A Stranger to Everything and a Castaway
Thesis By grace, God brings the far off near together—reconciling alienated humanity both to Himself and to one another through the blood of Christ, creating one new humanity that transcends all ethnic, social, and cultural divisions.
The shape of the argument
25 units across exposition, application, illustration, theological claim, and conclusion. The pastor's argument is built from these moving parts.
- personal story · unit #3 — Extended personal narrative establishing the experiential reality of alienation and the longing to belong. Alcantar recounts his creative writing class where students found connection through shared ethnic experiences, while he felt increasingly isolated due to his mixed heritage. The illustration is designed to create empathetic identification with the feeling of being an outsider before turning to the biblical diagnosis.
- cultural reference · unit #9 — Literary illustration from Dostoevsky capturing the existential alienation described in the sermon. The character's inability to enter the 'feast' of creation despite being surrounded by its beauty serves as a vivid image of humanity's fundamental estrangement. Alcantar diagnoses the character's condition theologically: this is the longing for God.
- historical example · unit #20 — Historical illustration of segregation in a New England church—wealthy white donors in heated boxes, people of color relegated to the balcony. The visceral image serves as a cautionary tale about how churches erect the very barriers Christ died to destroy. The illustration transitions from historical condemnation to present-day self-examination.
- personal story · unit #22 — Closing illustration of a multiethnic gathering of pastors at Philadelphia airport. The couple's bewilderment at the group's diversity and Billy Reyes's simple answer ('we are just Christian brothers') serves as the sermon's climactic image of what Ephesians 2 produces. Alcantar's reflection ('that's where I belong') resolves the opening creative writing class illustration and demonstrates the experiential reality of the one new humanity in Christ.
- All human alienation—ethnic, relational, national—is rooted in humanity's vertical alienation from God that began in Genesis 3. unit #7
- Christ's reconciling work has both a future eschatological goal (Revelation 7:9) and a present reality (believers now have access to the Trinity through Christ). unit #16
"Before him, Above him was the shining sky, below him the lake, around him the horizon, bright and infinite as if it went on forever. And for a long time he looked and suffered. What tormented him was that he was a total stranger to it all. What was this banquet? What was this great everlasting feast to which he had long been drawn, always, ever since childhood, in which he could never join? Every morning the same bright sun rises. Every morning there's a rainbow over the waterfall. The highest snow-capped mountain there, far away at the edge of the sky, burns with a crimson flame. Every little blade of grass grows and is happy. And everything has its path, and everything knows its path, and goes with a song, and comes back with a song. Only he knows nothing, understands nothing, neither people nor sounds. And listen to this phrase: a stranger to everything. And a castaway." — Fyodor Dostoevsky (unit #9)
"Our souls are restless until they find their rest in thee." — St. Augustine (unit #18)
"The consequence of this new human race in Christ is that any sort of segregation or exclusion of any human being who professes Christ from full membership in the church is at odds with the church's very reality as a work of inaugurated new creation that deifies the Lord who founded it." — S.M. Bauw (unit #19)
Full transcript
0 · Alcantar frames the hermeneutical approach for the sermon, warning against reading cultural frameworks back into scripture and establishing the proper movement from biblical text to cultural application
when we come to the Bible, that we not go, okay, here's my life, here's my culture, and I'm gonna go from my culture to the Bible, and what does the Bible say about these issues? Because then the way the culture frames those issues, we're trying to read back into the text. But rather, what we're gonna do today, by God's grace, is to go from the Bible back into our culture. And if you get the order wrong, everything will be wrong. So let's see what God has for us.
And let's look forward to God providing clarity to some of these issues in our culture today.
1 · The full public reading of the primary text
Ephesians chapter 2, we're going to read verses 11 through 18. This is God's word. Therefore remember that at one time you Gentiles in the flesh, called the uncircumcision by what is called the circumcision, which is made in the flesh by hands, remember that you were at that time separated from Christ, alienated from the commonwealth of Israel, and strangers to the covenants of promise, having no hope and without God in the world. But now in Christ Jesus you who were once far off have been brought near by the blood of Christ.
For he himself is our peace, who has made us both one and has broken down in his flesh the dividing wall of hostility, by abolishing the law of commandments expressed in ordinances, that He might create in Himself one new man in place of the two, so making peace, and might reconcile us both to God in one body through the cross, thereby killing the hostility. And He came and preached peace to you, 'who were far off, and peace to those who were near. For through him we both have access in one Spirit to God the Father.' This is God's Word.
2 · Opening pastoral prayer asking for receptivity to God's word and reiterating the hermeneutical commitment from the introduction—that the congregation would allow scripture to address culture rather than vice versa
Lord, I pray that you'd make us ready to hear what your Word says. Lord, I pray that we really would today move not from the culture back into the Bible, but rather from the Bible back into our own lives and culture.
In the name of Jesus, amen.
3 · Extended personal narrative establishing the experiential reality of alienation and the longing to belong
Well, I remember a particular creative writing class I took. My undergrad major was creative writing. And I remember this one particular class that I took where every week it felt like everybody else in the class got further and further away from me. And what I mean by that is that every week everybody would bring stuff that they'd written and we'd kind of read it aloud and talk about it.
And one of the things that happened is, I mean, these people are sharing from deep in their own experience, deep in their own life. I mean, you're all of a sudden, some guy you've never met is talking to you about like the most traumatic events of his life through poetry. And you're like, whoa. And so one of the things that would happen is often as people shared, you'd connect with people. Like people, you know, you'd realize, oh man, that person's like me.
And you start to realize people would kind of form up into friendships and groups and relationships. And different people would share and others would go, ah, they're like me. And so one of the things that happened in the class is that this class in particular, the makeup of it, it felt like everybody in the class almost was talking about the experience of being Chicano or Hispanic, growing up in El Paso, growing up in Juárez, right? Their struggle where their English was, they spoke with an accent, and that affected their job interviews, or their experience of going constantly back and forth across the bridge to Juárez and to El Paso, or them having undocumented family, or their fear of Border Patrol checkpoints, or whatever. You know, they're sharing about these things.
And here's the weird thing for me about that. I struggled to connect with some of that. Here's my background, right? Of my 4 grandparents, one was born in Guadalajara, one was born on the border in Presidio, One was born in New Mexico, rural New Mexico, and that family, my mom's mom's family, had probably been in New Mexico forever. And then I've got one grandfather who's born in the Deep South in Buckatunna, Mississippi.
And so that meant for me, I thought a normal breakfast growing up was eggs with salsa and grits and tortillas and sweet tea. That was what my granddad ate for breakfast. And I just was like, oh cool, that's what everybody eats, right? And then as I grew up, I realized, no, that's not a normal breakfast.
And so because of that, I felt like, okay, well, I can connect with some but not all of what they're sharing. And so I'd wait for other people to share. I remember one guy that was a chain smoker. I still remember this guy. We went to coffee a couple times.
He was a character. He was a chain smoker from the Rust Belt, just like kind of a blue-collar dude from the Rust Belt. Or another guy was, another girl was from the South, but from like the nicer part of the South, not where my Mississippi relatives were from. And their experience was totally different. And I remember thinking, okay man, we're getting down to the end, I don't really know who I can connect with here.
And there was one guy who had super, super white pale skin. And so I thought, well maybe this guy will share something. Because I'm obviously a wetto, and so like maybe he's got something for me here. And so the guy, I remember his poetry was always like, "My skin is so white, pale, pale white. I fear the sunlight.
I am a vampire." Like literally every poem was that. And I was like, "OK, definitely not connecting with that guy. That's definitely not my group. Whatever my group is, it's the opposite of vampire boy." And so, every week my experience was these people are sharing all their life, all their experiences, and yet it felt like every week everybody got further and further away from me.
4 · Structural transition connecting the personal illustration to the biblical text and announcing the sermon's thesis
And that experience, that experience of distance, is not exactly but a little bit like what Paul is addressing in Ephesians 2.
Ephesians 2 is all about distance, about people far away from each other. And, in fact, people far away from each other and far away from God. From God himself. And it has a lot to say about why we as human beings end up feeling and acting so distant and alienated from each other. And it goes deeper and says that the problem of alienation horizontally is really a vertical problem.
The problem of alienation between us and God. And underneath all this ethnic strife and racism and turmoil in our world, there is a fundamental alienation between us and the God who made us. So I think in this text we're going to find a surprising diagnosis and then a beautiful cure. And the headline today is just this: by grace, which is Ephesians 2:1-8, as we've been talking about, by grace God brings the far off near together. He brings the far off near together.
5 · Exposition of the historical context of Ephesus and Paul's rhetorical reframing of ethnic division
Two sections. First, far off. Far off. Verse 11 says, therefore remember that at one time you Gentiles— so he's explicitly talking to the majority of the church who were Gentiles, "in the flesh called the uncircumcision by what's called the circumcision, which is made in the flesh by hands. Remember that at one time you were separated from Christ, alienated from the commonwealth of Israel, strangers to the covenants of promise, having no hope and without God in the world." Now, at first, remember, we start with the world of the Bible and then work back to our world.
So, at first this feels very foreign. Remember the background to the church in Ephesus. It was made up of former— not just, like, non-Jewish people, these were Gentiles, the paganest of the pagan Gentiles. Their city in Ephesus was filled with, you know, this great statue of Artemis. They had personal libraries of evil magic books worth thousands of dollars.
That's true, it's an ax. This was a city full of the smell of sacrifices being made. The streets in Ephesus were full of temple prostitutes, right? So a huge issue in that church was, okay, these people believe in Jesus, and then you have some of the Jewish people who believed in Jesus, and they're going, how can we possibly be one church? I mean, you're telling me, I'm the guy that, you know, I've tried to follow the Torah from when I was young, I knew the Tanakh, I know all of these things, I tried to be pure, that I'm now in the same church as pagan Gentile boy who just burned $1,000 worth of pagan evil books.
We're going to be in the same church? I don't think so. There's going to be an A church and a B church, varsity and JV, and we're the varsity, you know. And there begins to be those cracks in the church. So this led to a complicated situation.
This is where the parallels to our current day— it's hard to draw parallels to our current day. In many ways, the pagan Gentiles were the ones in the city who had power and influence and mistreated the Jewish people at times, which is widely attested by literature in the first century. So in some sense, they were the people above the Jewish people because of their power and influence. And Ephesus in particular wanted to be very Roman, so the more Roman you were, the better and more respected you were in the city. So they were above the Jewish people, but Paul knows his own people and knows that they often looked down on the Gentiles, and they knew that they had the true privileges that mattered the most, right?
So, in some sense, the Jewish people were above, ethnically, the Gentile people. And so you have this weird situation where they're both above and below each other, and they both consider themselves above the other. And so Paul says, listen, stop thinking about who's above who and who's below who. Start thinking about who is near and who is far. He reframes the racial issues and ethnic issues in terms of nearness and farness, not aboveness and belowness, if I could say it that way.
And this is where we often run into a problem in our text. Today, we often view ethnic relationships in our modern culture, in the West, in America, 21st century, through power dynamics. And if you want to know why we do that, you can blame Hegel and Marx and some of the other thinkers. But that's very much the way our culture is set up. One ethnicity or group is above the other in terms of power dynamics.
And so therefore, that's the way we constantly evaluate the world around us. Who's above, who's below, who's above, who's below. And Paul comes to that and says, no, no, no, you two are thinking wrongly. It's not about who's above and who's below. Primarily here in terms of salvation, it's who is near and who is far.
I'm not saying that, you know, listen, there's passages, before somebody emails me, there's passages about justice, there's passages about treating one another fairly, amen. But in this passage, Paul is going at the fundamental identity of who you are before God and to others. And on that issue, what matters most is who is near and who is far, not who's above and who's below.
Recent preaching context
The three sermons immediately preceding this one in the preaching schedule.
Discuss · apply · pray
Who Are You Far From?
This sermon teaches that all of us—regardless of background—start out far from God, and Christ brings us near. Invite your family to think about what it means to be far from someone, and then close to them. Listen for whether kids grasp that being brought near to God changes how we treat each other.
In the sermon, Pastor Ricky talked about people being far away from God—like they were standing outside in the cold looking through a window. Then Jesus's blood brings them near, right up close to God. Think about someone you were far from—maybe you had an argument, or didn't talk for a while—and then you got close again. What changed? How did it feel different once you were near them instead of far away? And if that's how it feels to get close to one person, what do you think it means that Christ brings us close to God?
Brought Near by His Blood
- What part of this sermon made you stop and think about your own distance from God, or about barriers you've put up between yourself and others?
- In our marriage, where do we tend to erect walls instead of building bridges—whether through silence, assumptions, or refusal to be vulnerable with each other the way Christ has been with us?
- How can we pray for each other this week to live as people who have been brought near by Christ's blood, and to invite others into that same nearness?
Ephesians 2:14
For he himself is our peace, who has made us both one and has broken down in his flesh the dividing wall of hostility.
Why this verse: This verse captures the sermon's central claim: Christ's death is the singular act that destroys the barrier between alienated peoples and reconciles them to God and each other. It is the theological hinge on which the entire argument turns—the concrete expression of how God brings the far off near.
6 questions for your group this week
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What does Paul mean when he says the Gentiles were 'separated from Christ' and 'strangers to the covenants of promise' in Ephesians 2:12? What was their condition before encountering Christ?Ephesians 2:12→ How would you describe your own spiritual condition before you came to faith—what were you separated from?
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In the sermon, Pastor Ricky argued that all human alienation—ethnic strife, racism, social division—has a root cause. What is that root cause, and where does Paul locate it in Ephesians 2?Ephesians 2:1-3, Genesis 3
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According to Ephesians 2:14-15, what did Christ accomplish through His death? How does the tearing of the temple veil (Matthew 27:50-51) illustrate what Paul means by 'the dividing wall of hostility'?Ephesians 2:14-15, Matthew 27:50-51→ What 'walls' do you see people erecting today—either between groups of people or between themselves and God?
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The sermon made a claim that both the privileged and the disadvantaged, both Jews and Gentiles in Paul's day, were equally far from God apart of grace. Why does recognizing this equality matter for how we relate to people different from us?Ephesians 2:11-13
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In Ephesians 2:17-18, Paul says Christ 'came and preached peace' and gave both groups access to the Father through one Spirit. What does it mean practically for your small group or church community to live as people who have been 'brought near by the blood of Christ'?Ephesians 2:17-18→ Are there people in your church or neighborhood whom you unconsciously hope won't show up? What does that reveal about barriers you may be erecting?
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The sermon claimed that no identity category—ethnic, sexual, cultural—can ultimately satisfy our longing to belong; only union with Christ fills that fundamental disconnection. Where do you see people in your circles trying to find belonging in categories other than Christ, and how could you point them toward the deeper belonging He offers?Revelation 7:9, Ephesians 2:15
5-day reading plan
This week, we trace the arc from humanity's deepest problem—alienation from God—through Christ's reconciling work, to the present reality of a unified church that transcends every barrier.
The fracture we see in our cities, our nations, our neighborhoods—all of it traces back to one moment: the breaking of relationship between humanity and God. When Adam and Eve turned away from their Creator, they didn't just lose access to Him; they lost the only connection that could hold every other relationship together. Read Genesis 3 not as ancient history, but as the explanation for why we still cannot seem to live at peace with one another.
Paul's diagnosis is radical: Jew and Gentile, rich and poor, insider and outsider—all of us are dead in our transgressions. We live as though some of us are closer to God because of our station, our heritage, our advantage. But this passage strips away every false hierarchy. We are all equally far. We are all equally recipients of grace. This levels the ground at the foot of the cross.
When Jesus died, the veil of the temple was torn in two from top to bottom—a sign that the barrier between God and humanity was destroyed. That same tearing open happened at Calvary for every wall we erect between ourselves and others. The blood of Christ doesn't just forgive us individually; it tears down the architecture of division itself. What Christ destroyed, we must refuse to rebuild.
John's vision shows us where Christ is leading: a throne room filled with people from every ethnic background, every language, every human category, all worshiping together. This isn't a distant dream. This is the future Christ is building, and by His Spirit, the church is meant to taste and embody it today. When we gather, we're rehearsing the end.
We search for belonging in a thousand categories: our race, our gender, our nation, our tribe. Christ comes and announces peace to us both—to those far off and those near—and offers something deeper than any identity we can claim for ourselves: access to the Father through one Spirit. That nearness to God is the only closeness that holds. Ask yourself: where am I seeking to belong, and is it pointing me toward Christ?
Prayer for the Reconciled and Reconciling Church
Father, we come before you as a people who were once far off, separated from you and from one another by the wall of our own rebellion and sin. We confess that apart from your grace, we remain strangers to your kingdom and castways from your presence. We acknowledge that the divisions we see in our world—the ethnic strife, the relational fracture, the cultural separation—are rooted in our deepest alienation from you. Like Adam and Eve in the garden, we have turned from your face, and in doing so, we have turned from each other. We repent of the ways we have honored these divisions, the ways we have built walls where Christ came to tear them down.
But here is the good news: by the blood of Christ, you have brought the far off near. Jesus, the God-man, has made peace by his death on the cross, abolishing the hostility between us and reconciling us both to yourself and to one another in one new humanity (Ephesians 2:14-16). What we could never accomplish through our own effort or identity, Christ has accomplished through his sacrifice. He has given us access—all of us, equally near, equally beloved—to the Father through the Spirit. The dividing wall is gone. The barrier is destroyed. We are no longer strangers.
Grant us, Father, the grace to live as the reconciled people we have become. Free us from the lie that any identity category—ethnic, cultural, social, or sexual—can satisfy the human longing to belong. Teach us to refuse the divisions that the world constructs, to tear down the barriers we are tempted to erect, and to welcome into our churches and communities those whom Christ has already welcomed with his own blood. Give us eyes to see that both the privileged and the disadvantaged are equally far from you apart from grace, and that in Christ, all such distinctions are swallowed up in one new family. Help us to live as ambassadors of this nearness, as witnesses to the reality that you have already made us one.
We commit ourselves to you as a church that belongs to Christ and to one another, refusing to be strangers any longer. To you, Father, Son, and Spirit, be all glory and honor forever.
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