Main Character Energy

Ephesians 2:1-10 October 2, 2022 Pastor Ricky Alcantar
Thesis Salvation is none of us and all of Him — accomplished entirely by God's grace without any human contribution — which eliminates all boasting and establishes the foundation for grace-based relationships in every sphere of life.
Series
Ephesians
Type
Expository
Tone
pastoraldidacticprophetic
Method
grammatical-historicalredemptive-historicalapplicatory
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The shape of the argument

30 units across exposition, application, illustration, theological claim, and conclusion. The pastor's argument is built from these moving parts.

Pastoral correction · unit #18
"Alcantar contrasts the world's merit-based identity system (which creates constant instability) with salvation as gift — showing how receiving salvation as gift rather than wage transforms how we approach God and eliminates the exhausting cycle of self-assessment."
Doctrinal loci· 11 surfaced
Soteriology · 22 Anthropology · 7 Ecclesiology · 6 Hamartiology · 5 Ethics / Moral Theology · 4 Sanctification · 4 Pastoral Theology · 3 Pneumatology · 3 Bibliology · 2 Christology · 2 Theology Proper · 1
Bible citations· 20
Ephesians 2:1-10 | Ephesians 2:1-3 | Ephesians 2 | Ephesians 1 | Ephesians 2:4 | Ephesians 2:4-6 | Ephesians 2:8 | Ephesians 2:9 | Ephesians 2:1-9 | Ephesians 5 | Ephesians 5:25 | Ephesians 2:10 | Genesis 3 | Genesis 1-2
Illustrations· 4
  1. analogy · unit #10 — Alcantar uses the prison boat rescue scenario to illustrate total divine action in salvation — revising the earlier hypothetical to eliminate even the heroic leap, showing instead complete passivity on the part of the rescued and complete activity on the part of the rescuer.
  2. analogy · unit #11 — Extended illustration from Bryan Chapell showing three swimmers of dramatically different abilities all drowning before reaching California — demonstrating that comparative merit is meaningless when the standard is absolute (reaching the shore), just as comparative morality is meaningless when the standard is perfect righteousness.
  3. cultural reference · unit #17 — Extended illustration from Les Misérables showing grace as concrete gift — Jean Valjean deserves punishment but receives not only favor (the priest covering for him) but additional gifts beyond what he stole, transforming stolen goods into a gift that changes his entire life.
  4. cultural reference · unit #23 — Extended illustration from The Sandlot showing faith as passive reception — the kid who can't catch simply holds up his glove and the skilled player does all the work, demonstrating that faith is not a heroic act but desperate receptivity that takes no credit for what it receives.
Theological claims· 5
  1. All humans naturally desire to be the main character not just of their own lives but of everyone else's lives, and this self-centeredness extends into how we approach spirituality and God. unit #4
  2. When humans attempt to author their own story as the main character, the result is not fulfillment but spiritual death, enslavement to demonic forces, and deserved judgment from God. unit #5
  3. Salvation is none of us and all of Him, and this truth has implications beyond soteriology — it determines whether we approach all of life (marriage, relationships, church) from a merit-based or grace-based posture. unit #8
  4. God structures salvation to eliminate all room for boasting because self-exaltation is the root of sin itself — if salvation required or allowed human contribution, it would perpetuate the very pride that led to humanity's fall. unit #12
  5. In salvation, God restores us to our Genesis 1-2 identity as masterworks with beautiful purpose, and the transformation of Jean Valjean demonstrates that God writes better stories than we could write for ourselves when we surrender authorship to Him. unit #26
Quotations· 9
"You have to start romanticizing your life. You have to start thinking of yourself as the main character." — Social media voiceover (main character energy video) (unit #3)
"I make a pretty great main character." — Britta Thorpe (unit #3)
"The Greek pronoun is neuter, while grace and faith are feminine. So normally the neuter would refer to a neuter or feminine to the feminine, but the fact that they don't— it doesn't match one of them means that without a match, it refers to the whole phrase." — ESV Study Bible (unit #9)
"Accordingly, this points to the whole process of salvation by grace through faith as being the gift of God and not something that we can accomplish ourselves. The use of the neuter pronoun to take in the whole of a complex idea is quite common in Greek, and its use here makes it clear. This is the, like, this is the end exclamation point. Its use here makes it clear that faith, no less than grace, is a gift of God. Salvation, therefore, in every respect is not your own doing." — ESV Study Bible (unit #9)
"Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her." — Paul (unit #16)
"Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her." — Paul (unit #20)
"Note that we are saved because of, or on the basis of, grace which is attained by means of, or through faith. We are not saved because of, or on the basis of faith. Faith does not save anyone. Only the grace we receive because of Christ's atonement saves us. Faith is merely the instrument by which grace is received." — Expository Commentary (unit #22)
"With this, I have bought your soul for God." — The priest (fictional character) (unit #26)
"It just wasn't fun anymore. There was a lot of pressure." — Creator of main character energy video (unit #28)
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0 · Alcantar opens by orienting the congregation to the text and apologizing for his physical limitations, while simultaneously reassuring them that the expositional method of the church ensures the sermon's value comes from Scripture itself rather than from the preacher's performance

Ephesians chapter 2, if you would. Ephesians chapter 2. We're gonna be in Ephesians, continuing our series there. And I'll upfront ask for your patience this week, and today in particular. I've had a little bit of my head symptoms flare up, and so if I'm a little bit delayed, just ask for your patience and grace, all right?

But the good news is, the way we teach the Bible at Cross of Grace, I'm not coming up with a ton of ideas, things that I think are interesting and sharing them every week. We are walking through the Bible verse by verse. So if all else fails, someone can always get up here, read the Bible verse by verse, and give a brief explanation. So that's what we're going to be doing today. Amen.

1 · Full public reading of Ephesians 2:1-10, establishing the primary text for the sermon and allowing the passage to frame the congregation's hearing before any exposition begins

Ephesians chapter 2, beginning in verse 1. This is God's word.

And you were dead in the trespasses and sins in which you once walked, following the course of the world, following the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that is at work in the sons of disobedience, among whom we all lived in the passions of our flesh, carrying out the desires of the body and the mind, and were by nature children of wrath like the rest of mankind.

But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, made us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ. By grace you have been saved and raised us up with him and seated us with him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus, so that in the coming ages he might show the immeasurable riches of his grace in kindness toward us in Christ Jesus. For by grace you have been saved through faith, and this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast. For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them. This is God's word.

2 · Brief pastoral prayer asking for divine illumination and strength, acknowledging dependence on God for both the congregation's receptivity and the preacher's ability to serve

Lord, I pray you give us ears to hear, eyes to see. Sustain me that I might serve my brothers and sisters. Amen.

3 · Alcantar introduces the contemporary cultural phenomenon of "main character energy" through social media examples, using humor and specific details to establish the cultural reference point that will serve as the sermon's primary foil — the idea that life should revolve around the individual as protagonist

Well, has anybody in this room, perhaps under 40, heard the term main character energy? Anybody heard main character energy?

Yes. You all have Instagram or TikTok, don't you? This is just an exposure moment. Look at them and point and say, how dare you? Now, main character energy was this term that I was intrigued by, and I found a piece in The New Yorker from, I think it was last year.

And it— and main character energy, this term came from a social media video. The video is this interesting kind of montage online of beautiful things and scenes happening. And this person doing a voiceover saying the following: You have to start romanticizing your life. You have to start thinking of yourself as the main character. In the New York Beast, they find this one girl, Britta Thorpe, who moved from where she was to a new place.

She changed careers, and then she made her bio, quote, CEO of hashtag main character energy. Her account is now primarily, as you could guess, self-promoting. Portraits, her on the beach as the main character. Shopping downtown, main character. Posing in front of a mirror, main character.

She sums it up this way, "I make a pretty great main character." Others would post these things that are like, here's some tips for how to make yourself the main character of your life. One person shared the tip that you should never, when you go to the supermarket, get the big shopping cart You look like a side character if you have that background character. The way you do it, you go into the supermarket and you take one of those little baskets and you fill it up with fresh vegetables and especially, this is important, a very large baguette. So the baguette is sticking out of the basket. You have it in the crook of your arm.

You're walking to the checkout line. Everybody else looks like a side character. Who's the main character? It's you. You're the main character, right?

You have all these tips going on. Another person was like, main character energy is whenever you see one of those things that spin around, those little like revolving doors, you have to spin as long as you want and just take over the whole door, and that's main character energy.

4 · Alcantar diagnoses the universal human condition underlying the cultural phenomenon — the inherent self-centeredness that makes "main character energy" unnecessary to cultivate because it's already the default posture of every human heart, including in how we approach God

Now here's the irony that I see in this trend. I don't think anybody has to be encouraged to have main character energy. I don't think there's like a shortage in the world of main character energy. All of us, I think deep down, want to be the main character in everyone else's life. Somebody forgets that you had a big thing going on, you're like, "How dare you? This is the plot, guys." You know, "Oh, I forgot you had that interview." "Ah!" Like, you know, "How did that date go?" "We broke up 3 months ago." "Oh, oh, sorry." Like, this is the way we live our life. And sometimes we carry that into our faith. Many people often think that spirituality or religion exists to help us fulfill our story, meaning that we're the plot and, you know, if that can help us, great.

5 · Alcantar establishes the biblical counternarrative: human self-authorship (taking the pen from God) leads not to fulfillment but to spiritual death, demonic enslavement, worldliness, and deserved judgment — the opposite trajectory from what "main character energy" promises

If this spirituality or religion can help us, even when we think about God, we can think of God, I mean, God is out there, but he's primarily there to support us as the main character of our lives. But Ephesians 2 lays out a very different story, as we saw last week. Ephesians 2 laid out the fact that, well, we did indeed take the pen, as it were, from God and decide to write our own story. But it is a story that doesn't lead to perfect fulfillment and joy and happiness and no anxiety. It is a tragic story, a story where when we take the pen, it leads to deadness.

We follow— well, we follow demonic forces. We follow— we go along with the world. We follow the the sinful desires of even our own heart. And the result is this: not only do we tragically destroy our story and the stories of those around us, we then come under the right and justice and merciful justice of God who cannot allow injustice to continue to reign on the earth. And so, the story that we would have written with the pen as the main character led to death and destruction.

Where this fits

Recent preaching context

The three sermons immediately preceding this one in the preaching schedule.

Sep 4, 2022
Overwhelmed with blessing in Christ, we should overflow in blessing to God.
Ephesians 1:3-14
Sep 11, 2022
Saving grace is sovereign grace—God not only offers salvation to spiritually dead sinners but sovereignly chooses and effectually calls them to himself, making this doctrine a foundation for profound humility, gratitude, and worship.
Ephesians 1:3-5
Sep 25, 2022
The gap between our spiritual deadness apart from Christ and the resurrection life we have in Christ is filled entirely by God's grace—not by human merit—and that gap is as wide as death to life.
Ephesians 2:1-10
October 2 · This sermon
Main Character Energy
Salvation is none of us and all of Him — accomplished entirely by God's grace without any human contribution — which eliminates all boasting and establishes the foundation for grace-based relationships in every sphere of life.
Ephesians 2:1-10
Earlier in the corpus · January 29, 2023
A prior sermon on Ephesians 2:8-10
You preached this same passage — 6 Ephesians 2 citations in that earlier sermon. Worth re-reading before the next time this text comes around.
Take it further

Discuss · apply · pray

Small-group discussion

6 questions for your group this week

  1. In the opening verses of Ephesians 2, Paul describes humanity as spiritually dead, enslaved to demonic forces, and deserving judgment. Where do you see this reality playing out in the lives of people around you — not in a condemning way, but as an honest observation of what happens when people try to write their own story as the main character?
    Ephesians 2:1-3
    → What does spiritual death actually look like in a person's day-to-day life?
  2. Paul says in verse 4 that 'God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ.' What shifts in your understanding of salvation when you realize that God did all of this work — made us alive, raised us up, seated us with Christ — before you did anything at all?
    Ephesians 2:4-6
    → How does this change the way you pray or approach your relationship with God on a daily basis?
  3. The sermon emphasizes that salvation is 'none of us and all of Him' — accomplished entirely by God's grace without any human contribution. Why do you think Paul is so adamant about this? What problem is he trying to prevent?
    Ephesians 2:8-9
    → Can you think of a time when you caught yourself believing you had to earn God's favor or prove your standing before Him?
  4. If salvation is entirely grace and leaves no room for boasting, how should that reshape the way we relate to people who don't yet know Christ? How should it reshape the way we treat one another in the church?
    → Where are you most tempted to position yourself as superior to others — whether spiritually, morally, or otherwise?
  5. Verse 10 says we are 'created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.' The sermon suggests that when we stop trying to be the main character and instead receive ourselves as God's masterwork, we actually discover our true purpose. What good works has God prepared for you specifically — and how might accepting that you didn't design them change the way you approach them?
    Ephesians 2:10
    → What would it look like this week to do something not to prove yourself, but simply as an act of responding to grace already given?
  6. The sermon uses Jean Valjean as an example of someone whose story was rewritten when he encountered grace. Can you think of someone (real or from Scripture) whose life was transformed when they stopped trying to author their own redemption and received it as a gift instead?
    Genesis 1-2
    → What would you want that person to say about how their life looks different now?
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Daily readings · Monday–Friday

5-day reading plan

Across this week, we'll walk through how God's grace dismantles our attempts to author our own stories—from the death that results when we claim the main character role, through the radical gift of salvation that is entirely God's work, to the restoration of our true identity as His masterpiece.

Monday Genesis 1-2

In Genesis, humanity is created in God's image—not as protagonists writing our own story, but as image-bearers reflecting His design. Salvation doesn't invent a new identity for us; it *restores* us to the one we lost when we grasped for the main character role. When we surrender authorship to God, we're not losing ourselves—we're finally becoming ourselves again.

Tuesday Ephesians 1

Notice how Ephesians 1 stacks the language: chosen, predestined, redeemed, forgiven—all by God's grace before we ever respond. This is not the story of what we did to get close to God. It's the unfolding of what God did while we were still dead in our sins. The foundation of salvation is laid entirely by His hand.

Wednesday Genesis 3

Genesis 3 shows us the first attempt to seize the main character role—*you will be like God*. The promise is autonomy and self-authorship. The result is shame, hiding, and death entering the world. Every attempt to write our own story apart from God echoes this original grasping. We don't need a better story technique; we need rescue.

Thursday Ephesians 5:25

Ephesians 5:25 anchors marriage not in what we earn or deserve, but in Christ's *gave Himself up for us*—grace embodied. When salvation teaches us that we are entirely undeserving recipients of God's favor, we bring that same posture into marriage: not keeping score, not proving our worth, but receiving and extending grace as Christ did. Marriage becomes grace-based, not achievement-based.

Friday Ephesians 2:8

By grace you have been saved, through faith—and not even faith is a work we accomplish. This isn't stingy theology; it's radical mercy that closes every loophole for pride. The cross of Christ doesn't just save us from sin's penalty; it saves us from sin's root: the lie that we can exalt ourselves. When we stop trying to be the main character, we finally find our true part in God's story.

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Pray together this week

Prayer of Grace Alone

Father, we come before you in awe of your character — you are a God of grace who moves toward the dead, who raises the spiritually broken, and who seats us with Christ not because of anything we have done but entirely because of your mercy. We confess that our hearts are prone to writing ourselves as the main character of every story, even our salvation. We compete, we compare, we subtly believe that our standing before you depends on our performance, our goodness, our contribution — and in doing so, we perpetuate the very pride that brought sin into the world. We are grateful that you have not left us in that delusion.

We receive afresh the truth of Ephesians 2: that we were made alive when we were dead, raised when we were fallen, and seated with Christ in the heavenly places — none of this by works, none of it by our effort, all of it by your grace (Ephesians 2:4-6, 2:8-9). This salvation is entirely yours, which means we have nothing to boast about and everything to be humble about. It means we cannot look at our brother or sister, our neighbor or our enemy, and claim spiritual superiority, because we are all equally dependent on unmerited favor.

Grant us the grace to live in light of this truth. Free us from the merit-based identity system that keeps us anxious about our standing with you. Teach us to extend to others the same grace you have extended to us — in our marriages, in our church, in our workplaces. Help us to see ourselves not as authors of our own stories but as your masterpiece, created for good works you have already prepared (Ephesians 2:10). And when we are tempted to reclaim authorship of our lives, remind us that you write better stories than we could write for ourselves when we surrender to you.

We pray this in the name of Christ, who accomplished our entire salvation and asked nothing of us but faith to receive it. Amen.

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Sunday-evening family table

Who's Writing Your Story?

For the parent

This prompt anchors in Ricky's opening image of 'main character energy' — the desire to be the hero of our own story. Set it up by asking your family to think about a story they know well (a movie, book, or show), then move to the prompt below. Listen for whether kids naturally assume they should be in control of their own lives, and gently turn that toward the freedom of letting God write the story.

In the movies and shows you watch, the main character usually gets to decide what happens next in the story, right? But what if you found out that God is actually the author of your real story — not you? What would be scary about that? What would be good about that?
works for ages 7+ — younger kids might need help understanding 'author,' but the main-character idea is concrete enough for early elementary
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Couples · three questions over coffee

Grace Rewrites Our Story

  1. When you heard that salvation is 'none of us and all of Him,' what part of your life did you realize you've been trying to write the script for instead of surrendering it to God?
  2. Where in our marriage do we still relate to each other on a merit-based system—keeping score, earning approval—instead of receiving each other as God's unmerited gift to us?
  3. What is one area where you're struggling to believe God writes a better story than the one you're trying to author, and how can we pray for each other's surrender there this week?
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Memory verse this week

Ephesians 2:8-9

For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast.

Why this verse: This verse is the doctrinal centerpiece of the sermon—it establishes that salvation is entirely God's gift, with zero human contribution, which eliminates all grounds for boasting and transforms how we relate to others. Memorizing it destroys the "main character energy" that tempts us to claim credit for our standing before God or superiority over others.

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