We're going to be in 2 Timothy. And as you turn there to two Timothy, let me just encourage you guys that, that coming on Sunday morning, being here for the gathering of God's people matters to your life way more than you probably think it does. Because coming on Sunday morning is a way of saying, I am going to orient my Sunday, my week and my life around the Lord. And so this morning, I don't know if you're a parent, but you should have gotten a text that was like, hey, sickness has hit one specific class of our kids ministry. And so we have two and three year olds with us in this service. And maybe you're thinking, oh man, well, there's no point in going to church. I don't know if I'm gonna pay attention if I've got a two year old with me. Well, you know what? I'm gonna be honest with you. Maybe not. You may not get a ton out of this, but I, I'll tell you what, we all get out of it. Regardless of whether or not you remember every point. Coming on Sunday morning for worship is you saying, the Lord is first in my family, the Lord is first in my life. I am building my life around this, not the other way around. I'm not gonna try to build my life and add the lo. Going to start with the Lord and then build from there. So let me just encourage you, every time you make the decision to gather with the saints for worship and commit to that, you're doing way more in your heart and even the hearts of your kids than you think.
So two Timothy is where we are. We're in chapter two. We're going to be looking at verses one through seven, a dense, packed, punchy, challenging, encouraging section of scripture. Let's go to God's word. This is his word, verse one. You then, my child, be strengthened by the Grace that is in Christ Jesus and what you have heard from me. In the presence of many will witnesses entrust to faithful men who will be able to teach others also share in suffering as a good soldier of Christ Jesus. No soldier gets entangled in civilian pursuits since his aim is to please the one who enlisted him. An athlete is not crowned unless he competes according to the rules. It is the hard working farmer who ought to have the first share of the crops. Think over what I say, for the Lord will give you understanding in everything.
This is God's word. And Lord, we do pray that you would give us understanding in everything. Lord, may the spirit of God who wrote and inscripturated these precious and holy words be living and active in our hearts and minds, allowing us to understand them. In the name of Jesus we pray. Amen.
Well, I've learned over the years that you can tell a lot about someone from just shaking their hand. Now you may be thinking, okay, yeah, you want to grip correctly. You don't want a limp handshake. Now that's, that's true, but that's not what I'm talking about. For example, I'm going to introduce you to my granddad's handshake. My granddad was a hardworking, lifelong general contractor and builder. He was always tinkering with stuff. He had rough, calloused general contractor hands. His hands were always stained with something and there was a little roughness to it. When you were a kid, get a little tender five year old hand in your granddad's big kind of leathery hand, you can feel the difference, right? Or another example, my guitar teacher had totally different kinds of hands. He worked in a tiny studio inside a music store. But you started to notice something about his hands pretty quickly, which is that if you play guitar, whichever hand you're using on the strings, not the shrub. So if you're right handed, use it, your left hand, you'll have calluses on it. Or if you play a string instrument, you'll have calluses on your fingertips. It's a real specific thing. You can tell somebody who plays a string instrument and at first you're like, man, that look, that's so weird. And then you get into it and you realize, oh, I understand how you got these right. Over and over and over again, your hands build up, your fingers build up these calluses. Or my friend Ben was a climber and climbing instructor. And so when you shook Ben's hand, he had like the biggest, veiniest like hand, wrist and forearm that I've ever Experienced like Popeye. You know what I mean? Right? The big forearm. If you ever see a guy or a girl with a, like a muscular forearm, they're probably a climber. That's how you can tell, right? Their wrist, their, their fingers. You're just like, man, that's a really strong finger. Like, you feel that. The point is this. You can tell a lot about someone just from their handshake. And one of the things you can tell is whether they have devoted themselves to a task not just for a couple minutes, but for years and years and years and years.
So today we're going to talk about the hands of a Christian, because right here, writing from his jail cell, writing at the end of his life, Paul the Apostle is going to give a final charge to his protege in ministry, Timothy. And he's going to give three imperatives or three commands to Timothy. Here they are. I'm going to give you up front. Be strengthened in trust and share in suffering. Those are these three commands and they form a picture of what it looks like to be a Christian or to be a Christian worker. The way I'm sort of trying to encapsulate this is it helps us see what the hands of a Christian look like. So today what we're going to be doing is we're going to be kind of pulling your hands out and going like, okay, are these the hands of a Christian worker? And if not, what do I need to do? Because you should, over time be able to tell. You should be able to tell the hands of a Christian with just a few minutes spent with them. And Paul is going to tell us how to do it. Now here's why this is necessary. Too many Christians have soft hands. Too many Christians have manicured hands that they are afraid will break a nail if they get inconvenienced or if life gets difficult. And look, I have three sisters. I'm no problem with painting your nails or whatever, getting a manicure. What I mean is, spiritually there is a fragility to their Christian lives where things easily seem to dissuade them, knock them around, crash them. This passage is a call for Christians to have the hands of a workman. The hands of a Christian should look like hard working hands of someone devoted to a task. That's what we're talking about today.
So the three qualities of this. First, strong hands. Christians should have strong hands. Look at this. You then, my child, be strengthened by the grace that is in Christ Jesus. Now remember the context here. Paul has just called for Timothy not to be Ashamed of the gospel or of following Jesus, he is called for Timothy to tighten his grip on the gospel. But this is not easy. Paul knows this is not easy. This takes effort. This is difficult. So Paul gives him the charge to be strengthened. Now there's an odd thing, I need to warn you about this command. The command is not be strong. Now that is a command that's elsewhere in the Bible. That's in Joshua. Be strong and courageous. He tells Joshua many times, that's not what this says. Notice it says be strengthened. Rather, the command is, you be made strong. Now that's an odd thing to tell somebody, hey you. You could tell somebody, hey you, be strong. It's a weirder thing to say. You be made strong because you're going, well, how, how do I do that? How do I allow myself to be made strong? Strong. It is a call specifically to find strength by leaning into the strength of God. Now I learned this from my granddad as well, because remember, he was the general contractor and he would bring me along to help with household projects. He was always working on something in his house, right? Some project was always going on. And so he was from the south. And so every contract grandkid had a nickname. And my nickname was Scooter. I don't know why, but just call me Scooter. And he said, all right, Scooter, you tighten it. And so I would have, you know, like a wrench and, and something that needed to get tightened. And of course, you know, I'm there with my little 7 year old, soft hands. He's like, all right boy, you know, try it again. And then, and then he would kind of laugh and say, you need some help with that? And I would finally give in after trying two more times and go, okay, yeah, I need help. So he would put his big callous stand on my little hand and we would tighten the screw together, right? We would do the work together. But I could only do the work when I was leaning on his strength. That's this command saying, do the work. Don't be passive, do the work, but do the work. Leaning on the strength of God, asking for the strength of God, depending on the strength of God, be strengthened how? By the grace in Christ Jesus. Now that word grace is important here because the strengthening power of God is a grace gift. Remember, grace is, it means it's not earned, it's not deserved, it's an undeserved gift. And in light of the context, in second Timothy, this specific grace is probably referring to the grace of the Holy Spirit. So remember, verse 14, it says, by the Holy Spirit who dwells within us, guard the deposit entrusted to you guys. Remember that. So. So by the Holy Spirit. So that's probably a reference. Be strengthened by the grace, the specific grace of the Holy Spirit, meaning that the very presence of God is at work in you if you are a Christian. That there is a power at work in you that you did not put there, that you do not power, but that is God's presence at work in you. The grace in Christ Jesus. Now again, Paul, remember, I hope you see this. He is constantly unable to let you assume the Gospel. He again just puts it right in there. The grace. Remember, in Christ Jesus, meaning you have the gift of the spirit. You have the gift of all this because of Christ Jesus, because of his sacrifice on your behalf, his death for you.
6 · The pastor interrupts the expositional flow to directly address anyone in the congregation who may be trying to live by Christian principles without actually being a Christian
Now, let me pause there, because I think especially in a religious community like El Paso, we have too many people trying to live Christian principles without being a Christian, right? A lot of people in El Paso will turn on Christian radio or even read a Christian book or have a Bible or even go to church occasionally or often. But, but notice this. This, this verse means it is not enough to do Christian things or try to live your life according to Christian principles. The only way to receive the power to live the Christian life is to be in Christ. And what that means is that Jesus must be your savior and he must be your Lord. That's what Christ Jesus means. Christ means Lord, right? That you've given Jesus permission to tell you what to do in every area of life, that there's no area of life. You're like, well, this is my area. No, it's all before him. Your life is given to Him. And Jesus means God saves. So the thing you're looking to for hope and life and salvation and eternity is not money or power or wealth or relationship. It is Jesus. So when Jesus is your Savior and Lord, that's when you receive the power to do the Christian life. And so please, please hear me, friend. If you are just trying to live Christian principles and you're wondering why it's not working, this could be what you're missing. Because you've not fully said, jesus is my Savior, Jesus is my Lord. My whole life is turned over to him. But you can do that today. And you can receive the power to live the Christian life today that you haven't had before.
7 · The pastor uses his friend Ben's rock climbing instruction to illustrate counterintuitive dependence: just as beginner climbers instinctively resist hanging their full weight but are actually safest when they do, Christians are actually strongest when they allow their full weight to rest on God rather than trying to maintain self-sufficient control
Well, here's the point, the overall point. A command to be strengthened is a command to lean fully on the strength of God, to lean intentionally into the Holy Spirit's power that comes to you by being united with Christ. And so what Timothy needs, what we need, is not to work up the best of our strength and finally twist that thing the way that we want to know that what we're called to do is use the best of our strength, but ask for God's help and lean into it. Now, one of the things my friend Ben showed me in climbing was that my instincts about climbing were utterly wrong, which is unsurprising. Most of my athletic, you know, impulses are just wrong. It's a better rule for me to just whatever I think I should do in a sport, just do the opposite of that. I'll get in the ballpark. And so one of the things that everybody does, though, when they start climbing is they don't like to hang. They don't like their whole body weight to be hanging down on their fingers. That feels unsafe. And so what they'll try to do is they'll try to climb like this, right? Because this feels scary. This feels like, okay, I'm in control. But what climbers will tell you is that's a great way to get yourself hurt and killed, right? If you're on something dangerous because you're actually safer when the full weight of your body is hanging on your fingertips, you actually are tied into the wall because basically you're putting the weight where it needs to be in hanging independence on that rock in front of you. You have to trust your hold and trust your full weight down, and then you can begin to climb. So it is with the Christian life. So many Christians are afraid of dependence, are afraid of feeling too dependent on the Lord. But you notice what Paul is saying, Timothy, this is a big task. Everything I'm going to talk about in this letter is overwhelming. You know what you got to do? You need to lean independence, allow the weight of your life to fall fully on the Lord. Then you'll be strong, then you'll be safe. That is what Paul is saying.
8 · The pastor applies the call to lean in dependence by observing that the strongest Christians are often those who've suffered deeply, then offers concrete instruction on how to reframe prayer from 'Lord fix this situation' to 'Lord help me lean on you in this situation,' illustrated with the example of a difficult boss
Have you ever noticed how many of the most faith filled, immovable Christians are those who have suffered deeply and those who've experienced severe pain in their lives? Have you ever noticed the strange, counterintuitive reality that the strongest Christians you know have been forced to lean utterly in dependence on God through grief or pain or hurt or hardship? That's not an accident. That's the path of the Christian life, that the more we fully lean on the Lord, the stronger we actually become. Martin Luther illustrated this well when he, in the midst of trying to Do Christian ministry and write and pastor and debate and all these things said famously. Well, I have so much to do today that I must spend the first three hours in prayer. Right? That's a guy hanging independence on the Lord going, look man, I could just launch into my day or I can go, I don't know, Lord, unless you show up, this is all in vain. So he spends the first three hours hanging independence Christian, do you need strength today? Then lean in dependence on the Lord. It is actually the most dependent Christian that is the strongest Christian counterintuitively. And I want to encourage you with one real specific thing, one way you can adjust this in your mind. Often when we pray, we pray prayers like this, we take the situation and we pray, Lord, could you fix this situation? Could you fix this? Now it's not wrong to ask the Lord to fix this, but I think the way Paul would encourage us to prayer in light of this verse would be, Lord, would you with this situation let me fully lean in dependence on you. Today you see the feel difference. Now it's not wrong to say, lord, please fix my boss, he's the worst. You know, that may be a valid prayer, but this verse would call us to also pray. Lord, as I go into work, help me to lean in dependence on you. Help me not to react in anger or selfishness or self righteousness. Help me to lean on you in that moment where the boss says that thing that just sets me off, Lord, help me to do that. That's what Paul is saying. Be strong by being strengthened. Be strengthened by the grace of the Holy Spirit at work through Jesus Christ. Christian hands are dependent hands.
9 · The pastor expounds verse 2, identifying it as the central command of the passage
Second, Christian hands are linked hands, right? We are linked with others. They're always linked with others. Look at verse two and what you have heard from me in the presence of many witnesses, entrust to faithful men who will be able to te others also. Now it is important to note that this is actually the key center command of the three commands. The first task to be strengthened requires you to find strength in God for this task, right? So Paul is leading up to this command. And what is the command? What do the hands of a Christian worker look like? They are always linked with others. Always. They are taking what has been passed on to them and then passing them on to others. They are always in motion. They're taking this and passing it on, taking this and passing it on. And this is a particular command obviously to Timothy with a particular situation in which Timothy is being charged to develop Christian pastors in his region and so on. The Face of it, we need to just state the principle that that is the task of pastors and the church. There is always a need in every generation for faithful Christian men to rise up and take on the work of shepherding and leading the church. There's never. Look, I've been in serving in ministry for a number of years now, over a decade, and I've never gotten to the point where we go like, yeah, I think we got enough pastors, I think we had enough leaders. I think we got enough faithful shepherds for the church. I think we're good now. We never get there. Do you know why? Because best case scenario, more people are coming to know Jesus, which requires what? More pastors and more people move to new places that need more new churches. And so we need more pastors. Right. So let me just encourage you. If you are a man that has a heart for ministry, lean into that. There's so many distractions in this world, but only this work is of eternal faith value in ways that the world could never match. So that. That's a call. But. But there is also. Let me just. If you're like, well, I don't know if I'm called to be a pastor, that's okay. There is also a much broader pattern in view here. More than just pastors raising up pastors. This is a thread. This. Take what you've received and pass it on is a thread in all of Scripture. So think, for example, of Deuteronomy, chapter 6, where Paul commands fathers to tell their children of the work of God, tell them the story of salvation, to train them to understand God's commands and laws, and to do it when they rise up, and to do it when they're walking on the street, and to do it while they're watching the super bowl and when they go to bed at night. Right, Right. This. This is the pattern of Christian parents to take what the Lord has given them and entrust it to their children. Or think also of Psalm 78, where the command to pass on the knowledge of God is given to all of God's people to instruct the next generation that that generation might instruct another generation that the first generation will never even see. And this pattern is only reinforced when you get into the New Testament. Think of Matthew 28, where Jesus himself says, go, therefore. And do what? To make disciples of all nations, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. Right. What is that but taking what the Lord has given to us and entrusting it to others, discipling others, bringing others along or just we can keep going. One more. Titus, chapter two. Where older women are charged with helping younger women learn what it means to be a godly woman. Do you see the pattern? The pattern is not like a one time thing. This is a continual pattern throughout all of scripture. Taking what we've received, passing it on to others. The hands of Christians are never to be sitting still.
10 · The pastor uses the image of his children folding clothes and getting distracted to illustrate Paul's charge to Timothy: hands must keep moving
Look, when my boys and I fold clothes, we are not the best, but we try to do it. And one of the things I will do is I'll have like a TV show or something on while I'm folding clothes. I don't know if anybody else does that, but it just feels weird to just sit there in silence folding. So have something on. But my kids will easily get distracted, right? And they'll start like pulling clothes out and then pretty soon their attention is like on the tv. And so a regular thing that I have said to my kids is, I need to see your hands moving. You can be looking, but your hands gotta be moving. And that I think is what's in view here. Paul is telling Timothy, Timothy, I need to see your hands moving. I need you to take what you've given to me. And you're not just, you know, you're passing it on. Okay, great, pass it on. Always in motion, right?
11 · The pastor introduces the 'I do, you watch / I do, you help / You do, I help / You do, I watch' discipleship framework, showing how it's used across multiple domains (business, military, trades) and positioning it as the mechanism by which the hand-to-hand transfer works
There's a, a widely used sort of maxim in lots of areas of life that was made famous by Maxwell and Covey and others. And, and I've said it, I'm going to say it here again and we're going to keep saying it probably till the end of second Timothy that the, the pattern in humanity is often I do, you watch, I do, you help. You do, I help and then you do, I watch. Rinse and repeat, right? That is what businesses use. That's what the military uses, that's what electricians use with training people in the trade. It starts out, I will do it, you watch me do it, then I will do it. You help me do it, then you will do it and I will help you. And then you will do it and I'm hands off. And then you know what you're going to do? You're going to take somebody else and you're going to do it, they're going to watch you. And so on it goes over and over and over.
12 · The pastor returns to his grandfather illustration, now revealing that his grandfather was not bringing him along because he needed help but because he wanted to train him
It was only recently that I think I fully realized that when my granddad was bringing me along with all the little household repairs that he did, because if I'd be at his house, he would just be like, come on, Scooter we're going to fix this thing. And I would be like, why? And he's like, I need your help. And I would go, okay, right it only as a like late 30s man do I realize this general contractor who had spent decades doing this did not need the help of a seven year old kid. Right? As a seven year old, I really assumed like, well, you know, I mean, my granddad's old, so I better get in there and help. You know, I realize now because I have my own 7 year old kind of kids, they're not helpful. They slow the project down. If we're after efficiency, this is not the way to do it. But you know what else I realized? I realized my granddad wasn't inviting me into the work for him. He was inviting me into the work for me. He was saying, I'm going to do this slower and it's going to take longer because I want to show my grandson how to work. Right? That's the Christian life. If we simply, within the church, within our lives, get good at things and then stop, that's not the pattern for Christian ministry. It's that we rise to competence and then entrust that pattern to others who can carry the work on. That's the only way the church survives until Jesus returns. That's the only way.
13 · The pastor applies the 'linked hands' principle by calling the congregation to identify areas where they need to learn (and find someone to watch) and areas where they're ready to teach (and find someone to bring along)
And so Paul charges us as Christians. Pass it on. Link your hands. Now, you may be in a season where mainly you need to learn, you need to watch, you need to try it and have others help you. And there's always Christian areas of life in which we need that. And so I want to encourage you today, identify even some areas of life where you need to go. You know what, to be totally honest, I don't know what I'm doing with my budget. Okay. I don't know what I'm doing as a parent, as a husband, as a worker, I don't know. So I need to find somebody to watch, right? And this guy in community group, he looks like he's loved his wife for 30 years. Let me see what he's got. Can I see what you're doing? Right? You want to do that even? Look, one of the things I love is the pastors I know that have grown the most over their lives are guys in their 70s still asking for advice about things, right? That's a pattern of the Christian life. You're always watching someone else. But there's probably also areas of your life in which God's now called you to bring others along into the work, right? That you're like, okay, look, I'm not perfect, but I think I've gotten to the point of faithfulness and I can see this other brother or sister, they're struggling. Like, for me, one of those areas is I battle significant anxiety at times. It is just a perennial thing I've had since I'm a kid. I've apprehended God's grace. I've got some counseling in those areas and other things. And I'm not perfect. It's not like I'm anxiety free. But, man, I have walked the road for a couple decades. So when I see somebody battling anxiety, what this verse calls me to do is to say, you know what? Rather than going, hey, good luck, I'm called to go, hey, would you want to grab a coffee at some point or have a conversation? I'd love to. I mean, there's a couple things the Lord's shown me. I'm going to offer them. You can tell me if they're helpful. That's the pattern of the Christian life. We're always looking for who we can learn from and then looking for who we can pass these things on. And then pro tip, probably the way to approach helping others is not to go, you stink. I can help you. That's probably not the way to do it. I'm just letting you know, like, don't grab somebody at the end of the service and be like, your life's a mess. I saw you parenting your kid. What in the world? That's probably not the way to do it. So remember, just do what Paul does. Bring Timothy along, bring them into your life, encourage exhortation, help build relationship, and then instruct. All right, so much more we could say there. But we will move on for the sake of time.
14 · The pastor applies the 'hands in motion' principle to Cross of Grace's specific context: the church's growth and El Paso's transitory population create a constant need for 10-20 new leaders annually
So at Cross of Grace, we never want anyone's hands to be still. And let me encourage us. This is a very much a, a in house family meeting kind of sermon series for Cross of Grace. We are a church at, in El Paso where the Lord's given us a, an opportunity and a challenge. We have two opportunities and challenges. One of those is that we have grown significantly over the last few years. Second is El Paso and our community are a transitory community in some ways. We will have soldiers come in, we'll have federal workers come in, we'll have migrants come in and then stay for a season and then move on. Which means that we are in constant need of leaders. Right? We. I tried to even figure it out and I could. Like, the math got too confusing to me and I was An English major. So I couldn't do it. But I guess we need every year between 10 and 20 new leaders in various areas of the church, just new, just not currently serving in that area pop up. And they're serving. Right. That, that's to sustain what we have, assuming no one new comes. So I'd really like, if we're going to do that plan for you guys to stop inviting people because it's getting unmanageable. I'm kidding. We'd love for you to invite people. But what I'm saying is we need to be a culture. We need to build a culture at Cross of Grace in which we are constantly at work, learning and entrusting, learning and entrusting. I have a sign on the back of my door, just as a reminder for me that says, never stop hiring. Meaning that there's always, Yep, maybe this person in ministry, maybe that person, maybe this person has a heart. Let's go, let's come along, let's start meeting, let's go. That's the culture we want to have at Cross of Grace. Never standing still. That's the second point, third point about the hands of the Christian. They're supposed to be strong, they're supposed to be constantly in motion.
15 · Brief structural pivot from the second main point (hands in motion) to the third (calloused hands), maintaining the sermon's architectural clarity
That's the second point, third point about the hands of the Christian. They're supposed to be strong, they're supposed to be constantly in motion. And third, they're supposed to have some calluses on them.
16 · The pastor expounds the third command ('share in suffering') by first acknowledging its counter-cultural nature (not the kind of thing you'd put on a coffee mug), then qualifying it: not masochistic self-inflicted suffering but the hard work of a soldier in training
Look at verse 3. Share in suffering as a good soldier of Jesus. Of Christ Jesus. You see that headline, that command, share in suffering. I've never seen that command on a Bible verse mug, right? Can you imagine? You're at work, you've got the, like, all things will work together for the good of those. You know, that's the one you want on the mug. Not you're, you're, you know, you're half asleep, reaching for a mug, you pull out, Share in suffering. You're just going to put it back and close the door. But this is the command, Share in suffering. But notice how it's qualified. Share in suffering as a good soldier of Christ Jesus. Meaning it's not a masochistic kind of suffering, just, oh, I just want to suffer. And sometimes Christians get weird about that. Sometimes Christians get into, man, you just gotta, just gotta suffer as much as possible. Just whatever thing you can do in your life to make your life difficult, just do that. That's Chris, that's not what Paul's saying. He's saying, share in suffering as a good soldier. So. So the suffering is qualified by the example. It's the kind of suffering a soldier undergoes in basic training. Right out there in the mud in the field, that kind of suffering, really the language is share in difficult hard work or perhaps even more basically get in the mud, right? That is, the Christian life is lived in the mud. The Christian life is lived hard at work building up calluses on your hands. And Paul is telling Timothy, this is the pattern of the Christian life. Timothy, if you're gonna, if you're gonna live the Christian life, you're gonna have to have calluses on your hands over time.
17 · The pastor returns to his guitar lesson illustration to capture the inevitability of calluses: they hurt, they take time to develop, and if you stop the work you lose them
Now, I remember years ago when I first started playing guitar, my teacher was very patient. He's a real laid back kind of guy. You know, he's a jazz kind of, you know, jazz guys, right? If you're a musician, you know, the jazz guys, you're like, yeah, yeah, cool, cool. You know, and he was very on brand for a jazz guy. And so I remember, you know, two weeks in to him, to my lessons, you know, working on these chords and complaining to him, but, you know, but sir, my fingers hurt. And he just kind of looked at me and he goes, yeah. And I'm like. And I'm frustrated, like, no, but, but my fingers hurt. And he's just looking back at me like, yeah, that's, that's it, man. You're playing the guitar like that's part of it. And then finally he was like, look, man, over, you know, you'll. You got to keep doing it till your fingers hurt. Otherwise your fingers will never get stronger. Otherwise you'll never get the calluses, man. And I thought, oh, how long is that going to take? And. And then I thought, well, once I have the calluses, I'm good, right? He goes, yeah, but if you stop playing, you lose them. You got to do it again. Like, oh, no. So I just have to. So this is my new life now. Yeah, man, you know, like that's, that was the essence of the conversation. That's what it means to be a guitar player. For Timothy and for us, sharing in the difficult calloused work of the Christian life is part of being a Christian. To be a Christian means to get into the mud. To be a Christian means to have calloused hands.
18 · The pastor unpacks the first of Paul's three illustrations (soldier, athlete, farmer) by emphasizing the Roman soldier's single-minded discipline
And Paul gives us three illustrations to drive this home because he can tell that Timothy, perhaps like us, is like, I don't love this, right? Nobody's, you know, let me just say this. There's always like Bible verses that people have on their church. This is still not one I've ever seen. Sharon's suffering. That's what Paul is calling Timothy to do, though, and calling us to do. And three Examples of what it looks like. First the soldier. The soldier, no soldier gets entangled in civilian pursuits since his aim is to please the one who enlisted him. So remember, this is Roman culture. There are Roman soldiers everywhere, especially in the colony of Ephesus where Timothy is receiving this. And soldiers had to be single minded about their duty. Soldiers heard a lot of voices during the day, but only one voice carried weight with them. The voice of their commander. Roman soldiers were famous for their single minded discipline. These are not guys you leave on guard duty and they go wandering off into a farmer's market looking for organic honey, right? They are, if they're guarding, they're guarding and they're going to guard until their commander comes and says they're relieved. Right? This is what allowed Rome to conquer the world. Paul is saying, Timothy, that's what you need to be like. You need to be single minded, you need to be focused. You're going to fight distractions, you're going to fight the, your, your, your focus being pulled off to other things. So stay focused Timothy. Be single minded, be disciplined. And so for us we need to ask, are, are we disciplined as Christians, have we gotten perhaps too used to lots of stopping and starting patterns as Christians? We try for a while and then we stop and then we do this for a while and then we stop. We try and we stop and, and, and we're like the soldier that is wandering off looking for organic huntery at the, the local farmers market. And Paul is telling Timothy and us, hey listen, if you're a soldier of Jesus Christ, you, you plant yourself, you're single minded, you're listening for his voice, that's what you do.
19 · The pastor unpacks the second illustration (athlete) by emphasizing that Greek athletes had to follow strict training rules to compete
Second illustration, the athlete. Now remember that, that Greek culture, Roman culture, this is where we get the Olympics. And in the Greek world in particular, there was a specific set of commitments athletes had to make in order to participate in the main competitions. So they had to agree to things like 10 months of grueling training and not eating or drinking certain things. And it was, there were all these things and if they were discovered to not be following the guidelines, they wouldn't be allowed to compete on the competition day. And so it is with the Christian. The danger is that we could undertake the Christian life but not compete according to the, the rules. We must do the Lord's work in the Lord's way, not in whatever way we want. For example, it's not, well, let's just get the ministry done at whatever cost. No, it's get the ministry done as God commands, with character. With patience, with holding fast our doctrinal commitments. Right? It is a, a okay. I am devoted to this task and it's not always going to be easy. And I'm not going to take the easiest road. I'm going to take the road that Christ commands for me. And often in the Christian life we will get to a fork in the road and our main decision making framework is, well, what's easiest? Look, I'm there. I don't want extra difficulty in my life. And so we'll get to a fork in the road. We're like, what's easiest? Maybe in your marriage it's difficult and you have a meeting with your spouse and you're like, well, what's easiest is separating. Right? But this is reminding us, no, no, your goal is not to ask what's easiest. Your goal is to ask what has Christ commanded, what has he told me to do? And that may result in some calluses, that may result in some difficulty, but we're going to do it. That's what we're called to do.
20 · The pastor unpacks the third illustration (farmer) by emphasizing that farming requires faithful work through every season—planting, watering, weeding, guarding—or the entire crop is lost
Third illustration the farmer. Again, farmers would have been plentiful in Ephesus where Timothy was. Some of my extended family were farmers in New Mexico in the Hatch area. I spent a lot of trips out there into southern New Mexico and I observed even as a kid some things about farming. Farming means constant work didn't seem to come with a great benefits package, right? Didn't seem to come with air conditioned offices. It is difficult. And here's the difficult thing about farming. According to this particular illustration, he talks about how the hard working farmer gets the share of the crops. And what Paul is highlighting here is that farming in particular depends on you continuing to be faithful over time. Otherwise there will not be a harvest. Here's for example, what, what this could mean. You could plant well, you could water well, but if you don't weed, if you don't keep pests away, you, your entire crop is lost. Or maybe you plant well but don't remember to water well faithfully every day. Well, there's going to be no plants to even guard, meaning each season of farming is critical for the end result. So it is with the Christian that we must weed and toil through each season faithfully until the end. It is consistency and longevity over time that is called for from the Christian. There should be with the Christian a long term perseverance. Look, we don't even need to go into many examples, brothers and sisters, to know Christians that we have respected for the way they began their Christian life. Respected a decade into their Christian life, only to see them blow it at the end of their Christian life. That is the reality. And that is why Paul, knowing he's not going to be with Timothy when Timothy's in his 50s and 60s and 70s, is saying, think about this. Timothy, the farmer who gets a share of the crops is the farmer who perseveres with calloused hands until the very end.
21 · The pastor applies the three illustrations by calling the congregation to examine their own hands, then illustrating the principle of long-term perseverance with three examples: Cross of Grace's 30-year history, Malcolm Gladwell's 10,000-hour rule, and the pastor's own counseling experience with people who've 'tried for a week
Now this is to be the Christian life. So look down, brothers and sisters. Look down at your hands today. This is what I've been doing. Look down at your hands and go, okay. Are these the callous hands of a Christian who is consistent, who is single minded, who is doing the Lord's work in the Lord's way over time as God would have us now? Recently I was talking to somebody who had heard that we as a church had grown from like a hundred people number of years ago to over 500 people now. And they were asking, in a good heart, right? They were asking, how'd you do it? And they were, I'm, I'm sure thinking, I mean, they weren't, didn't mean anything by, but they were just like, how did you do it? Was it a program, was it a book, Was it a sermon series? And I said, well, it's pretty simple. I think the church prayed for 30 years and then grew over the next, the following 10. So I was like, so as long as you pray for 30 years, I think, you know, you'll be in good shape, right? Not just prayer, right? 30 years of faithful ministry, 30 years of sowing, 30 years of people not giving up, right? That is what's in view here. Our own church is an illustration of this. It takes consistency over time. It takes single mindedness. It takes being willing to do the Lord's work in the Lord's way over time. And here's the danger. We could get to where we are and go, whew, we made it, we're good. No, brothers and sisters, we need to continue to do the Lord's work in the Lord's way, continue to be single minded, continue to persevere until the end. Let me give one last illustration on this. A number of years ago, author Malcolm Gladwell popularized a study from a researcher named Anders Ericsson. This Anders Ericsson studied elite performers in sports and business and in a lot of other fields. And Erickson tried to figure out what is it that separated the elite athletes or business people from others. Now he did find that these athletes and business people and artists, that they had some basic talent and inclination, right? They, you know, if you want to be an Olympic swimmer and you're like tiny with short arms, that's probably not for you, right? But there's a bunch of tall people in the world with swimmers frame. So what makes the people like the Phelps in the world? What makes the elite athletes and business people stand out? Do you know what he found? Practice, but not any practice. Erickson identified that on average, people who excelled at their craft had put about 10,000 hours into their craft. That is 20 hours a week for 10 years. And he also identified that many who started that road gave up at 100 hours or a thousand hours. Meaning it was essentially the people that just refused to give up are often the people that succeeded most in the end. Using the language of this text, the people who succeeded over time were the people with calluses on their hands. They were the soldiers unwilling to stop in the middle of the campaign, the athletes unwilling to stop before they get to the finish line, the farmers who were unwilling to stop before the crops came in. So it is with the Christian. Galatians 6, 9 says this. And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap if we do not give up. Brothers and sisters, we're called to this work. We're called to the calloused hands of the Christian. And I fear that. Let me just share my heart for you as a pastor. One of the things that I we encounter in counseling at times, and I put myself in this category is, is folks who have said, but I've tried, right? I keep looking at pornography, but I've tried to not, right? I've tried to work on my marriage. And sometimes what can happen is. And look, I put myself in this category as well. We're like, man, I've really tried for a full week to be kind to my spouse, right? I'm really trying to work on my communication. And it's been a week and it's not better. She's still mean to me, right? Like it's been a week, but I still feel the pull toward this lust. Okay, Kind of like my guitar teacher would say, yeah, keep going, right? First week, one down, 100 more to go, right? That's the Christian life. The Christian life is continuing to work hard until either we are with the Lord until he returns. But the encouragement is this. Paul's. Paul's illustration moves from hard work to reward over time. He says the hard working farmer is the one that gets the first share of the crops. He's beginning with these illustrations to point ahead to the fact that it's not just calloused hands that you're supposed to look at. You're also supposed to look at why you have the calluses in the first place. You're supposed to look ahead, cast your eye ahead. Because the soldier who's working hard at the campaign, he's looking forward to the return in glory and the parade through the streets of Rome, right? The athlete, they're looking forward to the podium at the end of their training. The farmer is looking forward to the feast at the end of the gathering of the crops. And so it is with the Christian. The Christian looks ahead not to a podium, not to a harvest feast, but to the eternal feast before the Lord for all time, in which the fruit of our lives and ministries will be glorious forever. Look, metals tarnish and get forgotten. Crops are consumed. But the glory the Christian is working for is a glory that will last for all time. And Paul at the end of his life is saying he's going to tell us in chapter four, it's worth it. As a result of this brother's ministry, at least 14 churches were directly started by Paul in the New Testament as a result of Paul's ministry, Timothy, Titus, Mark and others are running hard, carrying the gospel to the next generation. As a result of Paul's ministry, he is looking ahead even beyond that, to the crown of righteousness that the Lord Christ is holding out for him. And so the last thing you got to see, you're. You're going to have calluses, Christian, but it's going to be worth it. Just like a guitar virtuoso considers the calluses on his fingers worth it. Or the climber considers their, their, their sore forearms worth it. So it is with the Christian that we say, yep, it's worth it for where I'm going. All right, last, let me just say this. I want our church to receive this text not as a corrective, not as me as a pastor going, what's wrong with you people? That's, that's not the tone. Trying to faithfully capture the tone of the Scriptures. What I am hoping to do for many of you today is to say the way that you are living your Christian life is worth is right. And you are not crazy. When you look down, you see calluses on your hands, and you're like, man, I'd really rather not be working this hard. I want you to hear from the Lord, from this example. The way you're living is worth it. It is right, it is good, and it results in Eternal glory. Glory. So keep going. Keep going. And maybe today, if you've been on the fence and you've benefited from the calloused hand ministry of others, the Lord is saying, all right, man. All right, son. All right, daughter. Get in the game. Don't, don't. Don't play around with Christianity. Do it. Do the work hard. Not just for a week, not just for a month, not just for a year, but for a lifetime. This is the pattern. And, friends, it is the pattern of Christ. How did Christ minister to us? Did he let go when things got difficult? Did he allow suffering to pry us from his grip? No. He continued faithfully all the way to the cross for us. And now he says, son or daughter, follow me.
22 · Brief transition into the sermon's closing charge, framing Spurgeon's quotation as a rallying cry that captures the intensity of the Christian call
Let me end with a quote from Spurgeon. I read this and I was like, all right, man. I don't know if Spurgeon ever coached a sports team, but this brother has game, and I feel like I could run through a wall.
23 · The pastor instructs the congregation to stand, framing Spurgeon's charge as requiring a physical posture of readiness and commitment
So this is what I'm going to read to you from Spurgeon at the end of a sermon on this topic. He says, up, I pray you. Now, I feel like we should stand up for this, so why don't you stand up as we we close with this charge?
24 · The pastor delivers Spurgeon's closing charge, which juxtaposes Christ's glory with his suffering (flaming eyes yet wet with tears, many crowns yet crown of thorns, King of kings yet bowed to death) to ground the call to lifelong devotion in Christ's own costly faithfulness
Up, I pray you now. By him whose eyes are like a flame of fire and yet were wet with tears, by him on whose head are many crowns and who yet wore the crown of thorns, by him who is the King of kings and Lord of lords, and yet bowed his head to death for you by him, resolve that to life's latest breath you will spend and be spent for his praise. The Lord grant that there may be many such in this church, good soldiers of Jesus Christ. Amen.
25 · Closing pastoral prayer asking God to raise up good soldiers, encourage the weary, and call forward those who need to commit today
Let's pray. Lord, I pray that you would raise up in indeed many good soldiers of Jesus Christ. Lord, I pray for the Christian whose hands are weary, who bear the calluses of following Jesus. Lord, I pray that they would see it as worth it and right in the sight of God. And I pray for any friend or brother or sister who needs to be called forward today, needs to grasp hold of these things today, needs to get in the mud today. Lord, I pray that they would see your call, the call of their captain, the call of their Savior, the call of the Lord, the call to come follow me and would join him in Jesus name. Amen.
26 · Final pastoral invitation offering prayer ministry for those who need help persevering, extending the sermon's application into immediate pastoral care
Well, Church, if you would like prayer in that category help finishing the race,