Do Hard Things

Acts 14:19-23 July 23, 2023 Pastor Ricky Alcantar
Thesis Christians can and must do hard things with God's help, because the path to the kingdom of God runs through tribulation, not around it.
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pastoraldidacticcelebratory
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grammatical-historicalredemptive-historicalcanonical
What's in this sermon

The shape of the argument

39 units across exposition, application, illustration, theological claim, and conclusion. The pastor's argument is built from these moving parts.

Pastoral correction · unit #35
"Applies the weight illustration to personal testimony about chronic health issues, then universalizes to the congregation. The move is from object lesson to lived experience to theological truth: God's help makes impossible burdens bearable."
Doctrinal loci· 5 surfaced
Sanctification · 10 Pastoral Theology · 9 Providence / Sovereignty · 4 Christology · 3 Ethics / Moral Theology · 1
Bible citations· 17
Acts 14:20 | Acts 14:22 | Acts 14:19 | Acts 14:21 | Acts 14:23 | Acts 14 (earlier verses) | 2 Corinthians 5:21 | 2 Timothy 3 | John 15:18
Illustrations· 8
  1. personal story · unit #1 — Tells the story of the preacher's grandfather's perseverance through rejection as a non-English-speaking immigrant child. The story illustrates that perseverance through difficulty can lead to breakthrough, and that opposition doesn't necessarily mean you're doing something wrong.
  2. personal story · unit #9 — Uses a childhood story about accidentally throwing a rock to make the violence of Paul's stoning vivid and comprehensible to children. The illustration scales up from one rock causing conflict to many rocks causing apparent death.
  3. analogy · unit #16 — Simplifies the gospel message for children through contrast between 'good guy' and 'bad guys,' making the substitutionary logic comprehensible. Connects this truth to Paul's willingness to endure stoning.
  4. personal story · unit #17 — Preacher's conversion testimony. Locates the moment of gospel awakening in the realization that he was not morally superior but personally guilty and in need of Christ's atoning death.
  5. analogy · unit #22 — Uses the slip-and-slide analogy to contrast the false expectation of easy Christianity with the biblical reality of a rocky, difficult path. The illustration reframes tribulation as evidence of being on the right path, not the wrong one.
  6. hypothetical · unit #28 — Congregation participation segment gathering examples of long road trips. Sets up the analogy by collecting real experiences from listeners.
  7. personal story · unit #29 — Uses contrasting personal road trip experiences (Phoenix vs. Colorado) to illustrate how destination transforms the experience of the journey. The unpleasant destination makes the trip feel interminable; the glorious destination makes hardships bearable.
  8. analogy · unit #34 — Live object lesson using a child, father, and heavy weight. First attempt (child alone) demonstrates inability; second attempt (father helping) demonstrates ease. The illustration makes the sermon's thesis physically visible and memorable.
Theological claims· 7
  1. Difficulty while following Jesus does not indicate you're doing something wrong—it may indicate you're doing the right thing. unit #2
  2. Jesus, the only innocent man, was killed by a mob so that guilty people like Paul—and us—could be forgiven and counted righteous. unit #15
  3. All who desire to live godly lives in Christ Jesus will be persecuted, and in this world believers will have tribulation. unit #21
  4. The hardships believers face—relational strain, physical suffering, and discouragement—are the same categories Paul experienced and are normative in Christian discipleship. unit #23
  5. The kingdom of God is a place of eternal communion with God and his people, free from all suffering, sorrow, and evil. unit #27
  6. Knowing the destination of the kingdom of God transforms our experience of tribulation and fuels evangelistic mission. unit #30
  7. Believers can face unknown tribulations because they have been committed to a God who is strong, mighty, and able to sustain them beyond what they can imagine. unit #33
Quotations· 1
"Jesus died for your sins" — unnamed Bible teacher (unit #17)
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0 · Opens by establishing rapport with children through personal vulnerability

Now, if you're a kid in this service, I want to immediately tell you a story about when I was a kid, because I was a very unique, particular kid. I was a shy and embarrassed kid all the time when I was around other people. Does anybody else get shy and embarrassed? Don't raise your hand because you'll be shy and embarrassed. No, I'm just kidding.

I would get shy and embarrassed, and here's what would happen. As a kid, if I did anything that was difficult or hard for me and and it felt weird or uncomfortable, or if I felt embarrassed, I would stop and my impulse would be to kind of run away. I didn't like performances. I didn't like stuff like that initially. And so if it was difficult, I ran away.

1 · Tells the story of the preacher's grandfather's perseverance through rejection as a non-English-speaking immigrant child

And one particular day, my grandfather told me a story that really helped me. He told me about his childhood. He had moved from Mexico to California as a kid. And he, when he moved to California, didn't speak any English. So if you're a kid and you think school is hard, think about how hard school would be if you didn't understand any of the language, if it was, like, taught in German or something, unless you speak fluent German, in which case, I don't know how to say "Auf Wiedersehen." I don't know what— I don't even do German.

It would be difficult, right? It would be difficult to hear language at school taught in another language. But he did want to understand one thing that transcended language, which was sports. He loved sports. Sports.

And so he noticed that at recess, all the kids would run out and play wall ball at recess. And so he would try to get into playing wall ball with them, but they would kind of push him out. And he could kind of realize at a certain point, oh, he's, he's getting pushed out because he doesn't know the rules. So he starts watching and observing, and he watches carefully. Okay, the way it works is after recess, the first 2 kids that go put their hand on this line on the pavement, they're the first 2 people to play wall ball.

So he did it. He ran after recess, beat everybody, got to the thing, put his hand on, and they pushed him off and pushed him down. And he was like, what in the world? And he realized, no, these kids just don't want to play with me. So he got back up, put his hand back on the line.

They pushed him down again. He got back up and put his hand on the line, and they just kept doing it. And eventually, I don't know if it took 1 recess period or 2 or 3 or 10, but eventually the kids let him play wall ball. Probably because it was easier than constantly having to push him down and out of the way. Just let the kid play.

2 · Makes the sermon's central theological assertion: difficulty in the Christian life is normative, not aberrational

And what it helped me realize as a kid was that sometimes when things are difficult, it's not because you're doing something wrong. Sometimes things are just difficult. Sometimes things are difficult when you're doing the right thing and you have to persevere through that difficulty. And our text today, our story today is going to teach us a very similar lesson. Lesson.

Sometimes when it comes to following Jesus, things will be difficult. Sometimes you might be tempted to think, okay, if things are difficult while I'm following Jesus, I must be doing something wrong. You might think, okay, if— maybe you've even heard from somebody, if you follow Jesus, everything in your life is just going to miraculously get better. The car you drive will be nicer next year. The house you live in will be bigger.

Your job will be better. You will be more famous. You will get more views on your favorite weird you know, fish aquarium review website on YouTube. Like, whatever you think, okay, that's what success would look like for me. You think that is going to happen if I follow Jesus.

And then bam, you suddenly realize, man, things are harder sometimes when I follow Jesus.

3 · Establishes the sermon's governing thesis as a catechetical question-and-answer, making it memorable and participatory

So our story today is going to— with the big idea I'm summing up in a question and an answer. And the question and answer actually borrowed from something John gave the kids for the kids' liturgy a few months ago. And the question is this: What can we do with God's help and power? And the answer is hard things.

So I want us all to say that together, to lock it in our mind before we proceed to the text this morning. I'm going to give you the question, you give me the answer, which is hard things. Okay? Question: What can we do with God's help and power? And the answer is hard things.

I don't care if you're 5 or 55 or 85. That is a helpful and important lesson that I think the Lord means to teach us all today.

4 · Reads the primary text aloud in full

So, let's look at the text, Acts chapter 14, and let's remember as we read, this is God's Word. "But Jews"— Acts 14, verse 19, please. "But Jews came from Antioch and Iconium, and having persuaded the crowds, they stoned Paul and dragged him out of the city, supposing that he was dead." But when the disciples gathered around him, he rose up and entered the city.

And on the next day he went on with Barnabas to Derbe. And when they had preached the gospel to that city and had made many disciples, they returned to Lystra and to Iconium and to Antioch, strengthening the souls of the disciples, encouraging them to continue in the faith, and saying that through many tribulations we must 'Enter the kingdom of God.' And when they had appointed elders for them in every church, with prayer and fasting they committed them to the Lord in whom they had believed." This is God's Word.

5 · Invokes the Spirit's work of encouragement and strengthening through the preached Word

Lord, I pray for every heart here today, whether there are 10 or 100, Lord, I pray that you would encourage and strengthen and speak faith and strength into our souls this morning through the power of your Word, in the power of the Spirit, in Jesus' name, amen.

Where this fits

Recent preaching context

The three sermons immediately preceding this one in the preaching schedule.

Jun 4, 2023
Every Christian is sent into the world with everything they need — God's people, God's Word, God's Spirit, and God's hand — to faithfully proclaim the gospel in whatever cultural context they inhabit.
Acts 13:1-12
Jun 11, 2023
Paul's sermon in Acts 13 provides a transferable model for gospel proclamation that moves from acknowledging God's sovereignty in history, to confronting human brokenness, to presenting Jesus as the superior Savior, to calling for a decision—a pattern every Christian can use when God providentially opens doors for witness.
Acts 13:13-41
July 23 · This sermon
Do Hard Things
Christians can and must do hard things with God's help, because the path to the kingdom of God runs through tribulation, not around it.
Acts 14:19-23
Take it further

Discuss · apply · pray

Couples · three questions over coffee

Doing Hard Things Together

  1. What hard thing is God calling you to right now—in your faith, your work, your family? Did the sermon change how you're thinking about it?
  2. Where have you seen tribulation or difficulty actually strengthen your marriage rather than break it? How can we face the unknown together knowing God is sustaining us both?
  3. What's one burden your spouse is carrying that you could help them bear this week? How can we pray for each other to have courage in the hard path ahead?
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Small-group discussion

6 questions for your group this week

  1. In Acts 14:19-23, Paul is stoned nearly to death in Lystra, yet he and Barnabas return to that same city to strengthen the believers there. What does this tell us about Paul's understanding of what Christian discipleship requires?
    Acts 14:19-21
    → How is Paul's response different from what our culture would expect a leader to do after such violence?
  2. Paul tells the new believers that 'through many tribulations we must enter the kingdom of God' (Acts 14:22). What does the word 'through' suggest about the relationship between hardship and the Christian life—is hardship a detour, or is it part of the path itself?
    Acts 14:22
  3. The sermon emphasizes that difficulty while following Jesus does not mean you are doing something wrong—it may mean you are doing the right thing. Where in your own life or in the lives of believers you know have you seen this principle tested or proven true?
    2 Timothy 3:12
    → What is the difference between suffering that comes from disobedience and suffering that comes from faithful obedience?
  4. Jesus told his disciples, 'If the world hates you, know that it has hated me before it hated you' (John 15:18). How does knowing that Jesus himself faced rejection and violence change the way you think about your own hardships as a Christian?
    John 15:18
  5. The sermon teaches that the destination—the kingdom of God as a place of eternal communion with God, free from all suffering—transforms our experience of tribulation now. How does a clear vision of heaven actually change the way you face a difficult circumstance this week?
    → What happens to our perseverance when we lose sight of where we are headed?
  6. Paul and Barnabas commit the new believers to God with prayer and fasting (Acts 14:23). What does this gesture suggest about what believers need most when facing tribulation—and how does that challenge or comfort you?
    Acts 14:23
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Daily readings · Monday–Friday

5-day reading plan

This week we follow Paul's path through suffering to the kingdom: from the cost of discipleship, to Christ's substitution for us, to the promise that tribulation is normal, to the God who sustains us, and finally to the glory that awaits.

Monday 2 Timothy 3:12

Paul writes this not as a threat but as a simple fact: godliness and opposition go together in this world. When we face resistance for following Jesus, we are not off the path—we are on it. The question is not whether hardship will come, but whether we will keep walking.

Tuesday 2 Corinthians 5:21

Paul knew this exchange intimately: Christ took his guilt to the cross, and Paul received Christ's righteousness in return. This is why Paul could return to Lystra after being stoned nearly to death. He was not earning favor; he was already forgiven. Understanding what Jesus did for us frees us to do hard things, because we are no longer trying to prove our worth—it has been given to us.

Wednesday John 15:18

When the world rejects us, it is often because we belong to Jesus and speak his truth, not because we have failed. Jesus himself was rejected and hated. If the world loves you completely, ask whether you are truly following him or merely blending in. Tribulation can be a sign that we are faithfully representing the kingdom of God.

Thursday Acts 14:21-22

Paul did not shy away from naming what lay ahead: entering the kingdom requires passing through tribulation. He spoke this truth not to discourage the young churches, but to prepare them. When we understand that difficulty is a normal part of following Jesus, we are less likely to mistake hardship for abandonment. We are in good company—the company of all saints who have gone before us.

Friday Acts 14:23

Paul prayed and committed the churches to the Lord before moving on. His confidence was not in the absence of future trials, but in the God who would sustain them through to his kingdom. When we fix our eyes on where we are going—to a place of eternal peace with God—the weight of present suffering becomes bearable. This is why we can do hard things: because we know how the story ends, and we are determined to see others reach that ending too.

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Pray together this week

Prayer for Perseverance Through Tribulation

Father, we come before you in awe of your character—you are strong and mighty, able to sustain us beyond what we can imagine. You sent your only Son, the only innocent man, to face the hardest thing: death on a cross, so that guilty people like us could be forgiven and counted righteous. We adore you for this gospel that rescues us.

Yet we confess, Lord, that we often mistake difficulty for failure. When relational strain comes, when physical suffering visits us, when discouragement weighs heavy—we wonder if we are doing something wrong, rather than recognizing these as the normal marks of following Jesus. We have been shaped by a culture that promises ease, and we are slow to embrace the truth that the path to your kingdom runs through tribulation, not around it (Acts 14:22). Forgive us for our unbelief.

We thank you that Jesus walked this path first and invites us to follow. We thank you that all who desire to live godly lives in Christ Jesus will indeed be persecuted—and that this is not punishment, but evidence of authentic discipleship. We receive afresh the gospel that transforms our experience of hardship: we are not alone, we are not abandoned, and we are not without hope.

Give us grace this week to do hard things—to carry burdens that feel impossible to bear alone, knowing we are committed to you. Strengthen us in relational conflict, sustain us in physical suffering, and anchor our hope in the kingdom of God, that place of eternal communion with you and your people, free from all sorrow and evil. As we face unknown tribulations, help us remember that you are able. May we be a people of perseverance, not because we are strong, but because you are.

To you be the glory, now and forever. Amen.

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Sunday-evening family table

Doing Hard Things with God

For the parent

This prompt invites your family to connect Paul's stoning in Acts 14 with their own everyday hard things. The goal is to help kids see that difficulty—in schoolwork, friendships, obedience—isn't a sign something's wrong; it might be a sign something's right. Listen for where they locate hardship in their own week.

In the sermon, we heard that Paul got stoned and beaten, but then went back to the same city to help the church. That's a really hard thing. What's one hard thing you're doing right now—maybe it's schoolwork that's tricky, or being kind to someone who's not being kind back, or listening to your parents when you don't want to? And what would help you keep doing that hard thing, even when it feels impossible?
Works for ages 7+. Younger kids (7–9) may need you to suggest examples from their week; older kids (10+) will surface their own.
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Memory verse this week

Acts 14:22

strengthening the souls of the disciples, encouraging them to continue in the faith, and saying that through many tribulations we must enter the kingdom of God.

Why this verse: This verse is the sermon's theological hinge—it establishes that tribulation is not a detour from the Christian path but the normative way into God's kingdom. Paul's return to the cities that violently rejected him to preach this exact message is the living proof of what he teaches, making Acts 14:22 the verse that must lodge in memory to reshape how believers interpret their own suffering.

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