Out of Their Way to Be Together
Thesis As Christians, we are called by God's design to go out of our way to go together in ministry, because Jesus went out of his way for us.
The shape of the argument
18 units across exposition, application, illustration, theological claim, and conclusion. The pastor's argument is built from these moving parts.
- personal story · unit #4 — The pastor tells a personal story about reluctantly going out of his way to help his wife get a special shark cake for his 4-year-old son's birthday. His initial resistance melts when he sees his son's joy, illustrating that going out of your way is worth it when it serves someone you love.
- As Christians, we go out of our way to go together. unit #5
- Christian ministry is together ministry—there is no individual Christian ministry of a lone ranger. unit #7
- God's design from Abraham through the New Testament is to form a people, not isolated individuals—we are living stones meant to be built together. unit #8
- When we walk together as Christians, our joys are doubled and our sorrows are halved. unit #12
- When we are together in ministry, we accomplish far more than we ever could alone. unit #13
- We go out of our way to minister together because Jesus went out of his way for us—that is our pattern and our model. unit #14
Full transcript
0 · The pastor welcomes the congregation, introduces himself to new attendees, and invites people to fellowship after the service
It's me, guys. Welcome to Cross of Grace, and if you're new around here and maybe you've started attending during the summer, I'm sorry if I did not get a chance to meet you yet. I'm Ricky, I'm one of the pastors here at the church, and I really would love to share a shaved ice or a— as we discussed, I was talking with somebody in the break, they're not really raspas. Raspas is like we need the giant block of ice with the little guy going You know, but they're good. They're the best we could do without the giant block of ice.
And if you have a few minutes, we'd love to meet you, get a chance to get to know you and hear your story. And a great way to do that is stick around after the service and fellowship with us a little bit.
1 · The pastor transitions to the scripture reading by engaging children in the congregation, asking them to hold up Bibles and affirm together that they are reading God's Word
We're going to be in the book of Acts, finishing our study of Paul's first missionary journey. So kids— any kids have a Bible today? Any kids bring their Bible?
Can any kids have a Bible? Any kid have one? One per— somebody's got a Bible. You have a Bible? Oh, great job.
Can you hold it up for me? And kids, if you just grab a Bible, grab your parents' Bible if you have to. If you're a kid, grab a Bible. You guys got one? Hold it up in the air.
Hold it up in the air with me and say, "This is God's Word." Can you say that? "This is God's Word." Good job. We're going to be reading God's Word today. And we're going to be— your parents can help you find Acts chapter 14. We're finishing our study, as I said, of Paul's first missionary journey.
2 · The pastor reads Acts 14:24-28 aloud, framing it as surprising but fully inspired scripture meant for the congregation's growth
We've seen some amazing things during this missionary journey, but there's one more lesson God's word has to teach us today. And it may be a surprising one. And it may be actually first when we read this, you might think that's not a lesson at all. But remember, every part of God's word is inspired by God and breathed out by God for our help and our edification and our growth. So let's read Acts chapter 14.
We're going to begin reading in verse 24. This is God's Word. Then they passed through Pisidia and came to Pamphylia. And when they had spoken the word in Perga, they went down to Attalia, and from where they sailed to Antioch, from where they had been commended to the grace of God for the work that they had fulfilled. And when they had arrived and gathered the church together, they declared all that God had done with them and how he had opened a door of faith to the Gentiles.
And they remained no little time with the disciples. This is God's Word.
3 · The pastor prays for God's blessing on the preaching, on the congregation's Sunday, and for their hearts to be stirred as they hear what God has done
Lord, we pray that you bless the preaching of your Word. Bless our Sunday, Lord. May we, as we seek to emulate this passage and hear updates, may you stir our hearts as we hear what God has done among us.
Amen.
4 · The pastor tells a personal story about reluctantly going out of his way to help his wife get a special shark cake for his 4-year-old son's birthday
Well, I don't know about you, but I do not like detours. I don't like going out of my way. And this week, my son Anson, who is 4 years old, who used to be the king of babies, and he is no longer at 4 years old the king of babies. He declared himself to be the king of the brothers this week.
I was like, well, your brothers may dispute that, but he's going with it. And he turned 4 years old, and as my wife went to go pick up his car seat, cookie cake at Sam's. She got this special cookie cake made for him, but there was a problem with the card that we had. And so, uh, we— she asked, would you bring your membership card just so I can check out and get this thing? Mine's not working.
I try to go to the customer service. This will be faster. And so I was going by and I thought, I can go, but it's going to be out of my way. And so I thought, listen, if I go— if I stop here and go help with the cookie, I'm going to be late for my meeting. Potentially I'm going to be stressed for this meeting.
Meeting's not going to go well. My next meeting is going to be stressed and it's not going to go well. And my rest The rest of my day is gonna be ruined if I go out of my way. That's what I was thinking. So I show up, did not wanna go out of my way.
I was grumpy, showed the person the membership card at Saddam's. Grr, here it is, you know? Walk over, grr, with all these people. And I arrive and I see my son. My son is having a particular kind of birthday he was excited about, and it was a shark birthday.
He wanted a shark birthday, and so we got shark balloons, we got a shark piñata, and there was a particular special cake we just had to get. 'Cause I was thinking to myself, why not just get another cake? Why not just get cookies? I'll just buy some Chips Ahoy. He's 4 years old.
He's not going to know the difference. Here's a cookie. It's a shortcake. No, he knows the difference. And I arrive and I was thinking detours are not worth it.
Going out of your way is not worth it. But this is what I saw when I arrived at the store. Do you have that picture, Kathy? This is him. He, what kind of shirt does he have on, kids?
A shark shirt. And if you, you can't really see it, but behind him in the cart, there is a cake with shark fins all over the cake and a shark coming out of the cake. It was a shark cake for a shark birthday. And when I arrived, he goes, Dad, we got a shark cake for my shark birthday. And I realized, I would go out of my way every time for this kid and his shark birthday.
Right. And I realized sometimes going out of your way is worth it depending on what you go out of your way for. Right.
5 · The pastor states the sermon's central claim: Christians go out of their way to go together
I wish I could look at that picture of Anson all day, but thank you for putting the map back up, Kathy. Sometimes it's worth going out of your way.
And what we're going to learn briefly before we hear our updates from our mission partners is just this: as Christians, This text shows us that we go out of our way to go together. So if you're a kid filling in your notes, that's the big phrase: we go out of our way to go together.
Recent preaching context
The three sermons immediately preceding this one in the preaching schedule.
Discuss · apply · pray
6 questions for your group this week
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In Acts 14:24-28, Paul and Barnabas go 450 miles out of their way by boat to return to Antioch and report to the sending church. What does their choice to make this journey tell us about how they understood their relationship to the church that sent them?Acts 14:26-27→ Why do you think it mattered to them that the church *hear* what God had done, rather than just know it happened?
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Ricky said that 'Christian ministry is together ministry—there is no individual Christian ministry of a lone ranger.' Where in your own life do you feel the pull to do ministry alone, or to keep your spiritual life private rather than shared with others?→ What would change if you brought that area into community instead of trying to handle it by yourself?
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The sermon emphasizes that God's design from Abraham through the New Testament is to form a *people*, not isolated individuals. How does this challenge the way our culture (and maybe your own instinct) tends to think about faith as a personal, individual journey?1 Peter 2:5→ What's at stake theologically if we treat Christianity as something we can do alone?
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Ricky claimed that 'when we walk together as Christians, our joys are doubled and our sorrows are halved.' Can you think of a time when you experienced either doubled joy or halved sorrow because you were in community? What made the difference?→ What kept you from experiencing that togetherness in other seasons, and what would it take to change that?
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The text shows that Paul and Barnabas went out of their way—it was inconvenient, costly, and required sacrifice. What does it cost *you* right now to go out of your way to do ministry together with others in this church?Acts 14:24-26→ Is that cost something you're willing to bear, and if not, what's underneath that resistance?
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Ricky's final move was to say, 'We go out of our way to minister together because Jesus went out of his way for us—that is our pattern and our model.' How does the reality of what Christ did for you change your willingness to go out of your way for your brothers and sisters?Acts 13:47 / Christology→ What's one specific way you could go out of your way this week to serve or encourage someone in this congregation?
5-day reading plan
This week we follow Paul and Barnabas from their first missionary journey back to Antioch, learning how God designs his people to minister together—not as isolated believers, but as a covenant community whose joys are doubled and whose witness is multiplied.
Notice how the Antioch church sends Paul and Barnabas out—not as solitary missionaries, but as representatives of a sending body. The church lays hands on them, fasts, and prays them into the work. From the very start, Paul's mission is rooted in the covenant people of God, not in individual heroism. When we do ministry, we do it as part of something larger than ourselves.
Peter describes the church as living stones being built into a spiritual house. A single stone has little purpose; its strength and beauty emerge only in relation to the stones around it. We are not called to be individual believers standing alone, but to be fitted together into God's household. The very architecture of God's people assumes we belong to one another.
The Jerusalem council gathers because disagreement has arisen in the church. Rather than Paul and Barnabas settling the matter in isolation, the whole body comes together to discern what the Spirit is saying. Conflict in community is inconvenient, costly, and necessary. God designs his people to work through disputes together, not to fragment into smaller, more comfortable groups.
Paul and Barnabas could have sailed directly home, but instead they backtracked 450 miles by boat to Antioch to report to the sending church. This detour was deliberate, costly, and purposeful. Every time we choose to go out of our way to gather, to encourage, to serve alongside others, we are living out the gospel pattern—because Jesus went immeasurably out of his way to rescue us.
Paul and Barnabas gather the church and report all that God had done—and the church listens, rejoices, and recognizes themselves as participants in God's advance. Their joy is not a private feeling but a corporate reality. As we gather this week, ask: How does the presence of God's people double my joy in what he is doing? How does their witness confirm that I am part of something infinitely larger than myself?
Father, Make Us a People Who Go Together
Father, we come before you grateful that you are a God who goes out of your way for us. You sent your Son to leave the glory of heaven and walk among us, to go the distance of the cross itself so that we might be reconciled to you. We thank you that Jesus did not accomplish redemption alone, and we praise you that you have never designed your kingdom to be built by isolated individuals, but by a people called together, covenant-bound, meant to be built together as living stones in your house (1 Peter 2:5).
We confess, Father, that we often live as though ministry is something we do alone—in our private faithfulness, in our personal choices, in our solitary walk with you. We resist the inconvenience of going out of our way to minister alongside our brothers and sisters. We choose what is comfortable over what is costly. And we miss the joy that only comes when we labor together, when our victories are doubled and our burdens are shared, when we gather to report what you have done and find our hearts made glad in the fellowship of your people (Acts 14:27).
But here is the good news: you have called us not to walk alone, but to walk together. You have given us the Holy Spirit who binds us as one body. You have shown us in Christ himself the pattern of inconvenience borne for the sake of love and mission. By the power of his resurrection, grant us the courage to go out of our way—to show up, to labor together, to report our joys and sorrows to the gathered church, and to confirm one another in the gospel advance.
Make us, Father, a people marked by togetherness. Give us grace to embrace the inconvenience of ministry together. Help us to see that when we go out of our way to be with one another, we are following the pattern of our Savior and participating in your eternal design. Let our church be a place where no one ministers alone, where the joy of the Lord is multiplied in our gathering, and where we are continually reminded that we are stronger, braver, and more fruitful together than we ever could be apart. To you be all glory and praise, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, now and forever.
Going Out of Our Way for Each Other
Paul and Barnabas sailed 450 miles out of their way just to report back to the church that sent them. This prompt invites your family to think about what it means to go inconvenient distances for people you love. Listen for stories of sacrifice or togetherness that emerge naturally.
Paul and Barnabas could have just gone home after their trip, but they sailed way out of their way to go back and tell the church everything God had done. Can you think of a time someone went out of their way for you—like driving extra, staying late, or changing their plans? What did that tell you about how much they cared?
Going Out of Our Way Together
- What struck you most about Paul and Barnabas going 450 miles out of their way to report back to Antioch? Where is the Spirit calling you to go out of your way for the sake of the gospel together?
- In what ways have you felt the joy of ministry *together* as a couple—and where might you be drifting toward doing faith as isolated individuals instead of as partners in Christ's mission?
- Who is one person or couple you could invite into your life this week—not perfectly, but inconveniently—so that your joys might be doubled and your sorrows halved in the gospel?
Acts 14:27
And when they arrived and gathered the church together, they declared all that God had done with them, and how he had opened a door of faith to the Gentiles.
Why this verse: This verse crystallizes the sermon's central claim: Christian ministry is fundamentally together ministry. Paul and Barnabas don't report privately or send word—they gather the church and declare what God has done *with them*, establishing that our joys are doubled and our participation in gospel advance is confirmed when we gather as a people, not as isolated individuals.
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