God is Not on Your Side

1 Samuel 4-6 October 5, 2025 Pastor Ricky Alcantar
Thesis When we see God as He truly is — holy, sovereign, and unchangeable — rather than as a means to our own ends, His promises for us and His provision of salvation in Christ bear their proper weight in our lives.
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didacticpropheticpastoral
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redemptive-historicalgrammatical-historicalapplicatory
What's in this sermon

The shape of the argument

42 units across exposition, application, illustration, theological claim, and conclusion. The pastor's argument is built from these moving parts.

Pastoral correction · unit #8
"Concrete application naming the Prosperity Gospel as a widespread threat in the congregation's context ('our nation', 'our city', 'our own hearts') and citing specific examples from Catholic and evangelical practice to demonstrate the spectrum of manifestation. Calls for honesty about the pervasiveness of this thinking."
Doctrinal loci· 10 surfaced
Theology Proper · 20 Soteriology · 10 Hamartiology · 7 Providence / Sovereignty · 6 Christology · 4 Anthropology · 2 Bibliology · 2 Ecclesiology · 1 Ethics / Moral Theology · 1 Sanctification · 1
Bible citations· 21
1 Samuel 6:20 | 1 Samuel 4:1-11 | 1 Samuel 4:3 | 1 Samuel 4:4 | 1 Samuel 4:12-22 | 1 Samuel 4:16 | 1 Samuel 4:17 | 1 Samuel 5:1 | 1 Samuel 5:3 | 1 Samuel 5:4 | 1 Samuel 5:6-7 | Joshua 5 | Romans 8:28 | Romans 8:31-32 | 1 Samuel 6:19 | 2 Samuel 6 | 1 Samuel 7:3 | 1 Samuel 7:9 | 1 Samuel 7:12 | Romans 8
Illustrations· 5
  1. personal story · unit #1 — The personal story of discovering his grandfather's true authority and weight in the workplace serves as an analogy for the sermon's thesis — we think we know God, but we need to 'meet Him again' to understand His true character and the weight of His presence.
  2. personal story · unit #3 — Extends the grandfather illustration to demonstrate how discovering true authority changes the weight of promises — when you know who your grandfather really is, his offer of help carries different weight. This parallels how God's promises mean more when we see Him as He is.
  3. personal story · unit #13 — Personal story of teenage foolishness ordering everything at Applebee's and being shocked when the bill arrives. The story serves as an analogy for sin's consequences — you feel free in the moment, but the bill always comes due in the end. The pastor explicitly maps the analogy: 'The bill for the house of Eli has come due in the end.'
  4. cultural reference · unit #17 — Illustrates the irony of the Philistine situation through O. Henry's 'The Ransom of Red Chief' — kidnappers end up paying the parents to take the boy back because the boy is so unbearable. The story maps directly: the Philistines captured the Ark thinking they were in control, but now desperately want to be rid of it.
  5. personal story · unit #30 — Personal story of washing the car with his son and thinking it looked clean until he took off his sunglasses and saw the streaks and dirt clearly. The story serves as an analogy for moral self-perception: we think we're doing fine (like the Philistines are worse than us), but when we see ourselves in light of God's holiness (putting on the right glasses), we discover our true moral condition.
Theological claims· 11
  1. We do not truly know the Lord until His presence becomes the weightiest, most important part of our lives rather than a background element. unit #2
  2. The core sin of attempting to use God operates today through Prosperity Gospel thinking — treating spiritual practices as transactions that obligate God to provide health, wealth, and prosperity. unit #7
  3. God cannot be ignored — we may sin and think we're getting away with it, but divine judgment eventually comes. unit #12
  4. Too often we think God is unilaterally on our side, but there is a more fundamental issue we must address first. unit #19
  5. The fundamental question is not whether God is on our side, but whether we are on God's side — God's loyalty is to Himself and His purposes, as Lincoln and Joshua 5 both demonstrate. unit #20
  6. God is completely holy, completely separate from sin, and completely just — therefore anything unholy cannot exist in His presence. unit #27
  7. Uzzah's sin was presuming his own sinful hand was less polluted than the dirt — an arrogant misunderstanding of both God's holiness and human sinfulness. unit #28
  8. Passages like 1 Samuel 6 and 2 Samuel 6 are meant to force us to see ourselves again — to confront our actual moral condition. unit #29
  9. Despite God's holiness and Israel's sin, God does not abandon His people but sends a Savior — this is the most surprising and glorious turn in the narrative. unit #34
  10. Samuel functions in three offices in 1 Samuel 7 — prophet calling people back, priest offering sacrifice to turn aside wrath, and king leading victory over enemies. unit #35
  11. Samuel prefigures Christ in all three offices — prophet, priest, and king — and Jesus is the ultimate fulfillment who offers Himself as sacrifice and defeats sin, death, and Satan forever. unit #36
Quotations· 4
"it is not uncommon to think that by coming to church each Sunday, reading our Bible each day and giving a portion of our income, we are doing our bit for God. And in return we expect God to save us from hell and help out from time to time in life, ensuring that we are comfortable or happy or whatever it is that we wish him to supply." — Tim Chester (unit #7)
"anytime the church stops confessing thou art worthy and begins chanting Thou art useful" — Davis (unit #9)
"My great concern is not whether God is on our side. My great concern is to be on God's side." — Abraham Lincoln (unit #20)
"that man presumed his hand was less polluted than the dirt" — R.C. Sproul (unit #28)
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0 · The preacher opens by directing the congregation to the primary text (1 Samuel 6) and isolating verse 20 as the controlling question of the sermon: 'Who is able to stand before the Lord, this holy God?' This frames the entire argument around the problem of God's holiness and human inadequacy

missed phrases. Please turn in your Bibles to I Samuel chapter six. We're going to cover a lot of ground today, but I want to give you one key verse that will hang over the entirety of scripture of that section of scripture that we're going to be studying. A lot going on, but I think it's meant to drive one point home. And I believe we find that in 1st Samuel chapter 6 verse, verse 20. Then it says the men of Beth Shemesh said, who is able to stand before the Lord, this holy God, and to whom shall he go up away from us? This is God's word. And Lord, we pray your blessing over the preaching and the hearing of it today in your name. Amen.

1 · The personal story of discovering his grandfather's true authority and weight in the workplace serves as an analogy for the sermon's thesis — we think we know God, but we need to 'meet Him again' to understand His true character and the weight of His presence

Sometimes you need to re meet people that you already know in order for you to fully understand them. It's not as though they become different people than you thought, but who they really are gets fully known and understood. And this happened to me growing up with my grandfather, my dad's dad. Growing up, I got used to seeing my grandfather as an older gentleman, always very distinguished, always had, you know, even on think on days off, had like a collared shirt on kind of a guy. And he was not the loudest or brashest personality in the room. He would sometimes fall asleep watching football, you know, Sunday afternoons at his house. He hugged his grandkids and his presence was dignified. But it didn't feel weighty for me until that as a teenager, my first real job was when he hired me to clean out files at the office at his workplace where he and my dad worked. And at that context, in that context, it's like I met him again. I learned very quickly that all the employees stood in awe of him and were also afraid of him. And I remember vividly working in the warehouse and he would walk into the warehouse if he thought there was a problem or if he wanted to check something out. And he was an Older gentleman. And so his. As he walked, he would shuffle. You had a shuffle. And he'd go. His shoes would kind of on the. The big boomy warehouse. And I tell you what, man, I was back there filing or doing stuff. And as soon as somebody could hear the. Everybody in the warehouse looked busy. Every like, I don't care if they were on an authorized break. I don't care if they were supposed to be at lunch. They were like, let me grab something. You know, I'm moving something around. And everybody looked immediately productive. And I thought, oh, man, okay, that's different. Than I understood. And his office was the one was one of the offices you did not want to get called into. His office was very, very refined looking. He had a big chair with a big back on it. And. And behind him on the wall, this is. I'm not making this up. There was a sign behind him. So you're looking at him in the big chair. The wall behind him said, tough times don't last, but tough people do. Right. That's not the office you want to go into to have a conversation about your employment. Right. And I began to realize, oh, my goodness, I thought I knew my grandfather. I did not know my grandfather. And suddenly so much of what I knew about him began to make more sense. He had grown up in the Great Depression. At school and in work, he never backed down from a fight. He helped build a business from the ground up in a difficult time. And this was a man that nobody messed around with. And I finally understood him after I met him again.

2 · Establishes the sermon's central thesis: we think we know God, but we do not truly know Him until His presence becomes the weightiest part of our lives

Now that experience is what this text in 1st Samuel 4, 5 and 6 does for us today. Because here is the problem. We think often we know the Lord. We do know some parts of who the Lord is. And we are used to the presence of God in our lives to some degree, especially in a religious community like El Paso. But my worry and I think this passage's agenda is helping us see that we do not really know the Lord as we thought we knew Him. We don't know the Lord until his presence is not a. A background part of our lives, but becomes the weightiest, most important part of. Of our lives. And here's the thing. When we see that, and some of it will be uncomfortable, this is one of those texts that you go, oh, my goodness, right. Makes you stand back a little bit. But when you get that, it actually ends up being a better thing than you can imagine. Because here's the other thing. I believe this passage is also meant to help us see the Lord as he is. So that who he is and what he says for us bear the appropriate weight in our lives.

3 · Extends the grandfather illustration to demonstrate how discovering true authority changes the weight of promises — when you know who your grandfather really is, his offer of help carries different weight

At the end of my first week, I remember leaving the office and my grandpa saying, mijo, let me know while you're here, if you need anything at work, let me know. And I was like, okay, Grandpa. And listen, that offer at the beginning of the week, I would have thought, oh, sure, yeah, my grandpa's nice. He gives out candy to me at Christmas. Like, sure, whatever. No. Then at the end of the week, when he said that, miho, let me know if you need anything, I realized all of a sudden, the most intimidating guy in the entire complex is saying, he'll help me. And so I went, okay, that. That means something. Similarly, when we see the Lord as He actually is, oh, everything he says will mean much more.

4 · Structural transition announcing the sermon's five-point structure and introducing the first major claim about God's character

So five things we will see in the text today that will help us meet the Lord again and see him as he is. And. And the first one is this. God cannot be used.

5 · Direct engagement with 1 Samuel 4:1-11, expositing Israel's defeat and their decision to bring the Ark of the Covenant into battle

In verses one through 11 and chapter four, we find a conflict. Chapter four opens with a conflict between Israel and the Philistines. And battle lines are drawn and war ensues, and Israel suffers a defeat. So in verse three, in chapter four, they have an idea. It says, and when the people came to the camp, the elders of Israel said, when? Why has the Lord defeated us today before the Philistines? And then they have an idea. Let us bring the Ark of the Covenant of the Lord here from Shiloh that it may come among us and save us from the power of our enemies. Now, at first glance, this doesn't seem like a bad idea, does it? I mean, this is the Ark of the Covenant. And so presumably, you bring this thing out, you get the beams, you get the lightning, you get the laying waste, right? You're thinking, okay, this might work. Except here's the problem. Look at the language more carefully. Let us bring the Ark that it may come among us and save us. So God has given them the Ark of the Covenant, the. The symbol of his presence, with many rules and regulations about how it's to be handled. And they're thinking, okay, you know what we can do? We can just use the thing God gave us. We'll use that and defeat our enemies. Now do you see the problem? It may not be obvious at its first glance, but they are. These Israelites are attempting to use God. That's what they're trying to do. They're trying to use God by using his gifts to do what they want to do. Now notice what they did not do. They did not at that point ask, why did the Lord defeat us? Why didn't this work? Well, maybe it's because of the corruption in Eli's house. Maybe it's because we'll learn in chapter seven that the land was full of idolatry and people were worshiping other gods. There were a variety of things that God probably had on his agenda for the people of God. They didn't look at any of that stuff. They just saw we need something. We're going to use what God's given. In fact, we're going to try to manipulate God into giving us what we want.

Where this fits

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The three sermons immediately preceding this one in the preaching schedule.

Aug 24, 2025
The heart of Christ revealed in John 17—that we would know God, be united as his people, and live on mission—should become the heart that shapes our daily and weekly patterns, writing a eulogy that reflects his priorities rather than our own.
John 17:1-5, 20-26
Sep 7, 2025
History turns on those who turn to the Lord and align their lives with His purposes rather than doing what is right in their own eyes.
1 Samuel 1
Sep 21, 2025
You are more at risk of spiritual falling than you think because the corruption begins when something other than God becomes the weightiest thing in your life, but your hope is found in Jesus Christ, the faithful high priest who extends his hand to catch any sinner who calls upon him.
1 Samuel 2:12-36
October 5 · This sermon
God is Not on Your Side
When we see God as He truly is — holy, sovereign, and unchangeable — rather than as a means to our own ends, His promises for us and His provision of salvation in Christ bear their proper weight in our lives.
1 Samuel 4-6
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6 discussion questions
In 1 Samuel 4:3-4, Israel decides to bring the Ark of the Covenant into battle, saying 'Let us bring the ark of the Lord's covenant from Shi…
Daily readings
5-day reading plan
This week we confront a dangerous assumption: that God exists to serve our agenda. Through Israel's capture of the Ark and God's response, we'll discover that the fundamental question is not whether God is on our side, but whether we are on His — and that discovery changes everything.
Prayer
Prayer: Turned Back to God
Father, we come before You trembling, because we have seen in 1 Samuel 4 and 5 what it means to encounter You as You truly are — holy, sover…
Family table
Is God on Our Side?
This prompt invites your family to wrestle with the difference between using God for our own purposes and truly being on God's side. Listen…
Couples
On God's Side
What part of this sermon most shifted how you see God — His holiness, His sovereignty, or His commitment to His people? What stirred in you…
Memorize
1 Samuel 6:20
This verse captures the sermon's central confrontation: when Israel truly encounters God as He actually is — holy, separate, and untamable — their previous presumption collapses into trembling awe. It is the hinge moment where the congregation shifts from trying to use God to recognizing they cannot manipulate or ignore His holiness, setting up the gospel's surprise that despite this terrifying reality, God does not abandon His people but sends a Savior.
Small-group discussion

6 questions for your group this week

  1. In 1 Samuel 4:3-4, Israel decides to bring the Ark of the Covenant into battle, saying 'Let us bring the ark of the Lord's covenant from Shiloh, so that he may save us from the hand of our enemies.' What does this decision reveal about how Israel was thinking about God and His role in their lives?
    1 Samuel 4:3-4
    → Can you think of a time when you've been tempted to use God or spiritual practices as a means to get something you wanted rather than seeking God Himself?
  2. The sermon states that 'we do not truly know the Lord until His presence becomes the weightiest, most important part of our lives rather than a background element.' Looking at how Israel treated the Ark in this passage, in what ways were they treating God's presence as something peripheral rather than central?
  3. After the Ark is captured and Uzzah dies for touching it (2 Samuel 6), the people cry out in 1 Samuel 6:20, 'Who can stand in the presence of the Lord, this holy God?' What is God teaching His people through this terrifying moment about who He actually is?
    1 Samuel 6:20
    → How does understanding God's holiness—His complete separation from sin—change the way you think about approaching Him in prayer or worship?
  4. The sermon contrasts two different questions: 'Is God on our side?' versus 'Are we on God's side?' Why does the second question matter more, and what's the difference in how we live depending on which question we're asking?
    Joshua 5
    → If being 'on God's side' means aligning ourselves with His purposes rather than expecting Him to align with ours, what might that look like in a specific area of your life right now?
  5. In 1 Samuel 7, Samuel functions as prophet (calling people back to God), priest (offering sacrifice to turn aside wrath), and king (leading them to victory). The sermon says Samuel prefigures Jesus in all three offices. How does understanding Jesus in these three roles change your confidence in Him as your Savior?
    → Which of these three offices—prophet, priest, or king—do you most need Jesus to be for you this week, and why?
  6. Romans 8:31-32 says, 'If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all—how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things?' After encountering God's holiness in this passage, how does the gospel—that God gave His own Son—reshape what it means that God is truly for us?
    Romans 8:31-32
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Daily readings · Monday–Friday

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This week we confront a dangerous assumption: that God exists to serve our agenda. Through Israel's capture of the Ark and God's response, we'll discover that the fundamental question is not whether God is on our side, but whether we are on His — and that discovery changes everything.

Monday Joshua 5

Joshua asks the Commander of the Lord's army, 'Are you for us or for our enemies?' The answer stops him cold: neither. God is for God. This is the question that reshapes every prayer, every expectation, every claim we make on God's loyalty. When we ask 'Is God on my side?' we're asking the wrong question entirely.

Tuesday Romans 8:31-32

Paul's promise rings out: 'If God is for us, who can be against us?' But notice the order—he's not saying God swears allegiance to our plans. He's saying that if we align ourselves with God's purposes, we inherit the full weight of His sovereignty. We don't get a God who serves us; we get a God who fights *for* us in ways infinitely larger than we could ask or imagine.

Wednesday 2 Samuel 6

David dances before the Ark, but when Uzzah reaches out his hand to steady it, he dies. The text forces us to see ourselves again—to confront our actual moral condition against God's absolute holiness. We cannot touch holy things with unholy hands. This is not cruelty; it is the nature of God Himself.

Thursday Romans 8:28

All things work together for good to those who love God and are called according to His purpose. But this promise only lands when God Himself—His character, His holiness, His purposes—becomes our deepest concern, not our circumstances. When His presence becomes the weightiest thing in our lives, then we can trust what He does with all the other things.

Friday Romans 8

Romans 8 opens with no condemnation for those in Christ—not because God ignores sin, but because Christ bore it. Samuel called Israel back, offered sacrifice to turn aside wrath, and led them to victory. Jesus is the ultimate fulfillment: our Prophet calling us home, our Priest offering the final sacrifice, our King defeating every enemy. When we align ourselves with His side, we inherit a salvation so complete that nothing—not even death itself—can separate us from His love.

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Pray together this week

Prayer: Turned Back to God

Father, we come before You trembling, because we have seen in 1 Samuel 4 and 5 what it means to encounter You as You truly are — holy, sovereign, and utterly separate from our sin. We confess that we often treat You as a means to our own ends, carrying You into battle as though You exist to serve our agendas rather than we existing to serve Yours. We have been infected by the prosperity gospel in ways we do not always see — we exchange spiritual practices for guarantees, we presume upon Your favor, we handle Your name carelessly, thinking ourselves less polluted than we actually are (1 Samuel 6:20). Forgive us for this presumption and arrogance.

But Father, the most shocking mercy of this dark story is that You did not abandon Israel in their failure. Instead, You sent Samuel — prophet calling them back, priest offering sacrifice to turn aside Your wrath, and king leading them to victory over their enemies. And You have sent One far greater: Jesus Christ, who is prophet, priest, and king, who offers Himself as the only perfect sacrifice, and who defeats sin, death, and Satan forever on our behalf. By His blood, we are made clean. By His resurrection, we are made alive.

We ask, Father, that You would turn us back to You — not asking whether You are on our side, but asking whether we are on Your side (Joshua 5). Give us the grace this week to see that nothing can successfully oppose us because You Himself fight for us (Romans 8:31–32). Teach us to tremble before Your holiness and to trust absolutely in Your provision. And as we face our own battles — battles against sin, against fear, against the false promises of this world — grant us the trembling confidence that comes from knowing the God who is both terrifyingly holy and unshakably for His people.

We commit ourselves to You, Father, and to the Lordship of Your Son, in whose name we pray.

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Sunday-evening family table

Is God on Our Side?

For the parent

This prompt invites your family to wrestle with the difference between using God for our own purposes and truly being on God's side. Listen for whether family members think God exists to help them, versus whether they exist to follow Him. This is a posture question that shapes everything.

In the sermon, we heard that Israel thought God was on their side because they had the Ark of the Covenant — but God showed them He wasn't on their side at all. Ricky said the real question isn't 'Is God on our side?' but 'Are we on God's side?' What's the difference? Can you think of a time when you wanted God to do something for you, instead of asking 'What does God want me to do?'
works for ages 8+ — younger kids can listen and share what they think God wants from them; teens and adults will feel the deeper conviction about whose agenda comes first
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Couples · three questions over coffee

On God's Side

  1. What part of this sermon most shifted how you see God — His holiness, His sovereignty, or His commitment to His people? What stirred in you as you heard it?
  2. Where in our marriage do we sometimes treat God as a means to our own ends rather than recognizing we need to be on His side? How does that show up?
  3. How can we pray for each other this week to live with the trembling confidence that God Himself fights for us — not because we've earned it, but because we belong to Him through Christ?
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Memory verse this week

1 Samuel 6:20

And the men of Beth-shemesh said, 'Who is able to stand before the Lord, this holy God? And to whom shall he go up away from us?'

Why this verse: This verse captures the sermon's central confrontation: when Israel truly encounters God as He actually is — holy, separate, and untamable — their previous presumption collapses into trembling awe. It is the hinge moment where the congregation shifts from trying to use God to recognizing they cannot manipulate or ignore His holiness, setting up the gospel's surprise that despite this terrifying reality, God does not abandon His people but sends a Savior.

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