Between a Rock and Hard Place

Exodus 14:5-29 June 25, 2023 Pastor Eric Gonzalez
Thesis When we face impossible circumstances, God calls us away from self-reliance, heart idols, and cultural norms to trust in His saving grace, which makes a way through chaos just as He did at the Red Sea.
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What's in this sermon

The shape of the argument

46 units across exposition, application, illustration, theological claim, and conclusion. The pastor's argument is built from these moving parts.

Pastoral correction · unit #19
"Eric catalogs potential heart idols—power, money, status, family, peace—and warns that if these take God's place, they cannot save or sustain us. He challenges the listener to identify what they treasure by asking: what loss would trigger a crisis of faith?"
Doctrinal loci· 12 surfaced
Sanctification · 10 Soteriology · 10 Theology Proper · 10 Hamartiology · 8 Christology · 6 Providence / Sovereignty · 5 Anthropology · 4 Pneumatology · 4 Spiritual Warfare · 4 Bibliology · 3 Ecclesiology · 1 Ethics / Moral Theology · 1
Bible citations· 23
Exodus 14:5-29 | Exodus 14:8 | Exodus 13 | Exodus 14:10 | Exodus 14:11 | Exodus 14:13-14 | Matthew 6:21 | Exodus 14:5 | Romans 6:23 | Exodus 14:4 | Exodus 14:17 | Genesis 3 | Psalm 135:15-18 | Exodus 14:19 | Exodus 3 | Exodus 3:4 | Exodus 14:24 | John 16:33 | Genesis 1:1-2 | Mark 4 | Exodus 14:15 | Matthew 6:25-34
Illustrations· 9
  1. personal story · unit #3 — Eric tells a personal story from his Air Force Academy days in which his friend Puck asked him to lie about his whereabouts so Puck could attend his grandmother's funeral. Eric felt trapped between loyalty to his friend and the academy's honor code. This introduces the sermon's central metaphor: being caught between a rock and a hard place.
  2. personal story · unit #8 — Eric tells the story of his son Ethan's panic attack during a wildfire evacuation. Ethan's fear forced him to the end of himself. After they prayed, the winds shifted—something only God could do. This illustrates the theological claim: when we reach the end of ourselves, we cry out to God and discover He is enough.
  3. personal story · unit #12 — Eric returns to the Puck story: after praying, Eric refused to lie, but the major denied leave anyway. Now Puck is angry at Eric, and Eric could blame the major—just as the Israelites blamed Moses. This illustrates the human reflex to blame authority when outcomes don't go our way.
  4. personal story · unit #20 — Eric shares a personal example of a heart idol: peace in the home. When he prioritizes personal peace over family responsibility, conflict follows. This illustrates how even good desires become idols when they take God's place, and how holding onto them hardens the heart.
  5. cultural reference · unit #26 — Eric uses Bunyan's Pilgrim's Progress to illustrate cultural norms' deceptive power. Mr. Worldly Wiseman offers Christian a shortcut through Legality, Morality, and Civility—good things that nevertheless turn Christian away from the narrow path to God. Eric connects this to his own experience in military culture: worldly wisdom that sounded good but led away from God.
  6. personal story · unit #27 — Eric gives a concrete personal example of cultural influence: the Eagle and Fledgling statue at the Air Force Academy with its inscription, 'Man's flight through life is sustained by the power of his knowledge.' He recognized the subtle lie: knowledge, not God, as the source of life. This illustrates how cultural norms shape us without our awareness.
  7. personal story · unit #28 — Eric illustrates family-level cultural norms with a humorous story capturing his family's reflexive negativity: the crowd first says the train will never move, then that it will never stop. This illustrates how cultural patterns—even at the family level—shape our thinking without our conscious awareness.
  8. personal story · unit #40 — Eric resolves the opening Puck story: after prayer and advocacy, the major found a bureaucratic solution through the Red Cross. Puck got to the funeral, the major's requirements were met, and Eric didn't have to lie. God made a way where there seemed to be no way, just as He did at the Red Sea. The resolution illustrates the sermon's thesis.
  9. analogy · unit #42 — Eric uses the photograph displayed throughout the sermon—a white flower growing between concrete and asphalt—as a visual metaphor for God's provision. Life springs forth in an impossible place, just as God makes a way through impossible circumstances. Jesus' words about the lilies of the field underscore God's care for His people.
Theological claims· 9
  1. Self-reliance inevitably leads to fear when we reach the end of our own strength and realize we are not enough. unit #7
  2. Persistent pursuit of heart idols, rooted in the serpent's lie that God is withholding good from us, leads to God's judicial abandonment and spiritual death. unit #21
  3. Modern culture has its own spiritual powers—power brokers, influencers, paradigms, and norms—that shape how we respond to difficult situations. unit #25
  4. God's work at the Red Sea was the culmination of His campaign against Egypt's idols and part of His unfolding plan of salvation from Genesis to the cross. unit #31
  5. God faced a cosmic dilemma between His justice and His love after the fall, and He resolved it by Jesus standing in the gap on the cross. unit #33
  6. The God who ordered chaos at creation, calmed the storm, and divided the Red Sea is the same God we serve today. unit #37
  7. The Israelites' journey from slavery through the Red Sea to new identity and law is a picture of the believer's salvation: God saves us first, baptizes us, gives us new identity, and then His word to live by. unit #39
  8. The name Israel means 'struggles with God,' and wrestling with the Lord is part of submitting to His lordship in our lives. unit #41
  9. Those who make God's glory their end, His word their rule, His Spirit their guide, and His providence their director can trust that God goes before them as He did Israel. unit #43
Quotations· 9
"Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also." — Jesus (unit #13)
"The wages of sin is death." — Paul (unit #16)
"Man's flight through life is sustained by the power of his knowledge." — Eagle and Fledgling statue inscription (unit #27)
"The idols of the nations are silver and gold, the work of human hands. They have mouths but do not speak. They have eyes but do not see. They have ears but do not hear, nor is there any breath in their mouths. Those who make them become like them. So do all who trust in them." — Psalmist (unit #30)
"God's divine love overcame his divine wrath through divine self-sacrifice in the God-man Jesus." — John Stott (unit #35)
"Fear not, I have overcome the world. In the world you may have tribulations, but take heart, I have overcome the world." — Jesus (unit #35)
"In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth. The earth was without form and void, and darkness was over the face of the deep, and the Spirit of God was hovering over the face of the waters." — Moses (unit #36)
"One of these is arrayed better than Solomon." — Jesus (unit #42)
"Those who make the glory of God their end and the word of God their rule the Spirit of God, the guide of their affections, and the providence of God, the guide of their affairs, may be confident that the Lord goes before them as truly as he went before Israel in the wilderness." — Matthew Henry (unit #43)
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0 · Eric introduces himself as a guest preacher filling in during the lead pastor's sabbatical

Thanks, Alec. So for those of you who don't know me, my name's Eric, as Alec said. Ricky, our lead pastor, is on a sabbatical, and he called me a few weeks ago as he was preparing for that. He was like, uh, hey, what do you think about preaching? It's like, okay, this is part of what we're getting ready for with the consortium, with the Elder Exploration Team. Chuck was originally supposed to preach this morning, and he's still recovering from his from his ailments, so keep him in your prayers. He's recovering very nicely, but yeah, Ricky asked me to step in this morning, so here we go. Exodus 14 is where we're going to go, taking a break from our normal series in Acts. Exodus 14, verse 5, and we're going to read all through 29. Very familiar passage, but I think the Lord has some really good stuff for us here today.

1 · Eric reads the entire text of Exodus 14:5-29 aloud

This is God's word. When the king of Egypt was told that the people had fled, the mind of Pharaoh and his servants was changed toward the people. And they said, 'What is this we have done, that we have let Israel go from serving us?' So he made ready his chariot and took his army with him, and took 600 chosen chariots and all the other chariots of Egypt with officers over all of them. And the Lord hardened the heart of Pharaoh, king of Egypt, and he pursued the people of Israel while the people of Israel were going out defiantly. We'll come back to that point here in a minute. The Egyptians pursued them, and all Pharaoh's horses and chariots and his horsemen and his army, and overtook them and camped at the Sea of Pi-Hahiroth, in front of Baal-Zephon. When Pharaoh drew near, the people of Israel lifted up their eyes And behold, the Egyptians were marching after them, and they feared greatly. And the people of Israel cried out to the Lord. They said to Moses, 'Is it because there are no graves in Egypt that you have taken us away to die in the wilderness? What have you done to us in bringing us out of Egypt? Is not this what we said to you in Egypt, "Leave us alone, that we may serve the Egyptians"? For it would have been better for us to serve the Egyptians than to die in the wilderness.' And Moses said to the people, 'Fear not! Stand firm and see the salvation of the Lord, which he will work for you today. For the Egyptians whom you see today you shall never see again. The Lord will fight for you, and you have only to be silent.' The Lord said to Moses, 'Why do you cry to me? Tell the people of Israel to go forward. Lift up your staff and stretch out your hand over the sea and divide it.' that the people of Israel may go through the sea on dry ground. And I will harden the hearts of the Egyptians so that they shall go in after them, and I will get glory over Pharaoh and all his hosts, his chariots and his horsemen. And the Egyptians shall know that I am the Lord when I have gotten glory over Pharaoh and his chariots and his horsemen. Then the angel of God who was going before the host of Israel moved and went behind them, and the pillar of cloud moved from before them and stood behind them, coming between the host of Egypt and the host of Israel. And there was the cloud and the darkness, and it lit up the night, without one coming near the other all night. Then Moses stretched out his hand over the sea, and the Lord drove the sea back by a strong east wind all night and made the sea dry land, and the waters were divided. And the people of Israel went into the midst of the sea on dry ground, the waters being a wall to them on their right hand and on their left. The Egyptians pursued and went in after them into the midst of the sea—all Pharaoh's horses, his chariots, and his horsemen. And in the morning watch the Lord in the pillar of fire and of cloud looked down on the Egyptian forces and threw the Egyptian forces into a panic, clogging their chariot wheels so that they drove heavily. And the Egyptians said, 'Let us flee from before Israel, for the Lord fights for them against the Egyptians.' Then the Lord said to Moses, 'Stretch out your hand over the sea, that the water may come back upon the Egyptians, upon their chariots, and upon their horsemen.' So Moses stretched out his hand over the sea, and the sea returned to its normal course when the morning appeared. And as the Egyptians fled into it, The Lord threw the Egyptians into the midst of the sea. The waters returned and covered the chariots and the horsemen. Of all the host of Pharaoh that had followed them into the sea, not one of them remained. But the people of Israel walked on dry ground through the sea, the waters being a wall to them on their right hand and on their left.

2 · Eric prays for the Spirit's work through the sermon and frames the Red Sea narrative as part of God's unfolding plan of salvation culminating in Jesus

Let's pray. Lord, Thank you for your word. Thank you for the work that you did there at the Red Sea in the continuation of your effort to save humanity from himself, to eventually bring your Savior, our Savior, your Son Jesus. Lord, I pray that your Spirit would speak through me, that we would get what you want us to know from your word. I pray this in Jesus' In Jesus' name, amen.

3 · Eric tells a personal story from his Air Force Academy days in which his friend Puck asked him to lie about his whereabouts so Puck could attend his grandmother's funeral

So the first time I was on this stage was back in 1996. Yes, I'm that old. Some people think I look young. I'm not that young. 1996, I was at the Air Force Academy. I was in college. My friend Rob Mixer, who some of you may remember, the Mixer family here from years ago, he was part of this church back then, and he had orchestrated for the chapel praise team that we were both a part of to come and do a concert here way back then. That was the first time that I got the opportunity to set sights on the woman who would eventually become my wife. We would get married on this stage 2 years after that in 1998. But at the Air Force Academy, it's a place where they thrust you into leadership opportunities, where they teach you how to become a leader. You can learn about yourself and learn how to lead. A couple of months after I was on this stage, in 1996, that summer, I was given the opportunity to lead some cadets at our survival school to teach other cadets survival skills. And one of my instructors during that season, my friend named Puck, came to me. He's like, 'Hey, my grandmother just passed away. She was like a mom to me. She raised me practically. And I need to get home to her funeral.' Which was a problem. Because we were in the middle of training. And as some of you military people know, when you're in training, it's really hard to get leave. And it wasn't someone who was his immediate family member. It wasn't a mom, dad, sister, brother, that kind of thing. So the rule was you couldn't just take leave to go. We knew that, and we knew the officer in charge of us knew that. And so it was a dilemma. So Puck's solution was, hey, why don't I just take off for a couple of days, just tell them I'm here when they do the accountability check in the evening. And I'll be back before anybody knows that I'm missing. That didn't sit well with me, especially since at the academy there's a phrase, 'We will not lie, steal, or cheat, nor tolerate among us anyone who does.' I cannot lie or I could get kicked out. But this is my friend Puck, it's his grandmother, how am I going to keep him from going? I felt stuck. I felt that burden of there's not a good decision here.

4 · Eric directly asks the congregation if they have experienced the dilemma of impossible choices—confronting a boss, confronting family—and poses the central question: where do we turn when trapped in such situations?

Have you ever felt that way? Have you ever felt stuck between a rock and a hard place? Just in a bad set of choices? Have you ever felt like you had to stand up to a difficult boss and risk getting fired? Or maybe you have to confront a family member or friend and risk threatening the relationship? Where do we go and who do we trust when we're in a difficult situation?

5 · Eric previews the sermon's structure: four perspectives on facing impossible situations—self-reliance (Israelites), heart desires (Pharaoh), cultural norms (Egyptians), and God's saving grace

Well, Exodus 14 gives us some good pointers here, gives us some good, good thoughts to consider. We're gonna, we're gonna look at trusting in ourself, self-reliance, from the Israelites' perspective. We're gonna look at Pharaoh's perspective in this story, the desires of our heart, and then the Egyptians' perspective, cultural norms that affect us that we may not be aware of, and then the important perspective, God's perspective on the situation. So let's dive right in.

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Couples · three questions over coffee

Trusting God Between the Waves

  1. What 'rock and hard place' are you facing right now, and what did you hear yourself tempted to rely on instead of God's grace?
  2. Where do we as a couple tend to turn to self-reliance, heart idols, or cultural voices when we're afraid—and how can we invite the other to call us back to trusting God together?
  3. What would it mean for us to pray this week that God would make a way through our chaos, just as He did at the Red Sea, and how can we encourage each other's faith as we wait?
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Small-group discussion

6 questions for your group this week

  1. When the Israelites saw the Egyptian army approaching, they immediately complained to Moses and said, 'It would have been better for us to serve the Egyptians than to die in the desert' (Exodus 14:12). What does their response reveal about what they were trusting in at that moment, and what made them feel so trapped?
    Exodus 14:10-12
    → Can you think of a time when you've felt similarly cornered—when your own resources or plans seemed exhausted? What did you reach for in that moment?
  2. The sermon identifies three false sources of security the Israelites relied on: self-reliance, heart idols, and cultural norms. Which of these shows up most clearly in the Israelites' complaint and fear in this passage, and why do you think that particular false trust was so powerful for them at the Red Sea?
    Exodus 14:5-14
  3. Moses tells the people, 'Do not be afraid. Stand firm and you will see the deliverance the Lord will bring you today' (Exodus 14:13-14). What is Moses asking the Israelites to do differently, and what makes that request so difficult when you're literally watching an army bear down on you?
    Exodus 14:13-14
  4. The sermon claims that God 'faced a cosmic dilemma between His justice and His love' and resolved it through Christ standing in the gap on the cross. How does the Red Sea crossing—God making a way through impossible chaos—point forward to what Jesus accomplishes on the cross?
    → What does it mean for you personally that the God who divided the waters at the Red Sea has also defeated the chaos of sin and death through Christ?
  5. The sermon suggests that when we find ourselves in tight spots, we tend to trust in self-reliance, heart idols, or cultural power brokers rather than God's lordship. What does it look like in your own life right now to submit to God's lordship in a situation where you're tempted to trust in one of those false sources instead?
  6. The sermon connects the Israelites' journey from slavery through the Red Sea to the believer's journey of salvation: God saves us first, baptizes us into a new identity, and then gives us His word to live by. As you think about your own faith story, how have you experienced that pattern, and what does it mean to keep trusting God's lordship after He has already saved you?
    Exodus 14:19-29
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Daily readings · Monday–Friday

5-day reading plan

This week we trace the arc from our idolatrous self-reliance through God's sovereign power over chaos to our settled trust in His lordship—the same gospel movement from slavery to new identity that Israel experienced at the Red Sea.

Monday Matthew 6:21

Our treasure—what we truly believe will satisfy and secure us—reveals what we actually worship. When we clutch at false sources of life rather than Christ, we prove we've believed the serpent's ancient lie: that God is stingy, that His word cannot be trusted. Monday's meditation invites us to examine what treasure our hearts are pursuing when tight spots expose our idols.

Tuesday Genesis 3

In the garden, the enemy whispered that God's boundary was a cage, not a kindness—that obedience would rob us of something better. We carry this ancient suspicion into our impossible circumstances, and it births fear, complaint, and self-reliance. Only when we see that God's word and God's way are His gift to us, not His withholding, do we find the courage to wait for His deliverance.

Wednesday Genesis 1:1-2

Before time began, the Spirit of God brooded over the waters of chaos and spoke order into being. The same voice that commanded light, seas, and stars stands in our Red Sea moments, calling us to remember that chaos is not His equal but His servant. We worship a God whose creative power is infinite, eternal, and entirely at work in our circumstances.

Thursday John 16:33

Christ speaks these words to trembling disciples in a dark hour: in this world you will have trouble, but take heart—I have overcome the world. Jesus did not promise we'd escape hard places; He promised He has already defeated them. His triumph over sin, death, and Satan at Calvary is our unshakeable ground when we face impossible circumstances.

Friday Matthew 6:25-34

Jesus calls us away from anxious self-reliance and toward settled trust in our Father's care. When we seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, we align ourselves with the same God who divided the Red Sea—and He has proven Himself faithful to His people across all generations. This Friday, we settle our hearts on the truth that God's providence is not distant but directing our every step.

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Pray together this week

Prayer: Trusting God's Way Through Chaos

Father, we come before You in awe of Your sovereign power—the God who spoke chaos into order at creation, who divides the waters and makes a way where there seems to be no way. We confess that when we face impossible circumstances, we so quickly turn to self-reliance, grasping at the heart idols that whisper false promises of security, or bowing to the cultural powers and norms that shape our choices. We are the Israelites at the Red Sea, caught between Pharaoh's army and the waters, our faith wavering as fear rises within us.

Yet the gospel humbles and thrills us: You have already stood in the gap between Your justice and Your love through Christ. At the cross, He divided the waters of chaos for us, making a way through death itself so that we might be baptized into new identity and given Your word to live by. The God who rescued Israel is the God we serve today, and He goes before us still.

Grant us grace this week to examine what we're truly trusting in our tight spots. Free us from self-reliance that crumbles, from heart idols that deceive, and from cultural voices that pull us away from You. Teach us what it means to struggle with You—to wrestle with Your lordship until we submit, knowing that You are enough. Make Your glory our end, Your word our rule, Your Spirit our guide, and Your providence our director (Psalm 135:15–18). We commit ourselves afresh to follow You, trusting that You have overcome the darkness and made a way through every chaos we will face. To You alone be the glory.

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Sunday-evening family table

What Are We Trusting When We're Stuck?

For the parent

Invite your family to think back to the moment in the sermon when the Israelites were trapped between the Egyptian army and the Red Sea—nowhere to run, nothing they could do. Ask them what they notice about what the Israelites were tempted to trust in when they were most afraid, and gently connect it to the tight spots your own family faces.

In the sermon, the Israelites were stuck between the army chasing them and the sea in front of them. They got really scared and started complaining to Moses. When we're in a tight spot where we can't fix things ourselves—maybe we're worried, or things feel impossible—what do we usually try first before we ask God for help? What does that tell us about where our trust really is?
works for ages 7+ — younger kids can listen and share simple answers; teens and adults can go deeper into patterns of self-reliance and heart idols
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Memory verse this week

Exodus 14:13-14

And Moses said to the people, "Fear not, stand firm, and see the salvation of the Lord, which he will work for you today. For the Egyptians whom you see today, you shall never see again. The Lord will fight for you, and you have only to be silent."

Why this verse: This verse crystallizes the sermon's central call: when we find ourselves between a rock and hard place, we must abandon self-reliance and fear to trust God's saving grace alone. Moses's command to "fear not" and "be silent" directly confronts the three false sources of security (self-reliance, heart idols, and cultural norms) that the sermon identifies as our default refuge in impossible circumstances.

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