose them first

So Ephesians chapter 1, we're going to read verses 3 through 5. This is God's Word. Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places, even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him in love, he predestined us for adoption to himself as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will. This is God's Word. And, Father, I pray you'd give us ears to hear and eyes to see today. Amen. Well, 14 years ago when I married Jen, my granddad, who was a Mississippi southerner, summed up the sentiments of our family when he looked at me and said, "Well, son, you done good." His summary judgment of Jen was good, good job, right? And over the years, I've— as I've encountered people, they get to know me, they get to know Jen, there's often some level of surprise that we are together, much less married for 14 years. At different points, people will have congratulated me and say something like, well, great choice, you know, great job, you did great. And, you know, early in my marriage, I might have received that, like, yeah, you know what, that was pretty good, you know, like I won this girl over 100%, you know, killed it, killed it, man, high five. My dad does this thing that's super weird that I love called when the rest of the family won't give him a high five, he'll give himself a self high five. Self-five, which is where he puts his hand up and goes like that. So no support from the family, doesn't need it, self-five, right? And so there are moments early in my marriage that I thought, yeah, you know what, I married Jen. Yep, self-five, deserve that. And then recently, as I was going through some pictures, some old pictures of us, I realized that my assessment that I had chosen well, that I'd won Jen over, that I picked Jen, that I chose her, was totally inaccurate because this is what I look like when I met her. So if you're thinking, what a Romeo, like, that's— you need some glasses. Please take it away. It's super distracting now. That's the reality. All right, so this is when I met Jen. She had— she was cool. She had a cool blue streak in her hair. She was great at her job in conferencing. She was a killer and probably a tad too aggressive indoor soccer player. And so she was essentially the opposite of me. And a few years into our marriage, I realized, yeah, you know what? I didn't pick her, she picked me, right? Like she was the one that was like, you know what? Yeah, I will be friends with you, weirdo. She's the one that, laughed at a number of my jokes. She let me— I remember there's this fateful long bus ride. We were on a bus together with a bunch of other people for, like, 6 hours, 7 hours, something like that. And she let me sit next to her and she talked to me for 6 hours. And I realized, looking back, if I rerolled the tape, I'm like, "Yeah, no, I didn't pick her. She picked me."

2 · The pastor makes the explicit theological claim that Ephesians 1:4 teaches God's sovereign choice rather than human choice, naming the doctrine being addressed and correcting the common misreading of the text

And in a similar way, I think when it comes to Ephesians chapter 1, we often arrive at Ephesians chapter 1 assuming that, yep, we chose him. Even as perhaps you read in verse 4, "He blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places, even as we chose him." No, that's actually not what it says. And you arrive at a little bit like, "Wait a minute, I thought that verse was— it zigged when I thought it was going to zag. This is not what I expected." That is what in Scripture is called the doctrine of God's sovereign grace.

3 · The pastor directly addresses the congregation about the sermon's purpose and scope, clarifying that belief in sovereign grace is not required for salvation while expressing pastoral hope that understanding it will deepen their appreciation of God's grace

And today we're going to take a Sunday and lay out this doctrine because it is one of the distinct beliefs our church has that is dear to us. And I want to be super clear upfront, you do not have to believe everything I say about the doctrine of God's sovereign grace to be a Christian. Scripture calls you to repent of your sins, believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved. However, I will say this. I hope you will. I hope you will because I hope that as we walk through this, it will leave you more in awe of God's grace in your life than when you walked in. And I hope it will have the intended effect that the text is meant to have on you as we walk out of here.

4 · The pastor sets up the sermon's framework by offering two interpretive questions for the congregation to carry throughout the message, particularly orienting new believers to the theological depth ahead

So, last thing I'll say before we jump in, if you're new to Christianity, new to the Bible, I'm gonna just warn you up front, we're kinda jumping into the deep end a little bit of the theological pool. If you were like, "I'm— I got floaties on," that's okay. You won't sink. But here's what I want to encourage you to think about as we walk through this. Ask two questions: How much help do we need from God? And how great is God's love for us? How much help do we need? How much does God love us? Those are the two questions I hope you carry with you as we walk through.

5 · The pastor states the sermon's controlling thesis—that saving grace is sovereign grace—and distinguishes between the commonly accepted doctrine of unmerited favor in salvation and the less commonly emphasized doctrine of God's sovereign initiative in election

So our headline, the one thing that I hope you get out of our time in the text today is this: saving grace is sovereign grace. Many Christians love and receive and treasure the doctrine of God's saving grace and God through unmerited favor sending his Son Jesus to us to die. In our place for our sins that we might be offered salvation. That saving grace is all over the Bible. It's the main storyline of the Bible. And so we rejoice in that. But what we're gonna see today is this, that the Bible also shows God's sovereign grace in setting his love on us in the first place and then drawing us to himself.

Where this fits

Recent preaching context

The three sermons immediately preceding this one in the preaching schedule.

Aug 21, 2022
Real Christianity is not religious practice, using Jesus, or coexisting with Jesus, but receiving salvation in Jesus alone, being empowered by the Spirit for Christ's purposes, and surrendering every area of life so that Jesus becomes our life and treasure.
Acts 19:8-20
Aug 28, 2022
Every mundane moment of the Christian life—from our conversion story to our daily identity to our ongoing sanctification—is saturated with God's radical, unmerited grace, which both saves us decisively and sustains us continuously.
Ephesians 1:1-2
Sep 4, 2022
Overwhelmed with blessing in Christ, we should overflow in blessing to God.
Ephesians 1:3-14
September 11 · This sermon
Sovereign Grace At the Bottom of It All
Saving grace is sovereign grace—God not only offers salvation to spiritually dead sinners but sovereignly chooses and effectually calls them to himself, making this doctrine a foundation for profound humility, gratitude, and worship.
Ephesians 1:3-5
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Small-group discussion

6 questions for your group this week

  1. In Ephesians 1:3-5, Paul says God 'chose us in him before the foundation of the world.' What does it mean that this choice happened before time began, and how does that differ from the idea that God simply knew in advance who would choose Him?
    Ephesians 1:4
    → How does this timing—before creation—shape your understanding of God's power and intentionality in salvation?
  2. The sermon teaches that Ephesians 2:1 describes us as 'dead in our trespasses.' What does spiritual deadness mean, and why does that matter for understanding what saving grace actually has to do?
    Ephesians 2:1
    → If we were truly dead—unable to hear, see, or respond to God—then who had to do the choosing and the calling?
  3. Many people worry that if God sovereignly chose believers before the foundation of the world, then human choice and responsibility don't matter. What did the sermon say about this tension, and how would you explain it to someone who raised this concern?
    Ephesians 1:4
  4. According to the sermon, what are the four main effects—or four main ways we should respond—when we truly believe that our salvation is sovereign grace? Which one speaks most directly to where you are right now?
    → Where in your own life do you find it hardest to live out that response?
  5. The sermon says that grace is 'entirely unmerited—not a 60/40 or 99/1 split but grace from first to last.' If that's true, what does it do to our sense of pride, self-reliance, or the feeling that we've somehow earned God's favor?
    Romans 6:17
    → How might believing this more deeply change the way you pray, witness to others, or receive God's provision this week?
  6. If you are sitting in this group and you have never trusted Christ, what does this sermon say to you about your own path to faith? What is the 'happy surprise' the sermon mentions?
    Matthew 11:28
    → For those who are already believers: how would you invite someone in that position to respond to the gospel in light of what we've studied?
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Daily readings · Monday–Friday

5-day reading plan

This week we trace the stunning logic of sovereign grace: God's choice precedes ours, His love initiates ours, His Spirit awakens dead hearts—and this mystery is meant to humble us, not paralyze us.

Monday Ephesians 2:1

Paul doesn't say we are sick or confused—he says we are dead in trespasses and sins. A corpse cannot choose life. This is why saving grace must be sovereign grace: only God can raise the dead. As you read this verse, let it settle into you that your salvation was never your achievement but God's rescue of you when you had no power to rescue yourself.

Tuesday Isaiah 46:9-10

Isaiah declares that God remembers the end from the beginning and makes all His purpose stand. This is the God who chose you before the foundation of the world—not on a whim, not based on foreseen faith, but according to His immutable counsel. Rest today in the truth that your election rests on the unchanging mind of God, not on the shifting sands of human decision.

Wednesday Galatians 1:15-16

Paul speaks of God's sovereign choice as the foundation—'God was pleased to reveal His Son to me'—which precedes and enables Paul's response. Election is not God's reaction to human choice; it is God's initiative that makes our response possible. Notice how Paul doesn't say 'I chose God' but 'God set His love on me and called me.' That reversal is everything.

Thursday John 3:16

Here is the paradox that should humble every believer: God loves the world so much that He gave His Son. This is not conditional love waiting for us to believe first; this is the uncaused love of God breaking into human history. The offer 'whoever believes' is real and free, yet it stands within the larger context of God's sovereign love that chose you before you knew to choose Him.

Friday Revelation 22:17

The Spirit and the Bride cry 'Come!' and whosoever will may come and take the water of life freely. This is the invitation we are called to extend: come as you are, without earning it, knowing that God's sovereign grace is already at work beneath your yes. As you close this week, ask yourself: Am I resting in the mystery of God's sovereign choice while freely calling others to respond? That is the posture this doctrine produces.

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Pray together this week

Sovereign Grace—Our Ground of Gratitude

Father, we come before you this morning recognizing the staggering truth that you have loved us before the foundation of the world. You saw us in our spiritual death—broken, separated from you, enslaved to the prince of the power of the air (Ephesians 2:1-2)—and yet you set your electing love upon us. We adore you for your sovereignty, that you are not passive in the offer of salvation but active, choosing, calling, drawing us to yourself through the gospel of Christ.

We confess that we often live as though salvation were a 60/40 or 99/1 partnership between your grace and our effort, when the truth is it is grace from first to last. We confess the pride that creeps in when we forget that we did not choose you, but you chose us (John 15:16). We confess the anxiety that rises when we wonder whether we are truly chosen, forgetting that our assurance rests not in our grip on you but in your grip on us. Forgive us for the times we have preached a half-gospel, a partial grace, when you have given us the whole.

We thank you that in Christ, you have done what we could never do for ourselves. You have reconciled us to yourself. You have made us alive together with Christ. You have seated us in the heavenly places (Ephesians 2:4-6). We receive this sovereign grace as the happy surprise of salvation—not something we merited or engineered, but something you purposed and accomplished in love.

Grant us, Father, the humility to live as the recipients of grace we truly are. Give us gratitude that overflows into worship and praise. Give us the assurance that comes from resting in your electing love, not our own performance. And give us the passion to proclaim to those who are spiritually dead that you offer them the gospel freely—that they may find the joy of discovering themselves chosen and loved by you. We ask all this through Christ, in whom we are blessed with every spiritual blessing. Amen.

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Sunday-evening family table

Chosen Before You Were Born

For the parent

This sermon introduced kids (and adults) to the doctrine of election—that God chose us before the foundation of the world. At the table, help your family sit with the wonder of that truth by inviting them to imagine what it means to be chosen by God, not as reward for anything they did, but as a gift. Listen for any sense of awe or gratitude that emerges.

If God chose you and loved you before you were even born—before the world was made—what does that tell you about how much God loves you? And how does that change the way you think about yourself?
works for ages 7+; younger children can answer with simpler words like 'God really loves me' while older kids explore the doctrine more deeply
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Couples · three questions over coffee

Chosen Before the Foundation of the World

  1. What did you hear in this sermon about God's choice of you that stirred something in your heart—comfort, conviction, or a question you're still sitting with?
  2. How does knowing that God sovereignly chose you before the foundation of the world shape the way you see your marriage covenant—not as something you achieved, but as something you received together?
  3. What is one way you can pray for your spouse this week in light of this doctrine—asking God to deepen their assurance, gratitude, or sense of being chosen and loved by Him?
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Memory verse this week

Ephesians 1:4

He chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him.

Why this verse: This verse is the load-bearing biblical statement for the sermon's central thesis—that saving grace is sovereign grace, rooted in God's electing love set on us before time began. Memorizing this verse anchors the listener in the doctrine that secures humility, gratitude, and assurance: salvation originates not in our choice but in God's sovereign choice of us.

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