Between a Rock and Hard Place

Exodus 14:5-29 Pastor Eric Gonzalez
Thesis When we find ourselves stuck between impossible choices, God calls us to abandon self-reliance, worldly wisdom, and cultural norms, and instead trust in his sovereign control over chaos — the same power that split the Red Sea and was ultimately revealed in Christ's work on the cross.
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grammatical-historicalredemptive-historicalcanonical
What's in this sermon

The shape of the argument

37 units across exposition, application, illustration, theological claim, and conclusion. The pastor's argument is built from these moving parts.

Pastoral correction · unit #16
"Eric challenges listeners to identify their functional idol by asking what loss would cause them to have a crisis of faith or withhold forgiveness from God."
Doctrinal loci· 12 surfaced
Hamartiology · 10 Theology Proper · 8 Providence / Sovereignty · 5 Soteriology · 5 Christology · 4 Sanctification · 3 Anthropology · 2 Pneumatology · 2 Bibliology · 1 Ecclesiology · 1 Ethics / Moral Theology · 1 Spiritual Warfare · 1
Bible citations· 21
Exodus 14:5-29 | Exodus 14:8 | Exodus 13 | Exodus 14:10-11 | Exodus 14:13-14 | Exodus 14:5 | Matthew 6:21 | Romans 6:23 | Exodus 14:17 | Exodus 14:4 | Psalm 135:15-18 | Genesis 3 | Exodus 14:19 | Exodus 3 | John 16:33 | Mark 4 | Exodus 14:24 | Genesis 1:1-2 | Exodus 14:15 | Matthew 6:25-34
Illustrations· 9
  1. personal story · unit #2 — Eric establishes the sermon's framing dilemma through a personal story from his Air Force Academy days: his friend Puck asked him to lie about his whereabouts so he could attend his grandmother's funeral without official permission, creating an impossible choice between loyalty to a friend and the honor code.
  2. personal story · unit #6 — Eric illustrates reaching the end of self-reliance through his son Ethan's panic attack during a wildfire threat in Anchorage — when they prayed and the winds shifted, Ethan recognized God's sovereign intervention in something completely beyond human control.
  3. personal story · unit #10 — Eric returns to the Puck story to illustrate the temptation to blame authority figures when they make difficult decisions — after the major denied Puck's request, Eric had someone to blame for the impossible situation.
  4. personal story · unit #17 — Eric illustrates functional idolatry with a personal example — his desire for peace at home, while not inherently evil, becomes dangerous when he prioritizes it above family responsibilities and relationships.
  5. cultural reference · unit #22 — Eric illustrates cultural norm influence through John Bunyan's Pilgrim's Progress, specifically the character Mr. Worldly Wiseman who counsels Christian to pursue Legality, Morality, and Civility in the village of Morality — good things that nevertheless divert from the narrow path to God, a dynamic Eric recognized in his military career among respected mentors.
  6. personal story · unit #23 — Eric provides a concrete personal example of cultural influence: the Eagle and Fledgling statue at the Air Force Academy inscribed with "Man's flight through life is sustained by the power of his knowledge" — a worldview subtly at odds with reliance on God's Word, which Eric had to recognize and resist.
  7. personal story · unit #24 — Eric illustrates family cultural norms with a humorous Spanish story about observers of a train who shift from "that thing will never move" to "that thing will never stop" — capturing a pervasive negativity in his family culture that he had to consciously recognize and resist.
  8. personal story · unit #32 — Eric resolves the opening Puck illustration: through prayer and verbal advocacy with the major, a way opened via Red Cross involvement that satisfied bureaucratic requirements, got Puck to the funeral, and preserved Eric's integrity — demonstrating that God made a way where there seemed to be none.
  9. personal story · unit #34 — Eric points to a photograph he took (displayed during the sermon) of a white flower growing between concrete and asphalt as a visual metaphor for God bringing life and beauty in hard places, connecting it to Jesus' teaching that God cares for the flowers of the field and much more for his people.
Theological claims· 6
  1. Self-reliance inevitably produces fear when we reach the end of our own strength and realize we are not enough. unit #5
  2. The biblical heart is not emotion versus reason but the unified seat of mind, will, and emotions — what the heart loves most is what it trusts and commits to, which is why Pharaoh's heart hardens around his idols. unit #14
  3. Idolatry begins with believing the serpent's lie that God is withholding good, hardens the heart progressively, and culminates in God giving us over to our desires in a terrifying reversal where he says to us what we should say to him — leading to spiritual death. unit #18
  4. God faced a cosmic dilemma requiring both justice and love to be satisfied, which the Red Sea crossing foreshadows: Jesus would stand in the gap at the cross, absorbing God's wrath and imputing righteousness so we could pass through chaos into new life. unit #28
  5. The Red Sea crossing is a picture of the Christian life: God makes a way through chaos, calls us to move forward in the Spirit, and follows the pattern of redemption-baptism-new identity-Word that structures our salvation. unit #31
  6. The very name Israel points to the normative posture of God's people — wrestling with God in faith, which should lead to submission to his lordship. unit #33
Quotations· 12
"We will not lie, steal, or cheat, nor tolerate among us anyone who does." — Air Force Academy Honor Code (unit #2)
"Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also." — Jesus (unit #14)
"When the Bible talks about the heart, we as Americans have a very different connotation of what the Bible is trying to say. Our society tends to think of the heart as emotions, feelings, affections, and our society tends to pit that against analytical thought, of rational thought. And according to Keller, that biblical view of the heart is not either/or. It's more than that. In the Bible, the heart is the seat of the mind, the will, and the emotions, all together, not one or the other, all of it. What the heart loves most is what it most trusts and commits to." — Tim Keller (unit #14)
"Not my will, but yours be done." — Jesus (unit #18)
"The wages of sin is death." — Paul (unit #18)
"Man's flight through life is sustained by the power of his knowledge." — Inscription on Eagle and Fledgling statue (unit #23)
"The idols of the nations are silver and gold, the work of human hands. They have mouths but do not speak. They have eyes but do not see. They have ears but do not hear, nor is there any breath in their mouths. Those who make them become like them. So do all who trust in them." — Psalmist (unit #26)
"God's divine love overcame his divine wrath through divine self-sacrifice in the God-man Jesus." — John Stott (unit #30)
"In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth. The earth was without form and void, and darkness was over the face of the deep, and the Spirit of God was hovering over the face of the waters." — Moses (unit #30)
"Fear not, I have overcome the world. In the world you may have tribulations, but take heart, I have overcome the world." — Jesus (unit #30)
"One of these is arrayed better than Solomon." — Jesus (unit #34)
"Those who make the glory of God their end and the word of God their rule, the Spirit of God, the guide of their affections, and the providence of God, the guide of their affairs, may be confident that the Lord goes before them as truly as he went before Israel in the wilderness." — Matthew Henry (unit #35)
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0 · Eric introduces himself as a substitute preacher filling in for both the lead pastor on sabbatical and Chuck who is recovering from illness

Thanks, Alec. So for those of you who don't know me, my name's Eric, as Alec said. Ricky, our lead pastor, is on a sabbatical, and he called me a few weeks ago as he was preparing for that. He's like, hey, what do you think about preaching? It's like, okay, this is part of what we're getting ready for with the consortium, with the elder exploration team.

Chuck was originally supposed to preach this morning, and he's still recovering from his from his ailments, so keep him in your prayers. He's recovering very nicely, but yeah, Ricky asked me to step in this morning, so here we go. Exodus 14 is where we're going to go, taking a break from our normal series in Acts. Exodus 14, verse 5, and we're going to read all through 29. Very familiar passage, but I think the Lord has some really good stuff for us here today.

1 · Eric reads the full text of Exodus 14:5-29, the Red Sea crossing narrative, pausing briefly to note verse 9's mention of the Israelites going out defiantly as a point he will return to later

This is God's word. When the king of Egypt was told that the people had fled, the mind of Pharaoh and his servants was changed toward the people. And they said, what is this we have done, that we have let Israel go from serving us? So he made ready his chariot and took his army with him, and took 600 chosen chariots and all the other chariots of Egypt with officers over all of them. And the Lord hardened the heart of Pharaoh, king of Egypt, and he pursued the people of Israel while the people of Israel were going out defiantly.

We'll come back to that point here in a minute. The Egyptians pursued them, and all Pharaoh's horses and chariots and his horsemen and his army, and overtook them and camped at the Sea of Pi-Hahiroth, in front of Baal-Zephon. When Pharaoh drew near, the people of Israel lifted up their eyes And behold, the Egyptians were marching after them, and they feared greatly. And the people of Israel cried out to the Lord. They said to Moses, 'Is it because there are no graves in Egypt that you have taken us away to die in the wilderness?

What have you done to us in bringing us out of Egypt? Is not this what we said to you in Egypt, "Leave us alone, that we may serve the Egyptians"? For it would have been better for us to serve the Egyptians than to die in the wilderness.' And Moses said to the people, 'Fear not! Stand firm and see the salvation of the Lord, which he will work for you today. For the Egyptians whom you see today you shall never see again.

The Lord will fight for you, and you have only to be silent.' The Lord said to Moses, 'Why do you cry to me? Tell the people of Israel to go forward. Lift up your staff and stretch out your hand over the sea and divide it.' that the people of Israel may go through the sea on dry ground. And I will harden the hearts of the Egyptians so that they shall go in after them, and I will get glory over Pharaoh and all his hosts, his chariots and his horsemen. And the Egyptians shall know that I am the Lord when I have gotten glory over Pharaoh and his chariots and his horsemen.

Then the angel of God who was going before the host of Israel moved and went behind them, and the pillar of cloud moved from before them and stood behind them, coming between the host of Egypt and the host of Israel. And there was the cloud and the darkness, and it lit up the night, without one coming near the other all night. Then Moses stretched out his hand over the sea, and the Lord drove the sea back by a strong east wind all night and made the sea dry land, and the waters were divided. And the people of Israel went into the midst of the sea on dry ground, the waters being a wall to them on their right hand and on their left. The Egyptians pursued and went in after them into the midst of the sea—all Pharaoh's horses, his chariots, and his horsemen.

And in the morning watch the Lord in the pillar of fire and of cloud looked down on the Egyptian forces and threw the Egyptian forces into a panic, clogging their chariot wheels so that they drove heavily. And the Egyptians said, "Let us flee from before Israel, for the Lord fights for them against the Egyptians." Then the Lord said to Moses, "Stretch out your hand over the sea, that the water may come back upon the Egyptians, upon their chariots and upon their horsemen." So Moses stretched out his hand over the sea, and the sea returned to its normal course when the morning appeared. And as the Egyptians fled into it, The Lord threw the Egyptians into the midst of the sea. The waters returned and covered the chariots and the horsemen. Of all the host of Pharaoh that had followed them into the sea, not one of them remained.

But the people of Israel walked on dry ground through the sea, the waters being a wall to them on their right hand and on their left.

2 · Eric establishes the sermon's framing dilemma through a personal story from his Air Force Academy days: his friend Puck asked him to lie about his whereabouts so he could attend his grandmother's funeral without official permission, creating an impossible choice between loyalty to a friend and the honor code

So the first time I was on this stage was back in 1996. Yes, I'm that old. Some people think I look young. I'm not that young. 1996, I was at the Air Force Academy. I was in college. My friend Rob Mixer, who some of you may remember, the Mixer family here from years ago, he was part of this church back then and he had orchestrated for the chapel praise team that we were both a part of to come and do a concert here way back then. That was the first time that I got the opportunity to set sights on the woman who would eventually become my wife.

We would get married on this stage 2 years after that in 1998. But at the Air Force Academy, it's a place where they thrust you into leadership opportunities, where they teach you how to become a leader. You can learn about yourself and learn how to lead.

A couple of months after I was on this stage, in 1996, that summer, I was given the opportunity to lead some cadets at our survival school to teach other cadets survival skills. And one of my instructors during that season, my friend named Puck, came to me. He's like, "Hey, my grandmother just passed away. She was like a mom to me. She just— she raised me practically.

And I need to get home to her funeral." Which was a problem. Because we were in the middle of training. And as some of you military people know, when you're in training, it's really hard to get leave. And it wasn't someone who was his immediate family member. It wasn't a mom, dad, sister, brother, that kind of thing.

So the rule was you couldn't just take leave to go. We knew that, and we knew the officer in charge of us knew that. And so it was a dilemma. So Puck's solution was, hey, why don't I just take off for a couple of days, just tell them I'm here when they do the accountability check in the evening. And I'll be back before anybody knows that I'm missing.

That didn't sit well with me, especially since at the academy there's a phrase: we will not lie, steal, or cheat, nor tolerate among us anyone who does. I cannot lie or I could get kicked out. But this is my friend Puck, it's his grandmother. How am I going to keep him from going? I felt stuck.

I felt that burden of there's not a good decision here.

3 · Eric connects the personal dilemma to the congregation's experience of being stuck between impossible choices, then previews the sermon's four-part structure examining self-reliance, heart desires, cultural norms, and God's perspective as revealed in Exodus 14

Have you ever felt that way? Have you ever felt stuck between a rock and a hard place, just in a bad set of choices? Have you ever felt like you had to stand up to a difficult boss and risk getting fired? Or maybe you have to confront a family member or friend and risk threatening the relationship?

Where do we go and who do we trust when we're in a difficult situation? Well, Exodus 14 gives us some good pointers here, gives us some good, good thoughts to consider. We're gonna, we're gonna look at trusting in ourself, self-reliance, from the Israelites' perspective. We're gonna look at Pharaoh's perspective in this story, the desires of our heart, and then the Egyptians' perspective, cultural norms that affect us that we may not be aware of, and then the important perspective, God's perspective on the situation. So let's dive right in.

4 · Eric unpacks the historical context of verse 8's phrase "went out defiantly," explaining that the Israelites left Egypt dressed for battle after plundering the Egyptians, revealing a posture of self-reliance — "God, you did your work, I think we got it from here

Point number 1 here, trusting in self-reliance. So if you look at verse 8, it says the Israelites went out defiantly. So if you go back in chapter 13, God had just sent all these plagues to Egypt, convinced Pharaoh through the death of everybody's firstborn minus the Israelites that God was powerful, and he lets them go. And they were dressed for battle. They were ready to fight as they left Egypt.

And oh, by the way, they had just plundered the Egyptians because God had given them favor. So they took gold, silver, clothing from the Egyptians because Egyptians just wanted them out of there. And so now there's a little bit of, okay, God, you did your work, I think we got it from here, as they're dressed for battle.

5 · Eric asserts the core problem with self-reliance: it generates false confidence that collapses into fear when we reach the limits of our own capability, as illustrated by the Israelites' panic when they saw Pharaoh's 600 chariots

That defiance, though, is not necessarily relying on God, but rather on the self. When we try to do things in our own strength, we can stir ourselves up to get things to go our way in self-confidence.

But what happens when you reach the end of yourself and you realize, "Hmm, I'm not enough," and you start to see the army of the Egyptians coming at you and the reality of, "Oh, I'm not ready to take on 600 chariots even though I'm dressed for battle." Fear starts to well up. That's the result of self-reliance when you reach the end of yourself. You realize you're not enough.

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